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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by InyinyaAgbaOku(m): 10:20pm On Jun 22, 2020
Ishilove:

The test result was, and I quote-

Blood Group- A+
Rhesus- D


Na wetin I see for paper o
In that case, you are positive. But go to another lab. It shd be

Blood group - A
Rhesus - D+

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Acidosis(m): 10:21pm On Jun 22, 2020
sugah:

Rhesus factor shouldn't be a deal breaker cos the Rhogam injection will forestall any problems

You're right, when the injection is taken at the right time
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Nobody: 10:21pm On Jun 22, 2020
That's not true at all...its the woman that should have a Rh- blood type..not d husband
FlordFlorez:
it's not adviceable for a rh+ male to marry rh- female. Foetus will keep dying.
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by MrPaul2: 10:23pm On Jun 22, 2020
sugah:

Apart from the cases of previous abortion without the injection, the injection is effective. It's less than 30k for the injection.
Is there any remedy in cases of previous abortion?
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by lilybonny(f): 10:23pm On Jun 22, 2020
Nope because I am AA
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by jamalnation(m): 10:23pm On Jun 22, 2020
Nope but a very good friend mine is about to lose his relationship cause of genotype
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by hybridblood07(m): 10:24pm On Jun 22, 2020
It's advisable to ask your partner about his or her genotype from the beginning. I think the genotype cause a lot of issue in the modern society
rxmusa:
My wedding was cancelled 5 weeks to the day because of genotype. It wasn't easy to accept it but still I moved on
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Theoarhics: 10:24pm On Jun 22, 2020
Twoclans:
I am AA but I had to run away from a relationship because his pressure to get married was too much and I felt it was because I was the first AA serious relationship he has ever had.

I did not want to be with someone just because I have the right genotype he wanted.

You are selfish.

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by AgentGoat: 10:25pm On Jun 22, 2020
Ishilove:

The test result was, and I quote-

Blood Group- A+
Rhesus- D


Na wetin I see for paper o
you have positive Rhesus
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Mypeople2(m): 10:25pm On Jun 22, 2020
Twoclans:
I am AA but I had to run away from a relationship because his pressure to get married was too much and I felt it was because I was the first AA serious relationship he has ever had.

I did not want to be with someone just because I have the right genotype he wanted.
Babe is that so ?What did he do that his pressure was too much? Must you date a guy for 5-10 years before marriage? I hope you will not go to Shiloh and start disturbing God when you get to 30+?

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by hardbody: 10:26pm On Jun 22, 2020
HembaqMbk:
Have you lost a very good relationship because of incompatible Genotype?

What was your experience and how did you move on?

No. Being an AA...i fit into every mould.

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Pavillon: 10:27pm On Jun 22, 2020
Acidosis:



No, because I'm AA. I only care about your Rhesus factor and your 'past'.

Rhesus factor is not a big problem. That shouldn't be a good reason to end a relationship.
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by HembaqMbk: 10:27pm On Jun 22, 2020
Temigirl95:
That's not true at all...its the woman that should have a Rh- blood type..not d husband

How sure are you please? Not arguing, just want to learn.
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Pavillon: 10:30pm On Jun 22, 2020
Acidosis:


You're right, when the injection is taken at the right time
It should be taken within 48hr after first baby to neutralize the opposite rhesus and prepare the womb for another

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Aston02(m): 10:31pm On Jun 22, 2020
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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by semid4lyfe(m): 10:32pm On Jun 22, 2020
Ishilove:

The test result was, and I quote-

Blood Group- A+
Rhesus- D


Na wetin I see for paper o

A+ means your Blood Group is A while your Rhesus factor (RhD) is positive.

You no get problem, lucky you. smiley
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Pavillon: 10:32pm On Jun 22, 2020
HembaqMbk:


https://www.quora.com/Can-an-A-positive-blood-group-girl-marry-an-O-negative-blood-group-boy

Can an A positive blood group girl marry an O negative blood group boy?


I am puzzled as to why this sort of question keeps turning up again and again. I get the uncomfortable feeling that there is a rumour floating around i the lay population to the effect that certain blood groups can’t / shouldn’t marry. Basically this is rubbish. In most countries there is no requirement for couples to have blood group tests done before marriage - certainly not required in the UK, Australia & most of Europe. Don’t know about North America.

