Marital rape exists, I have experienced it- Victoria Inyama counters Anita Joseph (video)

Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama, has countered the opinion of her colleague, Anita Joseph, who over the weekend faulted statement made by some married women that their husbands raped them when they weren't in the mood for sex.

Anita in a video made with her husband argued that a woman cannot claim her husband raped her if he had sex with her when she wasn't in the mood. She opined that the body of a woman is the food of her husband and should be made available whenever he needs to feed on it.

Reacting to Anita's video, Victoria said there indeed is a thing called Marital rape and that many married women have experienced and are still experiencing it. She said sex even in marriage should be with consent. She argued that forcefully having sex with a spouse is another act of domestic violence.

She said she has experienced marital rape and that it leaves so many women damaged.

Can a husband rape? Yes a husband can rape his spouse. It depends. Let me define it. Marital rape or spousal rape is the act of sexual intercourse with ones spouse without the spouse's consent. The lack of consent is essential here because it does not need to involve physical violence. Marital rape is a form of domestic violence and sexual abuse.

Husbands can rape wife. I do not know about wife raping a husband. The most important thing is consent is needed. A lot of women constantly raped in their marriage. They are so ashamed to even talk about it. I have experienced it and I am learning about it. The trauma and the damage it causes is beyond your understanding'' she said


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Marital Rape is a form of Domestic violence & sexual Abuse, historically sex within marriage was regarded as a right of the spouses,But engaging in the act without the spouse's consent & then Penetrating in now widely classified as Rape! Marital Rape is more widely experienced by women than men. Cultural practices, Religion & societal ideologies contribute to its acceptance. Circumstances do vary but Because it's a Norm Doesn't Make It Right! ⁉️⁉️ #notorapeofanykind⛔#notodomesticviolence� #notospeakingoutstigma�❤�� #noshame������

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Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!

Y'all stop quoting me, look if a woman is tired or not in the mood to have sex, it's understandable. I'm actually talking about those drama wives frustrating their husbands with sex for no good reason.

Men hate home drama,,, we get enough drama out there in our various hustling fields, coming home again to meet unnecessary drama is totally unacceptable!

I see no reason why a reasonable man shld rape his wife!!! Pet her fr sex, if she doesn't agree, den dance soapy!!!
If she insists over a long period of time, get a side chick

In case u need a realistic drawing to surprise ur wife so u won't have to rape dem!!! (Fr ur loved ones too) check my siggy for realistic pencil drawing/digital paintings

Ok

Wonderful, I better have side chick than rape my wife

There's nothing like marital rape in Nigeria Marriage constitution.


[i][/i] i just hope some men won't be in trouble for this rape saga.

HITsquad:
Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!

You're right


Jejely go outside as a guy man go find another woman wey dey in the mood. Or get like 3 side chicks e better dan to rape.

HITsquad:
Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!

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This table has been shaken

Marital rape is trash. Sometimes the man won't be in the mood and d woman will force him or threaten him with not cooking... I don't believe in marital rape and it's not a crime too. If your partner doesn't want to have sex again, people plenty wey deh find sugar mummies and daddies sef. She's mad for saying she doesn't know if a wife can rape the husband too

Good for you, dear...

The world is actually getting confused. A woman can deny her husband sex for reasons the husband may not even know. This is one of the causes of domestic violence and some men actually do forcefully have sex with their wives as a result.

Truth is any woman who undergoes such a treatment will possibly go through similar pains a rape victim will go through and it’s devastating. Violence against women should be discouraged no matter who the woman involved is to the man.

However, married women should learn to be understanding and not use sex as a tool to get what they want.

She didn't make any sense.


While I agree that there could be marital rape, simply not being in the mood is not definitive for either parties provided they are living in peace at that time.

What I will consider as marital rape is a situation where couples are having unresolved issues and one party forces itself on the other without consent.

The problem with these yeyebrities is that everyone of them wants to have a say in every thing without actually understanding the issue at stake.

Exactly what I said and some guys were attacking me. It's called domestic violence. When u forcefully have sex with your wife when not in d mood, U are domestically abusing her which I believe should be stated in d law. Guys stop Misinforming or encouraging husbands to forcefully have sex with their wives. It also damages marriage and causes infidelity. This acts makes d wife to automatically hate d husband and find solace in d hands of another man.
Like d 1st comment said. If you can't hold your konji, shalaye outside instead of raping. My 1 cent.

What sort of nonsense is this?

This lady spews a lot of anti-family and anti-marriage advise and comments on social media. If she failed at her own marriage, it doesnt mean others will. She should look inwards and heal from whatever hurt she is amplifying to the rest of the world. I send light and peace her way.

HITsquad:
Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!

See someone's reasoning .
Those days when you get home from work and you ain't in the mood for sex I guess you wouldn't have an issue if your madam goes to the guy next door to "get it". Afterall, it's not on your wife, It's on you! And it's not cheating!
Keep that same energy bruv!

1. She's a victim according to her.

2. Her ex-husband is a rapist according to her (I wonder what Godwin Okri will say about being tagged a rapist by the wife he paid her dowry).

3. Her three children are also fathered by a rapist by implication.

She said all this just to trend or in the spirit of activism. I don't see any man proposing any time soon to such a woman.
NB Here in Africa a man cannot rape his wife.
I don't support rapist in any disguise but we marry to have free sex.

"The Body Of The Woman Is The Food Of The Husband"...Fvcking Retarded Comment By A Daftian

No good news again all we now hear is:
Rape
Slaughter
black lives matter
Covid419
political 419ers
...
i am tired already.

But if the man gets it out then he's cheating I don't support forceful sex but there are something that there's no personal rule that guide it everybody should have his own ways to fixing is shit, you been with your spouse you should have knew each other to the extent of that. Coming on social media to create attention all time is just tiring Jare fix ya shit no come dey chase clout with everything

Is this not road to carrying side chick or olosho. At least if u no fit allow penetration give head but if u can't don't complain of cheating.

Too much westernization and western philosophy is doing over heating on ur head.

You pay money, marry her, put her for house, they feed her, they cloth her, they make sure say she dey look good, so that u no go look outside to another woman, at the end, she go come deny your area 1 zone 2 Visa to enter London.
If u vex sign Visa by force go London by force, dem go say na rape. rape kwa!!!, for ontop my own madam. ok oo

Baba Buhari needs to hear this.

I will stop at this point, lemme marry and see if it's actually True then I would do the needful.

You wan sleep with your wife na wahala, you go Bleep outside wahala,women una no know wetin una want.

Ignorance, that’s all I see with these online tantrums.

Rape is a crime. It is not subject to the whims and caprices of the people. It also has nothing to do with anyone’s opinion.

Rape is as defined in legislations and interpreted by the Courts. Nigerian Law doesn’t recognise marital rape.

UK law, however, does recognises marital rape... and that only became recognised in 1990; see the case of R v R (1991).

Nigerian law might get there someday but presently, no such thing as Marital rape - it doesn’t matter what anybody’s opinion on the matter is.

HITsquad:
Men, Don't rape your wife, if she denies you sex, go outside and get it... Its not on you, it's on her! And it's not cheating!

you are going to get thousands of likes.

Ok

Madness start from somewhere!!!

Yes...a husband can rape his wife. totally possible

#justiceforsalau

Attention seeking idiots. So the damage from spousal rape is so bad....and women are ashamed to talk about it.

For someone who has been knacking you for decades?