Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

I think I should stop reading comments at this juncture

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

May God bless you with long life and anything you have ever desired in life for this comment! So APT!!

TheArchangel:
You know nothing John Snow.
A man speaking for a woman is what I detest the most. Stick with your men's point of view and preferences please.

In the modern world, being financially independent devoid of marital hassles is the greatest thing ever for women. With it, you have the choice of having kids without any man tagging along. Women can always juggle their careers and kids without the baggage and dramas a man brings.

Marriage has never favored women from time immemorial. It has always been a man that seeks out or asks a woman to marry him never the other way round. Have you ever asked why?

Why? The guys are being wired to take the lead and protect from the time immemorial....the fact that ladies are known as a weaker vessel is enough for them to thread lifestyle with caution...

There are a lot of feminists ladies on this platform who believe men and women have equal rights in marriage. So, how will equal rights favor one gender more than the other?

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

I think you are wrong. The fact remains that most single old ladies are very irritable unlike their male counterparts. Old single men are fun to be with.

Old single ladies are extremely desperate for love and attention unlike their male counterparts and that is why they are vulnerable to be scammed than the male counterparts.

Also statistics has shown that married men are prone to committing suicide more than single men.

Marriage in the short and long run benefit the women most because by nature they are supposed to be taken care of by their husband (other things being equal) and in the long run by their children who will naturally want to show them love and attention as mothers more than their fathers.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

my stomach oo ..see as I won turn laugh to cry

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xendra:
this small boy with round face, begging for #200 mtn card on nairaland I know you have no life outside here enjoy

you too small for me, keep masturbating on my moniker

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xendra:
meanwhile ebene.zer2o2o take this advice and stop living your life on NL begging for #200 mtn card and insulting women up n down


Don't forget to come back and thank me and IprintMoney

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xendra:
He insults women every chance he gets, he mentioned me on this thread, he even insults a girl for begging for #1000 while he was begging for #200 just a month before..... I just want to help him since he wants me to notice him


Dem no fit skin you for saying your mind, you no skin dem for their own.

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xendra:
and if you birth the children he baths and caters to them for the rest of his life. otherwise it can never be equal.

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You have not been to Thailand I see!!

Headlesschicken:
Real talk, cos at the end of the day her big ass or beauty or whatever the phuck else it was that made u marry her won't bring food to yuh table...

Marriage is much more than finance....

sexylassie2:
The biggest mistake a woman can make is marrying a man with no income.

The reality is most men want to eat their cake and have it, they want a traditional wife but cant carry the responsibility of marrying a traditional woman.

Shebi you are the man, why do you need a woman that works, aren't you guys the superior being.

The only reason why you need a working woman is to prey on her finance, to be realistic, only broke men want a working woman, a rich man wants a house wife.

Note: cry me a river, you won't get any reply from me.

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..
The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

white girl all the way

Gforce2015:



Why? The guys are being wired to take the lead and protect from the time immemorial....the fact that ladies are known as a weaker vessel is enough for them to thread lifestyle with caution...

There are a lot of feminists ladies on this platform who believe men and women have equal rights in marriage. So, how will equal rights favor one gender more than the other?

Men have always had this idea to be magnanimous and chivalrous towards women, and women has allowed it and has let it fester from inception. Same men are crying against feminism even though feminism is working towards recognising gender equality for both sex which will even favour men more than women especially in family institution.

Regardless, using single mothers and widows as an example, they have shown that it is possible for a woman to juggle their career, give birth, and raise their kids single-handedly.

Can a man get pregnant, give birth, nurture and raise kids while holding a career or a job?....in that order.

MelaninSkinGirl:


You want 50/50 contribution financially does that apply to house chores, cooking and taking care of the kids? It should be 50/50 in everything then if you want a working wife. Men and women in western countries share the chores and cooking because it is a 50/50 society where both partners work.

In Nigeria even if the woman works, she is still expected to do 100% of the house chores, look after the kids, cook and have se......x at the drop of a hat. Very unfair misognistic thinking.

I didn't say 50/50 financial contribution. Marry with a mindset to not rely 100% on your husband and see how those impediments will be taken care of.
A good husband should not be insensitive to the plight of her wife and so he must be willing to support the wife even where she doesn't work.
Even where she works, there are laws in place that accord privileges to married, pregnant or women that just put to bed.
A valid excuse for a woman not working should be because she cannot find a job and not because it is the husband's duty to work while she does the cooking, do the house chores and take care of the kids.
Even at that, she should not shut her eyes to been self employed by learning a trade. It is for the best of the family.

