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I doubt this story but if it is true then u are a big fool for placing a side chick above ur wifey. Mtchew

Mehn op, you really married an inestimable woman as a wife with fear of God.
Also, your damn lucky to be alive and typing this right now.Gosh, your kind of wife is very rare seriously.

To gain her trust and love back, just start all over again. Firstly, please beg God almighty for forgiveness and pray your wife finds it well within her to forgive you. Appease your wife and children in every way possible to forgive you.

Most men like you never survive to narrate such tales.

Congratulation once again, for retracting yourself from total destruction. You are very luck to be alive

Ode le Omo , opada wale


Even though she forgive you, God ll judge you accordingly.


I hate whoever that ll give you any advice here

[quote author=excanny post=89060962]You did the right time going for the side chick but ur mistake was being a MUGU for her and giving her money.

Wrong move. No woman deserves ur hard earned money.
Spend it on your children.

Just move on and get another great side chick. Never beg any woman in ur life. It's condescending.[/quot

The dirtiest and ugliest rat in mushin has more honour and sense than U...

Hathor5:
So you remembered you want your wife's heart back after the lil girl played you? A lil bit too late, don't you think? It's one thing to make a mistake, regret it and apologize and another to come back after you had no more options. I would like to ask your wife why she stayed with you through it all.

she stayed back because of her children

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

When is this Nigerian movie going to be released?

I almost fell in this same situation but close friends helped me get my track back , they are reading this thanks to you all.... Bro beg your wife the way you need to ..

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Hathor5:
So you remembered you want your wife's heart back after the lil girl played you? A lil bit too late, don't you think? It's one thing to make a mistake, regret it and apologize and another to come back after you had no more options. I would like to ask your wife why she stayed with you through it all.

1. If the prodigal hadn't finished all he screwed out of his father, would he have remembered home? Yet he was forgiven.
2. If life had not given you tough times, would you have remembered God? Yet you are forgiven.
Something has brought him home, go to your wife ask her for forgiveness, cry to God. He will seal your marriage.
David did worse thing, killed the man and took his wife. But God called him A MAN AFTER MY HEART. God can heal the wounds and give your family peace again.
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jaxxy:
I not even bashing him for cheating, alot often cheat bt abandoning ur family i will bash u hard. It's a terrible and irresponsible thing.

U now say u fell inlove with a gal outside who's only with u for ur money? Are u not the most stupid?

True talk bro
I knw men who chase other women but they neva let it get to kowing ther parants and abandoning their 0wn family.

Sarah20A:
your wife and children has given up on you you're wicked and evil and you're among the people that will say Nigeria government are bad


There's nothing you'll do that will heal their emotional trauma especially the children







After you'll be praying for heaven






You're such a wicked soul and that your side chick will never know no peace. She'll experience double of what she did to your wife

Wicked set of people who doesn't deserve forgiveness

. Ur mentioned me wrongly,,am not the OP...pls redirect ur mention ma

bukatyne:
Things happen.

If I tell us there is a wife who did joint mortgage with her husband on a house that he is the sole owner, will you believe?

Or that another wife does everything financial in the house while the husband earns way more than her.

Or someone that gives her jobless husband money to carry girls nko?

Or a family that they are trying for kids and the husband is not sleeping with the wife?

Or a husband that throws a birthday bash for his side chic in front of his matrimonial home a week after telling the wife that he doesn't have his children fees?

Or the husband that takes the soup his wife cooked to his side chic's house?

Or the one that buys underwear and share it between wife & side chic in the wife's presence?

Or the one that buys pepper soup back home after he comes back home from runs?

Things happen.

Which is why I will keep telling younger women here: shine your eyes, shine your eyes.

Anybody that wants to quench should get ready.

Women, you choose: choose well.

@Bible: why do people think women in the Bible 'suffered' or maltreated?

Which wife married to a godly man suffered in the Bible?

Your right alot of this happens daily among some irresponsible lack of contentment husband/wives or singles. You will find out at the end such unlucky men or women don't survive for long.

You are pure devil op beside you are not ready to change, you just want to win your wife back because you lose your sidechick beside you better thank your wife that she didn't poison you. Foolish idiot. You are a disgrace to manhood.

