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Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by fortunejum: 7:27am On Jun 08, 2020
HouseOfWine:
No p

The females responsibility too is to give sexual satisfaction when needed
Who enjoy most? is it not the ladies.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by MhizJoyce(f): 7:30am On Jun 08, 2020
Eulalia:
True.

If I don't love you, I can't take or ask anything from you cos I know I don't have feelings for you and my conscience will prick me badly.

I have had to reject stuffs from people who showed interest in me just because I don't feel same way and can't live with the guilt.
1 in a million naija girls
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by poweredcom(m):
Hoodbilonia:
All the girls i met. I ddnt fuc k all
But i always tipped them.
I tipd one 3k one day.
The folowing week she threw me format of 50k.
I just burst laugh
Block am 4whatsapp.
I cant give no bich money anylonger
Fuckin liars and cheats
True all Nigerian gals are fake and got no love I de tell you even the one that does not ask for money from you may not love you Weller o if she sees one biggest boy that comes her way she fit shenk you

@womenareapes come and see
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Kabir5643(m): 7:41am On Jun 08, 2020
dayowunmi:
Is she hungry or in love? Ur write-up is lopsided. I hate this mindset cos it sort of make it seems like women are some less privileged beings that needs to be donated to. A man can give to his girlfriend the same way the girlfriend can give to her man. Relationship is the coming together of two givers. Giving HAS to be TWO way in a relationship, when it's only one party doing the giving and the other doing the receiving then you need to ask yourself if you are the boyfriend or you are just a sugar daddy. By the way, Money or material possession should not be the basis for love. The role of a man as a provider is only in marriage. Even if i have the means, i would be cautious of paying the school fees or house rent of a girl am dating cos you don't know whether the money you giving her is even being sent to her real lover.
Who can find a virtuous woman ? for her price is far above rubies .
Sensible response
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Revolva(m): 7:50am On Jun 08, 2020
Hey Forget Nigerian girls please abeg them no be am

Especially the broke ones they have very bad intention towards you g struggling guys
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by mema900: 7:51am On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
Shortsighted human being. My dear you have been dating parasites all along.

A woman that feel entitled can kill you on the long run
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Gentlealibu: 8:11am On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
What if she is the one who first asks you out? Is it her responsibility to take care of you?
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Millenniumlady(f): 8:31am On Jun 08, 2020
mrchineke:
Broke ass shitt women are quick to call someone stingy. Go and find work!!!! Leech!
Leave me alone oga move front.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Nobody: 8:35am On Jun 08, 2020
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by chubbyswit(m): 8:42am On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
Bros your brain needs proper checking. You didn't even say wife but a girlfriend.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by shadeyinka(m): 8:51am On Jun 08, 2020
Beey:
Thanks. They say “ scratch my back & I scratch yours.”
Nothing is free In this universe. Somebody has to pay for every privilege given.

Stay up dear
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by prophetfire: 9:09am On Jun 08, 2020
O.P. YOUR MUMU NEVER DO? CHAIII. ITS YOUR TYPE THAT ABANDON THEIR MUM AND DAD, THEN TURN TO ATM FOR A USELESS OLOSHO.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Dayodragon: 9:44am On Jun 08, 2020
SlimmB:
OP you follow exist for this 21st century world?
So what do you say if the girl ask the boy out?
don't mind him.. that small change he get go soon finish and he will rethink
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by PotatoSalad(m): 10:00am On Jun 08, 2020
vincenteger:
I don't get it.
So because I am in a relationship with a girl she should now see me as her bank.
Men please think before you write
Data is cheap and so everyone's become a relationship expert
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by naijacarz(m): 10:21am On Jun 08, 2020
Incredible
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by prettyGabby(f): 10:31am On Jun 08, 2020
I don't ask my Guy for money, i work and can fend for myself.. He sometimes gifts with surprises...
And we are both happy

Op speak for yourself
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by ThomasShelby(m): 10:42am On Jun 08, 2020
Chizyberry:
Why should i be dating a lady that cannot cater for herself, asking me for money to do her hair, nonesense, u are not an independent lady yet, u are still on a low class, go look for ur low level village dudes of ur class
Funny enough such girls think they're the high class because they wear expensive hair and buy expensive creams that their sugar daddies pay for. Pride exhumes in their character and they feel the world belongs to them. Blame the men and society for making them feel like they are special. Since men shower them with attention online and offline all the time, what u expect bruh.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Jeroboy(m): 10:48am On Jun 08, 2020
Face of the Lady Who Went N@ked to the Market Just to Buy Her Phone Charger That Got People Talking


https://kicknaija.com.ng/2020/06/08/face-of-the-lady-who-went-nked-to-the-market-just-to-buy-her-phone-charger-that-got-people-talking/
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Nehyooh(m): 10:59am On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " [s]am I her parents?" Well you are more than that[/s] because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
Why will i be more than her Parent ?
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by womenareapes: 11:02am On Jun 08, 2020
poweredcom:
True all Nigerian gals are fake and got no love I de tell you even the one that does not ask for money from you may not love you Weller o if she sees one biggest boy that comes her way she fit shenk you

@womenareapes come and see
that's how them all behave.

