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Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by stanliwise(m): 2:21pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
thedeedray:Now you are hitting the point. Being an introvert could lead to depressed behavior and make or mar you. It depends on where you direct your energy to, this is because introvert don’t have many social activities and they take strong hold on the one they lay their hands. Op should find a way of improving his communication and social confidence. He will later find out that spending quality time with friends give much pleasure than porn. And hanging out with a beautiful lady is more self satisfy than pleasuring a porn star in your head. Op should get out of his small shell and become more self aware 1 Like |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by thedeedray: 3:24pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
stanliwise: Well said... According to the Bible, angels fell in love with daughters of men ( they couldn't control their urges). So, who is the op not to also have urges?? The earlier he leaves his shell, the better for his konji 2 Likes |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Nobody: 3:44pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pitamah901: Don't you masturbate? |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by pitamah901: 3:58pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Squillaci:I do but it's not solving the issue anymore |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Joystark(f): 4:08pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Stay away from Porn. |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Dfynboi: 4:11pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
bestabigaelever:want to gve him?? |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by pitamah901: 4:13pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
bestabigaelever:Would love to |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by ikemesit4477: 5:00pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Oluromantic:these corona period! |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Nobody: 5:03pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Viciheaka:I'm trying to help him with a solution to his problem, innit? |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by TobyJohn(m): 5:15pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Op.. Be close to God. You will enjoy sex when the right time comes. avoid porn.. aside hormonal ish, avoid watching porn as it can increase urge of such. Channel your attention to something important like learning skills and buldup yourself. I know is not easy but just try soon you'll get over it and be glad you did it in the end. Also communicate with people as others rightly pointed out herein. 2 Likes |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Nobody: 6:57pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
You can fight that urge, it's a choice. Good luck,may God strengthen you 1 Like |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by REALretep(m): 8:05pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
That you have the urges show that you are perfectly normal. Being introverted makes it even more difficult to manage this perfectly normal situation. Yielding to the urge by having sex will further increase the urge. The truth is that everyone faces this urge and there's no single way of dealing with it. You need to have friends you can talk to, gist with, and spend time with. These social activities can help in dealing with the urge. They won't overcome it however. The urge will still keep coming as long as you live. Keep up with your spiritual life and socialize. That's my advice. 1 Like |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by zexy2030(m): 8:28pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
thank God u knew keeping a girl is a responsibility 2. Having sex has its risk, and there are mistakes u can redo but there are some mistakes with permanent deformity, pre marital sex is one of them. Over speeding ur car is another one. They are sweet risks but the consequences of misbehavior could be life destructive and life reduncting. my advice is stay away from objects, friends or events making u think sex. Besides sex could be harmless if u r ready for the responsibilities. condoms are just 98%safe so what happens to 2%. More so Masturbation in fews year time makes dysfunctional in bed and eventually make u depressed for not being able to satisfy ur legally married wife. Divert ur energy to learn a skill. MY FRIEND U R IDLENESS UR BIGGEST PROBLEM. learn programing, learn driving, learn cooking, learn learn learn. 2 Likes |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Nelsonnwagbo(m): 8:34pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
my guy am 21 nd still a virgin just lyk u i dnt normally hv time for galfrnd stuff coz am always busy guy bt wt do i do when am Hot ? . . . |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by paix(m): 8:46pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Ecbatana:Where's the power, abi na kerosene fridge? |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by duality(m): 10:16pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pitamah901: You May be from a Christian home but Are you filled with the holy spirit? What's your personal relationship with God Do you love God and want to live for him alone or you want to carry worldly pleasures of sin along. Do you have a conviction that you have to and can live righteous? How much of the word of God do you have on your mouth and heart. Have you sufficiently loaded yourself with scriptures that when you speak, the word of God flows naturally from your mouth? How is your prayer life. Are you fervent? Or is prayer a stress? How is your communion with God? Do you feel the presence of God around you that you are sometimes lost in worship? Such intimacy that you don't want it to end? How is your revelational Life. Does God reveal things to you? Do you see yourself speaking to circumstances and they obey you? Consider what I just stated above and there's no way you Will be trapped in the cage and chains of lust. No way!!! Unless you're not interested, you can keep deceiving yourself. Thanks 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Nobody: 10:16pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
