Vyzz:







Married Men do not need to act single to date a single lady.....




Infact na the ladies the rush them

You are genius

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

.... This is a master plan, I'm sure some married men reading this won't be happy with you for revealing a good tactic like this to other ladies here

I really want to know why some single ladies don't like to have canal knowledge with married men,even when they really like or love the man.

1.Is it because they know that the man will not marry them since he is already married?

OR

2.Is it because it's morally wrong?

If the number 2 is the reason, then is fornication morally right?

Don't be righteous by half.

AristocraticMe:
it is not always true in regards to the splash apartment. A girl once visited me, my apartment make sense I no go lie.... the moment she entered my bathroom and saw one air cream she change am ooo.... she say she is leaving immediately.... after too much argument she later told me she feels i will have lot of girls on my list... and I dont....

Well there are good looking men , who are discipline.

But I dont support people lieing to ladies.

Maybe that was me generalizing but more often than not, that's what happens.

It takes lots of discipline on the guys part.

Incel:


Lol
I swear I didn't have anything in mind when i made that comment. Pocohantas is way older than me. I'm 27, Poco is 36 or so (not sure). So it's not about begging her for attention. I just like the way she carries herself here, even giving guys that are always insulting her money.

If I want learn something no be how to get many girls, na how to make money.

Cheers to that.

38, not 36...

So I'm serving in abuja, so as corper we get lift every now and then, so on this day I was on my way to work, didn't wear my wig,just my hair weaving, a fine car stopped in front of me that he was going my side, I hopped in, he said twas my hairstyle and no make up that attracted him, he asked for my number that he would pick me on my way back from work, but on that day we were asked to go home.. Twas the day lockdown began. Thats same day I travelled to the east.. The dude called me I told him I was at East already, he started singing love praises.. I told him I don't dated married men, he denied that he wasn't married, I told him I could see a bling on his finger on WhatsApp status. He said twas normal ring.. I believed.. Next day I logged on Facebook, it happened that Facebook synchronised my contacts and brought him out as people I may know.. Via.. I went to his pics, I saw his wedding pics, his eulogy to his wife on her birthday, last last he's son.. So I kept mute.. Few days later dude complained on how I've been mute on him, I told him its better he stopped talking to me before I spit my mind to him. I sent he's wedding pics to him, asking him why he would deny his vow just for fun, he was like he was sorry that he forgot but truly he wasn't because he said I'm sorry babe.. But I've missed u.. Truly that guy is a gunner.. He Don go finish

pocohantas:


Cheers to that.

38, not 36...

Oh, ok noted.

Do they care...Married or Not most of them don't care......

paulolee:
as a guy dt i am...let me twist the table in dating a married woman unknowingly last year in a boutique....she lied dt she was once married bt now a single mom, neva allowed me visit, neva allowed me ask about her lifestyle and kids and noticed she created a new f.b and watsap id, started aving mixed feelings when i was having strange dreams, for example seeing a strange angry man's face in my dream each night whenever we had sex.....didn't tell her but i told my keyboard fiend who did some findings and tracked her office and said shes happily married for 5yrs with 2 kids but the husband is the travelling type n thats how my feelings died because am a fan of dating matured woman dt is far older then me and she have that petty size and sharp curves...how it ended?? I jus blanked her after collecting a sizeable amount from her with format dt i want to invest in an upcoming project and after that alert, i texted her my findings n dt i would inform her husband if she calls or visits and dt was it...saw her early dis year in a mall with her kids n she jus smilled n said she really missed me...nt proud of wat i did, my friend adviced me to it and i pls dnt judge me bcoz the woman self no complain after that alert and besides she also broke me emotionally and mentally...allow GOD judge pls..

I guess you were just her f*CK boy. You were only dating your self.
Why didn't you just walk away when you found out?
I don't know how you will say you like mature women bla bla bla. ...when it's clear you are after their wallet.
The spirit of gigolo and blackmail is in you and it will destroy you.

Dobson43:





The guy liked you

So make she go find the man. Baa

QuinModah:
It was back then in 2013 while I was still in school. I asked this guy if he was married, he said no but my spirit kept telling me he's married.