Regardless of the couples respective blood groups there aren’t problems; there are relative potential problems, however, the mothers blood group will be checked at the beginning of her pregnancy. If the mother is Rhesus D negative then they will want to know the babies blood group when it is born. That’s easy as a small sample (5ml) of cord blood will be taken and if the baby is Rhesus D positive, then the mother will be given an injection of anti-D antibodies to kill off any foetal cells that crossed into the mother at confinement. This will stop the mother developing anti-D antibodies that may be a problem in future pregnancies.

We have known about this for 50 years so it is a matter of routine.





If you have a negative blood type and the father of your child has a positive blood type, there is a good chance the baby you carry will also have a positive blood type. This can lead to some complications during pregnancy, but they are completely preventable.

First off, what do positive and negative blood types mean? If you have a blood type like O+ or A+, that means you are Rh positive. Your red blood cells have the Rh protein on their covering. If you are Rh negative, your cells don't have this protein. Because your body doesn't have the Rh factor in its cells, your immune system will consider this protein a threat.

During pregnancy, your blood and your growing fetus's blood are kept separate during the pregnancy. However, during delivery, your baby's blood can mix with your own. If you are Rh negative and the baby is Rh positive, your immune system will start to build up antibodies against the “invading” Rh factor. This is called Rh sensitization[1].

Rh sensitization won't cause any harm to the baby you just delivered. However, if you get pregnant again with another Rh-positive baby, it may cause issues. Because your immune system is on high alert for that Rh protein, your immune system can start attacking the fetus's blood cells. This causes health problems in the fetus, and tends to get worse every pregnancy[2].

Fortunately, science has your back. If you are pregnant and have a negative blood type, your doctor will give you a drug called RhoGAM around the start of your third trimester. This drug prevents Rh sensitization in most women who use it[3]. Your doctor may also check to see if you have Rh sensitization from a previous pregnancy in a first-trimester blood test.

As long as your doctor knows about the possible Rh conflict, he or she can manage it very well. Don't let it bother you!



Thank you for this elaborate explanation.

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Acidosis(m): 10:33pm On Jun 22, 2020
MrPaul2:

Is there any remedy in cases of previous abortion?

If a Rh -ve negative woman aborts a Rh +ve foetus, she MAY become sensitive to the Rh positive factor if she doesn't receive the shot.

Consequences MAY include none, one or more of the following: miscarriages, babies with anemia, jaundice, and heart failure, among others.

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Bola146(f): 10:33pm On Jun 22, 2020
Yes! Shina my first love cry . This genotype is really affecting me seriously. I could have gotten married last year, I wept bitterly when he told me he is AS. I'm really tired sad

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by THUNDER4real(m): 10:35pm On Jun 22, 2020
Temigirl95:
That's not true at all...its the woman that should have a Rh- blood type..not d husband
If the man is RH -, married to RH+/- woman, no problem at all. However if the man is + married to RH -, there's problem. They will need RHOGAM during pregnancy/ during delivery/ during spontaneous abortion(miscarriage)

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by zingywingy: 10:35pm On Jun 22, 2020
My best 3 relationships... And it happened consecutively.... I lost best girls just because I am not AA. They gave it a fight but I said no..ko possible

Once I jammed one AA like this, i married her in less than 6 months... Best decision ever. grin grin grin

#Story of my life..

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by LegitDiva: 10:36pm On Jun 22, 2020
Yes!

Always knew I was AA, went to a silly lab just to confirm and was told I'm AS. I told him about it but said I wasn't sure.
Finally got to confirm I'm actually AA from a proper hospy but then he had moved on
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Alexaonfleek: 10:36pm On Jun 22, 2020
cool
AA and I can't relate.

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by lilybonny(f): 10:37pm On Jun 22, 2020
HembaqMbk:


https://www.quora.com/Can-an-A-positive-blood-group-girl-marry-an-O-negative-blood-group-boy

Can an A positive blood group girl marry an O negative blood group boy?


I am puzzled as to why this sort of question keeps turning up again and again. I get the uncomfortable feeling that there is a rumour floating around i the lay population to the effect that certain blood groups can’t / shouldn’t marry. Basically this is rubbish. In most countries there is no requirement for couples to have blood group tests done before marriage - certainly not required in the UK, Australia & most of Europe. Don’t know about North America.