Men where not made to worship women. But this indome generations are becoming less of a man (simp like the op)
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by SweetyZinta(f): 11:08am On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
I solely agree with you. I don't encourage women to become parasites or extravagant in their demands though. But as a boyfriend and a potential husband, you should be able to provide cash to your girlfriend and potential wife from time to time.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Budline1(m): 11:12am On Jun 08, 2020
Chinomonkey:
If all those classes of gals u mentioned aren't working for their money, they're actually classless...a poor hungry greedy gal who likes flashy things has no class, don't confuse or mix it up
You dey mind her? She even materialized her gender. So funny when girls be glorifying sex workers that wear expensive hairs and use expensive creams like they're the high class who deserve to be wifed by rich men. If that's how to catch the best men, I think every girls should plow that path of gold digging, bleaching, extravagance, no need for decency anymore then..

A girl spending fortunes on herself without a job and leeching on men is nothing but a prostitute. What class does a prostitute have abeg? grin grin
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Nefort: 11:21am On Jun 08, 2020
Tatashi:
I dated a guy and didnt ask for a dime and guess what? He never also raised a finger to give' not even recharge cards.it didnt take long till the love died a natural death.Guys,u see that woman who doesnt ask for a pin from you...

That should be the one you should buy the world for .but if u think becos she doesnt ask then you feel u can fold ur arms and ignore her thinking she's cheap? I pity u.them go collect her from your hand.
What about yourself did you give him anything? Stay there and be looking for which guy to extort from. You better go and work. NONSENSE
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Soljaboi44(m): 11:34am On Jun 08, 2020
2017 thread undecided
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Osobi32(m): 11:53am On Jun 08, 2020
Op must be on drugs, now this is why I advise people to stop smoking pawpaw leaf. Foolish, stupid and idiotic dude.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by Budline1(m): 11:55am On Jun 08, 2020
SweetyZinta:
I solely agree with you. I don't encourage women to become parasites or extravagant in their demands though. But as a boyfriend and a potential husband, you should be able to provide cash to your girlfriend and potential wife from time to time.
Nope. A girlfriend should become wife first before he provides cash for her from time to time, which kind of scam are u insinuating? huhn huhn shocked
We are wiser now o. In fact many wives support their husbands all the time, and vice versa.

Better still ladies could quit going to school and quit seeking for jobs then, leaving all that to the men if that's d case.

Who will she give her own cash to? Wake up, it's 2020. If you think like this, all you need is a job, not a boyfriend.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by davidtuzy(m): 12:29pm On Jun 08, 2020
Bro i cut CAP for u .... U have said it all ( relationship should be symbiotic and not parasitic) giving should be on both party and not on one party... I hate foolish Mindset << PLS LIKE DIS POST >>
dayowunmi:
Is she hungry or in love? Ur write-up is lopsided. I hate this mindset cos it sort of make it seems like women are some less privileged beings that needs to be donated to. A man can give to his girlfriend the same way the girlfriend can give to her man. Relationship is the coming together of two givers. Giving HAS to be TWO way in a relationship, when it's only one party doing the giving and the other doing the receiving then you need to ask yourself if you are the boyfriend or you are just a sugar daddy. By the way, Money or material possession should not be the basis for love. The role of a man as a provider is only in marriage. Even if i have the means, i would be cautious of paying the school fees or house rent of a girl am dating cos you don't know whether the money you giving her is even being sent to her real lover.
Who can find a virtuous woman ? for her price is far above rubies .
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by henryhemon(m): 1:00pm On Jun 08, 2020
[quote author=Greenbullet post=58399758]I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED

Smh.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by henryhemon(m): 1:01pm On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
You are a drowning man.
Re: Any Girl Who Doesn't Ask For Money Doesn't Love You by mapet: 1:02pm On Jun 08, 2020
Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
This is got to be the most dumb and unintelligent BS I've ever read on NL. I do not even know what trash I should dumb it, toxic waste disposal?
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