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Abikeade11:
I don't support this opinion, ladies should learn to be independent, It gives respect to ur personality.

True tho but sadly hungry ppl like Ariza don't see it that way.

Ariza:
The truth

Work! Work! Work!. Hungry thing.

Ybaby:
Ok!

Tag me when you create a thread.

LOL am so boring, I hardly do that. Most times you’ll find me commenting.

shadeyinka:
You are well brought up.

Is anything free in life?

Once you collect from someone, the person must receive some special benefits

Thanks. They say “ scratch my back & I scratch yours.”

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The truth about relationships is that 'money' must be spent no matter what. Think in terms of birthdays, random surprises, sick days, date nights and hangouts. There will always be spending of money whether men like it or not. No woman will marry you if there's not a tangible time where she saw you spend money no matter how independent she is.

Even as a woman that believes in making her own money, I can't be in a relationship where money isn't being spent at all. Spending money shows commitment, care and generosity i.e. in knowing releasing funds for home runs won't be an issue with him if we eventually get married.

The sooner you all accept this truth, the better.

To love is to Give. If you aren't ready to give then you are not ready for a serious relationship. She will never submit totally to you.

If someone else gives her and she starts paying more attention to Him, don't come here ranting about Nigerian Girls.

You must be willing to make sacrifice for anyone or anything you love

I am against that.

I am totally against that.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

bezimo:
Very key point to note..the guy is a simp..

That's why when 9ja guys come abroad and date foreign women and experience true love and receive something tangible in return to their giving.They realize that they have been scammed in 99ja dating climate that is set up please women who oftten ecpe t guys to give yp proce that they love..whereas the ladies ate typically stingy in return..I say B.S!! Well only stupid simp guys fall for that.

I hope those white women give them the level of submission that Nigerian men so desperately seek

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

piece of shit!

you are definitely a piece of shit!

Sixfeetbelle:
I hope those white women give them the level of submission that Nigerian men so desperately seek

You think relationship is all about submission.Lol

Greenbullet:
One basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

I'm late to this party but my God man... this is 2020... women who went to secondary school, university - the same as me - should be capable of taking care of themselves, and being providers. I mean, this is not 1920 when many women around the world were denied opportunities for higher education, and to work. The limitations on women's ability to earn and excel resulted in the expectations of the "man to take care of the household".

We have strived to have fairness in education for both genders; are improving fairness in the job market... yet a man is still supposed to be responsible for somebody who society has trained to be a breadwinner in her own right. If a grown woman is not able to study hard, hustle and be able to take care of herself... why did she waste all that training?

Furthermore, perhaps to your surprise, I find your reasoning disenfranchising to women, as well as paternalistic and downright chauvinistic: a woman is taken care of by her father, then sent off to husband; when that sucker dies, her son(s) assume responsibility for her... as if she's some kind of liability to be handed down from one male relative to another without any self-agency. Take her as your responsibility? Am I adopting a baby or something?

Abeg, my wife and I both bring food to the table, and I don't want to hear about money for hair, or for shoe.. she buys that her by herself. Yes, I buy her things (as gifts), not as a basic necessity.

A woman who's busy evaluating my ability to take care of her is wasting the tremendous opportunity to excel on her own.

Sixfeetbelle:
The truth about relationships is that 'money' must be spent no matter what. Think in terms of birthdays, random surprises, sick days, date nights and hangouts. There will always be spending of money whether men like it or not. No woman will marry you if there's not a tangible time where she saw you spend money no matter how independent she is.

Even as a woman that believes in making her own money, I can't be in a relationship where money isn't being spent at all. Spending money shows commitment, care and generosity i.e. in knowing releasing funds for home runs won't be an issue with him if we eventually get married.

The sooner you all accept this truth, the better.

No problem with gifts, random surprises, etc. But we (boys and girls) went to school and (for the most part) have the same opportunities for work. Why did we insist in fairness in education and the worksplace, only to insist on unfairness in relationships and home keeping? I hope as your guy spends money "to show commitment, care and generosity, etc.", you reciprocate and spend money to show your care and generosity - ideally in the same magnitude.

bezimo:
You think relationship is all about submission.Lol

Is it not?

Educate me then.

nextstep:
No problem with gifts, random surprises, etc. But we (boys and girls) went to school and (for the most part) have the same opportunities for work. Why did we insist in fairness in education and the worksplace, only to insist on unfairness in relationships and home keeping? I hope as your guy spends money "to show commitment, care and generosity, etc.", you reciprocate and spend money to show your care and generosity - ideally in the same magnitude.

Hmmm. A stray sheep?

The rest of the herd don't agree on spending money at all. My comment was for them.

