luscioustrish:
It's a loss on both sides


Nothing a simple/honest conversation can't solve, they both apologize and eat.. make-up Se..x is always lit

What a Sensible comment.

Why is this môron cloning my username? People get time sha.

Me I don't never dwell on fights , they are counter productive, na to go my office and focus on money chase, but women can be annoying even when you just want to move on away from the fight, they will keep bringing it back. No time for such if conversations doesn't work.

Temhellen:

You right though, but the truth is if u get married to any of these 21st century ladies, o boy dem no send u oooooo . If u like enter kitchen Dey cook for ursef if u like join ur laundry with it wetin concern dem . So far she has her kids plus her job who ur sex n food epp?

Sister, ain't you part of the 21st century?

MannieA:
My point here is, don't refuse your wife's food or starve her sexually because you are mad.. communicate please. This advice is also for women, don't stop cooking for your husband or starving him sexually because you are angry with him! It doesn't make sense abeg! communicate and sort your issues!

And what if she refuses every form if reconciliation and communication?

Gaggi:
Why is this môron cloning my username? People get time sha.

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Gaggi:
Why is this môron cloning my username? People get time sha.

Bleep you man

Hmmm...

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Bluezy13:



Right from primary school, I stayed with my father but he was never always at home. I do everything alone; cook, clean, play, sleep, etc... Some people in the same street never knew who my father was because it was as if I was a child bachelor.
His only concern was that I had what I needed. Even when I'm ill, I take care of myself without minding anybody or letting anybody know. It affects me now...I don't discuss my problems with others...I find it weird living with someone, I have this independent character. I hardly mingle with people, Imagine living with someone for years without having any intimate relationship with that person. And I am an only son.
Everything I learnt about life, I learnt on my own. I respect my privacy and personal life a lot such that anybody that seems to care about my well-being is considered as an intruder...even my parents.
(Don't ask after my mother and siblings)
I won't call myself an introvert but I can be very reserved. I don't do love with women and I don't really have a regard for them.
I am a kind person or so people say...and I'm an atheist. I have principles and I observe rules a lot.
Right now I'm even finding it difficult describing myself and my life

You see, I have been kind of frequent on this platform for years now but I don't know anyone here neither have I created any thread because I feel it weakness to create a thread when I can solve my problems myself or allow people to solve their problems.
I am not a social media person and I hardly maintain a one on one conversation for long. I'm almost 30 now.
Anyways, I should stop here.

Stop masturbation please...

jeriwap:




Sister, ain't you part of the 21st century?

23rd Bro

Look at so called grown ass men above feeling entitled to keeping malice, denying food and sex, they prefer to behave like crawling toddlers, and still want their wives to apologise to them for behaving like crawling toddlers, una go old till oblivion.

An interesting thread.

Bluezy13:



Right from primary school, I stayed with my father but he was never always at home. I do everything alone; cook, clean, play, sleep, etc... Some people in the same street never knew who my father was because it was as if I was a child bachelor.
His only concern was that I had what I needed. Even when I'm ill, I take care of myself without minding anybody or letting anybody know. It affects me now...I don't discuss my problems with others...I find it weird living with someone, I have this independent character. I hardly mingle with people, Imagine living with someone for years without having any intimate relationship with that person. And I am an only son.
Everything I learnt about life, I learnt on my own. I respect my privacy and personal life a lot such that anybody that seems to care about my well-being is considered as an intruder...even my parents.
(Don't ask after my mother and siblings)
I won't call myself an introvert but I can be very reserved. I don't do love with women and I don't really have a regard for them.
I am a kind person or so people say...and I'm an atheist. I have principles and I observe rules a lot.
Right now I'm even finding it difficult describing myself and my life

You see, I have been kind of frequent on this platform for years now but I don't know anyone here neither have I created any thread because I feel it weakness to create a thread when I can solve my problems myself or allow people to solve their problems.
I am not a social media person and I hardly maintain a one on one conversation for long. I'm almost 30 now.
Anyways, I should stop here.

Yes you should stop, cos I'm wondering who asked for your life's history

Temhellen:

23rd Bro

Lol so then you worse than the 21st! I see

Fountainofyouth:



Yes you should stop, cos I'm wondering who asked for your life's history

You mentioned the wrong person

Gaggii:


Stop masturbation please...

Are you alright ??

Bluezy13:



You mentioned the wrong person

If you like be an insignificant person, I don't care, I'll continue to mention you as I see fit.

Am not married yet but I can testify with the little experience with my parents... With the sex issue I don't know about that but for the food expect, when ever my dad reject food my mom wont talk but when such continues my mom will just spend her last Kobo in preparing one special delicacy ,she with kill one fat chicken eh... The aroma of the food will draw our neighbors to even bring plate self, after serving us food she won't even serv daddy, last last daddy will b the one asking for food.... women bad

Gaggi:
Why is this môron cloning my username? People get time sha.

You are a stupid idiot.

