It's a loss on both sides


Nothing a simple/honest conversation can't solve, they both apologize and eat.. make-up Se..x is always lit

Even if I refuse to eat niggar I ain't gonna refuse sex

Jullima:

Lol okay. When you get married and you don’t eat your wife’s food for years and years come back and tell us how you fared?

If Nigerian wives can become hardened to an unrepentant cheating spouse, what is food?

You people think marriage is for small children?

Haha, when I get married?
When all my kids can speak French except the last born.

I

That's what they will tell you,
You think menopause age is just there for nothing.
And hey, I am not trying to take sides,
I am just telling you the truth in average amount.
You can be as hardened as you want to be,
It's ur marriage ma'am.
If your husband doesn't eat and u feel unconcerned,
I am no mediator there,
It's simply you will lie on ur bed as you lay it,
Cheers ma'am

Jullima:

Yea that’s why it’s effective in the beginning, but humans have their breaking point. It’s not a long lasting and effective solution to resolve issues in a marriage.

After a while the wife becomes hardened. Lol na today? Please.

Bluezy13:

Of course...

I will be happy that she doesn't care anymore because it will give me an opportunity to live like a bachelor which I have always longed for.
As long as she has given me children...very very important.
By the way, I am not yet married and I intend to have children out of wedlock.
Perhaps depending on family pressure, I might just get a woman to call my wife for the sake of peace.

Marriage is not for you bro, unless your wife is aware of this.

If he gets food and sex outside, it’s a win for him. These days that married men are getting more green light than single brothers? Wives don’t play with your husbands o. Unless you too are ready to share.

Lush100:
That's what they will tell you,
You think menopause age is just there for nothing.
And hey, I am not trying to take sides,
I am just telling you the truth in average amount.
You can be as hardened as you want to be,
It's ur marriage ma'am.
If your husband doesn't eat and u feel unconcerned,
I am no mediator there,
It's simply you will lie on ur bed as you lay it,
Cheers ma'am

This is going to be my last post on this thread, it’s starting to get ridiculous.

What has menopause got to do with not kowtowing to a an adult male that calls himself the head of a home childish solutions to a marital problem? I believe in communication and that’s how mature adults should handle their affairs.

It’s only a selfish man that will put his feelings above his family. How does not eating food resolve anything??

Why should I worry or care wether a grown man has refused to eat, is he a child?? He put himself in that position. When an adult decides to throw a tantrum like a toddler, the best is to ignore him. Lol we talking about men in their 30s and above, what kind of people are this?

SpicyMimi:

Marriage is not for you bro, unless your wife is aware of this.

I know that already.
But I don't know about the "wife" yet.

Bluezy13:


Responsibilities ke.

If you try it with me,
I will start cooking my food myself.
And pray you don't extend it for too long cos I may never eat your food again and take it as a way of life but we will still be husband and wife.
Once I take it as a new way of life, I'll be happy, but will you
I know how heartless I can get.
After all I grew up alone.

You right though, but the truth is if u get married to any of these 21st century ladies, o boy dem no send u oooooo . If u like enter kitchen Dey cook for ursef if u like join ur laundry with it wetin concern dem . So far she has her kids plus her job who ur sex n food epp?

Temhellen:

You right though, but the truth is if u get married to any of these 21st century ladies, o boy dem no send u oooooo . If u like enter kitchen Dey cook for ursef if u like join ur laundry with it wetin concern dem . So far she has her kids plus her job who ur sex n food epp?

Then we will be even.
Since we both want the same thing

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Jullima:

This is going to be my last post on this thread, it’s starting to get ridiculous.

What has menopause got to do with not kowtowing to a an adult male that calls himself the head of a home childish solutions to a marital problem? I believe in communication and that’s how mature adults should handle their affairs.

It’s only a selfish man that will put his feelings above his family. How does not eating food resolve anything??

