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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by 1Sharon(f): 11:12pm On Apr 19, 2020
Alot of Nigerians have been emotionally abused as kids and don't even realise it.

They have internalised the negativity and are desensitize. Nigeria is filled with damaged people.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Mystic1(m): 11:13pm On Apr 19, 2020
vpcbawz:
That I was not her son that I was Adopted after my 31st Birthday.. shocked ..

She also spoilt and made me look foolish to a girl I almost married ..

She also made me feel like the worst man on earth..

She decreased me to the General public and till date I have never been my self ..

All I can think of now is to find my own parent cause the treatments I get I cant even explain..

Don’t you think you’re too old to be looking for your parents? And you’re over 31 And still tied to this kind of treatment? Bro wetin Dey sup? Can’t you leave home? If you’ve left home, can’t you limit her access to you? You’re over 31 man.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by MansoryMX(m): 11:14pm On Apr 19, 2020
Babysnow1:
She called me from the village and She told me she was gonna commit suicide and die cos she was suffering and sick and I had no money to take care of her.... I was just believing God for a miracle.... The little I have I have to sent her

And the next thing I heard was she was dead... So painful.. pain I still feel even till now

Pls ya all put there should take care of your parent ... If you have the money pls do.


This brought tears to my eyes and broke my heart into a million pieces. I am so so sorry bro, ain’t your fault she died. Heaven knows if you had the money to take care of her you would have done so with utmost joy. I believe she knows you are a good child to her and she is proud of you. May her soul Rest In Peace.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by geoworldedu: 11:15pm On Apr 19, 2020
Benlivingstone1:


Wasted spearm �
slowpoke, the grandson of stupidity
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Principal87: 11:15pm On Apr 19, 2020
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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Norabay(f): 11:15pm On Apr 19, 2020
they are much
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Goalnaldo(m): 11:15pm On Apr 19, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Ehyyyyy you'll succeed trust me embarassed
amen ooo. See coincidence I was just viewing your profile when I saw your mention smiley
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Diamond23(f): 11:15pm On Apr 19, 2020
darhray:
What's the most painful word your mother ever told you and you feel depressed or pained.

Mine:
I waa very stubborn when I was little and there was a day she said she should have flushed my pregnancy out and that am a bastard. Well i packed my load and left home for 2 months but money finish and I had to go back home. She apologized and everything was cool.

Share yours
Chaii embarassed
I remembered during my adolescent age, have forgotten what I did and the next phrase I heard from her was.....
Nya mu ka e ji akpu ara agboghi embarassed embarassed embarassed embarassed, d tin pain me ehhhhh cux it was still developing like d size of an egg. She get bad mouth sha buh I love her, God bless her for me
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by geoworldedu: 11:16pm On Apr 19, 2020
[quote author=Sparkies85 post=88634494][/quote]I should be the one to have mercy on God's soul, not otherwise.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by 1Sharon(f): 11:16pm On Apr 19, 2020
ignis:
She said I am ugly like my dad.

She shot herself in the foot there. She slept with a man she thought was ugly?

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Ingriid(f): 11:17pm On Apr 19, 2020
JosephXavier:
The love she showed me when she was alive made me to forget whatever she ever said
My dad left and she brought us up single-handedly
She sacrificed everything she had to see that we had the best
I was very brilliant but I dissapointed her due to my poor choice of friends which later landed into trouble several times but she was always there for me even when everybody turned their back on me; brothers, sisters uncles daddy etc
She actually died of cancer last year
RIP mum
oh! So sorry about this. May her soul continue to Rest In Peace! Stay blessed

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by klbakare(m): 11:19pm On Apr 19, 2020
RhemaDavids:
One of my cousin got married to a local man oo and the next thing she said is that others girls meet men and get married but my own is use and dump..chei I cried throughout that night
I have forgiven Her sha, now na she dey tell people say her daughter marry better rich Man
women and their love for money. It runs in their blood. Are you from the south east?

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by toprealman: 11:20pm On Apr 19, 2020
FreshBoss007:
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Modified: 2 front page in one day sweet


My mum was never rash with words but her broom or slippers infused sense
Taooma

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by OriOko88(m): 11:22pm On Apr 19, 2020
You want me to bring my mother issue here for people to dissect,analyze, criticize or even abuse. Hell no. She's soo dear to me. Can't say anything bad about her.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by 1Sharon(f): 11:23pm On Apr 19, 2020
charleybam:
My mum told me one certain day dat i am a useless child all because i didn't adhere to one of her orders,she disowned me that moment and i did Same also..she started comparing me to other successful Guys out there,we argued that day alot but we finally reconciled that day but my mom is so insensitive with words most times and i have warned her that her words hurts my self esteem...Most Nigerian Parents needs to learn how to talk to their children


