BlueAir:
u have every right to be furious or understanding mehn. Who she epp. thank God she's not mine.abeg she no fit near my phone ever. I bet anything or my scrotum,she isn't even consistent with ur housechores

You dey live with am to know that she isn't consistent with his housechores?
Nothing Buhari no go see for aso rock.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Says a guy that wants to keep playing the field........

You're trapped..... Total marking.... Just like Arsenal vs Man City..........

U just dey arrive naija for the first time right?

wisdomkid:


You dey live with am to know that she isn't consistent with his housechores?
Nothing Buhari no go see for aso rock.

You have every right to be angry, you dont want to come out as a gay or one emotional dude, after all no be only you get babe. I think its those guys that are into feelings that do such like that.

pocohantas:


Editing viewers to her and her clan after the update is a waste of time. Only subsequent updates would use that setting, not the one that is already out. Some of us even see deleted updates.

So you be one of those peeps who use mod WhatsApp to be monitoring other people no matter their privacy settings

Insecurities manifesting through I need to know

CorGier:
Mine pulled that same stunt with me earlier this year. I'm a very private person, i felt betrayed fam. To top it all off she refused sleeping in the room and left to sit at the balcony, after I deleted the whole rubbish. My guys were like "na our wife be that?", Dem girls be like "hmmm" "who is she". Even Ma felt it was unlike me, and had to chat me up. See views.

Now, me that should be offended that my personal space and privacy got infringed upon, had to be the one pleading for her to come back inside. The spoilt, entitled bìtch kept yapping about how I didn't want my "other girls" to know I was spoken for, I don't like showing her off, didn't value her blah blah.. acting all crazy. I had to grab her by the hair, pin her against the wall and clear her on some few things before she could calm TF down.
With those big tits hanging out, I really wanted to fùck her senseless right there, but mahn I was way too pissed to bother. If she were to be any other chick, that would have been the last time she shares my bed. Drama queens.

You even called her a bitch, too obvious you had no respect for her. Maybe little unstable affection sef.

Chai! If you have a man who cherish you and will never treat you bad even in anger, mehn you have no idea what God has done for you.

Ariza:
Oh Lord what unreasonable comparison is this? Please are you Anselm? He's the only one I know that can compare nonsense like this. Why would anyone text himself or herself because the partner refuse to say it. That's barbaric and so way off point!

Now this isn't a social media thing, it's a WhatsApp thing... I don't believe in displaying partners on Social media and I believe I've stated that as going too far but WhatsApp is still safe. There's a difference. BTW your environment isn't safe or your intentions aren't safe? Lol

A shot? Abeg I jump pass.

well i was expecting a response like these, maybe d comparism are not the same cos of parties invovle, my instance involves two party in which the lady only succeeded in fool herself instead of an assurance if it were to be from d guy.
The scenrio on ground involves three party .. the guy, the gurl & spectators ... her action can only fool the audience buh beyond that what did she gain ?? ... what she felt posting herself is nothing compared to what it would av been if the big head had done it .. that is my drift.

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

my Question To You Is, why Did You Delete It

When you were inserting that your joystick into her personal space, you didn't come here to lament. My friend,you better be a responsible boy.

jornwhite:




well i was expecting a response like these, maybe d comparism are not the same cos of parties invovle, my instance involves two party in which the lady only succeeded in fool herself instead of an assurance if it were to be from d guy.
The scenrio on ground involves three party .. the guy, the gurl & spectators ... her action can only fool the audience buh beyond that what did she gain ?? ... what she felt posting herself is nothing compared to what it would av been if the big head had done it .. that is my drift.

Well at least she knows her place in the guy's life now.... Lol . I won't say it's a complete loss.

Friedturkey:
I'm very sure your "girlfriend" is not up to 18years.. you better dont do anything sexual with her, dont be a rapist

hahahahahaha

DXNNigeria:

She is well over 18 bro. In her 20s

She's a smart one.
She is trying to figure out why you have been hiding your relationship with her.
She tried to find out why your are not proud of showing her off on your status while she does the same.
She's trying to find out if she's the side chick in the equation.

