luminouz:


Thanks for this. I was so confused as to the reason why they dont marry from their state. But since you're also Igbo,what's the big deal in discriminating against you na? If na Yoruba geh, I fit understand.

archaic mentality which was rampant in the 15th century is working on their 21st century generations which is a big problem for them. How can ones parents determine who their daughters or sons will marry? What if it did not go well with whom they chose for their children? May God almighty heal all of them for their shallow mindedness. Some of them claim to even be Christians and they never come across where the Bible says in the book of revelation that there should be no decriminalization be it tribe, or any form among the Christians.

kokaneprodigy:

She’s not or no longer into you, she doesn’t want to end up with you forget all those excuses. It’s her decision and not her mom’s. If a lady is into uno Jupiter can tell her not to marry you she will fight it to the last. Women in love are very stubborn.

The sad truth from your story is that You enticed her with money. You were her ATM and the only one investing in the relationship.

Like I always say always gauge the interest of ur partner, in words, investments in you and actions.

human psychology 101

thanks, well appreciated.

Usorohtheman:
Learn the lessons from this and move on. She might come back but make sure you scrutinize her well before accepting her back if as at then, you don't have another girl. Good luck bro

By the way, you seem to be made financially, can you show me the way?

I dey vex with you, why advising him to accept her when comes begging? No any right thinking man accept such a person in this situation.
The op should just forget about her Afterall she benefited alot from him

kokaneprodigy:

That her mama part na format. I won’t be surprised she discussed nothing with her. I’ve done this to a lady before. We were friends with benefit, she started catching feelings and I didn’t want to damage our friendship once I saw someone I wanted to officially date and marry, so I dropped the format to absolve myself of the blames this time na my papa I use. Till date the babe no like my papa o. God forgive me.

LOL.

Jas80:
greatResearcher come and add this guy to your list

that thread should be renamed “The Simp hall of Fame”

akaahs:

I dey vex with you, why advising him to accept her when comes begging? No any right thinking man accept such a person in this situation.
The op should just forget about her Afterall she benefited alot from him

thanks. well said

UwaMmebii:


Not only Anambra, Enugu too find it difficult to marry from Ebonyi. Is it that Ebonyi men are bad?

I've seen countless numbers of girls from our side that rejected Ebonyi men.

I really don't know.

Chi59:

Gbam. They have no minds of their own. They can't go against their families for love. Even among the educated and well travelled, the same mindset runs through them. How I wish I knew then what I know now.

Exactly, thank God you have known now. Dating an Anambra man or woman, the love nah owner's risk, especially if you dy reason long term 'marriage'.

Being a simp is terrible. You were nothing but her disposable utility (especially for school work and school needs). GreatResearcher1, what do you have to say?

LLobiorah:



Exactly, thank God you have known now. Dating an Anambra man or woman, the love nah owner's risk, especially if you dy reason long term 'marriage'.

I'm really learning a lot.

Martinez39s:
Being a simp is terrible. You were nothing but her disposable utility (especially for school work and school needs). GreatResearcher1, what do you have to say?

Really. I never knew before. thanks

Giwoni:
Really. I never knew before. thanks

She even inadvertently gave you a hint when she said she would dump you if you failed your 2nd MBBS exam. You were just her school ladder and equipment. When a lady tells you rubbish like "I can't marry you because my parents won't let me," or she brings up tribal differences, just know she is not interested in you. Would the excuses be effective if Bill Gates or Ned Nwoko came for her, or if she really wanted to marry you?

More generally, there is nothing like genuine love from a woman to a man. The love you see in the movies doesn't exist; it's just an illusion and scam dwelling in the deceived minds of males. A woman "loves" you for what she can get from you. I think I will start working on my redpill series very soon because of your case.



https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get


https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

Martinez39s:
She even inadvertently gave you a hint when she said she would dump you if you failed your 2nd MBBS exam. You were just her school ladder and equipment. When a lady tells you rubbish like "I can't marry you because my parents won't let me," or she brings up tribal differences, just know she is not interested in you. Would the excuses be effective if Bill Gates or Ned Nwoko came for her, or if she really wanted to marry you?

More generally, there is nothing like genuine love from a woman to a man. The love you see in the movies doesn't exist; it's just an illusion and scam dwelling in the deceived minds of males. A woman "loves" you for what she can get from you. I think I will start working on my redpill series very soon because of your case.



https://www.nairaland.com/5695941/many-memes-redpill-guys-get


https://www.nairaland.com/5150034/boys-get-here-mumu-must

Thanks.

