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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Mywd: 11:06am On May 23, 2020
bonnyhope:


All the points are correct


He is very right...... And some are saying we have become wiser grin....... Many are now more foolish
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by ikorodureporta: 11:08am On May 23, 2020
Lack of funds for proper marriage, late marriage, poverty

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by dingbang(m): 11:09am On May 23, 2020
Racoon:
The world is changing but God's standard never change.
smart answer

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Topup7: 11:13am On May 23, 2020
tobechi20:
evolution. people are becoming wiser. premarital sex was rare because people get married as teenagers before. Now we have singles in thirties, premarital sex must happen

I dy with you. grin
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by faithfull18(f): 11:15am On May 23, 2020
infogenius:
Let me answer the op here.

1.The truth is that Iniquity abounds.

2. The fear of God is far from men.
3. Technology and the media have escalated it.
4. Poverty and poor parenting
5. Internet (free porn sites to view)
Just to mention a few
Thank you, a lot emulate what they see and what those they look up to do.

In movies, they make it look normal, yeyebrities do same etc. It's was just a matter of time besides it's part of the end time signs.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by keentola(m): 11:18am On May 23, 2020
Kobojunkie:

Wiser? According to a report I read not too long ago, wisdom is something we have not gotten more of in the last 150 years. People aren't wiser..
for the past few decades, average IQ has been increasing. so don't come here with a stupid report
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by djpaparazzi(f): 11:18am On May 23, 2020
Internet pornography plays a major role in this....
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by controlaltdeleat: 11:19am On May 23, 2020
Go and watch American gods and that might give you a clue about what's happening
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Okwyjesus(m): 11:20am On May 23, 2020
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

That's the societal decay Bro.
And some people will come here to justify and want to preach the bible the don't know more than you.

Outside that the BIBLE CONDEMNED IT. It is a societal decay and wrong. At 18, almost all young girls are already in relationship.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by jaxxy(m): 11:21am On May 23, 2020
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?

Civilization, exposure, lack of good values and principles, hypocrisy and pretense in passing down truth about sex education in a more exposed society.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by bonnyhope: 11:21am On May 23, 2020
rosy1992:
Civilization led to this situation. Technology Exposes youngsters to nudity, peer pressure is another factor, guys and ladies wants to feel among. The fact remains pre marital sex has done more harm than good.
Share with us ur experience
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by MATANDRE(m): 11:21am On May 23, 2020
grin[quote author=Joemetry post=89866720]

Because they're so many premarital responsibilities today.
Like, send me recharge card
I need money to eat.
I want Brazilian hair.
I want marykay
My pad is finished.
Help me with fuel money.
I need new pants
Buy me new ovaries
I new new lungs, etc... grin

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Nobody: 11:24am On May 23, 2020
see as supposedly Christians scramble about trying to justify immorality(dont know about Muslim's) .


yes times have changed but God is still the same today, yesterday and tomorrow

The moral decadence prevalent today is another sign of the end times -it isn't wisdom as some think

men would become lovers of flesh not of God

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Chuknovski(m): 11:26am On May 23, 2020
television and internet are major source of perversion
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by plaetton: 11:29am On May 23, 2020
Calabar1stSon:
Back in those days, parents would always advised their female daughters that talking to boy who get them pregnant.wink

Infact religious organizations preach against it even more but you find many of their members involved in the act.

Do you know even at 18 I still thought that kissing a girl would get her pregnant?cheesy

