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Occasional disagreements - that's okay
But the one you use your wife face as boxing punch bag is horrible. The worst is when the husband comes back home with chocolate and flower
Till next month
Odikwa risky.

thesicilian:
There's no way two people can live together without having occasional disagreements, except one or both of them are hiding their true characters. The issue is, people have different ways of resolving conflict

post=90603616:
Fightung is part of the love na.. lol..

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ayomilore:
The only way to keep marriage as peaceful as possible is for couple to always pray together and respect each other.

The fight among couples in not ordinary. little things that could be overlook are most times the cause of the fights. it's only God that can make our homes peaceful.

Will you keep quiet with your nonsense!
Everything you people fail to apply common sense to is always linked to spiritual bullshîts

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpgQgL3u810

Let it not be like one pastor who said although he beats his wife often, they are still the best lovers.
How does that correlate?
There's no relationship without disagreements and misunderstanding, but there must be mutual love and respect from both parties.

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ProfDview1:
Sometimes I don't get, you guys married you love each other but You beat your wife, she in turns reciprocate.. Is love lost after marriage??

Apart from being married, a neighbor friend of mine and his gf fight sometimes.. If it was just an abuse, it would have been okay but it is always physical... The lady can curse and the guy too is not sensible at all, he will lock door and start beating her.... I don't talk with the lady coz I don't like her personally but I hate the fact that the guy beats her... The mumu lady too is living with him and they ain't married.... In the late night, they will fight and in the morning, they will be laughing..

I am just bothered, though I don't like the lady but I feel so bad when I hear them fighting and I hear her voice of pain.. She wouldn't leave, they will still laugh again... As in physical fight oooo, I am not happy at all

Why do couple in marriage engage in physical fight??

because you will later hate fvcking that same black, smelly and stupid pu..ssy you once said you can't live without.

and you will start seeing those useless women for who there really are. they can't offer nothing about from sex!

that's when you start feeling cheated and irritated by those piece of shit.

with time you started deriving pleasure in beating those piece of trash of a woman.

this is what you get when you start dating Naija women. pleasure in beating those piece of shiit.

1.wife taking the space of the unserious husband OR 2.owo obe no reach

Lovers express their love in different ways...getting physical might be one way..

Hmm I wonder y also

womenareapes:
because you will later hate fvcking that same black, smelly and stupid pu..ssy you once said you can't live without.

and you will start seeing those useless women for who there really are. they can't offer nothing about from sex!

that's when you start feeling cheated and irritated by those piece of shit.

with time you started deriving pleasure in beating those piece of trash of a woman.

this is what you get when you start dating Naija women. pleasure in beating those piece of shiit.

Did you have to show the world how badly your irresponsible father treated your mother? Your daughter wont also escape being tagged as blk sm3lly pussi.

ProfDview1:
U r dumb... I told u dt there is physical assault which is battery and u r stil asking me if battery was involve..

U think say na only u do law for school abi.... Common go sleep

Its obvious you're confused... When did I ask if battery was involved...


If you have problems understanding English language, go back to secondary school

A lady here once said she liked being beaten by her boyfriend and I wondered how some persons understand the word "love".

After beating his woman, a man still opens his gutter to say "I love you" and the mumu woman with red eye will reply "I love you too" which makes me wonder if I had been misunderstanding that phrase "I love you".

My conclusion is that the word love means different things to different persons.

eazzzy1:
It’s because of control, usually most couples want to control their second half. This is as a result of dependency. If you depend on something for your happiness, you tend to want to control the situation all the time. Once it isn’t in your control you become unhappy.

That’s why you see someone get angry because his wife didn’t sweep or do the dishes, when he can very well just do it. You see women get angry because their man did not grant their financial request etc.

Solution - Your happiness depends on you alone. If you don’t like something your partner does. Your two options are;

1. Accept the situation
2. Let them know you don’t like it, if they can’t change, walk out of the relationship.

You can’t fight them to change. Getting angry only makes you age faster and opens you up to lot of sicknesses.

hmmm. Na wa ooo. You got reasonable point saa

It is another way of expressing love...

Tatashi:
Did you have to show the world how badly your irresponsible father treated your mother? Your daughter wont also escape being tagged as blk sm3lly pussi.

so sorry your irresponsible father treated your mother that way?

your mother can't keep her mouth one place, that's why he treated her irresponsibly!

I hope you do learn from there mistake! so stop running your mouth like fowl yansh

Third party, home breakers.

we are humans - perfect love is divine

ayomilore:
The only way to keep marriage as peaceful as possible is for couple to always pray together and respect each other.

The fight among couples in not ordinary. little things that could be overlook are most times the cause of the fights. it's only God that can make our homes peaceful.

You nailed it ,thank you

ayomilore:
The only way to keep marriage as peaceful as possible is for couple to always pray together and respect each other.

The fight among couples in not ordinary. little things that could be overlook are most times the cause of the fights. it's only God that can make our homes peaceful.

Seriously?

If you notice some sought of physical violence on the part of your partner before marriage, break it off... There's no need to proceed

Wetin be love sef? It means different things to different people.

They wey some people are desperate to marry, they will marry anything. Especially women.

Once they marry, and it turns out to have been a mistake, leaving becomes difficult. To save face.

Thing is even between siblings, they still fall out. You are bound to disagree at times with those nearest to you. Especially naturally annoying ones.

Add now add a dose of incompatibility, poverty, selfishness, stubbornness, immaturity and wrong motive for marriage to the mix.

sisisioge:
Well, na crazeee dey the heads of both the beater and beatee.

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They are not a preacher of love to each other .
They are a war, a fight , indabosky pahose.

TPound:
Are you buhari's brother?

Is my comment confusing you??

Do you not understand simple English

Let me explain to you in ways your brain can comprehend.

Battery means physical contact with intent to cause bodily harm...

Now read my comment and understand and don't put handcuffs on my wrists, officer mufu

Tpound maybe he didn't understand you well the first time...I am not really following all these conversations like nairaland is so wack at doing followups but i can tell you guys are just misunderstanding each other. I should also add that calling him all those savage names ain't cool...verbal assaults are on the long run synonymous to domestic violence...sir, both are contemporary issues downplaying the might of our great African heritage. So assuming ProfDview1 is wrong in his approach to your response...sure you can batter him ooo...I will even batter him join but let's just keep out the aggressive insults jhoor. #winks
oya shey i should apologize to you on his behalf so that his head will swell lol... #one_love guys