Encash:
No insult I repeat no insult. Please if you know you want to insult don't bother to comment.

I don't think the situation is that bad.
You have to find a way to make your marriage work. Afterall, you married her against all odds.

Be honest; are you cheating on her already?
What does she have against you?
Why does she not respect you?
Are you kind towards her?
Do you treat her as you would want to be treated?
You need to start afresh

Yes you should

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

lol...

I wonder why people will come here and be asking questions about their relationships as if we are the ones in the relationships. If your relationship is not working out and you are nor happy being in it, biko take a walk and stop coming here to disturb us with your stories. Vickyrotex abi kini mo wi?

Op this your story sha.....



i don't know if your deserve the insult you have got so far and the ones to come......


blc u dey yarn somehow


ten yrs with kids no issues but now.......


hmmm...ok oh continue....

but who called his wife (the mother of his child/ren) unprinted names just to score a point isn't worthy of marriage.

Bros coordinate urself.......and ask urself what you want.

osazsky:
So because u did introduction with 80 thousand naira..she is now ur wife...na wah o...in the first place u dont have any moral right to call her ur wife .she should be the one divorcing u not u divorcing her

Did you not see where he said they went to[b] REGISTRY for wedding[/b]?
You better get glasses, abi na old age?

dude, This life is not hard, cut your losses, divorce her and move on if she can't bring peace into your life

Dont stress yourself into an early death.

My stories of young men in their early 40s just slump and die without warning. Stress is a silent killer.

If she she is stressing your life, cut your losses dude.

stay b'cos of kids if you drop dead tomorrow (God forbid) because of mental and emotional stress, believe me after a few years she will have another man that your kids will be calling "daddy".
Your kids will grow up one day and live their own lives. Look after yourself. Move on, but make sure you look after your kids

Dicktion:
What a crooked story. OP call your wife here let's hear her own part of the story

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

It seems we are suffering the same thing. Mine maybe more than yours. The only thing mine is after in the house is give me money. I handle the house chores myself.
She brings problems for me from outside regularly. She sell our household properties as she wants it.
Anyway, marriage is meant to enjoyed and not to be endured. Marriage can be likened to a wrap gift, whatever you see there when you open is your own.

Fountainofyouth:
Endurance is very important in marriage, I know of a distant distant distant uncle who endured all manner of things in his marriage, and he's still there enduring, infact, his daughters always pray to have a husband like their father, becos of his high level of prayer and endurance, so Op pray very well ehn, you will be fine.

Then one has to ask him if it was worth it getting married, because obviously, his life sucks!

Oluromantic:
The change in attitude of women once they cross the wedding border is scary. I actually don't know what to say. I don't support divorce and abortions so I'd advice you do the praying for her and hope that God changes her. You will triumph by God's grace

Nobody can change anyone, it's onl God that can change someone and even, HE won't if you're not ready to change.
The woman must have personal conviction and act accordingly.

Is only God can save you now bro, reason fast.

Mariangeles:


I don't think the situation is that bad.
You have to find a way to make your marriage work. Afterall, you married her against all odds.

Be honest; are you cheating on her already?
What does she have against you?
Why does she not respect you?
Are you kind towards her?
Do you treat her as you would want to be treated?
You need to start afresh

You did not say anything about the demon, Spirit husband bitting his Pr!ck, what is your advice for that one?
What about the inlaws that conspire against him, wetin im go do about those scoundrels?

Oluromantic:
The change in attitude of women once they cross the wedding border is scary. I actually don't know what to say. I don't support divorce and abortions so I'd advice you do the praying for her and hope that God changes her. You will triumph by God's grace

i dont know why i laughed out loud at the bolded. sounds like what Men usually advice women to do when faced with infidelity in their marriage

@Op... do what pleases you. i dont support adults acting incorrigable over issues they ought to act responsibly for. If all you said is true and madam has remained adamant , refusing to seek help ... pls by all means..... do what pleases you... But wait a minute ... u actually mean ur dick is bitten 3 times yearly ? this one loud gannnnnnnnnnnnnn

May be ya wife dey for dark circle.
Na snake mouth na dem dey sabi give fék,pig and goat kpekus still dey but those wey dey give abnormal kpekus dey sabi nak but since you say ya wife hate sex, na there controversy dey...
Dem sabi give any for dark circle.
Find ya way... your life matter nor fight this battle.

Divorce straight nau.
You guys are trying o coping with nonsense. I can't.

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.

whatever the situation
please settle it with your wife


GOD HATE DIVORCE

One4me:


Did you not see where he said they went to[b] REGISTRY for wedding[/b]?
You better get glasses, abi na old age?

Nigerians are fools...so u wont do traditional marriage..which is d only one d bible recognise.sorry to say the guy is still single he is not a man.any body can go to court or church and sign papers..which respect is he expecting from is supposed wife siblings and uncles.. when them nerver break kola nut and palm win kinkin.. some guys are really stupid..just continue to cohabit hell awaits u

ojun50:
I have come to understand that one's women start giving birth dey start hating sex..

