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Carter4luv:
married life is more enjoyable than single life, when you marry the right woman. married life is more enjoyable when you're growing with your kids.

single life is only sweet at University level after graduation it becomes complicated

where u want follow find the right woman for ds Nigeria?when hustle nova pay guys

Joycekkh:
I think marriage is more enjoyable when you marry the right person.

Please dear, how do you get the right person . Thanks

stevmatt15:
Ask yourself
Saying
None of the above
Or
I won't say a word

Which one is a wise comment to this post?

None of the above

Marriage life is sweet for me o. Imagine bae bringing food on the table and you both eating together, washing the dishes, she reminds you of something forgotten, hugs, kisses, sex every night without fear of any guilt. Sometimes disagree to agree and on and on and above all favour that comes with it. Understanding and Maturity in marriage is key.

#ilovemybae

kennyz247:
guy leave dat super story, been single still remain d best any time any day....even Jesus enjoy been single das y he never boreda to get married..

My brother it's good to tell our selves the truth.
Most people here who are claiming to be happily single are big problem to them selves. Marriage works when both parties are determined to make it work. You can't have a good marriage when you don't have an open mind. The best thing in this world is to marry at the right time and above all marry the right person. Trust me your life will be so sweet

They both have their merits & demerits don't let anybody deceive you.

Those always lamenting about bad marriages turn a blind eye to all the beautiful marriages around them and choose to see only the negative.

In my honest opinion, being single is more enjoyable except that you'll miss the sex part (for those of us that are born again) but talk about freedom and the will to do what you want and when you want it, single life is bae unlike when you're married that you must do certain things whether convenient or not.

Now one aspect marriage life can freak you out is home front where you have to manage and keep it and also have to combine it with your job.
I do visit some of my married friends and sometimes don't admire them cos we may get back from work same thread time, and right from the road while I'm relaxed and not hurrying to anything, she's rushing to pick the kids from school, stopping at the market to buy a few stuffs to make evening meals. She get home, attend to the kids then races to the kitchen to prepare meals by what time I would have rested and prolly taken something light for the day. And I begin to wonder, is this what I'm going to be someday? Mannn its not enjoyable at all.

That is just one aspect of it. Talking about emotional aspect where you have to deal with spouses short comings and all that. Its a whole lot.
Families and others.
Marriage is over hyped especially in Nigeria where you believed to lose yourself just so you can be seen as submissive.

Let me still enjoy my single life while it last biko.

Actually you are missing the point, marriage is for matured people, it come with allot of sacrifices that 90 or 95% of it gives you everlasting Joy. You maybe young from your twenties or early thirties but believe me time shall come when you will look back and found out that your life has been lonely all this while, forget about what you read online, marriage is sweeter when you are married to the right partner. Some of the ladies and men you see online crying about how marriage is bad, especially the ladies, those are the ones that didn’t use their greater opportunities in securing their marriage or accepting to get married on their prime time. Believe me once you are heating 40 years old plus you will attract mostly the already married man, looking for second wife or same men that had miss used their marriage prime time. I will advise you to be wise on what you wish for yourself. Meanwhile your friend you see doing all this, she is not complaining, she knew what she is into and the joy that come from it, haven’t to kiss and play with her own kids is everlasting. Lastly there’s this genuine confidence knowing that you have a husband and family of your own. Good luck dear, stay bless and live wisely.

ugaby:
This is one of the most dumb question i have seen in this forum,
There is time for everything in this life. life can be sweet at every stage of it. if you are happy being single when you are supposed to be married, i can tell you that you are deceiving yourself. and if you got yourself involve in early marriage, you will have yourself to blame.

This question makes no sense as long as i m concern.

Your response is so dumb because you responded base on your minuscule knowledge. And it is obvious that your level of exposure is so small. In fact, I can bet with the two balls under me, you haven't left the shore of this country...

I don't have the luxury of time to educate you but lemme say this; you can stay single throughout your life and still achieve ALL your dreams and goals in life and you can get married and live a miserable life....

Get wisdom.

Which Kind question be this now ,Abeg single all.the way ,Baby Baba all the way poo .How many years person go stay for the world wey he go come carry Woman wahala for head .Out of millions of women ,There are some that would agree to have Baby for u no Marriage thing ,U cater for d kids ,u cater for her to cater for the kids u stay ur own ,she stays he own ,Pay money into the kids school account regularly ,Shikena .

Gforce2015:
Your response is so dumb because you responded base on your minuscule knowledge. And it is obvious that your level of exposure is so small. In fact, I can bet with the two balls under me, you haven't left the shore of this country...

I don't have the luxury of time to educate you but lemme say this; you can stay single throughout your life and still achieve ALL your dreams and goals in life and you can get married and live a miserable life....

Get wisdom.

. Oga You deserve a Medal .

Gforce2015:
Your response is so dumb because you responded base on your minuscule knowledge. And it is obvious that your level of exposure is so small. In fact, I can bet with the two balls under me, you haven't left the shore of this country...

I don't have the luxury of time to educate you but lemme say this; you can stay single throughout your life and still achieve ALL your dreams and goals in life and you can get married and live a miserable life....

Get wisdom.

Obviously you one of those miserable gigolos that hides behind the mask of being single is the best thing in the world. You guys are the reason some women don't want to marry because you make them feel that all men are the same.