Why should I worry or care wether a grown man has refused to eat, is he a child?? He put himself in that position. When an adult decides to throw a tantrum like a toddler, the best is to ignore him. Lol we talking about men in their 30s and above, what kind of people are this?

handling cases like matured couple is king...... Being hardened does Not help but in case its needed to teach a so called hardened wife a lesson, i dont jonze.... She will leave the house for me all by herself without me telling her to.......
Never chin chum chin

Women of these days will rat the food and even add more and still finish it. Wash the plates and sleep naked. Inside their mind they know the the person giving the punishment is dying inside.
My own be say if I jam husband wey want use that one on me, the moment he rejects my food, of my goodness, I will eat until the food start coming out of my nose. Then I will have a cool bath and sleep naked. If he doesn't touch me then no problem. I will not wear clothes again except I'm going outside. Will wear only sexy pants and bra. Will cook, clean and stay naked.
Who still bothers about husband rejecting food

AfroKnight:
If he gets food and sex outside, it’s a win for him. These days that married men are getting more green light than single brothers? Wives don’t play with your husbands o. Unless you too are ready to share.

rejecting food is the worst thing a man can do to his wife. But not women of this generation. They will even be happy. It will safe them the stress of cooking and as for the sex, the man will still come begging. Except he's a cheat

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Women of these days will rat the food and even add more and still finish it. Wash the plates and sleep naked. Inside their mind they know the the person giving the punishment is dying inside.
My own be say if I jam husband wey want use that one on me, the moment he rejects my food, of my goodness, I will eat until the food start coming out of my nose. Then I will have a cool bath and sleep naked. If he doesn't touch me then no problem. I will not wear clothes again except I'm going outside. Will wear only sexy pants and bra. Will cook, clean and stay naked.
Who still bothers about husband rejecting food

You wicked pass buhari

The punishment in the teaching is for the lady to think or know you are punishing them but;
If you reject their both food(sex and table food). It only sends one signal to them. And it is that you are having another woman that they dont know about.

So if you want to use these measure to punish a lady, you must have been a very responsible man with some almost deep pocket. Also, you must change your routine. If you use to return home by 6 Pm before change it to 8pm and make it obvious. It will augur well if you are not cheating on her at that time.

Women want attention and hate neglect. They are all afriad of rivalry no matter what. These measures will reset her brain. Yes for our elders, it worked for them perfectly well.

Why will I reject the food I paid for? That's a bad investment, I don't joke with my money, everything has to yield a profit. After eating the food sha, I'll just act like you don't even exist.

Dear ma'am, if my mention of menopause seem offensive,
I hereby apologize.
However let me state that menopause is not an offensive term, it is a biological term, and it's characterized by " uncertainty" in the life of women and I was using that to explain that women in that bracket age bracket would not be so much " hardened" as u may think.
The rest of the behavior a woman exhibit iat that stage is usually characterized by humility but familiarity which tends to overshadow the humility she display.
My wife did more than this to me ,
But now, she acts it but I know she what she does to get us bonding again.
Peace and one love,

Jullima:

This is going to be my last post on this thread, it’s starting to get ridiculous.

What has menopause got to do with not kowtowing to a an adult male that calls himself the head of a home childish solutions to a marital problem? I believe in communication and that’s how mature adults should handle their affairs.

It’s only a selfish man that will put his feelings above his family. How does not eating food resolve anything??

Why should I worry or care wether a grown man has refused to eat, is he a child?? He put himself in that position. When an adult decides to throw a tantrum like a toddler, the best is to ignore him. Lol we talking about men in their 30s and above, what kind of people are this?

Bluezy13:


Like I said, I grew up alone.
I do cook very late in the night and even very early in the morning around 4am, if I'm to leave the house by 6am/7am.
A lady once stayed with me, she noticed that after all the work we will do in the night, I'll still wake up by 5am to prepare breakfast, eat before going to work and keep hers while she will still be sleeping.
I was never bothered.
After about a week, she started waking up early to make breakfast on her own and sometimes beginning the plan in the night
She saw my way of life, she adjusted herself to it volitionally. It has been working that way with women.

You see,
I grew up that way and I'm used to it.
When I don't have the strength, I simply eat out.
No woman should think she's doing me a favor by cooking for me. She should either see it as an obligation or she let go.
I won't be bothered.

This bolded bit is too funny!
I passed out at “planning in the night”
It would make a nice film in my head, lol.

It’s somewhat attractive to me, what you wrote, don’t know why!