So one day, I used my lodge mate's phone number to put a call across to him telling him am mama Ada that I want to speak with his wife that her line isn't reachable and I really need to repay the loan she gave me before I squander the money, on hearing that he started screaming ''Mummy mummy bia onwere Onye na akpo gi'' (mummy mummy come someone is calling u). I quietly switched off the phone . I later asked him if it was worth denying your wife and kids because you want what you may never get, and he couldn't answer.

which be what he will never get madam na God just help your life , you for become free wifi

His wedding sticker was at the back of his phone

I am a married man first.

secondly I don't think married men are that adventurous to keep up the lie, they are simply trying to keep friends and if d opportunity comes they take it.

some men actually have a disconnected homes but the stories here are about girls who quickly wants to know d status of the men they met.

I for one I don't tell ladies am married or not unless I see u are matured emotionally to handle my acquittance. I don't want all this misinterpretation they blab up and down.

just know me as myself, if am ok with ur characters I tell u my marital status.

married men are really not good liars unless u meet those who stumble into marriage

hence the girls sometimes are desperate and make it obvious they want a man in their life. if not must all men marry you? the western culture we copy leave allowances for blind dates, flings, one night, casual friend, lovers etc.

the rush rush nature of marriage is what some disconnected men preys on and some are not even serious about it, in few weeks they will forget about you.

so ladies keep it cool, married men are not demons, they are humans and sometimes they need someone and a different shade to their life

You met a woman as same as you with sinful and dirty lifestyle, you found out she is married and duped her of her money then blackmailed her with telling the husband You ain’t a Good person mr man, judgement starts from this world before the next, so surely when the repercussions start reporting later don’t start running from church to church, just know that u are paying for ur past deeds..quote author=paulolee post=90470379]as a guy dt i am...let me twist the table in dating a married woman unknowingly last year in a boutique....she lied dt she was once married bt now a single mom, neva allowed me visit, neva allowed me ask about her lifestyle and kids and noticed she created a new f.b and watsap id, started aving mixed feelings when i was having strange dreams, for example seeing a strange angry man's face in my dream each night whenever we had sex.....didn't tell her but i told my keyboard fiend who did some findings and tracked her office and said shes happily married for 5yrs with 2 kids but the husband is the travelling type n thats how my feelings died because am a fan of dating matured woman dt is far older then me and she have that petty size and sharp curves...how it ended?? I jus blanked her after collecting a sizeable amount from her with format dt i want to invest in an upcoming project and after that alert, i texted her my findings n dt i would inform her husband if she calls or visits and dt was it...saw her early dis year in a mall with her kids n she jus smilled n said she really missed me...nt proud of wat i did, my friend adviced me to it and i pls dnt judge me bcoz the woman self no complain after that alert and besides she also broke me emotionally and mentally...allow GOD judge pls..[/quote]

VenumX:

I guess you were just her f*CK boy. You were only dating your self.
Why didn't you just walk away when you found out?
I don't know how you will say you like mature women bla bla bla. ...when it's clear you are after their wallet.
The spirit of gigolo and blackmail is in you and it will destroy you.

haaabaaa...oga lawyer, mr holy holy asif u avnt sin before..said i prefer dating older females because they are more matured and wont mind marrying one..wich wan kum be spirit of gigolo and blackmail again?? abeg no let me talk oo

meowcape:
I created an account after 5 years on nairaland to laugh at this comment .... You broke me

lolz ma gee...dts ma story o...dts life for me shaa..life is a teacher and we all learn each day...enjoy ur day ma oga

Mentality of 98% of Ladies who unknowingly fall for MARRIED MEN are the ones after READYMADE GUYS!!!

That is just the Pure Fact.

damiandammy:
fear women

yeah....saying she missed me simply means that if i choose to go back, she would gladly accept me..

paulolee:

haaabaaa...oga lawyer, mr holy holy asif u avnt sin before..said i prefer dating older females because they are more matured and wont mind marrying one..wich wan kum be spirit of gigolo and blackmail again?? abeg no let me talk oo

Did you then have to ask her for money and blackmail her? Why didn't you just move on with your integrity intact?
You put your self on a level way below hers if you don't know.
You are the reason why I will never advice any female to date a younger negroe...especially a broke one.

IJOBA2:
EXACTLY MY POINT IFYY07. HOW ABOUT YOU

I be man I no be woman

Where all this girls Dy before wey i no see them,

ladies will do well by stop looking at abstract things so as to be able to see clearly. lust blinds! greed is a bastard! if u are sincere urself, u can look into a mans eyes to know he is not real or he is lying. But, lust and greed would let ladies use that special 6th sense God gave to each one for good. when a lady wants to be decieved there is nothing u can tell her to see reason.