She's Still the best Mother to me though

Hurt self-esteem? grin

If I ever say this to my mum..she'll make sure to keep twisting the knife
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by SexytorresE(f): 11:25pm On Apr 19, 2020
Growing up as a lady and same time stubborn cry I did something to her and she said “ur children will do same to u” cry used to be very stubborn then . But On her own, she prayed and rebuke all she said . That was when I got admission into JSS and a boarding school grin mom was crying and praying for i and my sis. I love u mom u endured all my shit and still I was ur favorite and the first child cry rest on

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Mac12(f): 11:25pm On Apr 19, 2020
Lost my mom at 11

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by MansoryMX(m): 11:25pm On Apr 19, 2020
Vulcan24:
mass shooting in Canada

can u believe this during corona

That’s how evil some people can be. I just don’t understand some people’s problem.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by 1Sharon(f): 11:26pm On Apr 19, 2020
RhemaDavids:
One of my cousin got married to a local man oo and the next thing she said is that others girls meet men and get married but my own is use and dump..chei I cried throughout that night
I have forgiven Her sha, now na she dey tell people say her daughter marry better rich Man

This is why you should never introduce a guy you are dating to your parents. When you break up, they'll start enquiring
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Liftkid(m): 11:28pm On Apr 19, 2020
" FORGIVE HIM, HE IS YOUR BRO" After squandering the money I saved for my travel.
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by RhemaDavids(f): 11:28pm On Apr 19, 2020
1Sharon:


This is why you should never introduce a guy you are dating to your parents. When you break up, they'll start enquiring
aswear I learnt my lesson after that and it worked for me

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by silverkings: 11:29pm On Apr 19, 2020
perdollar:
'ayigayi' (UGLY). my momma said that i am d ugliest thing on earth.
Are You?
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Apr 19, 2020
1Sharon:
Alot of Nigerians have been emotionally abused as kids and don't even realise it.

They have internalised the negativity and are desensitize. Nigeria is filled with damaged people.
Won de undecided

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by PrinzCarter(m): 11:29pm On Apr 19, 2020
them no dey use another person eye road ....


she was telling me nt 2 depend on ppl or expect frds to help u but i hv to b strong to take care of my self

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by JasperVII(m): 11:29pm On Apr 19, 2020
emmabest2000:
Okpo ha ndi azu cheesy



Ndi ma azu ana akpo azu okpo ga ama ihe okwu ahu putara grin
Man you just reminded me of my dad, he used to say that �

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 11:30pm On Apr 19, 2020
SexytorresE:
Growing up as a lady and same time stubborn cry I did something to her and she said “ur children will do same to u” cry used to be very stubborn then . But On her own, she prayed and rebuke all she said . That was when I got admission into JSS and a boarding school grin mom was crying and praying for i and my sis. I love u mom u endured all my shit and still I was ur favorite and the first child cry rest on
Awwn..
Mama's girl grin
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by X0012(m): 11:31pm On Apr 19, 2020
I am sorry this happen to you. Stay strong.

Babysnow1:
She called me from the village and She told me she was gonna commit suicide and die cos she was suffering and sick and I had no money to take care of her.... I was just believing God for a miracle.... The little I have I have to sent her

And the next thing I heard was she was dead... So painful.. pain I still feel even till now

Pls ya all put there should take care of your parent ... If you have the money pls do.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by MansoryMX(m): 11:33pm On Apr 19, 2020
spiceadole:
I was 26 and not married.
My mum repeatedly embarrassed me with:

-You are a source of shame to me.
-All my mates have sons-in-law and grandchildren.
-Menopause is approaching.Its a pity
-Hope you are not a lesbian.
-Are you into prostitution that you have refused to marry?
-Your mates post pictures of themselves with their husbands and children on Facebook & WhatsApp.Where is your own? You are still posting single pictures.

And so many hurtful statements.

I was struggling in my final year in medical school.
But she was more interested in me getting married.

I got married 2 years after during my housemanship.

Our relationship has been kinda strained..especially after I relocated to UK.

I only just send her money...We don't talk much.


I have 2 kids now..Her grandchildren.
I love my mum.I miss her though but I haven't forgotten.




Damnnnn! Those are hurtful words. It’s important you forgive her and forget.

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by melodyogonna(m): 11:33pm On Apr 19, 2020
I don't remember. I no dey carry am for heart

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by Nobody: 11:35pm On Apr 19, 2020
geoworldedu:
When I told her that God must be a fool for giving all Christians the gift of speaking in tongue but no one the gift of curing COVID-19, she said to me, "My son, I thought of something like that few years ago."

It pained me so much that my mum kept the foolishness of God away from me for years.
nairaland sure need a psychiatrist ward

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Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by ArcVicky(f): 11:35pm On Apr 19, 2020
Can't remember any... Is the normal thing Nigerian mom's say she use to say. E.g. other children dey do things well for their house, but u people can't do anything right. Foolish children


And I miss u alot... Cos she is gone ND not coming back
Re: What's The Most Painful Thing Your Mother Ever Said To You? by mechanics(m): 11:36pm On Apr 19, 2020
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