₦airaland Forum

Richsquad:
Bro forget if u get money u wont be bothering if ur wife na working class or not..better get money o,so u like a girl madly but cos she is broke u cant marry her cos u dey fear liabilty?make money online even in the lockdown,yes its possible with the right info and tools,im rich already but money no dey ever do person so i keep getting and u can too,what i stand to gain from sharing my knowledge?more money from u ofcourse and what u stand to gain?wealth and financial freedom..Dare to dream it,dare to live it,if u no be man biko no just contact me,cos sometimes na our over born again dey keep us poor..

How much do you have?

ellapius:
200k

I know your type. Where is the person i asked you to provide and the account number?. Broke gurls claiming what they don't have. Let us open a thread to help na so the public will know who to boo. Shey u say.. U have money?

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

It's worse when they find excuse to drop their jobs after marriage.

AlhajaChinyere:
Married for only 3 years pe re! You are here talking like a marriage don. I dey laugh you

Oga come back and talk after 20 years and 4 children.

Your understanding is low. Did you read my post or your temper is controlling you.

Is there any part of my post that says women should not work?

The greatest Mistake for a guy is to marry a lady with same age group,this really kills a relationship where there wouldn't be understanding between the two partners..

Jezking:
All these guys saying Nigerian girls are gold diggers don't know what gold diggers are.
A Nigerian girl gets into a conversation with you and you can tell instantly whether she is in for your money or not.
But in Europe and America, a gold digger comes into your life and showers you with excess love, and gives you children. You give her a share in your will or you start running broke and boom she starts planning divorce or even plans to kill you.

My brothers Nigerian girls are not gold diggers, ask european footballers/stars why they aren't married.

As for the people talking about what we are both bringing to the table, lemme just not shake that table tonight.

Nobody (men) is getting married in Europe, not just footballers/stars. Only sissys and emotional men are doing it

Oluwaseunkuti:
The greatest Mistake for a guy is to marry a lady with same age group,this really kills a relationship where there wouldn't be understanding between the two partners..

Abeg, try to be in the same generation as your spouse . You guys would flow better

Obierika:
As a single guy in Nigeria who is about to select a wife the biggest mistake you could possibly make right now is to marry a lady who is either not working or is not earning any sort of income.

Do not ignore this warning if you plan to get married soon!

Please anybody that want to live a normal life and get married as a normal life shouldn't listen to this thread. There's no perfection anywhere!

AlhajaChinyere:
His problem was poverty not absence of marriage.

Sorry to dissapoint you he wasn't poor in fact the house he lived in was sold after his death for 20m in 2010.

Bostin:
Aunty did you just say Love or you want to say Money

Brother I said LOVE oo

Liposure:
which luv

LOVE na

ojasweb:
Your understanding is low. Did you read my post or your temper is controlling you.

Is there any part of my post that says women should not work?

Young lad, you are on the right track.

Best of luck.

cnonyechi:
LOVE na

luv is resting in peace

cnonyechi:
Sorry to dissapoint you he wasn't poor in fact the house he lived in was sold after his death for 20m in 2010.

Look around you Sister! Many married men are dying a worse death than your uncle. Your uncle did not die lonely, he died normally of old age and natural causes. He was not killed by lack of marriage.

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Best words of 2020.... look at the pros of being single vs being married and reach your decision

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

which yeye study is that? Married men are miserable....

ellapius:
the biggest mistake for a Nigerian girl is to marry a guy who is not ready to marry. a Bleep boy. a jobless Bleep boy who believes his big gbola is his selling point

A bleep boy will not even consider marriage in the first place.

unmask:
which yeye study is that? Married men are miserable....

And Married women are ecstatic?

sunkieisland:
A bleep boy will not even consider marriage in the first place.

they do ooo. most times the marriage is sponsored by their parents

PastorFire:
I know your type. Where is the person i asked you to provide and the account number?. Broke gurls claiming what they don't have. Let us open a thread to help na so the public will know who to boo. Shey u say.. U have money?

go ahead open the thread. 200k is it.

trutht828:
If you are not a shameless, morally dirty, undignified prostitute chasing after big gbola, no man will be able to deceive you with one.

you are pained go get ur self a therapist

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..
The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

How is that a mistake?

MelaninSkinGirl:
And Married women are ecstatic?

they are the ones that asked for it

MelaninSkinGirl:
Studies show married men are happier and live longer than their single/divorced/widowed counterparts. Single/Widowed/Divorced men are more depressed and suicidal than their married counterparts.

On the other hand, studies show that Single women live longer than their married counterparts, they also retain their figures and beauty longer than their married counterparts.

These studies show that the main benefactors of marriage is the Men. Make of that what you want!!!

Where are your citations? You can’t just post data without anything to back it up.

Naija246:
most of these studies are propaganda in disguise.
in the real world, married men are more depressed, work more and are generally unhappy.

They are also easier to manipulate by employers since they have more to loose if they don't bring home the bacon.
A singles man's needs aren't much so you can't really manipulate him to work himself to death contrast that with a father with 3 kids and a wife to feed, such men will jump through hoops just to provide for their family.

PragerU published a video four years ago that was obviously propaganda encouraging men to marry, the backlash they got wasn't funny at all.
Men are wising up!! Especially men from the western world


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtvfHnZMcOY

About 12 years ago, i predicted that 20 - 30 years down the line, marriage may start becoming obselete and some women/girls in my lodge then wanting to eat me raw... I wish i could see them with all these trends of people especially men sidelining marriages to tell them i told you so

ellapius:
you are pained go get ur self a therapist

You, the unreasonable, mentally blind, wannabe feminist with upside down idea of feminism is the one desperately in need of a therapist.

Most of us had something doing, but because of your egocentric nature u rather have us sit at home and baby sit your asses...now u come here talking about who is not working and who is...pls we don already enter d marriage, don't put ideas in people's head..let me dey my dey

Davash222:
That's not the biggest mistake..
The biggest mistake is to marry a Nigerian girl.

GBAM!

You mean when I'm ready to marry or what?

AlhajaChinyere:
Alaye, when you are ready you will give yourself peace of mind!

AlhajaChinyere:
Oga, please remember each one to his own. You've stated what you believe and your preference, Good!

Let others make their own choice. As for me I love to avoid stress and do like new ladies. I will do until I die!

Die without even a child?

Ebenezer2O2O:
Xendra would have come to this thread and comment nonsense and broke shame guys.
Thank God I dealt with her and ensured the mods banned that her tap mouth that runs carelessly

Same way I made your numerous accounts you use to bully people here banned. This will be banned a second time if you don't learn how to behave. No one caused your predicament so you can't take it out on anyone here. I'm watching you closely!!

trutht828:
You, the unreasonable, mentally blind, wannabe feminist with upside down idea of feminism is the one desperately in need of a therapist.

weak man so scared of a smart woman. all this ur name calling is it way of being man bah lol .... go get urself some ego or self respect u won't get it from me cos I are below my standard