Do you think this can happen in Nigeria?
Even among rich people?
Chidera just wasted food that many people need and don't have.
They watched him, they were afraid to approach him cause he might hurt them
Hurt them as in? So if he was plucking the hair from the head of someone they won't have approached him?
They should have stopped him right from the onset
But they left him, as they have been leaving him before he became this tall and ....
Chidera can kill and commit suicide
Chidera has mental issues
Chidera is not in a good environment for his upbringing
He does not understand and appreciate his privileges
He is wasting life, resources and abusing family hood and son hood
He is entitled and feels his mother and father owe him
He feels entitled to rant and destroy because he was ignored by his mum while he was talking to her.


My Nigerian born and brought up people what do you have to say when you consider where you and I are coming from?
Some us came from homes where food couldn't waste because we ate it all, and when food remained we kept it till the next time we wanted to eat.
Some kept goats, pigs, dogs and other ways where we disposed of food. Many of us gave to those without food.
Breaking lantern globe or glass or clay pitcher for fetching water from the river was almost like a sacrilege. We dare not let it slip. It's better you fall let it land on your stomach than allow that glass break.

Oh what a life! We are rich now and we still live prudently, wisely, carefully and sanely.
We don't tear up money, we don't smoke with dollars, we don't smoke anything, we don't drink only to go and pee it out, we don't buy food and leave chunks of flesh on the bones in restaurants or parties just to show that we are not hungry, we don't buy unnecessary gadgets, aso ebi or jewellery, we stay in apartments we can afford, we don't spray in parties, we maintain our cars and phones so don't need to change them every 6 months

We are the prudent generation, the wise ones, the ones with values, the ones with shame and fear, with respect and honour for our elders, the ones with money and sense, the ones who are not entitled but strive to better our lives, we have godly contentment and don't break TV screens or car windscreens when we are angry or upset.

We read comments from people on Nairaland which may be annoying but we don't make it our lives purpose to find the culprit to avenge, we move on, we forgive, we overlook, we are bigger, better, and more mature. We know and believe that we shall reap what we sow. We rever God. We see those who troll, curse, derail, peddle tribal rivalry and political hatred and pray silently for them because we know they'll reap what they sow. The ones they insult end up raising funds for them, giving them lifts or employing them.

Chidera will not always have a mother whose kitchen he can trash.
He may not always be left to be destructive.
One day he will be taken away and his words will be 'mummy, don't let them take me, mummy please!'

But then it will be late and we will be watching with popcorn and sprite

Tis obvious the woman isn't the biological mother or she raised him as single parent

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I'm African......


I never said western method is better ..


What I want is that whether black or white, we must treat each other with love and respect.......

Using the road against your children doesn't help.....

What helps is the ability to change their psyco-mental life....

Treat your children with love.......it they're wrong, call them and point things out to them......show them how to do it......
I believe you're a Christian....and your bible says that God forgives our sins....then forgive your children as well.....I also believe that when we make mistakes, we don't flog ourselves, rather we try to talk ourselves into becoming better, if we can to this to ourselves, why can't we treat others like this.....



I can proudly tell you that I live my life far from what my parents wanted......
It doesn't make me bad.......in as much all their bad attitudes hit me, I took the chisel and hammer and shaped myself to whom I am today...
Every second, so long as I breathe, I shape myself with the chisel and hammer.....

I wish I had more strength, I could said more.....

Keep the convo going and I'll tell you more

According to that same Bible, it said spare the road and spoil the child.
Proverbs 13:24 would read, “He who spares accountability hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.
"Aya omode ni were di si egba lama fiyo"

aremuforlife:

According to that same Bible, it said spare the road and spoil the child.
Proverbs 13:24 would read, “He who spares accountability hates his son, but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.
"Aya omode ni were di si egba lama fiyo"

I am not yoruba......


I know people who have dealt with by the rod but never changed...........


Using the rod, majority of the times makes people bitter and hypocritical.......

Besides you've not addressed what i said up there

I thought it was a 8yrs old kid sef ...a full grown adult for the matter when me don dey help momcy sell market since 10 ...spoilt children

Wow

omenka:
Don't you dare condemn it o. According to our friend, what he did is right, that is why I'm being reported to the mods for condemning his actions.

All of them are just the same.

Spits. Igbos are a hazard to humanity. No wonder the FG labelled them Terrorists. Tell me if the boy in that video doesnt have the tendency to kill his parents.

post=91496580:

Truer words have never been spoken.
You've said it all.
Nothing to be added, nothing to be taken away.
May God never give us the pikin wey go kill him parents with wahala.
Porn.star Cownu is a perfect example of a killer child.
May his parents soul continue to RIP.

Sigh!!

