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lesson learnt, be fair and be good to everyone around you irrespective of who they are, cos Las las, life has a way of paying you back for your deeds. karma is real, no sinner will go unpunished. but she will definitely forgive you.

SpartanJ:
Hmmmmmm

Am going to share this with some people.

No side chick is worth it. Believe me all the sweet banging, blow jobs, doggy, hand jobs, sweet pussy thoughts, best sex ever blah blah blah are all for the money and nothing else, that thing you called love was just Lust. She only liked your money and your dick. She had planned it with her family all along - She already knew when she would pull out of the relationship.

Some men were given the grace to discover, come to their senses and retrace their steps early probably because of a praying wife, children or family or God's plan as a good destiny child.

It's a pity you have spent so much time and money on the side chick, at the detriment of your wife and kids.

Please move closer to your kids now, gain their trust first. Make them happy, Use the kids to get back fully to their Mum before its too late. She will surely smile when she sees their happiness and love towards you. Please the moment the kids clock 16 or step out to go to higher institution without you engaging them early enough...Sir you are a gonna even if you spend your money lavishly on them.

Pray for forgiveness, Pray together with her and the kids. Try everything possible to make her young in heart again. Seek for grace from God

You still have the grace to redeem yourself now, what if they have all graduated and have been employed by good companies, travelled overseas doing great or have even become entrepreneurs before realising your mistake with your side chick....Sir you would have lost both your kids and their mum completely forever.

God be with you Sir.
Amen


However if you mistakenly go back to your old ways.. that's it... You will be completely screwed for life. No be swear o!

Guys let me put this here.


Just learnt this from my wife now.

A woman that has similar experience just sold 2 of her husband's houses here in Lagos. The house documents were accessible by her......The husband had rented an apartment for his side chick, then later married her lavishly late last year.

If not for the Covid Pandemic and lock down, She and the kids would have been in Canada by now.
Everything has been sorted.

Since early this year, the man has been begging the lady for forgiveness as his business has been going down since he got married to his side chick.

Things are happening. Some women can't be toiled with.

This is a lesson for all men.

No side chick's pussy is worth it to the extent you even slightly ignore your family.

Arthur21, I deeply apologise. Some women are stupid. Why did Op's wife stay through all the BS?

YOU WILL NEVER FIND Martinez39 Greatresearcher1 or Kennedyiheme02 in threads like this

you really fu*k up. you are a disgrace to fatherhood. your wife might forgive but the children you have to put more effort

Ask for forgiveness and show her real love.

Ask for forgiveness and show her real love

Just take her out to a nice place and ask for her forgiveness, she's really a wife to fight for, the God Almighty really stood by her and fought for her, that's why she was not bothered of your actions.

RTSC:
Get your wife gifts.

Go to the market and get expensive lace, Ankara and jewellery.

The money you have is no longer yours until you have your wife back.

buy her a land and a house

Hey OP!
I'm not here to condemn you but the truth is, you deserv serious beating chief.. The fact that no one forced u to dump this trash here.. Yo 're truly repented and deserv a second chance. It's better late than never! So go home and sin no more..
But like say ur olosho still gee u kpekus chop u for no get sense eeh?? LoL

LilMissFavvy:
Fake story, only a maddd woman would tolerate all this. Because a woman with brain who should experience half of this, is supposed to divorce you or gang up with her children and make life miserable for you, till you develop high BP. Is it now that you are an old man that your wife should accept you back? After you have wasted your years and youth on side chicks? You should be abandoned to loneliness in old age, you should be chased out of that house, Nigeria is a terrible country for a woman to marry into.

Some women are going thru worse
And are still With their husbands

Trust me

Mheennnn, I am seriously angry right now. How could you treat your wife in this manner. I pray you suffer for your deed. I am sorry to say this to you sir, you are so heartless and cruel.

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

So you came here to tell us this foolish story of how pathetic your life has been for us to sympathize with you ? After putting your humble wife and mother of your children through months if not years of psychological torture and depression.....Seun and his moderators...ur lame stories are begining to disgust us here

olabrinks:
When I see what some women go through in the name of being a wife, I thank God for my life. God forbid bad thing.

The only reason why you’re going back to your wife is because your side chick has failed you. You are a disgrace please. Your wife will have the last laugh in Jesus name. God will heal her wounds and place her above all her enemies.

Yes, she may forgive you, but you must definitely face the consequences for your actions.

AMEN!!!

