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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Heineken(m): 7:22pm On Jun 26, 2020
comshots:
The Nigerian environment is not favourable to just leave your parents home without proper planning and a secured job.What if you leave and go and rent a house and one thing led to another you lost your job and cannot pay house rent and utility bills and the landlord give you a quit notice,where will you go to?You will go back to your parents house and start from a scratch.I know guys who left their parents houses and when they lost their jobs they couldn't go back home.They left their rented apartment when their rent expired and started squatting with friends.Their friends are also not comfortable with their continued living with them they have to go back home.
Boss you're right 100%

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 26, 2020
I’m not consoling him o grin grin
steveekeoma:
Consoling speech.
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 26, 2020
Possiblegee:
your parents should take good care of you if your still in school until your through with school t,that’s why I said at least 27/28
you can still work from home to save money. rushing to get your own apartment has left many youth damaged both financially and morally

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by eyizlive(m): 7:23pm On Jun 26, 2020
techmo:
cool


What works for A might not work for B, always find the balance

Read about Simon Cowell's life, read about The Founder of Kentucky's life

For me I left home very early for college 16/17, travelled out after service and never looked back since except visitation.. but my street brother stayed and married in his father's house, built a sport betting company from home, built his first house from home, leveraged on his father's Goodwill and became a caretaker LGA chairman, and became a multimillionaire ,


If I never had to pay huge rent because of Vagina aka Privacy I could have done a lot at home, and if I had stayed and put up with my parents "wahala" I would had been better motivated

Serving a Landlord by paying your rents to him is a sure way not to get your own house, always leverage on family support


.
True shii...leverage on family support but of course that's if there is any.

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:23pm On Jun 26, 2020
Whenever you get married.


I live in my papas house,
Eat all the food in the store, But he Still refils the store whenever the family is in town for holiday.
Am waay above 20, have a good business, Hell i even drive his car way he left for the compound despite having mine.

Don't pay rent, Don't pay bills grin grin

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Ikjosh04: 7:23pm On Jun 26, 2020
Is it only me that feels nairaland has become shit. Lot's of nonsense all over nairaland including the front page
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by techmo(m): 7:24pm On Jun 26, 2020
eyizlive:

True shii...leverage on family support but of course that's if there is any.

True, if you can't help don't be a burden

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 26, 2020
Exactly, that is it... A female child doesn't leave her parents house, untill they come for her hand, unless she is a working class, and her work is far from their house etc
Haywhymido:
For males 25-27.
For females until when them come for your hand in marriage. No go become corporate olosho by living alone o

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jun 26, 2020
I left my parents house at the age of 17...

Life was not fair, I have to go out to the world to hustle for the coins

Most times in life you have no choice than to fight the hard way and also don’t forget to put God no matter how hard things might be at that point in time

I give glory to God for everything!!!


Ps: I can’t speak for other people cuz we all are different, You should leave anytime you feel the time is right!!




LaJose78:
Like this post I saw on this blog, I hereby throw the question to you guys on NL.

https://punchng.com/at-what-age-should-an-adult-leave-their-parents-house/

For me age is not a matter especially in Nigeria. As long as you are above 18 and can hustle and you have a plan. You're good to go.

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by MetaPhysical: 7:25pm On Jun 26, 2020
LaJose78:
Like this post I saw on this blog, I hereby throw the question to you guys on NL.

https://punchng.com/at-what-age-should-an-adult-leave-their-parents-house/

For me age is not a matter especially in Nigeria. As long as you are above 18 and can hustle and you have a plan. You're good to go.

This question keeps coming up every so often.

The parents dont own the house, the children do. The parents are just housekeepers pending when children are ready to take over ownership.

grin
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by blingxx(m): 7:25pm On Jun 26, 2020
Juliusmomoh:
I left them at 10,
Hahahahahaha sorry o, am just trying to become a motivational speaker... Am still with them at 23 grin

so I'm not alone grin
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by zedegit: 7:28pm On Jun 26, 2020
Adonike:
My brother, once you graduate from school (especially higher institution), u no suppose go back home again.


That is in an ideal situation unless you want to Puppi.
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Niwdog(m): 7:28pm On Jun 26, 2020
LaJose78:

chai welldone
nothing like Weldon
I left at the age of 18
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by steveekeoma(m): 7:29pm On Jun 26, 2020
Possiblegee:
I’m not consoling him o grin grin
Ok motivational speaker
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jun 26, 2020
In my opinion, you can leave once you have a very good reason to leave and once you can take care of yourself.

