PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

post=91496178:

This must be one of the animals that claim they live in a zoo.
Swines everywhere.
Bastard pikin disgracing their parents 24/7.
What a shame!

Family members begging him to stop?!
The animal they are supposed to beat like thief wey wan steal transformer.
I trust our brothers from the west,
after the family deal with him,
Him no go ever try the rubbish again.
See as he scatter food everywhere yakata!

aremuforlife:
Some times you need to let this kids experience the other part of life. They believe all their demands should given.

armyofone:
Best thing is call the police and file restraining orders.

What a wayward son!

Hopefully mama send him out asap. Doesn't look like a responsible son (who put on nightie in the daytime)?

One4me:


In the Video, the woman told the peopel present (cant say who they are to her though, family, neighbours, friends) that she called the Police (which she called Gardie (spelt Gardai for Irish Police)) but they REFUSED to remove the Boy from the House! ) and that is why she is helpless.
It alo spoints to the fact that the Boy is still underage, he is probably less than 16yrs in age but the size of a Nigerian 24yr old man
At times like this, in my own opinion, is when the father would have stepped him and beat him silly and knock some sense into the Boy's head but from the same Video, one can deduce that she has done away with the father hence, she is completely at the mercy of the wayward Son.

Imagine what would happen to her, if this by decide to act out in the middle of the night, one of these days?
I dont envy her at all.

SAMBARRY:
o my goodness... See balderdash and you're proud of the complete thrash you wrote?


Are you trying to be funny or what?


You clearly lack comprehension and engaging you in a conversation is obviously a waste of time.keep Taking my points out of context

Smh...asho Goh bayi?

PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

post=91516498:
Omenka, simplyLeo... una dey see wetin d mods do so?

Same thing we keep saying always.

NwekeUG:


https://igberetvnews.com/1357325/angry-son-destroys-food-items-mums-kitchen-mums-refusal-grant-request-photos-video/

Saucyxo:



The boy is 17. Has lived in foster care for over four years because of repeated abuse cases. The police don’t like taking children away from their parents. For them to take the kid away, she must have been very abusive. She poured pepper in his eyes because he wanted to go to university. Well done. Nigerians love passing judgment without context.

One4me:




Well, like others, we can only rely on what is available in the video.
Where and how did you get all these not-in-video statements? (l am not making a judgement on whether they are true of false, you could be the Mother or their family or neighbour or someone who knew them one on one, so l can only ASK).

But should that be the case, I am certain the Police will not come and hear that she poured Pepper in a child's eye and still not arrest her for Child abuse.
Infact, there is nothing the Police love doing to Black parents than taking away their Children because there are tons of White people who dont want to go through the rigour of Child-bearing and are on queue to adopt such children.
Ordinary leave a Small Child alone in the house to go and buy something in the grocery store next street, if your neighbour calls Police, that may lead to your losing that child if your Lawyers are not sharp.
What exactly is the context here?
No, your narrative will require more detailed, verifiable facts to become the mainstream on this one.

Mummyfour:
hipocricy is when you hate igbos and reveal it on naira .

Saucyxo:


I have personal connections. If you go on the instablog twitter page, other personal connections have come forward to make corresponding statements and they’ve made an update.

Please stop with this narrative. This isn’t conspiracy theory. Most people that adopt black kids adopt them from Africa and they’re Americans. Ireland is not America. The Irish government won’t even take your kids away if you’re homeless. As someone that also works in child protection I’m telling you taking a child away from their parents is EXTREMELY tasking.

One4me:


l am talking about Foster Parenting, that comes before adoption in cases like this.
Moreover, l know Police to have taken away Children from at least two families so l am not also not 'unaware' of how this rolls.

Anyway, anyone that claims this woman has the capacity to pour Pepper into this Boys eyes, judging by his size, strength and what he is capable of doing, AS SEEN IN THIS VIDEO, needs to show us a Video/Proof of such claim.

And pouring Pepper into a boy's eye and being homeless are totally two different things. Apples Vs. Oranges.
One is called Child abuse (and for someone that works in Child Protection Service, l would assume you will know) while Homelessness is akin to a natural disaster which is not always the fault of the Parents. taking the Child of a homeless person (Homeless for example due to Eviction from Rented property) will only be a temporary thing, just to allow the Parents sort out their accomodation issue.

Taking a Child away from a parent for a grevious bodily harm like putting Pepper in the eyes of a Child will land any parent in prison, takemy word for it and that Child will be taken into Care Home/Foster Home right away.

IME1:
Do you think this can happen in Nigeria?
Even among rich people?
Chidera just wasted food that many people need and don't have.
They watched him, they were afraid to approach him cause he might hurt them
Hurt them as in? So if he was plucking the hair from the head of someone they won't have approached him?
They should have stopped him right from the onset
But they left him, as they have been leaving him before he became this tall and ....
Chidera can kill and commit suicide
Chidera has mental issues
Chidera is not in a good environment for his upbringing
He does not understand and appreciate his privileges
He is wasting life, resources and abusing family hood and son hood
He is entitled and feels his mother and father owe him
He feels entitled to rant and destroy because he was ignored by his mum while he was talking to her.