Bluezy13:


Like I said, I grew up alone.
I do cook very late in the night and even very early in the morning around 4am, if I'm to leave the house by 6am/7am.
A lady once stayed with me, she noticed that after all the work we will do in the night, I'll still wake up by 5am to prepare breakfast, eat before going to work and keep hers while she will still be sleeping.
I was never bothered.
After about a week, she started waking up early to make breakfast on her own and sometimes beginning the plan in the night.
She saw my way of life, she adjusted herself to it volitionally. It has been working that way with women.

You see,
I grew up that way and I'm used to it.
When I don't have the strength, I simply eat out.
No woman should think she's doing me a favor by cooking for me. She should either see it as an obligation or she let go.
I won't be bothered.

So rather than settle an issue, you will prefer to go forever without eating her food? And you think that is marriage. What if you meet a woman that will also not send you for as long as you continue?

You guys will just be doing competition until it leads to irreconcilable differences. Little hinges swing huge doors. It's seemingly little things that destroy a marriage and takes away peace.

But apparently, not everyone wants a peaceful marriage.

Bluezy13:


Like I said, I grew up alone.
I do cook very late in the night and even very early in the morning around 4am, if I'm to leave the house by 6am/7am.
A lady once stayed with me, she noticed that after all the work we will do in the night, I'll still wake up by 5am to prepare breakfast, eat before going to work and keep hers while she will still be sleeping.
I was never bothered.
After about a week, she started waking up early to make breakfast on her own and sometimes beginning the plan in the night.
She saw my way of life, she adjusted herself to it volitionally. It has been working that way with women.

You see,
I grew up that way and I'm used to it.
When I don't have the strength, I simply eat out.
No woman should think she's doing me a favor by cooking for me. She should either see it as an obligation or she let go.
I won't be bothered.

I'm curious. Which work did you do in the night? Plumbing? Bricklaying? Teaching or Footballing? Just wanna know.

placeofallure:


I'm curious. Which work did you do in the night? Plumbing? Bricklaying? Teaching or Footballing? Just wanna know.

Don't tell me you cannot guess...

ImaIma1:


So rather than settle an issue, you will prefer to go forever without eating her food? And you think that is marriage. What if you meet a woman that will also not send you for as long as you continue?

You guys will just be doing competition until it leads to irreconcilable differences. Little hinges swing huge doors. It's seemingly little things that destroy a marriage and takes away peace.

But apparently, not everyone wants a peaceful marriage.

I have answered a similar question already.
Maybe you should check the first page or second.

Fountainofyouth:



If you like be an insignificant person, I don't care, I'll continue to mention you as I see fit.

I don't think you are alright.

Bluezy13:


I don't think you are alright.

Really? So with all your comments, you think you are sane right? Lol.

Fountainofyouth:



Really? So with all your comments, you think you are sane right? Lol.

Alright...
Play is over...
Now run along.

Bluezy13:


Alright...
Play is over...
Now run along.

See this one, who is playing with you? You get assimilation problem ni? If you have nothing else to say, just buzz off peacefully.

Gaggii:
I followed my friend to inform his uncle about his introduction.

The man started advising my friend on how to live with a woman.

He said no matter what, don't ever beat her because there are things more painful than beating. When you refuse to eat her food, or when you deny her sex. Am not saying is good to beat women ooo. But this is not the first time have heard elderly people giving that advice.

Have been thinking about it, can you punish a woman by refusing her food and denying her sex.

I don't know about ajebo, but pako women, no even like sex once they are married, na by force den dey take satisfy husband urge before. You will now deny them sex because you are angry...they will be happy and they will want the anger to continue...at the end of the day na you they suffer yourself, if konji wan kill you.

Also, I can't imagine dropping money for food at home and I will still go to buka to eat...though I didn't ask the man, whether I will still be dropping money for food while an refusing the food...which ever way, who is losing? For a married man to be eating at the canteen because he is angry with his wife.

Are you punishing your wife by refusing food and denying sex? Or you are suffering yourself?

If you sabi Knack well , like u turn her on like deep , conquer her mental and emotional state, her psyche and psychology whatever ...

if u refuse her food or deny her sex ... That quarrel must settle .... but if you are incapable of winning her body and soul and she is a "IDGAF" kinda girl ... you are on d longrun!

goodnewscliff:
handling cases like matured couple is king...... Being hardened does Not help but in case its needed to teach a so called hardened wife a lesson, i dont jonze.... She will leave the house for me all by herself without me telling her to.......
Never chin chum chin

You never jam...just pray for a wife that loves you.,if not OYO.

Jamescyray:
A good number of people(men and women) here are just time bomb waiting to explode, no wonder we have a lot of failed marriage.
Why use a tread like this to create an hatred for the person that probably most of you are yet to meet.
It's sad, so sad to see people people judging through imaginations.
If you can't love, don't marry. Or else your marriage is sure to fail.
Lastly to men, No real man fear his woman, he only loves her and respect her emotions and opinion.

Man marry not mainly because of love; but for continuity; the only love that exist to me personally; is the love a parent has for his/her little kids.

Abeg make ona bring chair for me