I bet your actions have confirmed to her that she's not valued as much.

Your story is not complete........ I'm sure her side of the story will be different

uboma:
Hahahaha.


She must have wondered when you will upload her pictures on your WhatsApp status. As it's not happening, she decided to do it herself.

Truth be told, she invaded your personal space.

However, if you really love her, you should forgive her. She feels insecure with you, that's her own way of finding out if she is a side chic after all. But that's not the right way to find out.....

why can't we all just do the old fashion no sex until marriage

techmo:
When I was still naive and not using a phone lock, a girl I was trying to chop sneaked downstairs with my phone and called my main chick, she called my mum and sisters too telling them she's my girl, she sneaked in back, kept my phone beside me and let me handle the giant mess she created for me

Good for you

techmo:
When I was still naive and not using a phone lock, a girl I was trying to chop sneaked downstairs with my phone and called my main chick, she called my mum and sisters too telling them she's my girl, she sneaked in back, kept my phone beside me and let me handle the giant mess she created for me

She called mom to tell her? Lol

That’s disrespectful you both play too much I guess

pocohantas:


Editing viewers to her and her clan after the update is a waste of time. Only subsequent updates would use that setting, not the one that is already out. Some of us even see deleted updates.

Lol. Some of "us" you say? Ladies have really gotten sophisticated with this PDA thing.
The OP has no idea what he is into. He has already lost the game and the way he reacted to it even up till this minute is a sign. One way or the other, she is definitely leaving him!

Consequences of having a smart phone and social media. Thank goodness for my nokia 3310 with snake and ladder

lanibi:
You even called her a bitch, too obvious you had no respect for her. Maybe little unstable affection sef.

Chai! If you have a man who cherish you and will never treat you bad even in anger, mehn you have no idea what God has done for you.

Don't be tripping it ain't that deep. Her & I are cool like that.

McCoy662:
Bro there's status privacy settings on WhatsApp. The way I run my shit is change the privacy to only the babe and upload her pix even upload our intimacy pix. The funny part is that u can change the privacy as many times as you want and upload as many girls as you have. All will view theirs only.
Oya burst me recharge card if I saved ur arse

may God help you. hmmm

Baffupdrizz:


Lol. Some of "us" you say? Ladies have really gotten sophisticated with this PDA thing.
The OP has no idea what he is into. He has already lost the game and the way he reacted to it even up till this minute is a sign. One way or the other, she is definitely leaving him!

I think it is dependent on phone/OS, because I can’t remember installing anything. I just noticed I could see a status that was deleted and I felt embarrassed on behalf of the deleter.

If she leaves him, that is up to her. There were better ways to handle this issue. Maybe he overreacted, but I very much understand his concerns (and hers too).

Yeye man, go and marry, and stop committing fornication

DXNNigeria:
Really, am really furious right now and I see it as her intruding into my personal space. My babe just took my phone and uploaded her pictures with different captions like my love, my babe, my heart etc.
I saw them on my status and deleted them and she is angry.
Really, I see it as her intruding into my personal life. Really am very furious at her and she doesn't see anything bad in what she did instead she is giving me attitude.
Really? Am I wrong?

Juliearth:




You asked a valid question in paragraph two. But not everyone is blessed with the willpower to break free form a loveless relationship and perhaps the hope that things would get better make these people hang around longer. Trust me, it is not always about the wealth or other ephemerals

you are on point dear

CorGier:


Don't be tripping it ain't that deep. Her & I are cool like that.

Even at that, don't call her a bitch again. She's the woman you love so please refer to her in a good way.

Congratulations, abi e get wetin u dey hide?

martowskin1:


Phone is bigger than what it used to be few years ago. A phone can be ur private office and more. You can have clients and associates who you don't want to know anything about ur personal life.


If social media validation is what we need to prove genuine love then we really need to re-define love for this generation

5 bottles of fearless for you, too much energy in this comment

upload her own here na

lanibi:
Even at that, don't call her a bitch again. She's the woman you love so please refer to her in a good way.

Alright Lani, I hear you.