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Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 5:46am On Apr 26, 2020 |
234GT:Where did you get this your own from |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 6:52am On Apr 26, 2020 |
bdchange: Exactly. 100% correct. That is why you see that most guys avoid financially independent women even though those type of women are what they should go for but they know their excesses will be curtailed and checkmated else divorce his ass. Tbh, most men don't want to be responsible. The fear of sticking to one woman, not clubbing till midnight with friends if they are the clubbing type etc makes men avoid them and go for financially handicapped women who can be controlled. I for one don't have issues with a stable woman because i don't womanize, am open-minded to my spouse - she knows how much i earn and how we budget and spend it together, total transparency, don't club unless we go together occasionally, even though am the one earning but don't molest or look down at her. We are a team and should work together. She has one of my ATM cards and my bank app on her phone so that she can log in and view the balance. My mind you, doing all these doesn't guarantee she will be faithful and not cheat on me nor does it mean if i go broke, she won't pack out of the house. I'm fully aware of all the risks involved in marriage and won't be surprise if such happens. I'm just doing my to satisfy my conscience and just between me and My God, shikena. 6 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 6:55am On Apr 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Brother, do you or have you worked with Eastern Europeans before? Russians, Ukrainians ant co? because that is a common slag with them especially when annoyed |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Zabiboy: 6:59am On Apr 26, 2020 |
OP... Y did u run frm d ashewo thread na ... Anyways....when u get married, u'll device ur own means of coping.. So many women pray fervently before getting married but yet their husbands still cheat... Mind you: if u r not a virgin sef, you nor suppose pray/ expect a man that wont cheat.. All in all, like i said...HOPE FOR D BEST BUT PREPARE FOR D WORST.. Zabiboy Cares 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 7:05am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Rozz: Pls, don't give excuses for cheating. A cheat is a cheat and they will always have tons of excuses to use to justify it. Why not use a more self preservation route of divorcing instead of cheating? Moreover, it can go the other side too. I can tell you a man cheats because - Is wife is not beautiful, lazy, not productive and contributing, dirty, small boobs and buttocks, too big boobs and buttocks, lazy on bed/sexually, mannerless, abusive, not romantic, not prayerful etc You see? The list is endless if we start giving excuses and you know what? It is at this stage most ladies will find their voices that Why did you marry her when you noticed all these flaws? And which am throwing back to you that why did you marry him when you noticed these flaws Or why didn't you divorce him when you noticed this negative traits? Instead of cheating. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 7:14am On Apr 26, 2020 |
emmaodet:Truly there's no excuse for cheating,i only brought that up since the men believe they can be excused for cheating because they are men 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by 234GT(m): 7:56am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Rozz: It is a fact that I have seen severally. A lady dating a responsible man will by herself leave the man for one nonsense reason ( eg, he prefers wearing pam slippers to trainers) and start dating an obvious cheat. Cheats know how to fascinate women. Women take responsible men for granted and still cry that cheats cheat on them. 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 8:42am On Apr 26, 2020 |
234GT:No sane woman takes a responsible man for granted |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 9:44am On Apr 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Bros has been saving for long now |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 10:54am On Apr 26, 2020 |
sassysure:Saving what? |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 10:57am On Apr 26, 2020 |
emmaodet:Lol, nope. Only ever met one Russian, then a family member is married to a Romanian woman. That's about it. |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 11:19am On Apr 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Saving me from those that want to beat me na I open mouth, yarn rubbish, go hide for his back And struck out my tongue Hahahaaa, I can see why most married women get away with caustic tongue. I have seen one married woman reduce a guy to nothing. The guy so restrained himself just because of the husband. She was lucky, another might not do that. W |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 11:22am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Rozz:Forgot I called u a babe. This my short memory 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 11:26am On Apr 26, 2020 |
sassysure: |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 11:30am On Apr 26, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Ok |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 11:33am On Apr 26, 2020 |
234GT:Bro, i think it goes both ways. Women see responsible men as boring and too predictable while men see responsible women as too bland, mostly not sexy because they are not wearing tight fitting body exposing clothes with make ups. 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by 234GT(m): 12:11pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