My Nigerian born and brought up people what do you have to say when you consider where you and I are coming from?
Some us came from homes where food couldn't waste because we ate it all, and when food remained we kept it till the next time we wanted to eat.
Some kept goats, pigs, dogs and other ways where we disposed of food. Many of us gave to those without food.
Breaking lantern globe or glass or clay pitcher for fetching water from the river was almost like a sacrilege. We dare not let it slip. It's better you fall let it land on your stomach than allow that glass break.

Oh what a life! We are rich now and we still live prudently, wisely, carefully and sanely.
We don't tear up money, we don't smoke with dollars, we don't smoke anything, we don't drink only to go and pee it out, we don't buy food and leave chunks of flesh on the bones in restaurants or parties just to show that we are not hungry, we don't buy unnecessary gadgets, aso ebi or jewellery, we stay in apartments we can afford, we don't spray in parties, we maintain our cars and phones so don't need to change them every 6 months

We are the prudent generation, the wise ones, the ones with values, the ones with shame and fear, with respect and honour for our elders, the ones with money and sense, the ones who are not entitled but strive to better our lives, we have godly contentment and don't break TV screens or car windscreens when we are angry or upset.

We read comments from people on Nairaland which may be annoying but we don't make it our lives purpose to find the culprit to avenge, we move on, we forgive, we overlook, we are bigger, better, and more mature. We know and believe that we shall reap what we sow. We rever God. We see those who troll, curse, derail, peddle tribal rivalry and political hatred and pray silently for them because we know they'll reap what they sow. The ones they insult end up raising funds for them, giving them lifts or employing them.

Chidera will not always have a mother whose kitchen he can trash.
He may not always be left to be destructive.
One day he will be taken away and his words will be 'mummy, don't let them take me, mummy please!'

But then it will be late and we will be watching with popcorn and sprite

PoliticallyInco:
Interesting.

These are the types that murder their parents in their sleep. Calling the police on him might even make him more vengeful and destructive.

I want to believe he was barely disciplined as a child. He demands and he is given. Now he sees every demand of his as a wish to be fulfilled. So now he wants this and that and his mum's documents, rummages in her hand bag, seizes her phone and car keys, etc. Boundaries were hardly set and disciplined into him. Clearly. The thought of doing such to my mum makes me shudder. Because it has been disciplined into me that such boundaries cannot be thought of not to talk of being crossed.

I am not saying well disciplined kids all turn out to be great as teenagers. There are kids who still turn out to be black sheep. But it is still advisable to properly raise a child with discipline on dos and don'ts. And please let us stop thinking that raising a child based on African standards is a bad thing. There are a lot of good morals and wisdom about life in general that applies globally.

Get this young man out of your house and off to college or wherever pretty fast. He might soon shift his attention to physically harming the mother. Manage him and get him out of your house. After all children aren't your property. Nature only choose you to bring an individual into the world. Life will teach him great lessons without being under the protective care of "mama". It will either destroy him or make him but in the end definitely humble him.

One4me:


He is not even the only child of that family, there is a point in the video the Mother asked the junior one to "bring my car keys" and the junior one answered that he acnt find the Key.
He is just the eldest of the Children of the family

Even if he was an only Child, that is not an excuse for this heresy of a behaviour.
But is it a coincidence that MAJORITY of BLACK Children raised by Single Parents (in Europe/UK and America especially) end up being delinquents?
Many have taken surveys of the Prisons in these countries and the statistics confirm this.
I understand why women, especially those who have driven their husband away or who are single Mothers, will not like that REALITY.
But the Truth is the Truth.

mickyarams:
I was 12 years old when we moved to the UK, and after some few months I made the mistake of telling my dad I will call the social services on him for shouting at me one morning. The first thing he did, he called his work place he won't be coming in because of family emergency, that was when I knew I 4cked up big time!! The kind of a55 whooping I got, I never ever made that mistake again.

Saucyxo:


Ireland and America are two different countries. I just don’t know families whose children have been taken away, I oversee and manage cases of hundreds of children. I know children with cases of sexual assault in the family and they are still there! Don’t tell me about my profession! It’s okay to not know things .

I can see now I’m talking to someone who has again made judgement without context.
No matter the homelessness, there are newborns that are sleeping in shelters in Ireland. There are newborns on the streets in Ireland.
No they won’t! This is not america!!!! America is not standard for what is done in Europe. Stop watching tv and travel! Irish parents beat their kids. I don’t know a single Irish child ( and I know THOUSANDS) that did not grow up being spanked. Parents have told me what they will do to their children when they get home. Spanking only got banned FOUR years ago. And it was a struggle ban. Lots of resistance. And it’s not enforced at all.

The child will be taken into foster care right away. Fantasy land. Safeguarding isn’t a one case issue. The government do not want to take kids away. To what benefit? So they can pay for the child’s accomodation, food, personal costs. Have you seen the statistics on children raised in care, what government would encourage this?!

Let me just SMILE and Give-Up on this your 'I know Ireland more than you'.
McDowell must be having a laugh at you right now.
Only "If you know"

Ryan03:
I never grew up with my dad, five kids raised by my mum and if you try nonsense, you die. The woman is a tiger Some kids were raised by both parents and still turned out bad

Philadelphia:


You're the one needing that education since you lack basic comprehension abilities.
Read my comment well before mentioning me.
Your mention lacks wisdom and you're a sick fellow for trying to spread foolishness to me by mentioning me.

If you're a servant of the devil, that's your issue to deal with. I choose to blame whosoever I want to.

Are you assistant devil or one of his gay concubines?

Why the thing dey pain you like this na?