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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by paul100(m): 1:59pm On May 19, 2020
GeneralPula:


Girl stop playing yourself. At 50, a man can still get any bleeping woman he want. Be it a virgin or teen. It’s men’s world. Just have money and the rest would be falling into place!

The older a man get, the more competition he becomes in women’s world. The older women get, the less competition she comes in men’s world.

That’s why you’ll see most ladies wanting to get married before time goes.
She never said he will not get girl to Bleep.She said the girls the man want are just there for the money and a time will come that the man will not have time or energy for sex again and then it will be too last.At 75 maybe,he will be alone sitting in a big house looking at himself in the mirror.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 2:15pm On May 19, 2020
sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.

Nope, it is all about equality.

There must be an equal playing field. The days of housewives are over. Shebi women want equal rights? Well, let's see what you're bringing to the table. I bring mine, you bring yours, we compare, God nor vex.

No more liability women allowed. I'm an advocate for equal rights. And lefts cheesy

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 2:19pm On May 19, 2020
paul100:

She never said he will not get girl to Bleep.She said the girls the man want are just there for the money and a time will come that the man will not have time or energy for sex again and then it will be too last.At 75 maybe,he will be alone sitting in a big house looking at himself in the mirror.

Being single does not equate loneliness and being married does not equate companionship.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sexylassie2(f): 2:30pm On May 19, 2020
pDudd:


Nope, it is all about equality.

There must be an equal playing field. The days of housewives are over. Shebi women want equal rights? Well, let's see what you're bringing to the table. I bring mine, you bring yours, we compare, God nor vex.

No more liability women allowed. I'm an advocate for equal rights. And lefts cheesy

Anyway, if you want equal right be ready to give me my right to take the decisions on all issues when I earn more money than you.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 2:34pm On May 19, 2020
sexylassie2:


Anyway, if you want equal right be ready to give me my right to take the decisions on all issues when I earn more money than you.

Exactly. No problem with that.

No more slave and master relationships. We are all equal and must play by the same equal rules.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:42pm On May 19, 2020
Sharrap abeg
Oya go to the US and marry a foreigner... if you can lmao
Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 2:43pm On May 19, 2020
Well that has some truth in it
And the biggest mistake any girl can make is to marry a broke man, which 75% of all naija guys fall into
Sad
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Corruptnation: 2:48pm On May 19, 2020
Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..

The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.
na the biggest mistake I swear!

Poverty mentality don chop our women brain finish.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sexylassie2(f): 2:55pm On May 19, 2020
pDudd:


Exactly. No problem with that.

No more slave and master relationships. We are all equal and must play by the same equal rules.

I hope you can handle the humiliation when she over rides you and I hope your ego will be intact and hate won't be the order of the day.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 19, 2020
sexylassie2:


I hope you can handle the humiliation when she over rides you and I hope your ego will be intact and hate won't be the order of the day.

Yes, so far as equal rights is being observed. My ego is secondary. Equal rights is primary.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sexylassie2(f): 3:06pm On May 19, 2020
pDudd:


Yes, so far as equal rights is being observed. My ego is secondary. Equal rights is primary.

Good, you are in America? right? Go practice your equal right there.

Me, I love been traditional here.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by angelfallz(m): 3:06pm On May 19, 2020
Weebo:

The sources are skewed to favour feminism.

I'm aware, I just want to read what her source say

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Barristter07: 3:11pm On May 19, 2020
Helios85447:
at least they are in it for his wallet and he is having his fun driving them like okada on the bed so its a win win ......just live a happy life ooo but that is why pple prefer to do baby mama stuff this generation don spoil no be small
So because a man who is not married according to you can sex with different women with his money means he is enjoying than his married counterparts ?


Why do y'all think You win when a lady collects your money but gives u sex ? According to you the man won because the ladies ended up on his bed, Question is: That sex , is it Only the man that enjoyed it ?

You lots are the losers , You used your energy to please her sexually and Still ended up giving her all your Wallet.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 3:13pm On May 19, 2020
angelfallz:


I'm aware, I just want to read what her source say
The article screams feminism, it is basically saying MEN are happier married because men are pathetic without women.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Barristter07: 3:14pm On May 19, 2020
Michelle55:

That's not the biggest mistake huncle..
What if she's working and not supporting the home front in any way?
What if all the responsibilities still falls on you as the man despite having a working class wife?

What if she doesn't encourage nor inspires you to soar higher than you were before ?
What if she doesn't give you the maximum peace of mind you deserve as a man?
What if all she does is spend all her earnings on herself, buying the latest bags and clothes and attending high societal functions and not caring to acknowledge your presence in her life?
Trust me, there's a lot to marriage than meets the eyes.
Just ask your maker for direction when you want to settle down.
She might be working yet feels entitled to your money..
Marriage is 50/50... All hands must be on deck to ensure the smooth sailing of the homefront.