Regardless of the couples respective blood groups there aren’t problems; there are relative potential problems, however, the mothers blood group will be checked at the beginning of her pregnancy. If the mother is Rhesus D negative then they will want to know the babies blood group when it is born. That’s easy as a small sample (5ml) of cord blood will be taken and if the baby is Rhesus D positive, then the mother will be given an injection of anti-D antibodies to kill off any foetal cells that crossed into the mother at confinement. This will stop the mother developing anti-D antibodies that may be a problem in future pregnancies.

We have known about this for 50 years so it is a matter of routine.





If you have a negative blood type and the father of your child has a positive blood type, there is a good chance the baby you carry will also have a positive blood type. This can lead to some complications during pregnancy, but they are completely preventable.

First off, what do positive and negative blood types mean? If you have a blood type like O+ or A+, that means you are Rh positive. Your red blood cells have the Rh protein on their covering. If you are Rh negative, your cells don't have this protein. Because your body doesn't have the Rh factor in its cells, your immune system will consider this protein a threat.

During pregnancy, your blood and your growing fetus's blood are kept separate during the pregnancy. However, during delivery, your baby's blood can mix with your own. If you are Rh negative and the baby is Rh positive, your immune system will start to build up antibodies against the “invading” Rh factor. This is called Rh sensitization[1].

Rh sensitization won't cause any harm to the baby you just delivered. However, if you get pregnant again with another Rh-positive baby, it may cause issues. Because your immune system is on high alert for that Rh protein, your immune system can start attacking the fetus's blood cells. This causes health problems in the fetus, and tends to get worse every pregnancy[2].

Fortunately, science has your back. If you are pregnant and have a negative blood type, your doctor will give you a drug called RhoGAM around the start of your third trimester. This drug prevents Rh sensitization in most women who use it[3]. Your doctor may also check to see if you have Rh sensitization from a previous pregnancy in a first-trimester blood test.

As long as your doctor knows about the possible Rh conflict, he or she can manage it very well. Don't let it bother you!


Great info...my Cousin has several abortions because it. At first they thought she was been attacked spiritually until a test was performed and I turned out to be this stuff.She was given an injection and her 6th pregnancy was successful

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Munzy14(m): 10:38pm On Jun 22, 2020
Ishilove:

Better cancellation than SS problem. I lost my cousin to sickle cell at age 14, and I have another cousin, a 20 year old SS boy whose medical needs have almost wrecked his father to the extent he is going around looking for who to beg money for medicine from as we are about to enter rainy season. His dad, my mum's younger brother told my mum that mosquito must not bite the boy otherwise he would have a crisis.

The pains of having a sickle cell child is better imagined than experienced.
This is serious, That means your family will be more of AS....

The only reason AS can marry is if they agree not to give birth, but only adopt.


A lady in my area entered psycho because of this genotype issue.

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Ojima23(m): 10:39pm On Jun 22, 2020
Kekereekun123:
Yes. I was told by my parents i was AA and i have never been hospitalized. Till one time i had to do test after excessive consumption of monsters energy. Babe say make i no tell anyone about the results which came out to be AS in 2 places. I knew she was evil and wicked

Very typical of the AS genotype
We hardly fall sick cool cool cool

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Angelacruz: 10:39pm On Jun 22, 2020
No bigger risk involved...d woman will be injected wit immuno... immediately she is pregnant
FlordFlorez:
it's not adviceable for a rh+ male to marry rh- female. Foetus will keep dying.
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Angelacruz: 10:42pm On Jun 22, 2020
Major Causes of miscarriage.Google is ur frd
Carchoice:
haba!!! What are you guys even discussing? Which is is Rhesus ontop the matter again? Never heard of this. Is this a factor to consider before marriage?? embarassed

Foetus dying!! This one shock me
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by bibianna(f): 10:42pm On Jun 22, 2020
Oh my world! Just had this discussion with a colleague today. She recently met this nice guy but turned out they have the same AS genotype. They both felt bad but decided to remain good friends.
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by HembaqMbk: 10:43pm On Jun 22, 2020
lilybonny:
Great info...my Cousin has several abortions because it. At first they thought she was been attacked spiritually until a test was performed and I turned out to be this stuff.She was given an injection and her 6th pregnancy was successful

Very good

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Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Angelacruz: 10:43pm On Jun 22, 2020
Try a different laboratory
Ishilove:
What of rh-d? When I did mine there was no negative or positive sign.
Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by Blackgurl247(f): 10:43pm On Jun 22, 2020
Yes very painful embarassed embarassed embarassed

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