Kennedyiheme02:
sorry for women it simply doest come when it comes, you have to pursue and find it, many old women wiser than you said this in the past... you they just gave birth to forming wokeness, it will end in tears, ask linda ikeji

Unfortunately, your opinion does not matter in the scheme of things. You can only cry here but nobody can hear you. It must feel somehow right?

You don't matter dear. Not to me, not to Linda. You don't matter.

Munzy14:

Family or no family, all na scam bro.


Time have gone when people find wife or husband for another person.

Its time to turn bestie to wife....

exactly what i was saying b4.marrying ur bestie na im ber the sure thing than going outside to marry a total stranger

Hmmm u never jam na so Canada be ooo. Hmmm

cobi11:
Bro Seriously ?? I am disappointed in your ex wife if truly your story is True..

Please do.
Mention me pls, would you

BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

swedbase:


It is not only in Canada or America bro, Sweden and many other western block and divorce settlements is the main reason. Except prenuptial agreement before marriage which many of them don't like to sign your hard earned properties will be shared 50-50 even if she bang another man on your matrimonial bed.

i can see why its a juicy choice marrying a rich man in a western country.at least u can divorce him if u dont find him attractive and take over half his wealth

mamapidgin:
Any Nigeria lady in canada that is lonely only wish to be on her own or probably she doesn't understand the African culture....

If you are a Nigerian lady and loneliness is your problem in Canada that means you don't understand or value your Nigerian Culture, call your parent at home in Nigeria and tell them to connect you with their friend children that are responsible at home and start a relationship from there...

Our parent will always find the best for us when it comes to things like this and from there u can work his document for him to come and join u there, after the relationship have led to marriage. Is as simple as ABC

Odiegwu! The egoistic nature of Nigerian women and "shame" will never allow her to reach out to her parents to reach out in turn to the parents on a guy here in Nigeria to start a relationship. Nigerian ladies will rather die with that warped mentality that A MAN MUST WOO THEM hence their dilemma there in Canada!

lefulefu:
exactly what i was saying b4.marrying ur bestie na im ber the sure thing than going outside to marry a total stranger

good....

uuzba:

This pizza of a thing that you guys are summersulting about is just bread.
BREAD!
BREAD!
Ordinary bread.
Take bread, tomatoes, egg, fish, suya.... And you are good. End of story.

uuzba abeg no kill me

Cocao:

See ba, you are just a trouble maker and I don't want to get into anything with you please. Avoid me.

haha whos the troublemaker? Everyone knows some Nigerian women are troublemaker s likely you one of them

pansophist:


It's because women started out being desired.

From 16 years old, she naturally attracts men with no effort on her own. Her appearance is enough to keep the men flocking. So thet assume this will be everlasting, especially with rampant feminism telling them there is an imaginary patriarchy holding her down and how much she dont need a man.

Until reality sets in of course and by then, sadly it's too late

Parents have roles to play in that regards. I am not saying dictating for her but guiding her right. Children listen to parents who have records( parents whose their lifes shows their advice n guide.)

byinks:


You need a high enough score.
Your situation will get you a low score.

Is it because of the age and no family ties?

gargoylern:

No, you can't work with a visitor's visa.

What of educational visa?

Olulinks:
You've missed the point bro.

He's talking about Naija guys and babes in particular.

Living private lives in Naija are mostly for the rich. The rich won't run to Canada for greener pasture, only the hustlers do.




This thread isn't for the rich but the hustlers that travel abroad to make money thinking everything is money.

Our culture is to notice and be noticed. You can't change that. If paradventure you find yourself in a different land you will miss being real you.

You get that?

100 likes for the bolded! Gbam

Damilare65:
Na thread be this, no insult, no tribalism, just vibes and ideas

I swear Bro, first thread on Nairaland I will read comments this long and still continue to read.

Anybody wen know any babe for Canada or USA ready to be in a relationship abeg ooo make una hook me up since una no need am I go apperciate for life....abeg send me the numbers to Whatsapp 08174148706.

Nonsense and ingredients plus Curry and magic sef like say lonely and single ladies no dey for Naija too.

writeprof:


Is it because of the age and no family ties?

Both sir !

ednut1:
telegram. Type it as a message to someone or telegram notification. And click it

thank you

The reason is simple.
Nigerian girls after settling into their professions abroad are only looking at guys who are doing as well or better than them professionally and financially.

A white woman who is a Doctor will fall in love with a cook, cleaner, clerk, etc.
But materialism is a big problem with Nigerians so people love what someone is (what they have) rather than who they are (their personality), hence the reason most career girls abroad are yet to find Nigerian men of their dreams, until they start getting older and desperate.
A lot of single Nigerian girls in Norway are in this category.
The same story in Canada, where I hadn't even landed at the time and my friend was already trying to hook me up with her single friend who is a nurse.
Local man quickly declined her offer

pocohantas:


If I were a lady based on the diaspora, I will gladly hook up with a Naija guy. What I will never do is hook up with a guy that wants to escape Naija because of poverty. I will direct that one to WHO.