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by kzubyar(m): 7:32pm On Jun 26, 2020
LaJose78:
Like this post I saw on this blog, I hereby throw the question to you guys on NL.

https://punchng.com/at-what-age-should-an-adult-leave-their-parents-house/

For me age is not a matter especially in Nigeria. As long as you are above 18 and can hustle and you have a plan. You're good to go.
it depend my younger brother got job and live with his family were as am 32 still staying with my parents. It all depends
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Glovoutu(m): 7:33pm On Jun 26, 2020
I tried staying with my mom @ 28 but was hell, i understood why she saparated & left my dad even when i was just 5. Now in lag & squarting with a married friend, waiting for my contract to be out make. Its not easy but experience i will 4ever cherish. Will luv 2 put my hands in2 something doing 4 little cash to help through this trying times while i wait. We pray insha allah

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by bukatyne(f): 7:33pm On Jun 26, 2020
techmo:
cool


What works for A might not work for B, always find the balance

Read about Simon Cowell's life, read about The Founder of Kentucky's life

For me I left home very early for college 16/17, travelled out after service and never looked back since except visitation.. but my street brother stayed and married in his father's house, built a sport betting company from home, built his first house from home, leveraged on his father's Goodwill and became a caretaker LGA chairman, and became a multimillionaire ,


If I never had to pay huge rent because of Vagina aka Privacy I could have done a lot at home, and if I had stayed and put up with my parents "wahala" I would had been better motivated

Serving a Landlord by paying your rents to him is a sure way not to get your own house, always leverage on family support


.

Experience is the best teacher.

I just rather other people's experience.

If your parents are not poor, your work is not too far from home and you have a bit of space, stay at home.

I know rich kids who stay at their parents' house investing their supposed rent and raking in millions.

That your street bros is so so wise.

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Reex12(m): 7:34pm On Jun 26, 2020
in saner climes its 18
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by kzubyar(m): 7:34pm On Jun 26, 2020
bukatyne:
Funny question, depends on family and economic status.

The richer one's family is, the less the pressure to leave the house before you are ready to (marriage or job).

When to leave the house without a concrete reason to do so is usually a discussion for the lower class.
fact's just like me still living with my mother's
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Haywhymido(m): 7:34pm On Jun 26, 2020
Anuoluwa1234:
Exactly, that is it... A female child doesn't leave her parents house, untill they come for her hand, unless she is a working class, and her work is far from their house etc
yea, you landed well
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by abayimi567: 7:34pm On Jun 26, 2020
left my parent house immediately I finish my secondary school 17 years den ,went to my mum junior brother place oo say mk I hutlze fr two years , Immediately i got admission I vamoot fr there as during my holidays I try to do some minimal work to gather myself up bfr resumption na final year I dae lk dis Sha so I haven't leave my parent since last three years nw.
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by iLearner: 7:34pm On Jun 26, 2020
The replies on this thread will make a lot of people feel they aren't doing enough for themselves.




Resist it!

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by bukatyne(f): 7:35pm On Jun 26, 2020
Plead:


Exactly.
It depends on family and social status.

True.

Richer people stay back home building wealth except when their parents' home is far or they have a very toxic relationship.

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Grateful02(m): 7:35pm On Jun 26, 2020
don't worry one will locate you. that's how I was told" face your fears" and the orda day a dog almost bite me

Juliusmomoh:
I left them at 10,
Hahahahahaha sorry o, am just trying to become a motivational speaker... Am still with them at 23 grin

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Jun 26, 2020
armyofone:
Better than making a place you lived as baby a permanent place in your 20s.
We will figure it out when that eventually happen to us - but in the meantime, move out of your parents home after university and go face life....it is called "grow up"
Let them rest from seeing you daily.

Face which life?It is only a nagging parents that can push a graduated son out on the street.
If a young graduate have a peaceful home he won't become a street hustler and a squatter.

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Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jun 26, 2020
Juliusmomoh:
I left them at 10,
Hahahahahaha sorry o, am just trying to become a motivational speaker... Am still with them at 23 grin
lolzzz
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by davidtemi(m): 7:36pm On Jun 26, 2020
LaJose78:

chai welldone
I just wonder which kind parent go leave him pikin at dat age anyway.
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by Haywhymido(m): 7:36pm On Jun 26, 2020
kheny12:
Not all ladies,some have plans and future.
lol, fear such ladies wey talk sey they av plan and future and they are not in school to further education and maybe job brought about it
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by cenaman(m): 7:36pm On Jun 26, 2020
Since my first year in college.
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by kareemkamil(m): 7:37pm On Jun 26, 2020
25 is ok
Re: At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House? by techmo(m): 7:37pm On Jun 26, 2020
bukatyne:


Experience is the best teacher.

I just rather other people's experience.

If your parents are not poor, your house is not too far from home and you have a bit of space, stay at home.

I know rich kids who stay at their parents' house investing their supposed rent and raking in millions.

That your street bros is so so wise.

Wise and very humble

Well like you said



Experience is the best teacher.

I just rather other people's experience.


Some of us can blame our ego from not learning from others

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