centboy123456:


women are evil I swear

is this all you have to say oh I see just because it woman I bet if it was a man you won't say such a thing

I feel sorry for the man that will marry you

na your type day kill man

and I pray you don't see any man to marry u

Generalnomercy:
Your wife is simply Cheating and having it raw with the man
She might not be cheating on the husband, if we will look at it microscopically the husband might not be sensitive enough to depict what the wife has been saying and it might be as a result of that made her to look for a pain reliever so to say. She is not getting the attention required and instead of fighting her husband she found it elsewhere. Pls spice up your relationship with you wife and give her a listening her , don't tell her your are busy whenever she needs your attention.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
yes that is all I have to say. if he has never cheated on his wife, then he has my sympathy and I'd advise him to watch war room and pray for his marriage but if he has ever cheated before, I don't pity him and he deserves what he's getting. what is wrong with what I have said?

centboy123456:



with your write up I can see the hate you have towards men

I just feel sorry for who is going marry you because you are full of evil

your hate for men will never take you to anywhere

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1, and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing to her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to check on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. The funny part of it, each time she chats with him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in the late 30s.

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Oktane:


Can you actually achieve this even after she has deleted the chats?

I would like to see this happen. Please explain how this works.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Ariza:
WhatsApp not Wassup or is there any new application named as such?



BTW, you need no oracle to tell you that your wife's attention is somewhere else and soon enough she will be sweating under someone's else.

ProtectMyMoney:


1. Go to whatsapp web on the Cheats phone. Scan the bar code with your phone, and monitor from your phone. You will get the evidence you need.

Nelso2:

Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

bonnyhope:


First time that you are making reasonable comment

specialbobby:


Sup bro

Lumidee007:


me I just like ur comment to see it hits "like 419"

loswhite:
I understand your point tho, but cheating is a big deal for me. What OP's wife is doing is disrespect and I don't like disrespect in my relationship not to talk of marriage. Instead of snooping, op should call is wife and tell her that what ever she is doing is unacceptable and you will not take it and if she persist in all those secretive Chatting and re saving names then you will act accordingly.... How can a man be snooping and hiding to read his wife messages anyway....pussy men everywhere

specialbobby:






Shut!!!! Up
Are you are you normal?
[s]What's this nonsense that you type here??[/s]
Can you advice your brother like this?
You most be a cheater in your relationship ahan

seunfly:


Marriage is not for people who are not committed niether is it a child's play.
In marriage their will always be a time our partners will not be at optimal level, are we going to cheat all those times?
.........

I know u will be married soon and u will understand what I'm saying.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Can you swear you've never cheated on your wife before? If you have you need to shut up and take several seats. Karma is just dealing with you.

OriOko88:

Same here man.

xendra:
Yep its called cheating, even though they may not have had sex yet, she is definitely enjoying the wrong type of attention (that is also classified as emotional cheating.)
Are you cheating on her? or making her feel less in any way? it could be from lack of attention, feeling invincible to your man, feeling like you are not on his priority list.......and so on

usually a woman will only do this if she no longer feels secure in her relationship.

Coronavirus1:

There is no proof of her cheating monitoring your wife means lack of trust