Zoie:
Honestly you have a point. Traditionally, men have been seen as the providers since the dawn of mankind.
Nevertheless women are coming up, but that does not absolve the man of his role in being the main provider.
Problem is some guys date ladies that are out of their reach. You're earning 50000 and dating a girl who spends 10k on a dress, 15 on a shoe, and half these monies are coming from you.
Go for your size, you don't want. That girl with mammy water skin spents 20k for a spa session. Go for a girl who you give 5k and she spends judiciously but no, because she's not flashy.
Carry your cross biko.

I get ur point . Wat I can deduce from ur write up is that; Gals are naturally prostitute. one shouldn't be eating or having wat he or she can not comfortably afford for him or herself without de constant assistant of another person

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

NONSENSE POST FROM IRRESPONSIBLE GOLDDIGGER,NO WONDER RAPE CASE IS INCREASING EVERYDAY.

Eulalia:
Lol @ " sleep like a baby" I can't.

A gift is different if the person doesn't attach any strings to it. But if he's asking me out and trying to use money to achieve that, I won't accept.

A chairman I once worked with threw his check in front of me and said I should mention any amount, I was just shaking and begging him that I don't want. Cos I can't date him. Lol... He still sent his driver to come pick and bring me to the office on a Saturday. And this time gave me cash, I still refused and he got mad at me and told me to apologize for refusing the money. I did and he still forced the money on me. las las he sacked me because I still refused to date him.... His money sef i didn't spend. Used it to sow seed in Church.

Maybe its the way I was brought up though. I just can't.

You are right on track. Any man that uses money or material things to lure ladies are likely to get angry if the lady reject his advances. He might end up taking back those goods he bought for you. The moment you collect their gift you have sold yourself out.

Sixfeetbelle:
The truth about relationships is that 'money' must be spent no matter what. Think in terms of birthdays, random surprises, sick days, date nights, and hangouts. There will always be spending money whether men like it or not. No woman will marry you if there's not a tangible time where she saw you spend money no matter how independent she is.

Even as a woman that believes in making her own money, I can't be in a relationship where the money isn't being spent at all. Spending money shows commitment, care, and generosity i.e. in knowing to release funds for home runs won't be an issue with him if we eventually get married.

The sooner you all accept this truth, the better.

Bible says, whatever you want others to do for you, do it to them.
It is only an irresponsible partner that will keep receiving and not giving.
The truth is that things are changing, and there are people who still want to be taking advantage of their partner's ignorance in relationships or in marriage.
It is important for one to have adequate knowledge about the marriage he or she is plunging into before she or he says, I do. Or else, he or she will turn to a puppet in the hand of his or her partner.
Men always love to dominate while women love to manipulate...but with adequate knowledge, you will draw boundaries on things that will not make your partner overstep his or her boundaries....

sircrabo:
To love is to Give. If you aren't ready to give then you are not ready for a serious relationship. She will never submit totally to you.

If someone else gives her and she starts paying more attention to Him, don't come here ranting about Nigerian Girls.

You must be willing to make sacrifice for anyone or anything you love

Okay. She didn't love the man, abi? She hates him. Think before you use your stunted fingers be typing gibberish

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Move this trash to the dustbin

stupid write up.you are encouraged girls to think relationship na business were you bill ur boyfriend endlessly.there is nothing wrong when a lady earn her own money not putting all ur problem on a man.A relationship supposed to be support from each other but ladies don turn am to another thing entirely that is why men get tired of you.A man can never get tired of a lady who support him finiacially an bring ideas for money to come in not the ones that keep demanding endlessly without caring if you have it or not.who quoyme should hug transformer.

Is this coming from a guy? i doubt it, she is pretending to be a guy but if he is truely a guy hmm, Op better go and transplant your gender.
you are better off a lady.

Zoie:
Old fool with a limp shrivelled deek and saggy wart filled balls is talking Hear hear.

crazy bitch in severe pains, lol

Decimus:
It's been almost 3 years, even the op must have gotten some wisdom now, so there's no need to add anything.

By now,he should be wiser.If not he will be broke by now

It's only a fool that will accept to this write up..why must I spend on girls when I know all the girls are all gold digger... there's nothing wrong if the girl earn her own money and not putting all her problem on guys because of the word called relationship..

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

This is how you will mislead people and break-up relationships with your myopic sense of reasoning.
The other time I read that a girl that gives money to her boyfriend is a WITCH.
On the contrary, a GIRL CAN SO LOVE YOU THAT SHE WILL GIVE HER ALL THAT IF YOU LOVE HER TOO YOU WILL NOT PERISH IN RESPONSIBILITIES BUT HAVE EVERLASTING JOY ( LOVE 3:16)

tosyne2much:
Really?

I became confuse after reading this jargons from the op.......

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