Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Lol

u have every right to be furious or understanding mehn. Who she epp. thank God she's not mine.abeg she no fit near my phone ever. I bet anything or my scrotum,she isn't even consistent with ur housechores

She wants to confirm something....

If dem born any girl well make she reply or ask ''who is this on your DP?"

I'm very sure your "girlfriend" is not up to 18years.. you better dont do anything sexual with her, dont be a rapist

Oga why did u delete the status say the truth, nor de give us unfinished stories or are you afraid your side or main chick might see it

Hahahaha.


She must have wondered when you will upload her pictures on your WhatsApp status. As it's not happening, she decided to do it herself.

Truth be told, she invaded your personal space.

However, if you really love her, you should forgive her. She feels insecure with you, that's her own way of finding out if she is a side chic after all. But that's not the right way to find out.....

Friedturkey:
I'm very sure your "girlfriend" is not up to 18years.. you better dont do anything sexual with her, dont be a rapist

She is well over 18 bro. In her 20s

Op no mind her jare. She dey plan ahead incase of sneak attack

No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

You want the poor boy to enter trouble?
1) main chic could see it
2) parents/uncles and aunties.
3) oga he works for.
4) landlord he is owing rent.
Add the rest Biko.

Lol...your own na play “GF”. A FWB did that to me sometime last year while I was asleep...She did not stop with WhatsApp status she also shared it on my fb story with all the whole my love captions.

Back then I was using an old android phone which I refused to change cos I’m of the opinion that the phone I use shouldn’t define me. Well the phone didn’t have a fingerprint sensor and I didn’t like the idea of having to type in a password or pin every time I needed to use my phone so I left it unlocked.

It was a friend of mine that sent me a message on WhatsApp “Na she?”...When I opened the message I was confused It wasn’t funny back then... I felt like slapping the girl up from sleep but then I was like “No Wahala”. I deleted the WhatsApp status and went back to sleep. In the morning I started getting fb notifications...omg! the notifications were from her pics on my fb story, I was like wtf!...you kidding right?

I immediately took down her pictures and had to put up a post on my timeline to serve as a disclaimer, stating that the pictures weren’t uploaded by me. Some of my friends on fb made jokes out of that incident.

No one advised me to get a new phone the next week...hence forth I locked my WhatsApp with fingerprint. She didn’t like that...

Note: I didn’t bother confronting her

Andrew13:
Oga why did u delete the status say the truth, nor de give us unfinished stories

abi o, sumtin wey u suppose dey laff about u con dey furious. Make i ask u dis question @ Op wen last did u upload her pics on ur status. jéwo

someone cannot play with u abi

Make another babe wey you dey eye come get gbwhatsapp

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

Phone is bigger than what it used to be few years ago. A phone can be ur private office and more. You can have clients and associates who you don't want to know anything about ur personal life.


If social media validation is what we need to prove genuine love then we really need to re-define love for this generation

1. A phone is supposed to be a private property.

2. If you two are married however, there shouldn't be any secrets between you two.

3. As a gf, Where she went too far is by posting it herself. She should have politely asked you to post it if she wanted to prove your faithfulness to her.

4. It's good to define certain boundaries that are important to you in a relationship. For instance, you may be a very private person that doesn't like your business partners knowing about your relationships and family life.
5. If you love her, you should be able to forgive her and make her understand why you're not comfortable with such.

Talk to her about your boundaries.

She is still young at heart and is very excited about you, you probably thrill her and she has the love to give so she not too responsible because she is young at heart not cause she loves you.

Forgive her abeg, my kid sister did same thing to me, uploaded on my status how wonderful she is, I told had to remind her that as much as I love her she did invade my privacy.

Reassure her because it's a big deal if you are not public about her esp if she is public about you.

Post your girlfriend.
It's a relationship not secret cult.

Unless you're effing up around and don't other girls to stop giving u goodies

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

U sef how can u be answering sweetcunt and writing Jesus is lord on your profile

Oga nr be bad thing oo, if u dy clean

Abi u dy hide something

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Do you have anything to hide? I am more interested in what made her do so. Are you cheating? Aren't you proud of her? Yes, she went overboard, but only women who are in toxic and insecure relationships would do that.

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

Op is obviously cheating or planning to. His girlfriend must have done that to confirm this fact and he fell right into the trap (by deleting the status updates)

nelklyn:
Lol...your own na play “GF”. A FWB did that to me sometime last year while I was asleep...She did not stop with WhatsApp status she also shared it on my fb story with all the whole my love captions.

Back then I was using an old android phone which I refused to change cos I’m of the opinion that the phone I use shouldn’t define me. Well the phone didn’t have a fingerprint sensor and I didn’t like the idea of having to type in a password or pin every time I needed to use my phone so I left it unlocked.

It was a friend of mine that sent me a message on WhatsApp “Na she?”...When I opened the message I was confused It wasn’t funny back then... I felt like slapping the girl up from sleep but then I was like “No Wahala”. I deleted the WhatsApp status and went back to sleep. In the morning I started getting fb notifications...omg! the notifications were from her pics on my fb story, I was like wtf!...you kidding right?

I immediately took down her pictures and had to put up a post on my timeline to serve as a disclaimer, stating that the pictures weren’t uploaded by me. Some of my friends on fb made jokes out of that incident.

No one advised me to get a new phone the next week...hence forth I locked my WhatsApp with fingerprint. She didn’t like that...

Note: I didn’t bother confronting her

Did that lady know she is/was just a friend with benefit? Most guys are in the habbit of stringing women on. You want her for intimacy only, but then you profess love and what not to her. Is it safe to say that that was what happened, thus the reason why she had the balls to upload her pictures on your social media?

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

Exactly my point.

martowskin1:


Phone is bigger than what it used to be few years ago. A phone can be ur private office and more. You can have clients and associates who you don't want to know anything about ur personal life.


If social media validation is what we need to prove genuine love then we really need to re-define love for this generation

I understand your point and I am in tune with it as well. What caught me off however, was the op's reaction. The anger and all. He clearly has something to hide. Yes, our mobile devices serve as work station, but no client or prospective client would take offense if I upload my boyfriend's/ fiance's photos. Let's call a spade a spade. I am putting myself in that girl's shoes and she must have had an incline before doing that. Op is not loyal.

HandsomeBlack:
1. A phone is supposed to be a private property.

2. If you two are married however, there shouldn't be any secrets between you two.

3. As a gf, Where she went too far is by posting it herself. She should have politely asked you to post it if she wanted to prove your faithfulness to her.

4. It's good to define certain boundaries that are important to you in a relationship. For instance, you may be a very private person that doesn't like your business partners knowing about your relationships and family life.
5. If you love her, you should be able to forgive her and make her understand why you're not comfortable with such.

Have you ever being in a loveless relationship, where you are not even sure of your status, whether you are truly loved or being stringed along? I doubt, because if you were, you wouldnt say all these. My advise to men is to try as much a possible to reassure your women. Yes, we all have our love languages, but trust me, being strict and bottle-necked isn't one. If op had created a peaceful and reassuring atmosphere for that lady, she wouldn't have gone that far.

SweetCunt97:
No genuine love anymore. Social media has made almost everyone dishonest and disloyal. So y exactly did u delete if you are clean?

It's his phone. He has every right to delete or keep.

When I was still naive and not using a phone lock, a girl I was trying to chop sneaked downstairs with my phone and called my main chick, she called my mum and sisters too telling them she's my girl, she sneaked in back, kept my phone beside me and let me handle the giant mess she created for me

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

You are wrong. It seems you are not proud of her

She gave you a benefit of doubt yet you prove her wrong

Babe wants to mark her territory