franchasng:
men are not women.


Men are visual beings while women are emotional beings.


Take money out of it, most ladies will only fvck a man they are emotionally attached to.


But a man will fvck a lady he doesn't even know her first name so long as the lady have a body that arouses him. Men don't need to love a lady to fvck her, all they need is for her to have the physical attractiveness they desire, that's all.

Any man that tells u otherwise is lying to get u to spread your legs for him to fvck, run from such guys

Dannyfan:
is not me now. It is so disgusting shaa. Anyways he's already in the marriage let him deal with it. Spiritually and emotionally.

MrBrownJay1:


abstinence, you no wan do!
use condom, you no wan do!
pull out technique, you no wan do!
tell the babe to go on the pill, you no wan do!
morning after pill, you no wan do!
abortion, you no wan do!
give the baby up for adoption, you no wan do!

now you come to NL with sob stories?!??! why dont you go tell that story to the family who forced you to marry that stranger?!

any smart man will just divorce that woman and face the consequences, rather than being miserable for the rest of his natural life, but helas, a "man" you are not.

just wait, some clueless donkeys like Kalufelix will come and advise you to "hang in there"... lol!

ngwababe:
My father will always tell us, "meta onye di mma enyi, maka ọlụlụ".

How you men get erected to stick into a girl you don't love marvels me. I'm yet to know the difference between that silly attitude and rape.

Isn't it obvious yet to you that you're married? My brother, work out your salvation.

Dannyfan:
Lemme put it like this for you, I can't lay with someone I don't find attractive. And naturally for me I begin to fall for you when I find you attractive and might diminish when she's gone out of sight.

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

stanliwise:
I get you. But I must point out that in as much as we have the word “responsible”, we also have a word “over-responsible”.
A man who impregnated a girl is responsible for the pregnancy(During the stage), and the child when he/she is born. He has the responsibility of playing a fatherly role on the child. Getting married because one impregnate a girl is too much of a log to carry. And I feel it is nothing than BlackMail.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Ningen:
You only live once man. Don't waste it.

You don't have to cope, grow old and die in a loveless marriage, when you can divorce each other and move towards a very happy life.

Staying for your child??

He will do better with happy parents!
Regardless if the parents are together or apart.

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

gudvibz:
Try and get to know her, try understanding her and get all to her. Both of u need to sit down and talk about you (both) and ur likes and dislikes, virtually about everything, if nothing changes well separation or u bear it till the end.

You know love is grown

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

faithfull18:

Please, help us ask oh.

You choose to love, it's a decision.

Unless you mean you aren't sexually attracted to her anymore but I am sure you were when you were flinging upandan

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

bukatyne:


Brother Ollins,

If this lady is as terrible as this, how were you able to get an erection to stick it into her?

How did you start the toasting to get her into your bed and arms?

The same magic you worked to get her pregnant, use it again.

It is in you like peak!

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

franchasng:
Now you are talking.


That a lady is attractive to you does not mean u love her okay


If you can be honest to yourself, you would agree with me that you have come across nothing less than 50 ladies you found attractive this year alone, does it mean you love all 50 of those ladies just because they were attractive to you



Next time put it this way:


I cannot fvck a lady I don't find attractive!!



And that's how most men are wired. Men fvck based on sexual appeal not emotional connection which love dwells on

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

dvkot:
i wonder too.. Y'all can just stick your cane into any hole but you can't spend your life with her. Im probably sure you told her you love her before getting her pregnant

sylve11:
You're in for a long thing.
In the hay days when you're telling her you loved her just to spread her like bedsheet on top a sheet, so you're telling lies, isn't it?

I will not say much because If you nor know how song take start make you no go hurry dance put, before you go dance GARALA inside ASONTO....