If he has a good job and reputation, we are good to go. Lots of Naija guys are already doing well here, they just want thats security for their kids- hence the relocation.

Will the marriage to the white woman last? How many aged mixed couples have you seen? Women that can tend to the whims and caprices of the Naija man are not so many.

@emboldened, this is why I like ladies, you ladies don't settle for less unlike the not so reasonable men that marry ladies out of poverty , a lady will rarely do that..I have actually thought through it and won't be settling with this poor woman I wanted because I deserve the best..I'm really learning from here

9ja4eva:


100 likes for the bolded! Gbam

The RICH also rush to purchase HOUSES.
U think Every Nigerian Wealthy Man does not have a HOUSE in Diaspora..?
Wait naaa, after CORONA now you start seeing them in their houses abroad.
NIGERIA still has a SHAKY foundation.
NIGERIA is pregnant that's why the rich try their best to acquire properties here, so as to have a BACK UP...


Where do you think their KIDS, school..?

Kekereekun123:
i recently got canada pr. Even from our canada pr whatsapp groups the ladies there don dey hustle men. Some bad guys just dey chop dem for fun o. Marriage is not an ultimate goal in life. These ladies should adjust. They will also want you to take them back to Nigeria for societal wedding lol. I would rather use my. Money for MBA

Can we talk bro.pm please.

olumide4christ:


You're very right, sir.
The same applies for men. A woman that will accept you when you have little or nothing will stick with you when you have much or little in the future. That's been my own personal experience and that of many people I know personally.

I agreed with your submission Sir. But if a man decided to go for money first, he still have tendency of attracting good woman better than a woman will do. I support starting out early once you can find a part in life with a right partner, no need having all the money in the world before starting marriage.

EVILFOREST:

When I found her she was already more than 4 times wealthier than me and also younger than me by 9 years.
She was 22 then. I earned $800 USD monthly in Nigeria while she earned almost $5000 USD monthly because of her double JOB.

Despite this she was visiting me quarterly until I joined her. She also got to know about other Ladies around but she fastened her seatbelt and loved me more.
She placed my Parents on salary without my notice.
She was just WONDERFUL.
I hate seeing her CRY...

Nice.

ZINIBANKS:

Boss abeg please if you get any Canadian babe please just link me up with her
I go Email you my WhatsApp contact

lolllll Bad Correct Guy..

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Uyo

shollay09:
Well,any Canadian babes willing to roll with me can send me a message..... Let's get to know each other ..... By the way, na naija I dey oo

You're probably a better catch than someone in Canada. You can be easily bamboozled with abroad matter

flyingdutchman:

Um...I hate to break it to you but, geographically, yeah India is in Asia. RACIALLY speaking, the word "Asians" is especially reserved for Chinko looking people from China, Vietnam, Japan, Nepal etc. Indians...are just Indians. Makes sense to you? I don't expect it to since this description is actually racist!

Don't try to justify yourself. If it were an exam condition, u wud v missed it!

iammiracle1:


My uncle is 37 and he is on my neck to please hook him up with a "good" Nigerian lady, he has been there for 7 years now, I wondered why he didn't marry a white as he always dreamed of, he told me it isn't that easy and moreover if you use PR and get your papers you notice those white women have nothing much to offer you aside a clash of cultural values, subtle superiority and feminism, anyhow sha I have hooked him up to a fmr classmate, I pray it works for them...

My brother people think say it's all about marrying whites no be like that and more over it's not easy.. I can't wait to marry my dream Nigerian girl..

Goodluck to your uncle

egopersonified:
ok, I am thinking, can't they become lesbians?

I know quite a few older Nigerian lesbians in the US.

Asifiwe:
Canada and US is headquarter of single mothers , What we hear women do to men in these countries is enough reason for women to be abandoned all their lives unmarried. I read the Letter of one Guy in Canada, very Long Letter of what a Nigerian Lady in her 40s did to this guy. It will make you weep even as a Lady
Ladies want to copy the madness of feminism and they end up destroying the Lives of their kids just because of a House or Money
Most times they turn the houses they take through the court from the Man to Brothels, People go in to bleep them since they were actually prostitutes in the first place.
One of my friend a guy fell victim to one of such monsters in Canada. A woman without a thinking soul
She visited Nigeria, Married and made the guy go through hard time.
The marriage is over now and she is back to prostitution according to the story while making the guy pay child support. The guy almost killed himself, I told him it is not worth it. a very nice guy. Marry a guy like him you have an angel but he was unfortunate with a beast in Canada

That's sad, if you have a Canadian lady looking for a man I'm available

mamapidgin:
Any Nigeria lady in canada that is lonely only wish to be on her own or probably she doesn't understand the African culture....

If you are a Nigerian lady and loneliness is your problem in Canada that means you don't understand or value your Nigerian Culture, call your parent at home in Nigeria and tell them to connect you with their friend children that are responsible at home and start a relationship from there...

Our parent will always find the best for us when it comes to things like this and from there u can work his document for him to come and join u there, after the relationship have led to marriage. Is as simple as ABC

You think the said responsible husband can't suddenly turn irresponsible since his mission of japa has been achieved