Guy change

This is not a case of a man dying because of his wife

Most women are not enjoying their marriage because of the man's attitude towards them, so they end up crying in silence

The best of it is to be happy in your relationship

You can't remain single forever

ugaby:
My brother it's good to tell our selves the truth.
Most people here who are claiming to be happily single are big problem to them selves. Marriage works when both parties are determined to make it work. You can't have a good marriage when you don't have an open mind. The best thing in this world is to marry at the right time and above all marry the right person. Trust me your life will be so sweet

thanks for d advise,but I need job and money first before venturing in to d land of no return called marriage..

stevmatt15:
Nobody has ever died of being single, but many, I mean countless of many has died for marrying a wrong woman and the death rate is still increasing.

What now is the solution? Is being single more enjoyable than married life?

Singles is quite enjoying, until you reach 45yrs of age, Life will start happening.

Depression.

Regrets.

Then you realize the millions in your bank, the good house, luxury life u have is no longer enough for your happiness.

Being single equates to being selfish.

Relationship comes with sacrifice, Especially marriage. If u can't do that you are selfish.

Married life.....why?
* Everything is free
* Because you are now responsible, you behave yourself
* When things go bad, family is everything
* thoughts of your family wherever you go pushes you further to succeed
* Finally if you are married to the right person, the windows of blessings will be opened to you

kennyz247:
thanks for d advise,but I need job and money first before venturing in to d land of no return called marriage..

I agree with you on this. You don't just rush into marriage without any means of steady income.

That's one reason so many guys are having issues in their home. God will help you to secure a good job and also give you a good partner when the time comes. Amen

I will say mind when am dawn settling the issues in the villa.

Single life is okay,though it has expiration Ideally, no guy should stay single beyond 35. Time is of the essence.

The married life is the best for me , my children & wife gives me joy.
When the whole family is on a trip it's wow!!!
I have achieved more and gained more favour as a married man. So many things to mention but let's leave it like this.

ugaby:
Obviously you one of those miserable gigolos that hide behind the mask of being single is the best thing in the world. You guys are the reason some women don't want to marry because you make them feel that all men are the same.

Guy change

Have you met me before? Do you know anything about me? Have you been engaged in any conversation before?
I'm not surprised at your taciturn? This is a faceless platform where every dick, tom, and harry come to hurl insult and innuendo on people and you are not exceptional. Your lack of exposure, intelligence and retarded knowledge make you type like a fool?
Okay. You want to give me a bad name so that you can easily hang me....idiot.
If I'm a gigolo then so many Reverend Father in the Catholic churches including Pope Francis is also a gigolo...

Lovelyn451:
extremely mean, bossy and domineering

Are you pulling my leg? I commented on your post and you attest to.it. i refuse to fall for it...

Munzy14:
Singles is quite enjoying, until you reach 45yrs of age, Life will start happening.

Depression.

Regrets.

Then you realize the millions in your bank, the good house, luxury life u have is no longer enough for your happiness.

Being single equates to being selfish.

Relationship comes with sacrifice, Especially marriage. If u can't do that you are selfish.

This is a wrong conception about single people....selfishness a character trait in human being.
You can be married and be selfish and you can be single and live a sacrificial lifestyle.
Jesus Christ lives a sacrificial life....he died for the sins of humanity despite the fact that He can choose not to die....
Ask all those who are married if they can die for their partner or their children....

ugaby:
This is one of the most dumb question i have seen in this forum,
There is time for everything in this life. life can be sweet at every stage of it. if you are happy being single when you are supposed to be married, i can tell you that you are deceiving yourself. and if you got yourself involve in early marriage, you will have yourself to blame.

This question makes no sense as long as i m concern.

You have said it all my dear, God bless you

Single is best, married is scam in black world only profile are (child and sex)

Married life oooo
If you marry your best friend.
Even while single without bf/gf, you must feel it.
That feeling when there is someone to talk to, someone that loves and care about you.

Having kids is a different ball game. Even if you're a single parents, the responsibility of taking care of children is same as been married.

Is it not better to get married earlier? because las las, you will still get married and perform those responsibilities.

ugaby:
I agree with you on this. You don't just rush into marriage without any means of steady income.

That's one reason so many guys are having issues in their home. God will help you to secure a good job and also give you a good partner when the time comes. Amen

amen and amen tanx so much, God bless u, though I have one of d best and loyal lady in d world, na job remain ooo

Is like majority of the people supporting single life are men (male).
Why? Does it mean men don't enjoy marriage at all?
Single life is boring jor. Being accountable to someone who loves you, listen to you, gist with you, hold your hand when you're going Through challenges and always looking after you is better.
Love is priceless.
Married life is preferable.

Humans were not made to be alone..
Being single is being selfish and irresponsible..
So, marriage is treasurable..
Find yourself a LOVING and COMPATIBLE partner to build your own family with...
Like all good things it doesn't come cheap or easy,but at the end it will be worth it...

As a young guy that got married very early, I honestly wish I was single by now. I felt I didn't enjoy enough before getting married. I am under 30 and I am under all the restrictions marriage brings. I should have waited till at earliest 35 when I have finished enjoying everything

miniziter:
And how many people complained of thier pants being checked to you?

who are you to mention.a NL legend.
don't.dare try it just stay clear unless you be legend urself.


you are still a baby.you don't follow.news so just relax if u get wife go check or fickoff my mention for life.

Single life is for those that are compulsively promiscuous.