I do i want too have bestabigaelever: |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by pitamah901: 10:32pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
zexy2030: Have learnt most of these things |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Nobody: 11:45pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
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Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by odinga1of: 11:54pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
pitamah901: Oga u will kill yourself by yourself. Let me advice u, go get a girl, there is a girl for every guy man in Nigeria. Don't go for the Toke Makinwa type ( your salary and gratuities go finish under 1 month) Try and be friend a girl from low income family and make a relationship with her, as time goes on maturbation will stop and sex will come naturally. |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by bigthink(m): 12:17am On Apr 24, 2020 |
pitamah901: Op high sexual urge is a normal thing at ur age but controlling it now lies in ur hands, many overcame and u can too, my suggestion is this, avoid doing those things that stimulates your urge for sex such as watching pornography, looking at a lady that is sexually attractive more than twice and thinking of the person..Also always engage yourself with something Positive...idle man is a devil's.... Did you just say you masturbate..haba that's irritating..you are just 20 if u can plan your life positively for the next 6years, make your money and get married to the right person...then you understand that sex is been exaggerated... Remain blessed |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Bamz(m): 3:13am On Apr 24, 2020 |
pitamah901: You need to relax. I know virgins who are way older than you so just take it cool. You're currently among a special set of people in the world so I think you should appreciate it. What you're experiencing is absolutely normal as an adolescent. By the way, you're an amazing person from the look of things, you're more powerful than you think, so yes you can control your urges. Are your urges going to fade away after having sex? Best chances are that they'll be heightened How do you fight your urges? I'm glad that you've acknowledged it. Steer clear of your triggers, but then you need to distract yourself with something that thrills you other than masturbation and porn. Find that enjoyable thing that excites you and won't heighten your urges. It could be outdoor sports, video games, board games, movies, reading funny stories, video chats etc. Remember you need to fill that vacuum of not pleasing yourself. Don't forget. Equally important is having someone you can be accountable to like a guy who's older than you. Two of you can always discuss your struggles on a regular basis and discuss ways out. If you have no one for this, you may send me a PM. Since you're from a Christian background, I won't continue with my "Should you choose to have sex ..." part. Just know that your urges are temporary, so don't make a permanent decision on a temporary urge. I hope that makes sense to you. Remember, you're more powerful than think. Goodluck! 1 Like |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Akinbahm(m): 3:21am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Especially both chronic masturbator & womanizer... zionmde: |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Christiano25(m): 5:38am On Apr 24, 2020 |
I am having thesame problem just exactly like you. I’m introvert, dont have a girl friend we just have similar issues. I am still fighting this damn shit till now. I would like both of us to over come this. I’m tired of this urge I swear. It’s killing me. |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by femi4: 7:13am On Apr 24, 2020 |
bestabigaelever:bad teacher |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Brunicekid(m): 8:48am On Apr 24, 2020 |
pitamah901:Of course, i know God loves everybody. But, the area of emphasis here is on "sexual chastity"... That's how i said sexually pure people. Hope you get that |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by pitamah901: 11:46am On Apr 24, 2020 |
bigthink: masturbation is a normal practice and it has health benefits, go ask medical practitioners |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by pitamah901: 11:50am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Christiano25:u could send ur wsap number so we could chat together 1 Like |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Mikefrik(m): 12:03pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Brunicekid:See, no one can really be free from the urge because it's natural. When I say natural I mean it's a normal thing to feel sexual urge. Even pastors have sexual urge. And if you say you want to stop it in the name of religion, then you are waiting on a long thing. No amount of prayer and fasting can stop it. Because it's normal. Just like feeling heat or cold is normal. I tell you, the day you stop feeling sexual urge, it means you are no longer a human being. You are a zombie. So cheer up and embrace life. Period. 2 Likes |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Mikefrik(m): 12:09pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
zionmde:Oga, stop this unnecessary ranting. You that is advising him, have you channelled your energy? Maybe konji has not catch you before. If he catch you, then you have no other choice than to give in. From experience. 1 Like |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by pitamah901: 12:39pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Mikefrik:na wetin dey happen to me now ooo, the konji just too much like i no fit even explain am again and this masturbation thing no dey satisfy again |
Re: This Sexual Urge Is Getting Too Much,how Do I Go About It by Adgideon(m): 12:46pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Go to your Bible for solution |
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