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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by blinking001(m): 8:57pm On Jul 18, 2020
Noted
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by sylve11: 8:57pm On Jul 18, 2020
All right o. cool
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Usorohtheman(m): 8:58pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:


I no dey tire o. I dey enjoy am. It is my trademark to write about the ladies and it is geared towards making them wiser and better.
See, it is very sad that we live in a wicked and uncaring world of men where ladies have become endangered in many ways. Men can get away with almost anything when it comes to romance but it is not the same with women even when many want to live in self-denial.

This is why I chose to focus on the female gender so that they will be well informed...it is now left for those who are wise to learn.

Even lalasticlala know sey i dey make sense.

Who are those that are wise? Why are some people wiser than others?
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by morris477(m): 8:58pm On Jul 18, 2020
If only they will listen
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by owoshuyi(m): 8:59pm On Jul 18, 2020
One of the purposes of God's creation of a Woman was for her to HELP HIM, and not just to chop everything from him.

Man should provide for her and the children, and she too must HELP in making that possible by working and planning with him.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by daddymummy(m): 8:59pm On Jul 18, 2020
That is what i use to say.

Is it fair that there are 2 genders in this world(males and females) but females are carrying themselves as if they are higher than males sexually?

That is why they place demands on men when it comes to relationship.

It is this sexual superiority mentality that makes them do so.

Why should it be so?

Men have their sex organs and females also have their own.

One gender needs another to be satisfied

What then makes a woman to feel her sex organs is more important than that of men?

Do they not go to toilet and also urinate using their sex organs?

They even discharge more impurities via their sex organs(like menses and other impurities) more than males.

But they(females) carry themselves so arrogantly that they are superior to males.

They believe a man must pay to have them,a man must spend to have them.

A man is the one that will behave well in order to have them.

But women believe they need not behave well.

Is it fair to the male gender that they must behave properly/excellently in his interaction with females but a woman does not need to behave

properly towards a man ?

That is why if a man does not behave properly while interacting with females,the females will say the man is behaving like a woman.Can you imagine that.

She treats you anyhow/badly but she does not expect you to treat her anyhow/badly.



So to treat others anyhow is only the right of women,abi?

A man must always respect and treat a woman well but a woman can act anyhow?

If a man stands up for his right against a woman,they say he is not man enough(or is acting like a woman),but if a woman stands up for her right

against a man,everybody will applaud and support her

Why?

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by edward1106(m): 8:59pm On Jul 18, 2020
grin grin Lady reads up and hisses.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by gift2xl: 9:00pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care
of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.


well said.
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by vickydevoka(m): 9:00pm On Jul 18, 2020
Oga just try n get use to it.
U see all those ladies way de fry akara for road , they once made such statement. Na woman we de talk about ,we Sabi Dem finish.
My customer use borrowed car marry him wife as wife enter belle come enter join, b4 she realize say de man no get money na jst body him get, it was too late

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by luminouz(m): 9:02pm On Jul 18, 2020
Is this a counter thread to 'avoid the stingy guys' thread? grin grin




Sounds like fun...lemme settle down and read
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by vickydevoka(m): 9:03pm On Jul 18, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
If you write it from now till December it won't change anything to them that entitlement mentally has filled their mind and eaten up their brain
God bless you. It can Never n will never.
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by luminouz(m): 9:05pm On Jul 18, 2020
ashewoboy:
awon feminist will not like thischeesy.


awon alpha males will like thischeesy.


Ohhhhh...WE LOVE IT grin cheesy

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by foxxydude: 9:05pm On Jul 18, 2020
Naija musicians dey fuel the entitlement mentality with their lyrics grin

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by vickydevoka(m): 9:05pm On Jul 18, 2020
rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.
Ya u are right. Seeing our dad cater for everything. Buh things have changed

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by mcdokwe(m): 9:05pm On Jul 18, 2020
Them no dey use Igbo tell am oyibo man
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by vickydevoka(m): 9:06pm On Jul 18, 2020
foxxydude:
Naija musicians dey fuel the entitlement mentality with their lyrics grin
Especially zlatan. Very right

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jul 18, 2020
This toks guy should take a chill pill.

After encouraging girls to have entitlement mentality now telling guys to avoid girls that have it .



I install car tracking device . Check my signature.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by winkmart: 9:06pm On Jul 18, 2020
Before nko
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by stormborn28(m): 9:08pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.
yes it made sense
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Skmoda360(m): 9:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
rockstarB:
I think it has become more of a cultural thing than the real entitlement itself. Upbringing, society and culture adds to this as well.
Upbringing is the major point here in all the things you listed here.....most girls are trained by their mothers to always look for rich and wealthy men to alleviate them off poverty circus......hence why most have entitlement mentality that if you ain't rich and can't spend you ain't for me ...

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by bennyflipy(m): 9:11pm On Jul 18, 2020
IbrahimSkiba:
angry



Repeated Topics all the fucking damn time.

All in the bid to stay relevant on Nairaland.

This blog keeps promoting hate againts women.

There's no day that will past, that they won't push one topic that promotes hate against a woman to the front page.