For the bold, You are wise .

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by X0012(m): 3:14pm On May 19, 2020
Fasten your seat belt bro.
Get ready for child support and lots of baby mamas drama,
Except you don't want kids too.



Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a huge favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Nobody: 3:19pm On May 19, 2020
sexylassie2:


Good, you are in America? right? Go practice your equal right there.

Me, I love been traditional here.

Hahahahahahaha. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Anthem of broke females. They want to be taken care of without bringing anything to the table and term it as traditional. tongue

Thunder faya traditional there. cheesy

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by sexylassie2(f): 3:23pm On May 19, 2020
pDudd:


Hahahahahahaha. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Anthem of broke females. They want to be taken care of without bringing anything to the table and term it as traditional. tongue

Thunder faya traditional there. cheesy

I have nothing to offer, if you have nothing to offer, shift one side...abeg no time for argument.

This one want a Ferrari with pegeout money.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Akinbahm(m): 3:25pm On May 19, 2020
Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

The biggest mistake in marriage for both party now is to marry who doesn't give him/her peace of mind irrespective of what both brings to the table...

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Corruptnation: 3:29pm On May 19, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a huge favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Edavi234: 4:08pm On May 19, 2020
You must be a lover of big gbola..

Money - good
Big gbola - good -- else girls like you would still end up with his gate man.

kiss
ellapius:
the kissbiggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Edavi234: 4:10pm On May 19, 2020
Please help me ask the big gbola girl ooo

Nnaabros:


How can YOU possibly marry him when he's not ready to marry you?

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Davash222(m): 4:14pm On May 19, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Sharrap abeg
Oya go to the US and marry a foreigner... if you can lmao
Fear no dey your body again, this girl.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 4:15pm On May 19, 2020
fear for which thing?
Davash222:

Fear no dey your body again, this girl.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Davash222(m): 4:16pm On May 19, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
fear for which thing?
I go soon cripple you.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by johnjohnson(m): 4:16pm On May 19, 2020
Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage grin

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a huge favor by marrying them. grin

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!! cheesy


You deserve a very chilled bottle of beer, you just spoke my mind ���

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 4:17pm On May 19, 2020
where will u get the strength when I doubt you have even chopped today
Davash222:

I go soon cripple you.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Davash222(m): 4:21pm On May 19, 2020
LadyGCrueDKilaB:
where will u get the strength when I doubt you have even chopped today
I don't even need to eat to deal with you.
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by FGonline: 4:28pm On May 19, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:

Married men and mortality
A major survey of 127,545 American adults found that married men are healthier than men who were never married or whose marriages ended in divorce or widowhood. Men who have marital partners also live longer than men without spouses; men who marry after age 25 get more protection than those who tie the knot at a younger age, and the longer a man stays married, the greater his survival advantage over his unmarried peers. But is marriage itself responsible for better health and longer life?

Although it's hard to be sure, marriage seems to deserve at least part of the credit. Some have argued that self-selection would skew the results if healthy men are more likely to marry than men with health problems. But research shows the reverse is true: unhealthy men actually marry earlier, are less likely to divorce, and are more likely to remarry following divorce or bereavement than healthy men.

Another potential factor is loneliness; is the institution of marriage linked to better health, or is it simply a question of living with another person? Although studies vary, the answer seems to be a little of both. People living with unmarried partners tend to fare better than those living alone, but men living with their wives have the best health of all.

Numerous studies conducted over the past 150 years suggest that marriage is good for health. More recently, scientists have begun to understand why married men enjoy better health than their single, divorced, and widowed peers. But before we turn to the why, let's look at how marriage affects specific diseases, including America's leading killers, cardiovascular disease and cancer.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by FGonline: 4:37pm On May 19, 2020
luvlyADESUWA:


My brother, you might be typing this out of frustration, but i tell you "it's very good to marry, it sweeter when u marry a good woman" It is BEST when both of you are working and contributing to the home.

The end shall tell, old age is NOT what any man prays to live without a wife by his side...
#fact
that was during our mothers time,not today .

#is ur opinion anyway


Xpt if u are poor or average but bro if u are extremely rich.....marriage is not a must then.

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Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by FGonline: 4:38pm On May 19, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:


I have seen these professional bachelors, trust me they are lonely, there is only so much women you can sleep with and then one day, you wake up, 60 and alone with no legacy. Having baby mamas is punishment for your children and subjecting them to a bad start in life. There are single parents who are that against their will but to actively want to be a single parent is selfish.
thy are not as rich as thy suppose
Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Guy by Angelacruz: 5:25pm On May 19, 2020
Weird thread

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