Ebenezer2O2O:
ass licker.
How many nairaland ladies have pm you now after you posted this?

please dot bring your frustration to me abeg.
abeg Xendra na who be this guy naaaa lol. bro take it easy with me abeg, i have been in your shoe before. send me ya akant

xendra:
He insults women every chance he gets, he mentioned me on this thread, he even insults a girl for begging for #1000 while he was begging for #200 just a month before..... I just want to help him since he wants me to notice him


Dem no fit skin you for saying your mind, you no skin dem for their own.

ok, i see where he is comng from. he don shift the frustration to me o

All these guys saying Nigerian girls are gold diggers don't know what gold diggers are.
A Nigerian girl gets into a conversation with you and you can tell instantly whether she is in for your money or not.
But in Europe and America, a gold digger comes into your life and showers you with excess love, and gives you children. You give her a share in your will or you start running broke and boom she starts planning divorce or even plans to kill you.

My brothers Nigerian girls are not gold diggers, ask european footballers/stars why they aren't married.

As for the people talking about what we are both bringing to the table, lemme just not shake that table tonight.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

When I tell my fellow guys this, I come off as being wierd, lol

I want kids quite alright, but marriage I am not sure about that as I haven't seen any benefits from it

Especially those once called Obiagheli, run wen u see them

Jezking:
All these guys saying Nigerian girls are gold diggers don't know what gold diggers are.
A Nigerian girl gets into a conversation with you and you can tell instantly whether she is in for your money or not.
But in Europe and America, a gold digger comes into your life and showers you with excess love, and gives you children. You give her a share in your will or you start running broke and boom she starts planning divorce or even plans to kill you.

My brothers Nigerian girls are not gold diggers, ask european footballers/stars why they aren't married.

As for the people talking about what we are both bringing to the table, lemme just not shake that table tonight.

Bro u wrong, Nigeria gold digger will not even come into your life but stay at the corridor and pretend that she loves you only to milk you dry and render the person useless if they are merciful

PastorFire:
I will take your challenge if you have money. Let's pick a random guy or lady asking for help here & start with a transfer of 30k each..Oya, make a pick. I'm waiting

200k

Holumhidey:

You make little or no sense

ur mind is too shallow to comprehend the matter so go home go back to mama

temptnow:


You sound like someone who has done mistake in marriage.

Mr sound engineer

pDudd:


I have been presented with the opportunity in the past. I chopped her and cleaned mouth. I nor dey carry last. I collected my share and kept it moving.

Congratulations dog

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

correct

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

gbaa gbos gbos, wisdom kee you!!

Futurejoy:

Congratulations dog

Thanks

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

If you are not a shameless, morally dirty, undignified prostitute chasing after big gbola, no man will be able to deceive you with one.

The greatest mistake for me would be for a guy to marry any lady out of pity just to 'save' her from single hood due to her being working class and old age! My 2cents

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

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ojasweb:
My wife has not been working since we got married 3 years ago. I don't have any problem with that. However she was to start a business around April this year, but i had to stop her due to COVID19. Prevention is better than cure.
The most important thing, for me, is whether you can take care of your home or not.
And in addition, having a mature and understanding wife.
Am not talking about Twitter and Instagram wives.

Married for only 3 years pe re! You are here talking like a marriage don. I dey laugh you

Oga come back and talk after 20 years and 4 children.

Mandela27:
God created the man for the woman and the woman for the man.
Its necessary to get married and have kids as per heir to ur name.
Only a psycho and a mentally derainghed man will be okay with fucking multiple girls all his life without thinking of having a family of his own!

We should only wish to prosper so that we can take good care of our families and share the family love.
I'M A MAN AND I WANT TO HAVE A VERY PRETTY WIFE AND RAISE BEAUTIFUL KIDS AND HAVE A HAPPY HOME.

Oga, please remember each one to his own. You've stated what you believe and your preference, Good!

Let others make their own choice. As for me I love to avoid stress and do like new ladies. I will do until I die!

lincs25:
You are on point. I am in the shoe though we are not married but i do her virtually every thing the moment I slack it turns insult. I want to backout.

You need a slap? What are you waiting for?