emmaodet: Very well said. For me, I am okay with a simple straight forward woman that gives me peace of mind. |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
sassysure:you are same person as emmaodet |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 12:52pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
234GT: Likewise i but a lot of people will say so but choose the other. Strange life |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 12:53pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Rozz: Hello Why did you say am sassysure? I don't know her and i only have one moniker. Do we have anything in common? to come to such conclusion. |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 12:55pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
emmaodet:ok sorry, I quoted you and she responded, that's why. |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by emmaodet: 3:27pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Rozz: Ok |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Jossyfine(f): 7:12am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Why haven't asked urself why married men cheat openly and no one bait an eye lid but the whole world roars if a married woman is caught cheating. My dear, its a man's world if you should quit ur marriage because ur hubby's cheating on you then you better think twice cos it rains every where. Sit down and think very well before you walk down the aisle even though am not in support of infidelity but that's what the world has thrown on us. SweetCunt97: |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Smile4mee01: 8:34am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Well said bro. But again. Have we thought about the fact that it's also women who sometimes come after these men. Knowing that a man is drawn to what he sees. The temptation can be so great that some men of God even fall. I will try my best to be faithful to my wife... I also dont want to be lead into temptation. emmaodet: |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Smile4mee01: 8:39am On Apr 27, 2020 |
I even find it hard to have an erection when my account is red. See guys this is the thing. A successful man has not much to loose. Look @ Tiger woods. We all know he was promiscuous and his ex wife went with alot of fortune. The man you are running to leave, a woman is waiting in the wings to snatch him up. How many women can boost of leaving Dangote if he cheats. Women, it's a mans world. Do women in the Arab world even think of thier emn cheating cause they don accept am as lifestyle. emmaodet: |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by PHOTSEE(m): 10:08am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Expensiverichyb:Love from a woman ? or love from a man . |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by PHOTSEE(m): 11:29am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Rozz:Better not to be caught, than saying "it wasn't me ". |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by bluefilm: 3:32pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Rozz: Wait a minute. So, you mean you can't have an FFM _threesome with your husband? Damn! |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by omoharry(f): 6:02pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Rozz:Do not vouch for any man of God oo!! Remember they are only human with have blood flowing in thier vain. Vouch for urself alone and stop looking at them like Demi-god who cannot fall prey to such acts |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 7:33pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
omoharry:not vouching for any but no true man of God will indulge in such act |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by vickydankal(f): 7:44pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Rozz: You want to marry a man of God because he won’t cheat lol My dear, some ladies like you who said this are in with their husbands who does not only cheat but beat them too on Sunday morning and prophecy accurately with God confirming His word . I advice ladies to come emotionally prepared when it comes to marriage. We ladies make cheating a man’s thing, but is it only me who thinks that ladies cheat emotionally, financially etc more in marriage than men, but men cheat more sexually lol When you marry you will understand the responsibility of marriage. Cheating and sleeping with someone are different things. It is forgivable if it is one time affair especially if he confess. Some will say I would never cheat on my spouse time will tell. Life always has are way to test what you say. But op what if you cheat? On what circumstances can you take cheating as an option to get what you want to save a life (son or family , secure are job, etc especially when no one will see it or hear or it? You see this life, we all should be asking for grace and God’s mercy, else we all can do and undo. I wish you are faithful partner |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by omoharry(f): 8:39pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Rozz:Get real sister. A man of God who is a well known bishop in our arear attempted to kiss my cousin some time back. She came back and told us what happened about the incident that happened in his office when she went there for counseling .We were all shocked with disbelief . My mum refuse to believe it till this day.Have you not heard stories of pastors impregnating female members such as minors and people's wives ? .Pls do not say pastors are nor capable of doing such. |
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