SECONDLY
i can not tell how many married ladies that has tried to fool me into a relationship but my God always deliver me from their hands. so, it is a two way thing especially this so called modern ladies there are some thing out of hell

Nigerian men are notorious for being married and pretending to be single. It's so pathetic.

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

When he don hunk your virgimus finish na im you reluctantly decided to leave

Hamachi:
All this while hunky saved my number as blessing tailor, but change it when we were together, the day I saw a lady picture on his WhatsApp I ask who the lady was and he was like my older sister who just married. Well she was older than him no doubt, the love affair continue until I received a call one faithful evening form a woman calling me blessing, me and she talk at length, she send me their wedding pictures and I send it to him.
Till date hunky is speechless....I took my leave ..

When HUNKY don chop your kpekus finish na im you dey cut off

VenumX:

Did you then have to ask her for money and blackmail her? Why didn't you just move on with your integrity intact?
You put your self on a level way below hers if don't know.
You are the reason why I will never advice any female to date a younger negroe...especially a broke one.

lolz...said i was mentally and emotionally down and dts the only thing i could think of...and still accept d fact dt i screwed up and should av refused dt plan bt that idea and the money involved was too nice to ditch and my guys was on ma neck to follow d plan, said am not proud of what i did and wouldn't av done it if i can take bk the hands of time because it was kinda risky...pls dnt be too harsh on d broke boi..

ImaIma1:
I met him close to my office. He pretended to be single and his friends even joined the pretense. I noticed how protective he was of his phone. But men, this guy had my time. He could call and call, take me out, treating me like I was his whole family.

Long story short, I was suspicious so I went to his friend's list on fb and sent a friend request to a female friend of his. She told me he was married with children. When I confronted him, the idiot knelt down to propose. I just thought he was a sick person.

He was and is still sick. Who falls for that?

Edusouls:
You met a woman as same as you with sinful and dirty lifestyle, you found out she is married and duped her of her money then blackmailed her with telling the husband You ain’t a Good person mr man, judgement starts from this world before the next, so surely when the repercussions start reporting later don’t start running from church to church, just know that u are paying for ur past deeds..

chai..see swear...ma wah oo..my guy if u are a good christian I want to ask u something....between david in the bible( that slept with anoda man's wife knowingly and went ahead to kill the husband and GOD still called him "a man after my heart) and this my own case dt happened unknowingly bt still went ahead to take her money without murder....since you are a lawyer (based on how u av already stated my judgment by sayinn i would face the repercussions) who would u purnish the most??

extremelygolden:


Thank you, Sir.

Lol..your head don swell gan abi?

khatea:
The werey teacher told me he's a doctor and on permanent night call. I started asking him medical questions n talk to him in medical terms, he always fail. I perceived he's a liar den I called his mom to let him know what his doctor son is doing, she opened up to me n I sent him messages, he blocked me n dts all. Myself n his wife are friends till date, she always snap a pix of him to show me whenever he comes home cos she made me realise he's a big tym womanizer who can stay away from home for months... Well, late last year, d wife told me she'll be walking outa d marriage, tot she's joking only for her to send me d voice conversations of her leaving d marriage. Fear men who can't take ur calls anytym of the day and always ask questions when in doubt. Ire ooooooo

Permanent night call, like how?! Hilarious. That statement is the first red flag.

Hopefully one day, people will realise that “If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything - Mark Twain” meaning if you tell a lie you have to remember what lie you told and to who.

darediamond:
Mentality of 98% of Ladies who unknowingly fall for MARRIED MEN are the ones after READYMADE GUYS!!!

That is just the Pure Fact.

so we should be declaring our undying love to a guy that cannot feed himself abi
Abeg shift one side jare.
Mtchewww

mine was in school 2010. we meet in school, things were so hard for me that I could still remember how my stomach was grumbling for minutes in the exam all ( it was that bad). Well I got an hotel job so from school to work, work home. He helped me out with my assignment and one thing led to another we had sex.
Long story short, I went for my 1year industrial training when I realized I was three months gone. I called him to notify him and he told me he was married, he has two kids. He gave me options of dropping the baby for her mother in the village or be his second wife.
I was just 24 then, I have no friend, no guardian or good parent.
In all I went with option C which was to take care of my self and my child. And till today HE NEVER ASKED, CARE OR TRY TO LOOK BACK.
She will be nine on Monday, few months time I will be through with my masters and give Canada a shot. And Settle down someday!!!!