Mtchew! It's a pity! Tueh! You messed up big time. With your write up you not going back because you love her but because you were dumped by your so called girl friend. So what if your girl frind comes back or you find another girlfriend what happens to your wife. Guy fear God ooo, Your wickness is out of this world! Satan will be afraid of you in hell.,

You must triple all you did to your side chick to your wife and children. Take them on family vacation, go and take a fresh vow with your wife and remarry her again. You must sign an agreement with her that such silly act won't repeat itself again.

iammolise:
Let me answer that on her behalf... FINANCIAL SECURITY; financial security can make a woman stay with the devil himself. The only exception to my opinion is if the woman's family is only as wealthy or wealthier than the husband then she could always run back to her rich daddy after every fight, but when she from poor house and the husband was like a kind of Messiah that elevated the family through her... Her ghost will still stay even if he kills her.

LOL @the last sentence even though it is very sad that people have to go through such hardship.

janettee:
Your wife don't deserve you.

Or he doesn't deserve his wife.

You're dead to her that's why she doesn't react.

djon78:
Irrespective of what these men did. Children holding grudges and unforgiveness against them, always sets up a pattern.

Irrespective of whatever is done. Forgiveness is still the key.
Joyce Meyer the American preacher was sexually abused by her father for years as a child. It affected her growing up

But when she was grown she had no option but forgave him. She even bought a house for him way before he died.

Holding grudges against a parent for a justified wrong has its own reward.
In spite of whatever done, forgiveness must be given.

If Joseph didn't forgive his brothers that sold him as a slave to Egypt. There was no way he would have achieved his success.
Not offering forgiveness stops people from reaching and attaining greater heights in life. It brings serious limitations and setbacks.

After you experience it kindly come to me to preach forgiveness. You think it is easy bah .

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

Did you ask for help when you started with your side chick and was feeling like a don

A child was walking on the road one day, he saw a tuber of yam. He picked it up, got home and called for a family meeting. At the meeting he told everyone from henceforth everyone will be cooking their own meals.....

He had so forgotten how he fed and was kept alive prior to picking the yam!!!

The only reason you are going back to your wife is because you had been rejected by your side chick...

The good book says do onto others as you would have them do onto you...karma is a b*tch!!!

Tales by moonlight

Dis man doesn't know what he did yet, u may tink d kids doesn't know wats going on wait til your old age, na dere u go know say umbrella wey u carry for hand na load wen rain stop to dey fall.
Keep flexing your womanizing habit, keep rocking yr side chick.

Sad situation but it wasn't like you realized you were wring and remorseful, it is simply because you got played by the other girl. From what you wrote, your wife appeared to be a gentle soul who respects and held you in high esteem . You on the other hand, sound like a heartless and barbaric bully of a man . I really feel bad for her and your kids because the mental anguish you inflicted on them. The physical pain is bearable, it is the mental aspect that is cruel because she probably thinks all those things you did to her are just marital trials she has to put up with and now she has little to no self worth left (chai, the heart of men is wicked) Here is what you can do for her and your kids if you are really remorseful. Get a good life insurance policy, name your wife and kids the beneficiary. Make sure the policy is effective immediately and no vesting period. Now get in your car and find a very tall bridge and jump into water underneath. Or you can just get a bottle of sniper and drink that. That is the best you can do for your wife and family at this point because there is high probability that if another younger girl comes along, you 'll do the same thing again.

Kingsleyyx:
Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

What happened was that the jazz cleared from your eyes

Healing takes time. Trust is the biggest thing you have lost and it would take alot to gain back from your family. With that will come the love. Get the STD tests done too.

But I fear for you. When a woman is not reacting there is something likely up her sleeves. You need to bring senior members of your family and convene with members of her family in a reconciliatory meeting and apologise to her and her family. That will mark the beginning of your redemption

Kingsleyyx:
I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim.

What happened is that the jazz cleared from your eyes.

Ur wife is calm nd cool... most women would av poison ur fucking ass off the grid.... Anyway, let me be frank with u, it isn't abt ur wife bt abt ur kids... time will tell wen ur kids grow up to adult stage..... jst sit bk nd relax, watch where it all gonna end.. No matter what you do to win ur wife back, you will pay for it. SUCH IS NATURE BRO

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

U ARE A MUMU MAN

This man all I have to tell u is that u are a wicked soul and my God will surely judge u for all the pains u caused that innocent woman..U will never go unpunished.�

You know whatSide chick have succeeded in building her life thru you,while u destroy yours.Sorry na ur middle name uncle because u go hear pepper.Your story should serve as a lesson to other men who think the world revolves around them,making life miserable for the woman u call ur wife because of side chick.last last u will still run back to dat abandoned woman.make una use una brain o because most men dey suffer for old age.

Ayomideayo:
I doubt this story joor...u mean u did all that to her and she's still with you

LET JUST BELIEVE ITS TRUE .

Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.

���� you are very wicked and heartless, I pray God should reward you accordingly.