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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by loswhite(m): 12:56am On Apr 28, 2020
Stephenomozzy:


Exactly! I may not think straight! Maybe that's why OP has come online...if you see my statement, I neither said she was cheating or not...but I tried to offer a way he can make things change for better!

Some people that have not even held a successful relationship are trying to plant wrong ideas in OP's hear so he can ruin the marriage that's probably already shaky but not beyond redemption
I understand your point tho, but cheating is a big deal for me. What OP's wife is doing is disrespect and I don't like disrespect in my relationship not to talk of marriage. Instead of snooping, op should call is wife and tell her that what ever she is doing is unacceptable and you will not take it and if she persist in all those secretive Chatting and re saving names then you will act accordingly.... How can a man be snooping and hiding to read his wife messages anyway....pussy men everywhere

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Fluency(m): 12:57am On Apr 28, 2020
Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.


What about the man's DP?
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by income2020: 12:57am On Apr 28, 2020
specialbobby:


Sup bro
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by AreaFada2: 12:59am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.
She may not be physically cheating. But I think the guy asked her out or the guy shows an attitude that may suggest so to her. Most women often feel they are in control. Married women get many temptations to cheat. With work colleagues, clients, etc. Some will cheat, some will not.

Women liked being asked out and desired. She likes the attention. I guess the guy tells her sweet things that you believe she knows you feel her. So no need repeating.

She also feels the guy can be of other benefits to her. Not necessarily of sexual nature. Some women need a male figure to confide in. They trust men more than fellow women at times. The fatherly figure and the maturity of a 54 years old man might be something she admires and desires.

Only danger is, depending on who the guy is, he can exploit her weak moment to bed her. Like if you both have a serious fight and she's emotionally down and turning to him for support.
It's a delicate game.

If you ready for any potential heartache and other consent, then try to know more. If not please let it be because the result may not be palatable.

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Muhylonaire(m): 12:59am On Apr 28, 2020
bonnyhope:


Is a serious issue o my brother

God will help us
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Engrr(m): 12:59am On Apr 28, 2020
Just hack her whatsapp and be following her chat simple. You will definitely catch her
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by DedeNkem: 1:03am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

If the man was her customer, she won't be deleting her chat records with him. That's a red flag and something is definitely going on.

Discreetly install a spy software (I won't tell you) to track her WhatsApp chats. That way you will catch her in the act.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by specialbobby(m): 1:06am On Apr 28, 2020
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How fana
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by holusormi(m): 1:06am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Okay OP - I’ll play the devils advocate here and I sincerely hope you find what you are looking for
Now here’s what you will do

If you use an iphone goto AppStore and download this app ‘Whatsagain’ - this app enables you to scan someone’s whstapp barcode and you will receive their messages directly on your phone

It’s self explanatory though - download the app , scan her whatsapp and just observe , take screenshots before she deletes - then throw her to the streets once you see what you are looking for - blessings and love
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by femmy2010(m): 1:09am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

He might be her "UNCLE".
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by specialbobby(m): 1:10am On Apr 28, 2020
DedeNkem:


If the man was her customer, she won't be deleting her chat records with him. That's a red flag and something is definitely going on.

Discreetly install a spy software (I won't tell you) to track her WhatsApp chats. That way you will catch her in the act.







Tell us one of the trusted spy app bro i need it
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Nobody: 1:12am On Apr 28, 2020
y3s
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Alloyhardu(m): 1:13am On Apr 28, 2020
Are joking cant you just HACK the whatsapp���
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Tombrapadelovel: 1:19am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.
A woman doesn't just cheat on her man. My advice is for you to call her and ask her what she feels is off in your marriage and try to make it up to her if it's within your capacity. You'll see she'll stop whatever she's doing

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Voltz1987: 1:24am On Apr 28, 2020
Dnt confront until u have substansive evidence... Be patient ur very close.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Samj1122: 1:25am On Apr 28, 2020
I think dat d problem you said u have always been a responsible dad not a husband, u need b R friend 1st b4 been a dad. That my tk.
Nelso2:

Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by zedegit: 1:38am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:

It is obvious she might be cheating. Noticed too that she has been calling him through normal calls and wassup calls frequently. The man calls her too and they flow well. The call records are just too glaring.


Where did you go wrong?

Do you give her attention? Chat with her, play with her, partner with her.