Op you are the one wearing the shoe, do what make you be at peace

No woman hates sex. It's just that when a woman starts sleeping with someone else, sleeping with her husband starts to irritate her. This is true 95% of the time

Na ur wife, which one be sey u dey pay bill? Na me go pay

Martinez39s:
Why do you think the story is crooked?

That lady is not as black as he painted. Dude is only hyperbolizing the story to his advantage in other to gain favor and the typa validation he so much crave for on NL
Why he couldn't state even a single happy memory they shared in his narrative. Or did he meet her like that and went ahead with the marriage

HarunaWest:
See vacuous story.. Very incoherent write up. A poor and shoddy synopsis . Why wouldn't your marriage be jeopardy.

I pray you find happiness in marriage.. I will not say more than that ..some situation would kill your articulation and sense of reasoning

Kemimarch16:
So you expect her to be paying house rent because? I don't know why u have to tell us that, please try to be a responsible man and that will change her character towards you

shut up girl respect and behave your self. At 16 whom do you want to advice and what do you know? He is your father's mate.

Kemimarch16:
So you expect her to be paying house rent because? I don't know why u have to tell us that, please try to be a responsible man and that will change her character towards you

U are asking again?

That's what most men expect from their wives, to pay house rent and school fees and also feeding.

So they ask those their silly questions : What are u bringing to the table?

I ask : Really?

Guys of these days ehn? Even the devil himself fears them and their liability mentality..

Thank God I don't need to deal with such mentality anymore.


Then encash , you are not serious! Only u said her spiritual husband is chasing u in dreams and also biting your dick!
And only u is still complaining she doesn't like sex. What exactly is your problem? The spirit husband chasing u in dreams after having sex with her or she not wanting sex anymore?

Sighs some men sef! Una case study Taya me.

supereagle:

It seems we are suffering the same thing. Mine maybe more than yours. The only thing mine is after in the house is give me money. I handle the house chores myself.
Anyway, marriage is meant to enjoyed and not to be endured. Marriage can be likened to a wrap gift, whatever you see there when you open is your own.

Emancipate yourself from that Marital Slavery!
You have ONLY ONE LIFE, dont let anyone suffer you through it.
If it doesn't work, it doesn't work, you cant change a woman by force.
LET HER GO, for your sanity and safety.

Dicktion:

That lady is not as black as he painted. Dude is only hyperbolizing the story to his advantage in other to gain favor and the typa validation he so much crave for on NL folks.
Why he couldn't state even a single happy memory they shared in his narrative. Or did he meet her like that and got married

ignore him..from what he typed the guy is 100000 percent irresponsible...he didn't marry her for 10 years and was waiting for her parent to die so that he can dodge marraige expenses now he is looking for respect cuz he paid 10 thousand naira to sign oredo local govt papers

Dande55:

Is she suppose to pay school fees and house rent? Why are you complaining about paying bills in the house? So that jobless men here can call her names or what exactly is your point?
Back to your issue: Why can't you work on your marriage? Maybe you should try dressing well and looking nice. Do you have pot belly? How's your sex game like?

Oh my

One4me:


You did not say anything about the demon, Spirit husband bitting his Pr!ck, what is your advice for that one?
What about the inlaws that conspire against him, wetin im go do about those scoundrels?

Well, if his life is in danger, he should be separated from her.
He cannot be forced to live where there's no peace.
No marriage is worth your peace.

UndauntedYOCA:
So if Muhammed refuses to go to the mountain them mountain must go see Muhammed (I hope that's how it's said sha), take a real pastor to your house and deliver her there. Ensure you lock the house oooo . Anyways, if she doesn't change her attitude I believe the best thing is to let her be, as much as I dislike broken homes, I'd suggest you not kill yourself over a woman who is not only draining you physically but also spiritually. You also have to go for deliverance o with the dreams you've been having and what's happening to your dick before it'll get chopped off one day.

I just dey imagine your countenance pronouncing the bolded

HarunaWest:
See vacuous story.. Very incoherent write up. A poor and shoddy synopsis . Why wouldn't your marriage be jeopardy.

Haruna be careful, na rubbish you dey type.

All these children that listen to all the shit their pastor tell them.....your pastors told you that she has spirit husband You are just frustrated financially and you are taking it out on the poor woman. From your write up you simply want her out by all means....citing spiritual husband, disrespect, etc as escuses. Go ahead and divorce... nosense

Encash:
I had introduction. We we're about to do the traditional marriage. Her mother died. I invited the family after two years since her parents are dead one of the distant uncle gave me a bill, including a cow. We opted for a court marriage. It was done.

But this woman is disrespectful. Pastors prophet tell she has a spirit husband. Sometimes I see a man fighting me in the dream. After sex smthing will bit my d..k. 3 times a year. She refused to go for deliverance. She is stubborn and self centered.

Her brothers and sisters are supporting her ill manners. Myself and brothers have gone to the police station once. This is because of the differences. Ok, Come and take your sister I won't see them. She can leave my kids for me or take them along. I do 80percent of the spending, paying house rent for more than 10 years and payment of fees. A frigid woman that hate sex like shit.

People advise I stay because of the kids. But I can't continue like this. I am fed up .

Please advise no insult.