Anything to make them mock and laugh the female gender.

BUNCH OF USELESS SHAMELESS TASTELESS BROKE SETS OF BASTARDS.

IM DONE WITH THIS BLOG.

afterall we ain't getting paid for reading news and posting comments here.

Awon feminists gang member is here�
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ednut1(m): 9:16pm On Jul 18, 2020
They are worse than infidels. Avoid them

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Ghostrye: 9:17pm On Jul 18, 2020
Nice save OP. This counter argument just saved you from more roasting

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:21pm On Jul 18, 2020
Toks2008:
Whilst it is very sacrosanct for a guy to avoid stinginess towards a lady he deeply desires, I strongly believe that It is perfectly normal for any lady to want to be with a guy who can provide but not for her needs but for his family and until she becomes part of his family she has no right whatsoever to make demands except what the guy chooses to give to her.

Many ladies are quick to say... "I can't be with a man who can not take care of me, I can't suffer from any man''... and I tend to ponder over this statement...'' does it mean their ability to make wealth is dependent on a man or are they destined to suffer without a man fending for them?''...

In My opinion, the entitlement mentality is an easy bondage every woman must avoid at all costs. It breeds redundancy and loss of self-worth... It makes them look like leech only in search of a host to feed on. .. gives them a deluded self-belief and inflated sense of importance and in most cases makes them easy prey for sexual predators and men with Satanic motives.

I want ladies reading this to understand this homemade truth... YOU don't need any "well to do" man in your life before you can survive or make wealth regardless of your background, ... It is a silly mindset. You can make insane wealth all by yourself and this should be the paramount focus so that meeting a man ''who can take care of you'' will only be a plus and not a hustle...

Hope this makes sense.
hmmmm so now you decide to write about it from the man's point of view....lets see how many women will jump in and comment this time.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by akposagba: 9:21pm On Jul 18, 2020
Sure
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by GboyegaD(m): 9:22pm On Jul 18, 2020
Sometimes, I am forced to think I never grew up in this generation because I don't know any of such ladies who wait on a man as her meal ticket amongst my circle of influence both offline and online.

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Jul 18, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Do not offend me! That one is valid naw, abi I come make one guy dey offend me anyhow?


Men should drop this their entitlement to pvssy too. I know una argument go be say na the woman enjoy pass but then must you all be focused on the coochie?

You'll hear stupid talk about sex showing love.. Bullshiit
We are focused on the pvssy because men are genetically programmed to fvck the pvssy in all directions. I mean to fvck it laterally, perpendicularly, vertically, horizontally

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jul 18, 2020
On Nairaland....

Toks: Dear Guys, avoid ladies with entitlement mentality

Guys: "You made sense" avoid them! " If only they will listen" "Nigerians girls have entitlement issues" "I can't date an entitled girl" "I dump her once I see the sign" .......

Off Nairaland..

Guy: Hi babe.
Girl: No answer
Guy: babe what have I done wrong? What's up
Girl: Aren't you suppose to sub for me?
Guy: Oh babe ,! I'm sorry, I've forgotten your sub will end soon. Lemme do that now
Girl: Do it quick
Guy: Done, seen it... I'm so sorry.
Girl: I've seen it, Thanks
Guy: Now that you are happy, when will I see you?
Girl:


Upon your rants here, that's the reality of many Nigerian guys... grin

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Goalnaldo(m): 9:26pm On Jul 18, 2020
Where is that Reno's post when you need it grin grin
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Goalnaldo(m): 9:29pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ariza:
On Nairaland....

Toks: Dear Guys, avoid ladies with entitlement mentality

Guys: "You made sense" avoid them! " If only they will listen" "Nigerians girls have entitlement issues" "I can't date an entitled girl" "I dump her once I see the sign" .......

Off Nairaland..

Guy: Hi babe.
Girl: No answer
Guy: babe what have I done wrong? What's up
Girl: Aren't you suppose to sub for me?
Guy: Oh babe ,! I'm sorry, I've forgotten your sub will end soon. Lemme do that now
Girl: Do it quick
Guy: Done, seen it... I'm so sorry.
Girl: I've seen it, Thanks
Guy: Now that you are happy, when will I see you?
Girl:


Upon your rants here, that's the reality of many Nigerian guys... grin
lol bad girl grin I like your vibes. I'm not a hypocrite so should I shoot my shot? smiley
Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by Slynation(m): 9:30pm On Jul 18, 2020
They will never hear... Their new anthem is "I just wanna sit and be taken care of"...
Reminds me of a lyrics from one of Lil wayne's music...

"I'm ahead of the game I need a BJ

Most of this hoes ain't gat no job

And this niggas gonna buy 'em everything

And if you fvck around you get da hoe rob"

So Op whether you talk from now till thy kingdom comes, Most guys are ready to splash cash on those kinda ladies...Entitlement Mentality can never be eradicated....

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Re: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by ibkonekt(m): 9:31pm On Jul 18, 2020
Goalnaldo:
Where is that Reno's post when you need it grin grin
https://mobile.twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1232037526065602565

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