What went wrong with the society of today? Why is Pre-marital sex a norm in the society today?
Very silly question, in my opinion .
One might attempt to answer the question if the OP can cite any Free , Contemporary Society where pre-marital sex is not the norm, or tell us when , or during which generation premarital sex was not the norm.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by israelmao(m): 11:29am On May 23, 2020
It's simply because of indiscipline, lack of moral value and God's fear.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by PoshLines5: 11:33am On May 23, 2020
embarassed embarassed So many people don't know sex is a spiritual thing, it can affect one's Destiny, so many people that bleep girls anyhow, not knowing her background, they have 1 or 2 things missing from their lives, wealth, breakthrough, problemg arise, some women have poison in between their legs, as well as some men. so brethren be careful.
Also, you violate the 6th commandment (Thou shalt not commit Adultery) because you may not end up marrying your partner. Even if you marry your partner, no dignity involved, what do u want to gain on your wedding night, i mean a secret both partners should expose to their self is no more, THINK ABOUT IT, the world we live in now, it not easy to resist the temptation but with GOD on our side, we will overcome. Be careful if you want to make it in this life, that road (premarital and casual sex) has destroyed many niggas that are supposed to be successful. kiss embarassed embarassed So many people don't know sex is a spiritual thing, it can affect one's Destiny, so many people that bleep girls anyhow, not knowing her background, they have 1 or 2 things missing from their lives, wealth, breakthrough, problemg arise, some women have poison in between their legs, as well as some men. so brethren be careful.
Also, you violate the 6th commandment (Thou shalt not commit Adultery) because you may not end up marrying your partner. Even if you marry your partner, no dignity involved, what do u want to gain on your wedding night, i mean a secret both partners should expose to their self is no more, THINK ABOUT IT, the world we live in now, it not easy to resist the temptation but with GOD on our side, we will overcome. Be careful if you want to make it in this life, that road (premarital and casual sex) has destroyed many niggas that are supposed to be successful.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Angelacruz: 11:44am On May 23, 2020
Because our society made it so
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by naturefellow(m): 11:46am On May 23, 2020
Bacteriologist:
Whatever
happened in the past should stay there. So does sex automatically and suddenly become something sacred because of marriage (which is merely a certificate with two names and signature and few people invited to a feast)?,

The idea of premarital sex was to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancies and to guilt trip people into getting married before having sex. Unwanted pregnancies can be abolished by using contraceptives and adequate sexual education. And marriage in all sincerity has outlived it's usefulness.

So "premarital sex" doesn't have command much fear as it used to. And this may not change soon. Sorry.
sorry, your ideology is sadly mistaken
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by sonmvayina(m): 11:48am On May 23, 2020
God only gave us people we should never have sex with... Leviticus 16.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by andrewtosin(m): 11:49am On May 23, 2020
Ìbéèrè tó yę kóo bifá, o wá ń bi mí.

This one na jamb question and I don pass Jamb grin
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Rockyrascal(m): 11:51am On May 23, 2020
Fabulouzjoseph:
The world has changed. undecided

So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and they is easy access to information.

They is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.
exactly! Easy access to information, social media exposure too.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Sonicroyel: 11:52am On May 23, 2020
man gats fornicate na
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by koskilala: 11:52am On May 23, 2020
I think that's how it has always been, it's just that now the use of technology like internet and smartphones is exposing it out. imagine all you can do with a device like the camon 15 premier

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Bacteriologist(m): 11:55am On May 23, 2020
InyinyaAgbaOku:


STDs nko? Aside condoms, other contraceptives don't prevent them


People still contract STDs in post marital sex.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Bacteriologist(m): 11:56am On May 23, 2020
naturefellow:
sorry, your ideology is sadly mistaken


Fil me in on why.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by opribo(m): 11:57am On May 23, 2020
No fear of God and HIS wrath.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Mypeople2(m): 11:59am On May 23, 2020
IME1:
Supported
That was then o.Now both of them will sleep on the same bed,while the girl will be putting on the guy's knickers.., and she will tell you not to touch that both of you are having a godly relationship.
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by BreconHills(m): 12:00pm On May 23, 2020
Fabulouzjoseph:
The world has changed. undecided

So don't expect things to remain thesame. Kids are now smarter and they is easy access to information.

They is also contraceptive and birth control which is easily available so you can have sex without getting pregnant.

Are you sure you mean smarter? Your "they have easy access to information appears to qualify it, but 'smarter' is not accurate. You also seem to ascribe to the common idea that mankind is ascending knowledge wise rather than descending. I disagree. Knowledge that does create social justice, peace and protection of the planet is the same type of knowledge that a burglar or armed robber has.

My observation.

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Mavrick2012: 12:02pm On May 23, 2020
Racoon:
The world is changing but God's standard never change.
If only churches can preach less of money and more against iniquity
Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by Okoroawusa: 12:04pm On May 23, 2020
valentineuwakwe:
Because men has choosen to go after their own "gods"!
Since the beginning of the earth men have always gone after their own gods. Some would even kill you because of their own god or impose their own god on you n eradicate your knowledge of your own god

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Re: Why Has Pre-marital Sex Become A Norm In Our Society Today? by festwiz(m): 12:04pm On May 23, 2020
hopefulLandlord:


Life forks us all anyways
Lol. If you're born as a Nigerian in a low income home, you're pretty much f**ked from birth.

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