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Please, bring him back to Nigeria!!!!

PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

This remind me of my Aunty's children all 3boys.everytime they did something wrong n u try to correct them.my aunty will b like pls don't touch them it's child abuse she spoil them alots with everything n anything they needed.things change when they start attacking their mum at age 14,10,7 .they hit her back anytime she hit them.their dad thrown her out of d house saying want a divorce he brought in a new wife n d children are f**kng happy.the kids doesn't take advise from nobody anymore cus iz too late n we cudnt help but left them on their own...

Some of us have not seen food to eat but someone is destroying the food he has.

please help me with anything

Train up a child in d way he should

Disgusting behavior.

Proverb 10:1

Spoilt brat!

Nawa

Na ibo boy

Diswan ma son from hades oo

Bring him to Nigeria for holiday common sense

Over petting na cause this stupidity

Tufiakwa

Spoilt children everywhere!!!

Sometimes, it is the same parents that causes these kids to become spoilt due to over pampering.

Now can you see the result?

Son from hell.

It was the woman that created this monster because she over-indulged him

Just read the comments, nairaland is home of pathetic tribalists.

Spoiled brat

Aflix:
Lol.......no be Nigeria this thing happen for na The pikin know say the mama no go fit do am anything

E dey happen for Nigeria too I don see one before only son dey refused to give him money

chai

FirefliesSun:
This person is a grown man. He shouldn't even be living with his parents at this age. As a mother there are some times you close your eyes to tell your children the age they should start living separately

So u want de mother to be staying alone in dat big apartment. Dis kind of child needs a correction center not to stay alone abeg. Anything that happens is de parents dat got de blame

StRichard:
Just read the comments, nairaland is home of pathetic tribalists.

u sure u not one of Dem?

Love gone wrong. Pickin dem pamper spoil. Well no rememedy.

I for recommend strong beating. But the time don pass. So pray.

They should put this boy away, an potential serial killer wey fit start by murdering his entire family while they sleep

Oga try dat shit for Nigeria, na neighbors go beat u...

This is the disadvantage of not given ur child all his request at a tender age cos when he is grown and u refuse his request reverse we be the case, at times I let my child knows that I don't have money to fulfil his demand. Shikena!

aremuforlife:
This is not about tribe but the western culture where you are not allowed to discipline your kids and our African people also over do it. It happens to everybody who failed to caution their kids at the tender age.

And you think African method has done better.....SMH....

Raised by a single mum, this is the main problem with the African American community in America now they are infecting Africans with feminism.
It's clear he lacks a father figure in his life

Doesn't look like it happened in Nigeria. The woman has a little blame for this too. She made him the idiot he is today