Start by calling a family meeting and apologise in front of your friends and relatives that knew about your escapades.. it won't be easy but that's a good start to show your resolve

Braindealer:
True talk bro
I knw men who chase other women but they neva let it get to kowing ther parants and abandoning their 0wn family.

That's what sharp guys do. This guy messed up. The lady has now gone with who she loves or can fool and marry. It's a wake up call. He shud have enjoyed himself and kept his family priority atleast. Nobody is a saint.

O man you dont need advice but slap.

Who believes and brings these frivolous stories to the front page?

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

I Thankgod for this karma

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

it's possible, have seen someone like this so I can't doubt the Op

The side chick juju don clear for eyes now .i wonder while some men are dumbass if you have used all the time and money you invested on that side chick on your wife and children i guess you will have been better off ..if am your child no matter what you do to me to gain my love back i will still don't forgive you

foyeks2001:
Do you know I'm actually crying now cos I have just been reminded of my childhood.
It was terrible bro.

Sorry bro
Am also a victim
My father nt jst chases women.
He does it in front of his children,
Doent crare abt the welfare of his children despite all the money he has,
And even when we decide to ignore him and make ends meet, he would look for one or two problems to make.
Have ur own dad arrested u jst 4 little things?

Tadeknkeepcalm:
I can't imagine the kind of depression your wife is going through.
It's not like you actually realised your wrongdoings, it's because you were jilted by your side chick that's why you're here crying.

If he finds another another girls again , he will still do the same thing

as I was reading through, am already kabashing in my spirit

all I can say in my prayer is that God, pls don't let me fall in wrong hand

Sir, u are a definition of wrong hand .
Yoruba call it "Ashife oko"
u are a complete mistake and a disappointment to men

chai, u did all this , God will definitely punish you
you shall not go Scott free.
wait, were u cursed? who used ur dick to curse u?

when u are young and they ask u to receive Jesus, u will not allow.
look at how ordinary woman wasted ur life, time, money and reduced u to nothing

am ashamed u are someone father
I pity ur wife a lot . to her, u are a dead husband .

anyway, welcome back, shameless old fool. oponu aye rada

my advise
1. repent genuinely. make up ur mind to change
2. beg ur wife, beg her, hummmmm beg her until she cries her mind out
3. never let it repeat itself. die to flesh ... u are not the only man on Earth. caution ur dick.
4. invest on ur wife now and children. be responsible. because u have already wasted a better part of ur life on side chick. use the reminant for God and ur family. if u like let evil girls continue using ur life to test charm.
5. serve God . because even God almost gave up on u

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Start by taking 2 bottles of sniper. It will help your family get rid of the problem

jaxxy:
That's what sharp guys do. This guy messed up. The lady has now gone with who she loves or can fool and marry. It's a wake up call. He shud have enjoyed himself and kept his family priority atleast. Nobody is a saint.

True talk
Men should neva let a temporal p_ssy he gets outside affect his parmanent and future (family).

Na better vegetable you chop ,....nothing like WIFE ,no matter how e sweet ,....wetin sweet go bitter too

forget that thing

the poster is now broke or out of money to please the side chick and the side chick has abandoned him for another. he only remembered his wife because he is broke. believe you me, if money enter him hand he will go back to that side chick

no advice to be given here. serves you right.




meanwhile...

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Story for the gods lies!

Ayomideayo:
Jesus Christ

His children are even living with us now because of the stupidity of their father. This is someone that retired as a manager in central bank . He couldn't even sponsor his own children in school but he is sponsoring his girlfriend's brothers education abroad. He beats his wife(my aunt) but she has been baring this act for over 20 years . Like I said it was recently we delivered our aunt. My dear with my experience such people should never be forgiven . Anyway his children are cooking up plan to suffer him in his old age. I know the op's children have already kicked up plan to suffer him . I will definitely subscribe to it. Useless man !!!

Poor woman.
Things like this make me really scared of marriage.
See the kain hell women are facing in marriage,and some people will still say marriage benefits only women.


God airpuss ooo

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

The story is true.
Nigerian women can tolerate anything n everything just to remain married.
That's why Nigerian men maltreat their wives.
They know their wives will be fasting and praying..and will welcome them back las las.

People will even blame women when their husbands cheat ,when they are beaten up.
The wife is always at fault.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

I cried reading this story. I am sorry to say this, but you are wicked sir. I don't know how to advise you.