So you’re tribalistic too. Mmmm

NaijaOlosho:
Over petting na cause this stupidity

Pure stupidity!

God bless Nigerian culture!

No home training, no manner, spoilt child, wasted sperm!

Spoilt Brat! As big as he is him no get sense

This kind one fit come back to kill his parents.

I tried to avoid this thread..I am annoyed..

That’s Ireland not Nigeria

chillychill:
Lmao family members were pleading for him to stop? All dese spoilt rich kids seff, wait o abi he is mad ni? .. If to say na my house (which can't b by God's grace) Worh my mama n all dose "family members"go too beat am come call police make dem lock am up for lik 2days. Rubbish omo onibaje

I no go too blame d guy sha na d way dem bring am up na him dem seff dey see

This guy is an American junkie now. The mother still loves him if not 911 will either send him to jail or the ground.

FirefliesSun:
[s]This person is a grown man. He shouldn't even be living with his parents at this age. As a mother there are some times you close your eyes to tell your children the age they should start living separately[/s]

This only works in Nigeria.

Xavfra:





I am not yoruba......


I know people who have dealt with by the rod but never changed...........


Using the rod, majority of the times makes people bitter and hypocritical.......

Besides you've not addressed what i said up there

There is an adage in yoruba that said " omo ti baba ba feran lobawi" that is : the father will only scold the child he loves.
You scolding your child does not means you hate the child, it only shows how you care about the future of your child. The westerners will tell don't scold your child, but they are ready to take the child away from you when he/she goes wayward.

The only way to handle a stupid child as Chidera is to arrange his mates on the street to waylay him and beat his ass up badly. Fucking bastard of a child, this is what you get when you Bleep around anyhow, who knows he might be a bastard the mother pinned on her innocent husband.

That’s not America because they mentioned Garda meaning it’s happen in Rep of Ireland

From the video, I think it’s happened in Dublin or Dundalk because he wants to go to UCD

oluwaahmed:
This guy is an American junkie now. The mother still loves him if not 911 will either send him to jail or the ground.

This is every parent's nightmare. a basttard son indeed

aremuforlife:

There is an adage in yoruba that said " omo ti baba ba feran lobawi" that is : the father will only scold the child he loves.
You scolding your child does not means you hate the child, it only shows how you care about the future of your child. The westerners will tell don't scold your child, but they are ready to take the child away from you when he/she goes wayward.

Probably you don't get my point

omenka:
Don't you dare condemn it o. According to our friend, what he did is right, that is why I'm being reported to the mods for condemning his actions.

All of them are just the same.

Spits. Igbos are a hazard to humanity. No wonder the FG labelled them Terrorists. Tell me if the boy in that video doesnt have the tendency to kill his parents.

for ur mind now u don talk something...ewu. Dnt be a tribalist. Dat dude didn't grew up here in Nigeria I guess.

If this idiot- boy tries this in our house, eh? The kind beating im for chop computer no fit count am. In this hard times? I guess he's the only son and he was pampered.

This is an example of mummy's boy. If daddy wants to discipline him when he was a kid, mummy will be shouting don't kill my pikin for me o. Na women una see una self? Don't be surprised in spite of all these, the mother still love him more that other children. Ask the police to detain him for 3months now, na lie the next day the mother will go and bail him. But if am the father, I will take my wife very far and make sure he does not set his eyes on her in his life But sha, you're dealing with a mother and her son. Mother's love for her son is strong. She fit begin suffer BP. Abeg I no no again jare, d matter tire me. Let's join hand and put him in prayers to change

StRichard:
Just read the comments, nairaland is home of pathetic tribalists.

it’s disheartening

God bless you for your input. Teach a child the way he or she should grow and they will never depart from it. The parents are to blame here.

This boy wasn't raised properly. Even though they ain't my parents, I feel so ashamed of them. Shame on the parents because they caused it 90%. What a spoilt and irritating boy! Rubbish!

PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

E go be okoro of course... Awon Developer m'fvcker... Dem no get respect for dem dictionary. All dem sabi na chest beating and arrogance as seen in this stupid child.

he needs to learn the art of an Omoluabi.

Chidera needs to be cured of hormonal imbalance.

chillychill:
Lmao family members were pleading for him to stop? All dese spoilt rich kids seff, wait o abi he is mad ni? .. If to say na my house (which can't b by God's grace) Worh my mama n all dose "family members"go too beat am come call police make dem lock am up for lik 2days. Rubbish omo onibaje

I no go too blame d guy sha na d way dem bring am up na him dem seff dey see

That place be like USA, them no dey beat pikin anyhow for America

I don't understand again sef...please did he do this rubbish in Nigeria or overseas??...because I'm sure it can't be in Nigeria