Be there for her. Share her world.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Hottdawgg: 1:40am On Apr 28, 2020
Voltz1987:
Dnt confront until u have substansive evidence... Be patient ur very close.

Meanwhile, the guy continues to collect
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by NiceMen: 1:49am On Apr 28, 2020
OriOko88:

How do one scan d barcode pls
just Google how to use to whatsapp for pc. U will find detailed explanation.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by zedegit: 2:02am On Apr 28, 2020
mechanics:
Since she has told you there is nothing between them, then why don't you believe your wife.

You must be a learner.

cheesy
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by zedegit: 2:10am On Apr 28, 2020
Ibechris2:
See how to call her to order,if u are sure of what u are saying send for their family members and request that u want to see them.

After summoning them,tell them that their daughter wants to kill u,tell them boldly that she is seeing another man and that anything that happens to u she will be held responsible.
Ensure u involve ur family members too.

If she is from a responsible family,just go and sleep them go scold am wan kill am. In fact,u will see how she will become calm headed and change her ways.

Are you married?
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by ikemesit4477: 2:11am On Apr 28, 2020
Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.
oga you be real FBI, I swear! grin
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by zedegit: 2:25am On Apr 28, 2020
Savager:
Broda don't worry I have the solution you seek. There is this app you need to download on your phone it's call WhatsApp web, but then there is dis particular one that can solve the problem. I saw it and my girlfriend I was wrongly suspecting was innocent. But you can only access the app when she is online. So most likely when you are at work just login knowing she is online and enjoy chats.

How does it work and do you setup.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by purplerope: 2:43am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Oga your wife is having an affair with that man

You don't need an Ifa priest to tell you

Activate voice recorder on her phone

All this crazy women sef

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by aujile(m): 3:18am On Apr 28, 2020
Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.
.
Baddest!

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by EgunMogaji2: 3:25am On Apr 28, 2020
Yes, she is. I didn’t read your epistle but the way.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Liberty4life: 3:28am On Apr 28, 2020
First of all, keep calm, copy out the man's number on her phone, buy a new line, then block the man's line on her phone, then save the new line you bought with the coded name she use to save the man's name, go out from the house chat her, call her "my love am missing u dearly, if she respond screenshot it otherwise she will delete the chat and you will not see her own side of the conversation again, if there is any hotel a bit far from your house ask her to come there pay for a room and give her the room number, and tell her that you're missing her dearly, u might catch a rat red handed, meanwhile don't forget to block the man on her WhatsApp too
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by oloboojo(m): 3:30am On Apr 28, 2020
sad[quote author=Stephenomozzy post=88881803]It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"
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Intelligent and mature opinion above, Op act along this line.

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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by Island01: 3:36am On Apr 28, 2020
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Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by SirMichael1: 3:47am On Apr 28, 2020
OdefaGirl:
Sir..... I will advise you to trust your partner and stop being paranoid.......see ehh, what women go through to make sure they keep that love for their hubbies is too much....... you will hear a woman tell you 'Oga I'm married' and his response will be...'I'm married too, we can tango well'......... keep loving your woman and she will reciprocate.....no doubt, the man might be wooing her.... but she shouldn't be giving him green lights unless she just wanna be naughty and play a bit.....all the same, women reciprocate hubby's love ...a lot.

But if you wanna be free from mistrust, just quietly tell her to stop flirting with the man before it becomes something else.

Modified: You alone know what you want in your home, peace or problem of trust?
We won't be there......

Modified 2: Op, sorry ok..... your head go full and scatter, shebi you carry your marriage, no be boyfriend and girlfriend matter come here...... what were you thinking, huh?
Oya see comments read, since you didn't know what to do or who to privately confide in.....
Ntoorr!!!! shocked shocked
From the beginning of your comment, you sounded like one who has wisdom and after I read the 'modified 2', I knew for sure that you were beyond saving.
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by shineeye1: 3:54am On Apr 28, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.


If only you knew the definition of Wife, you would not be here blabbing that you have one!
Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by centboy123456(m): 4:20am On Apr 28, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Can you swear you've never cheated on your wife before? If you have you need to shut up and take several seats. Karma is just dealing with you.

women are evil I swear

is this all you have to say oh I see just because it woman I bet if it was a man you won't say such a thing

I feel sorry for the man that will marry you

na your type day kill man

and I pray you don't see any man to marry u

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