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In your thoughts: She got a rich and very generous man who pays her monthly alawee. Why can't i get someone like that


at times we don't get to have what we're too desperate for..
Dey wait for man wey go carry your financial burden...

You go OLD

Liliantalks:
is that how you overcome jealousy, or you can’t read ? Why do u guys always expose ur insecure asses everywhere .. u must make it be about a girl wanting money that you do not hv . You are even worst than I am , probably jealous of rich generous men out there. Stay in cue , hopefully reasonable comments are coming.

Nebes:
Acknowledge the feeling but don’t give it verbal expression.

If possible express admiration for the person’s result and ask for help to achieve yours.

You will be totally surprised how easy you will achieve your desires by appreciating others and asking for help.

My dear nothing just happens. If they have it and you don’t, there’s definitely something they are doing differently.

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lol. [s]Did I lie?

You are jealous because your friend got a cheerful giver of a man and you've never had such a man.
I vividly remember a thread where you lamented of always getting stingy men

I have told you.. you go OLD [/s]

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lol. Did I lie?

You are jealous because your friend got a cheerful giver of a man and you've never had such a man.
I vividly remember a thread where you lamented of always getting stingy men

I have told you.. you go OLD

tundchip2:

Damn,
broke bitter people everywhere..

I see, you're jealous of the OP too.

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you know me before?

Theundertaker:
My friend got a new phone back then when I couldn’t afford one , I felt bad , like maybe the world was against me succeeding , but at the end of the day , u just hav to realize that u hav to move on with ur life , jealousy is a very unhappy feeling. Force urself to be happy with the situation even if U are not .keep pray for ur own. God will bless you I promise

tundchip2:

Damn, who broke you? I can smell low self esteem from a mile away.
Try and build yourself, you don't need to be all macho on a faceless forum.

Liliantalks:
yeah force myself, but I feel like just avoiding the person till I get mine

Theundertaker:
are you girls very close

Kryptonvinyl:
[s]Hmm. Jealousy can push someone to commit murder. Its been happening since times past, like Abel and Cain, or you'll hear stories of a junior prince killing his Senior just to become king etc etc[/s].

Let it out. Focus on the reality and stop dreaming of fantasies. Try to improve yourself and see if things will turn for the better. Good luck! Me sef have my own problems

Liliantalks:
yeah we are ,, and surely if we see she would talk and talk about it , I don’t want to give a write facial expression or say something wrong that might show I feel jealous.

Liliantalks:
thanks would try .

Liliantalks:
thanks would try .

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please don't tell me you are from ika

Stop soiling our name with your stupid entitled mentally abeg

Liliantalks:
abeg shift

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my agbor sister

Oya no vex I'll give you a proper advice now

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you know me before?
why would I be jealous of an entitled nairaland girl who wants a cheerful giver but has never gotten one?

Miserable people will just come out from nowhere and call other people who are better than them 'broke'. Just cuz na faceless forum

Featherbrained bomboclaat! Go and vent your frustration on your wretched parents and God who put your in a cursed lineage. And cursed shall you remain till you die of penury and buried like a bushrat

Liliantalks:
Jealousy is an inevitable snicky feeling , it’s a feeling that you always are in denial of ,, maybe cause u don’t want people to see you as a bad person, but truth is it happens to everyone

Liliantalks:
Jealousy is an inevitable snicky feeling , it’s a feeling that you always are in denial of ,, maybe cause u don’t want people to see you as a bad person, but truth is it happens to everyone but they never want to admit it, but here in a faceless forum, I think we should talk about it , how do u cope and how did u overcome . For the first time I feel like I am jealous of someone , I really don’t want to , but it’s happening , I really want to get rid of the feeling but hasn’t been easy , I hv watched a lot of YouTube videos in other to stop , it helps! but not enough. I know my own blessing is coming , I hv pep talk myself million of times. But the feeling won’t go away. Been in denial about it but just kinda admitted to myself , that it is what it is.
The feeling of why can’t i get it when she got it , now she would feel she’s better than me. I feel like totally avoiding this person, but she hasnt done enough for me to take such action. Yeah it’s a crazy feeling. How do you overcome this feeling..

To the self righteous that’s gonna write nonsense on this thread. Na you get ur mouth .

KenBen217:

This post is not to be underrated. this topic you have brought is a very sensitive one I remember commenting something a few weeks ago in this same tune of jealousy. I always used to see myself as this brilliant guy with a lot of potential who'd go out to the world to show his genius. I used to feel I'll be big by 20...my dear,reality cleared my eyes,I'm still far behind most of the goals I've set for myself,and recently,I started feeling a very strong sense of jealousy towards my best friend...trust me...my very best friend..however,I had to hit my self back to reality and tell myself that in this life,I should get comfortable with people being bigger than me or richer than me. I am not accepting defeat,I'm being realistic because it is reality. so if someone is doing better than me...what is my reaction.i accept it,and live with the truth,and use it as inspiration to try to do better for myself...if you know how I jealous my friends wey the get fine fine girlfriends that way wey girls dey shakara for me ehn...lol...inside life...you'll be alright sha [quote author=Liliantalks

KenBen217:

This post is not to be underrated. this topic you have brought is a very sensitive one I remember commenting something a few weeks ago in this same tune of jealousy. I always used to see myself as this brilliant guy with a lot of potential who'd go out to the world to show his genius. I used to feel I'll be big by 20...my dear,reality cleared my eyes,I'm still far behind most of the goals I've set for myself,and recently,I started feeling a very strong sense of jealousy towards my best friend...trust me...my very best friend..however,I had to hit my self back to reality and tell myself that in this life,I should get comfortable with people being bigger than me or richer than me. I am not accepting defeat,I'm being realistic because it is reality. so if someone is doing better than me...what is my reaction.i accept it,and live with the truth,and use it as inspiration to try to do better for myself...if you know how I jealous my friends wey the get fine fine girlfriends that way wey girls dey shakara for me ehn...lol...inside life...you'll be alright sha [quote author=Liliantalks