NwaforIgbo:
If GreatResearcher1, The Simp Slayer, Conquer of the Simpdom, The Alpha Lunatic catch u!!
I laugh..

Ode Ni op

Medical students are supposed to brilliant but you be mugu Maga

You didn't go abroad because of gf

You are stupid

well op the excuse that girl gave nothing but flimsy on why she can't marry you in my opinion. I think she doesn't love you but is just with you for what she's gaining (money)

earthsync:
well op the excuse that girl gave nothing but flimsy on why she can't marry you in my opinion. I think she doesn't love you but is just with you for what she's gaining (money)

Thanks for your contribution, well appreciated

lereinter:

Ode Ni op
Medical students are supposed to brilliant but you be mugu Maga
You didn't go abroad because of gf
You are stupid

noted, Thanks.

missimelda01:
You only told us the things you did for her, what of the things she did for you?
Did you notice at any point in the relationship that she was acting uninterested?
Marriage is a huge step, did you both have marriage in view while dating?
Parents have huge influence on some people, maybe she's one of them.

In conclusion, it's not advisable to convince someone to marry you.. move on with your life, you'd find someone else who'll feel the same way about you.

Like forking Abi

Or what do you think she would have done for him

Obo wristwatch seller

Giwoni:
noted, Thanks.

Don't thank me joor

lereinter:


Don't thank me joor

lol. Just that you people are making me know my worth and correct my wrong acts.

@ op I rarely comment on threads but I'm forced to .

Your gf is heartless and doesn't love you. She had been with you all because of the benefit that comes with it. Pls I it is better you forget about her because even if you convince her to marry you, trust me that marriage won't stand the test of time because of the recent trend in divorce and infidelity .

I will advise you to accept the hard truth and move on with your life.
You have a brighter future and you don't have to the your happiness to a lady who doesn't appreciate you.

Look around you, there is one lady who loves you for just being you but you give a blind eye to it because of someone that doesn't care.

Cc Giwoni

I know you are hurting emotionally but one thing is clear, you are a good person and you will get a better lady.
you don't always need to reap where you sowed. if you understand that, life will be easy for you.
If she comes back, please do not accept her back because there is still the issue of I cant go against my mummy.
my two cents

Such is life bro, never spend money on a woman with the intention of marrying her, its a terrible error.


Besides from your story she never loved u, she just saw u as an ATM.

Move on bro she'll get her own fair share of karma in the future

Deep within ya inner heart - of - hearts you know exactly what you need.

Don't sit and wait for it - stand up and achieve it.

Your Love life - Your cross.
Peace.

prizlezzlalasky:
@ op I rarely comment on threads but I'm forced to .

Your gf is heartless and doesn't love you. She had been with you all because of the benefit that comes with it. Pls I it is better you forget about her because even if you convince her to marry you, trust me that marriage won't stand the test of time because of the recent trend in divorce and infidelity .

I will advise you to accept the hard truth and move on with your life.
You have a brighter future and you don't have to the your happiness to a lady who doesn't appreciate you.

Look around you, there is one lady who loves you for just being you but you give a blind eye to it because of someone that doesn't care.

Cc Giwoni

appreciated

2cul2care:
Such is life bro, never spend money on a woman with the intention of marrying her, its a terrible error.


Besides from your story she never loved u, she just saw u as an ATM.

Move on bro she'll get her own fair share of karma in the future

Thanks so much

Raeheemwayne:
Deep within ya inner heart - of - hearts you know exactly what you need.

Don't sit and wait for it - stand up and achieve it.

Your Love life - Your cross.
Peace.

appreciated

Na this kind drilling you deserve.

Churchill6767:
Na this kind drilling you deserve.

even more self because...

Will u now kill yourself because she doesn't love u



it's her decision and not her mum



I'll advice you to stop seeing her ,delete her number and that searching else where for a wife

she'll probably notice your change of attitude and start running after u .


am sure she's into someone else but you're just too blind to see it .

Wen a lady is in love , they'll b the one to bring up proposal and marriage topic first

benedima1990:
Will u now kill yourself because she doesn't love u



it's her decision and not her mum



I'll advice you to stop seeing her ,delete her number and that searching else where for a wife

she'll probably notice your change of attitude and start running after u .


am sure she's into someone else but you're just too blind to see it .

Wen a lady is in love , they'll b the one to bring up proposal and marriage topic first

Appreciated, thanks.