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NerdyRudeGyal:
I don't understand this whole idea of giving females transport fares in Nigeria. When y'all have turned yourselves into ATMs why won't some of them pull a fast one on you like this?

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
You have been scammed by a real niggarrr....they are not ladies
Just drop the phone number..

Make i chat the person up with a foreign number
I go use America number or Italian number
Have done this for one of my real niggarrr before unto the babe agree to sell her WeChat account for my real niggarrr..but after my nigggar pay her finish... she begin dey form smart
immediately i started chatting with the girl....she just begin send me some of her sweet pictures with nice camel toe

Base on me like woman na....I be don lose guard...but na fuckkk up say i nor do wetin my guy send me...

Those her pictures move me sha...i.must confess..but as a real niggarrr....i control myself...I for say make i post her pictures here but i nor know whether he dey appropriate

stanliwise:
Even if you create the bond there is no guarantee that you won’t be scammed. The true way out is to identify games and know who are the players. If you Fail this step you would always fall victim

dominique:
You're the one that wants a relationship yet you can't leave your comfort zone to go and visit her. You expect her to risk her life to embark on a dangerous journey to meet a stranger who may rape or kill her. This generation of men are very silly. Ladies continue to milk them of transport fare till they get sense.

youngsahito:
she once said it that a lady that collect tfare without visiting d guy is a criminal.

nusdog:
I know I let my guards down. So there was this lady who I would call Miss T. She was introduced to me by her senior sister who I knew through a facebook group. Since I told her I needed a girl for a serious relationship, she said she will link me to her younger sister in Akungba, Ondo state.

So, fast forward to when I began speaking with Miss T, she agreed to come to see me in Lagos but complained of not having enough for transport. So due to the recommendation i got that she was a good lady, I sent her N11, 000 as transport.

So after sending her this money, only for her to call me on the eve of the day she was supposed to come. that one of her relative was ill. So I just had this feeling that this was too coincidental to be true.

So I tried to cajole her to return the money since I sensed she was trying to play smart with me. She said no problem. That I can send my account number, which I did. After waiting for 3 days, I chatted her up on whatsapp that I'm yet to see any alert from her. Only for her to tell me she needs money for now.

So I said she is supposed to keep her promise of returning it, after which, she blocked her on whatsapp. I contacted her senior sister who linked us and her response too wasn't satisfactory to me.

So I'm really bitter with how the whole episode played, any chances of me recovering my money? just pained why someone will block me on top of my money. Please help.

luminouz:
You dey mind that liar...
11k from akungba to Lagos?
Na flight she wan take?

govomotors:
Mine was 7yrs ago, I met a lady online after several communication, she promised coming from school (Delsu) to Abuja for a weekend.

Then I was still paying upfront, she said her transport was 7k so I sent 10k considering the fact that she will need to eat along the way.

The morning she was to leave for Abuja, I called her to know if she have boarded the bus. She said no, I asked her what was the issue? She said how do I expect her to come without making her hair. Because I have made advance payment for transport, I accepted sending additional #5,000.

The following day she called to say she cannot make it again as exam was scheduled for that weekend. That is when I realize I played a fool of myself and the relationship ended.

My guy, move on but never again you make an upfront payment.

mrkels:
I can’t even be wasting my time chatting with a girl that does not have transport fare . If you are extremely cute I ll tell you to borrow from someone and I ll reimburse you . If you can’t borrow , then I ll just completely ignore you like you never even existed . Note any girl that doesn’t have transport to come would become a leech in your life later on . She’s not ready to in a relationship with genuine intentions . She’s just looking for a handout and would always run to the highest bidder / mugu

lefulefu:
u need to be flogged thoroghly
no doubt she and her elder sister planned it together and just scammed u
chai Randy91 wetin be ur solution to this matter
oya op take am

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
You have been scammed by a real niggarrr....they are not ladies
Just drop the phone number..

Make i chat the person up with a foreign number
I go use America number or Italian number
Have done this for one of my real niggarrr before unto the babe agree to sell her WeChat account for my real niggarrr..but after my nigggar pay her finish... she begin dey form smart
immediately i started chatting with the girl....she just begin send me some of her sweet pictures with nice camel toe

Base on me like woman na....I be don lose guard...but na fuckkk up say i nor do wetin my guy send me...

Those her pictures move me sha...i.must confess..but as a real niggarrr....i control myself...I for say make i post her pictures here but i nor know whether he dey appropriate

emmabest2000:
there's no lady in the picture
Both of them are guys


Sorry for your lose dude

mrkels:
I can’t even be wasting my time chatting with a girl that does not have transport fare . If you are extremely cute I ll tell you to borrow from someone and I ll reimburse you . If you can’t borrow , then I ll just completely ignore you like you never even existed . Note any girl that doesn’t have transport to come would become a leech in your life later on . She’s not ready to in a relationship with genuine intentions . She’s just looking for a handout and would always run to the highest bidder / mugu

anthropizzy:
Nice one bro but why did you jonze the babe now?
She truly love you o

stanliwise:
Please Bro move on and forget that money. She played you first, se you were desperate for a relationship and here it has landed you. Don’t make us believe you want to just invite her over for chat and hangout. Next time, if you must play games, then you must be a player. If you don’t want to play games then you must understand how to avoid games. But I bet you don’t. You need to work on your social life bro.

lastclaire4:
count your losses and move on. Dont collect that money back, it makes it look like you were actually giving her the money because you want to satisfy yourself the other way. Leave the money and retain your respect.

Chris2863:
Afonjas will say Pele