Jullima:
Lol that kind of ‘punishment’ only works maybe in the first year or two. It loses its effect fast, wives become immune to it with time, especially when the wife now has more responsibilities, if he wants to be a child, he can go and dish is food when he’s hungry.

Who get time?

Shut up you have not married, pray you don’t get
That kind man as a husband then you will understand

Bluezy13:


Responsibilities ke.

If you try it with me,
I will start cooking my food myself.
And pray you don't extend it for too long cos I may never eat your food again and take it as a way of life but we will still be husband and wife.
Once I take it as a new way of life, I'll be happy, but will you
I know how heartless I can get.
After all I grew up alone.

Don’t mind that unmarried fellow , she doesn’t understand yet

Jullima:

Yawn

Are you married? At this point the wife no longer cares, initially she’s worried but it gets to a point in the marriage, it becomes ineffective.

There will always be food in the house because she has kids to feed, if you like dish, your choice.

No time to take on an additional child to the one you’re already raising. Who get that kain time?

Not pain a woman than rejecting her food , when you
Are married you will understand

Bluezy13:

Of course...

I will be happy that she doesn't care anymore because it will give me an opportunity to live like a bachelor which I have always longed for.
As long as she has given me children...very very important.
By the way, I am not yet married and I intend to have children out of wedlock.
Perhaps depending on family pressure, I might just get a woman to call my wife for the sake of peace.

Stop wasting your time with this unmarried fellow
She won’t understand till she got married

donbachi:
Him bring money for the food and him no chop am.na him loose

Him marry wife keep for house,and him no sex her.na still him loose.

He looses both ways, the wife wins

Jullima:
Lol that kind of ‘punishment’ only works maybe in the first year or two. It loses its effect fast, wives become immune to it with time, especially when the wife now has more responsibilities, if he wants to be a child, he can go and dish is food when he’s hungry.

Who get time?

You will get time when the side chicks start dishing his food and chopping the money meant for you, and leaving you with crumbs. Be forming you hear, till them show you pepper, then you will get time then, your day will be 36 hours instead of 24

kenzysmith:
wait let me check who is loosing

Lolz! To the OP. It depends on the type of woman. Some dont send whether u eat or not. And some women are not sex freak. In that case, the husband loses back to back.

Bluezy13:


Like I said, I grew up alone.
I do cook very late in the night and even very early in the morning around 4am, if I'm to leave the house by 6am/7am.
A lady once stayed with me, she noticed that after all the work we will do in the night, I'll still wake up by 5am to prepare breakfast, eat before going to work and keep hers while she will still be sleeping.
I was never bothered.
After about a week, she started waking up early to make breakfast on her own and sometimes beginning the plan in the night.
She saw my way of life, she adjusted herself to it volitionally. It has been working that way with women.

You see,
I grew up that way and I'm used to it.
When I don't have the strength, I simply eat out.
No woman should think she's doing me a favor by cooking for me. She should either see it as an obligation or she let go.
I won't be bothered.

See my REPLICA right here.....You see until the World start to have Strong and Evolved Men like us In Abundance. Men will be Mumuing for female beings lol. Honestly, I don't really see anything special about Female Beings......They are just mere regular human beings to Me.

DeckXavier:
Why will I reject the food I paid for? That's a bad investment, I don't joke with my money, everything has to yield a profit. After eating the food sha, I'll just act like you don't even exist.

This Is worse decision and very risky. I'do advice you avoid everything about her absolutely because You might be eating menstrual blood with stew and Vegetable without knowing. Female beings can be Very Evil when getting back at You. They normally carry out their action without thinking twice when they are being Offended, They don't have a mind of their own. You might just die an Untimely Death or They might render you Useless. I'm not married yet but I know everything A to Z about marriage. I'm from a very Sensitive Family. I was once a Victim of domestic violence. Be Warned!!!!

A good number of people(men and women) here are just time bomb waiting to explode, no wonder we have a lot of failed marriage.
Why use a tread like this to create an hatred for the person that probably most of you are yet to meet.
It's sad, so sad to see people people judging through imaginations.
If you can't love, don't marry. Or else your marriage is sure to fail.
Lastly to men, No real man fear his woman, he only loves her and respect her emotions and opinion.