Alafe1:
If am the one I will hack her whatapp account, so I can as well read the messages to clear my doubt, I have done it before on my wife's phone and it work , these day women are dangerous to take chances

fredopareto:
relax bro..track her closely and don't make her suspicious.. U will caught her red handed ..dis is wat I called play along..I ve help my mummy to caught my dad with dis logic..it might take time..BT it worth it

afroxyz:


You helped your mum catch your dad. You are a fucking snitch

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Very simple.

Clone her WhatsApp on your phone and monitor her chats. There is a way to do that. Will modify my post and include it later.

https://mobile-tracker-free.com/ Download the app on your phone and send to your wife phone.

winfy11:
since u have access to her WhatsApp application try to hack it even though she delete the messages on her phone u will keep it on your phone as an evidence against her

Slimranky:
Considering all these level of infidelity in marriages I wonder if one would eventually get married, because where I come from when a wife cheats on her husband and the husband seeing sign's and his fore father's appearing in His dreams and yet he keeps mute,without interrogating his wife that man will eventually die but if he interrogates her and she denies a strange ailment will befall her,until she accepts her wrongs and do a cleansing in the traditional way....For e.g if a man travels and his wife use his food plate to dish food for her lover,when the husband comes back from his journey he would see strong signs and needs to question his wife but if he doesn't overlooks such signs and eats with same plate he would die instantly

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Romanoff:
I smell a rat sha. The moment one starts deleting conversations and coding contacts, na there e take dey start.

bonnyhope:


Must your laptop always have to be connected to internet b4 getting chats from het phone?

bukatyne:


I don't understand.

If the husband is boring, is the wife not supposed to spice up things or show the husband what she wants?

Cynsee:
hack her WhatsApp ,trust me you will get her red handed.

osazsky:
see mum feminist...would u have said same if it was the guy that was sexxing around...how can a married woman be sleeping around.from what the op said its clear she is a shareful giver...that was how one wanted to put a pregnancy that didn't belong to my guy on him but was caught on d day of her wedding my guy became depressed and confused till now he has not recovered since last year spent almost 3 m on a marriage that didn't hold d shameless pig was still shouting that she would drink snippet if d pastor didn't continue with the wedding some women are so dumb useless and heartless.pls op start looking for a wife what u currently have is not one

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Pizzle1234:
Hack her WhatsApp and thank me later.

malcomxjr:
seems you no get work that na why you go sit don Dey. Heck woman phone

Stephenomozzy:


Have you dated an introvert before? (I am dating one). Not very often will she loudly express that she's needing things to be spiced up, she'll just leave few clues here and there and believes you should pick the clue and work things out while she "does her own part". It becomes easier when you know your woman.

I'm in no way inferring that a boring partner should be cheated on Sis. And who knows op may just be paranoid.

But other than just speaking point-blank that OP's wife is cheating (that's a recipe to ruin their marriage), I've offered one way OP can try to make things better and read the situation in a more optimistic angle.

Romanoff:
I smell a rat sha. The moment one starts deleting conversations and coding contacts, na there e take dey start.

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

speedchariot:
Two things are involve, Go look for App that can access erased chat.Download it on her phone.
Secondly, show her lackluster attitude in respect to her relationship with the Opposite sex,she will definitely drop her guard.If positive, please file for divorce... That man no help you pay bride price.

Bola146:
Hummmm use your number 6 sir, confront her! She is into something, wake up

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

Eulalia:
You're still there asking the obvious. Don't even begin to ask her if she's cheating. Just tell point blank " you're cheating on me and I know " then do the needful. You can't survive coro and one woman will come and kill you with STDs.