Yorubas do that a lot. They send bills to family members for owambe

I don't know y pple like shifting responsibilities. fyn, u ain't working but u still ave d gut to impose monthly payment for ur parents on ur hubby which he declined.. see if he gives ur family na help he help u ooo.. talking of d wedding now so na ur husband go marry for ur brother abi na him wan enjoy Wetin dey d marriage ni... abeg, wise up jawe and stop using unnecessary issues to trouble d gentle man.. he did all he cud to do urs cos he loves you not for you to now be riding him any how.. am a married woman and I can't support dis.if my hubby gives my parent I will appreciate and wen he doesn't all well and good.. nonsense shinanicals..

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

Some women do not understand what marriage is all about, imagine this one wanting to milk the man dry because he married her, that's stupidity the worst part is the woman is a common house wife is not even working at all to help the husband in family upkeep, woman if you want to help your family get a job let the man be

If you will tell yourself the truth, it is your family that is the most irresponsible and shameless.
He is your in law and not one of you. That is why the Yoruba rarely collect anything meaningful from the husbands family during the wedding ceremony.

It will continue unless that hopeless tradition is abandoned.

Don't bring your family responsibility on the poor man managing himself and you yourself should use your brain otherwise your marriage is going gradually.

Madam go & look for job & leave the poor man alone.

Is he your brother's brother? Let your brother sort himself too

First, your father is the most stupid man I ever seen in my life and also a complete lazy man to the highest frequency. Secondly, you as a wife is the most idiot without sense of reasoning absolutely no brain and no intelligent faculty. Idiot!!!
Thirdly, your brother the most useless someone without a shame. He loves to marry, good..... marriage is good but he can't take the responsibility of his new home. Oh! What a useless father and hopeless son including the senseless wife. My advise to you senseless wife is tell your father and brother to live your home for you and anything your husband get to give out of his willingness they should accept it or leave your family alone. Your husband hold your father nothing because he paid for your bride price and your bride price is not free.

Your brother should better use your poor mentality father for money rituals now before he dies for nothing. To avoid putting blames on your hubby when he refuse to pay 1m for the burial.
You even had the guts to got upset that your hubby refused to pay 120k for your brother's marriage. My sister you no get sense at all.
Meanwhile which state are you from?

The truth is that u don't worth being a wife if ur mentality is as low as this. U are distracted to ur husband

Your parents are the most selfish and self centered people I've ever seen.... after your parents sold you out to him in the name of marriage, they still want your husband to buy a wife for your brother?? . I stand by your husband

Your husband is the real MVP, my man of the year award goes to him. F*cking family

This is super story...

Karma is a bitch babe

Why should he contribute, its not his responsibility. Besides he bought u with his bride price and therefore has no business with ur greedy family.

What a hell do you mean that your dad shared the money and billed your husband 120k? Which of your family members helped your husband during his traditional wedding? Am sure you have never worked to earn a living. A man earning 70k is faced with so many challenges and even the wife is not a helping matter. Madam, if it's me, I will do you strong thing ooo... Please, go and marry your family for all i care

Yeye people.

Your husband has nothing to do with your family,grow up.Make a happy home to yourself or live to regret it because you want to make others happy.
Don't try to impress people and destroy your happiness.Your first family right now is your husband.
Do you know what is called savings? that is what you should encourage him to start doing, not spending.
Start planning for your future children and their wellbeing, they're the ones entitled to your husband's money.

U WANT KILL UR HUBBY?USE PART OF THE HALF MILLION FOR UR BRO!UR HUBBY TOO GET FAMILY NOW!ABI?

nothing pain me pass........ say u get mine open your ungrateful mouth, talk this ur family shameful act for public..Mma_ifoid for which market u sale your brain?....

MY DEAR SISTER DON'T BLAME YOUR HUSBAND FOR ANYTHING THING, YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL AND CONSIDERATE FOR SOMEBODY THAT EARN 70K TO BE ABLE TO PAY FOR YOU GUY WEDDING, HAVE YOU EVER ASK HIM HOW HE WAS ABLE TO RAISE THE CASH INVOLVE, PLEASE DON'T ALLOW THE YOUNG MAN TO GO AND COMMIT FRAUD OR STEAL FROM HIS OFFICE, IF YOUR YOUNGER BROTHER WANT TO GET MARRIED HE SHOULD BE READY TO RAISE HIS OWN CASH, THING ARE HARD NOW NO FREE CASH, FOR YOUR PARENT TRY AND GET SOMETHING DOING TO SUPPORT.

slave trade has not ended, the man should ask for his receipt.

This is what happens when you marry a girl from a wretched poverty stricken family.

Guys right, if they don't like it, they should refund his money, there are better girls all over.

they never considered the man when he came to marry their daughter, saying it is a traditional rite to do so, and the man outta of his hard earn 70k brought 580k for just bride price, we av not added the expenses on wedding, if i want to help ur brother its not a force but from a willing heart, ur family should not put traditional force on my head. parents should try and reduce the bride price of their daughters, except dey want their daughters to grow old with them.

sisisioge:


I find the part where she stated that "to her surprise" surprising . Silly lil madam!

.the nerve in that statement eh..infact the husband has just made a big mistake. So a man managing to build family will be dealing with this shit..make rhe man no bend him rules.

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DominusPrime:
Before I say anything when your husband wanted to get married which of your own brothers contributed to the wedding? Now your own brother, a full grown man like your husband wants to get married and they want to bill him another 120k? A man who is managing 70k salary? Anyway I blame your husband. You are earning 70k per month and you went to marry from a poor family. Their demands will definitely be higher than you can afford. Like I always say poverty dey kill love!!! It is better to cut your coat according to your cloth than deceive yourself to marry with poverty hugging you because you are in love. Sheybe the love dey help una foot una bills nah? Even if the wife gets a job things will never be the same. Even if the man gets a higher well paid job they will either hate him for the previous way he treated them or milk him more as money don come...


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Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

That is the voice of foolishness talking....

If the Tori be true , then they need to deal with that family as a whole. Why will you bill people for what you can't afford, una con turn trad wedding to business

This one na bournvita family o, pesin wey Dey earn 70k and he still managed to pay bride price of 580k, that’s a real man, I don’t blame the girl sha, the feeling of entitlement has eaten deep into the family, if the brother doesn’t have money to pay bride price then he doesn’t have any business getting married , abi after marriage na people go still help to feed em family again

Why is your bro getting married when he can't foot all his bills. Do you know the pain your husband went through to do his?

samuel1986:
Your brother should better use your poor mentality father for money rituals now before he dies for nothing. To avoid putting blames on your hubby when he refuse to pay 1m for the burial.
You even had the guts to got upset that your hubby refused to pay 120k for your brother's marriage. My sister you no get sense at all.
Meanwhile which state are you from?

if he will take your advice and guidance
that selfish father in-law should be given to IKUKU the eyes of the gods

I refuse to accept this story as a true story.
It looks like bloggers handwork.
But if its true that means that family is epitome of shame

Mstick:
What kind of shameless family is this? Since your brother doesn't have money to sponsor his own wedding isn't it obvious that he shouldn't be getting married?!

Calling your husband irresponsible because he refused to bear your brother's responsibility shows that the entitled mentality of your family is hereditary.

No more comment is needed! This says it all!


Nice words bro. I doff my hat.