Ishilove:
These children sef no dey hear word. All these group chats are very distracting and he warned her against it but she thinks she knows better than her parents. If you don't want to be flogged like a child then behave responsibly.

Better this a million times than to see his ward start misbehaving on SM. I see kids and i ask where are their parents? Ma our children not disgrace us. talking, begging, flogging whatever method that can set these kids right, It must be done. The internet is a very very dark place.

mmsen:
Terrible parenting.

The man needs to be in oprison.

See mad people

luminouz:


Very wrong. I dont agree.

A child has no true experience of his/her own,thats why they need to be taught/trained. Her dad is training her. Our African model is just different from the American model.

Thinking we are aggressive because we were raised with capital punishment is also wrong. Else, those fvcked up shootings we read about in the US by kids and teenagers wouldn't happen at all.

What do you mean bro? We have terrorism, kidnapping, pervasive rape culture, corruption and so much more!!

Clearly, our style of upbringing is not working!!!! Come on!! We have to try something different. Average Nigerian kid only complies with their parents cos they don’t want to get whipped. That is slavery!!! Then when they leave the parents home, they turn into the very deceptive monsters the parents turned them to.

They go to church, cry to God and smile at every one then go back home and rape a child, then kidnap someone, then loot billions, then bomb people.... then ...

muchroom:
A father decides not to spare the rod and spoil the child by flogging his daughter after she joined a whatsapp group she had been warned not to join. The girl is seen begging and pleading she will never do such again.

The video must have been recorded by a family member present and if it is another child, the belt will surely be returning to slay him or her.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-ualtQ6B2c

Everyone is copying America, it might interest you to know that America has the highest single mothers in the world, and you hear "in God we trust".

Good

Those of you applauding abuse and the idi.ot who uploaded it, after all the beatings and slaps your parents gave you, why are you still struggling?
Many of you are fraudsters, both male and female. You doubt me? Try doing any business with any of these folks. You'll never see your money again. Some of you use juju to hoodwink others, some of you steal from your workplace, fvvck other people's spouses and do all sorts of evil.
Some of you paid your way through school, never sat for exam with your brain. Some of you do drugs sell drugs that have destroyed lives. And many of you are as dumb as fvvck.
Your parents beating didn't do sh8t for you, poor, dumb clowns. Miserable, abuse - loving louts.

Most people are saying spear the rod and spoil the child, but let me ask you, did you watch the video?
This form of "discipline" is excessive and over the top. This is the type of discipline that breeds resentment and hatred on the mind of a child.
We have so much normalized abuse in our society that people look at abuse and they see nothing wrong in it.

Nobody can learn when afraid or with fear.

Beating never taught anybody anything.

It only makes them afraid of you and see you as a terror.

DID HIS DAUGHTER LEARN ANYTHING? NO

IF PEOPLE THEY LEARN SOMETHING FROM BEATING, HOW COME AFTER THEM FINISH TO PUNISH US FOR SCHOOL, WE WILL STILL DO IT AGAIN?

ONLY MORE CAREFUL NOT TO GET CAUGHT.

ASKING THEM DEY COME OR COAST CLEAR?

WTF, in as much as i'm not against old-school disciplining, this is an 18-year-old girl. A adult everywhere in the world who has the complete right to make their own decisions and take responsibility for it.

Sometimes I really wonder about Nigerians. No matter how you put it, this simply is domestic abuse that would constitute as a crime in the developed world. The lack of progressiveness and aggressive patriarchal culture in Nigeria needs to stop for the better.

Your children aren't your slaves, especially as adults. What you can do at that point as a parent is to advice, not inflict physical harm. If your child doesn't listen then let them take responsibility as adults and bear the consequences of their actions. Excessive violence is never the right way.

hammer3:



If she was banging a boy in his house or on his bed, I for support am.

In the sense that he is religiously moral and that offended his believe.

I will say flog her well, so that next time she wont try that.

This is just whatsapp.

Also, a good father has his way of correcting his children without this.

Only eye and angry look, she go dey sober and sorry.

I wont be surprise if he is fucckin his daughter in future.

The man has hatred for that girl.

Y do u say fûcking his daughter in future.
Do ur dad Bleep his daughters. Cus I never see dat one b4

vickydevoka:

Y do u say fûcking his daughter in future.
Do ur dad Bleep his daughters. Cus I never see dat one b4

This kind one, may not like any boy to come near her.

I dont get it because i wont be in my daughter business like dat.

As a matter of fact, i did like to meet her boyfriends. If she and her mother care to show me.

mmsen:
Terrible parenting.

The man needs to be in prison.

It is imbeciles like you who are producing ne'er do wells all over the place as children...the future Hushpuppis of this world. Such parental discipline is required to ensure that the type of nonsense we are seeing in kids of this generation should be stamped out of our society.

She should better remove that hand and be thoroughly flogged. Trust me, she'll appreciate those lashes in 10 years time.

Really? I will rather delete the group account, and probably confiscate the phone upon disobedience.

Zoie:
Those of you applauding abuse and the idi.ot who uploaded it, after all the beatings and slaps your parents gave you, why are you still struggling?
Many of you are fraudsters, both male and female. You doubt me? Try doing any business with any of these folks. You'll never see your money again. Some of you use juju to hoodwink others, some of you steal from your workplace, fvvck other people's spouses and do all sorts of evil.
Some of you paid your way through school, never say for exam with your brain. Some of you do drugs sell drugs that have destroyed lives. And many of you are as dumb as fvvck.
Your parents beating didn't do sh8t for you, poor, dumb clowns. Miserable, abuse - loving louts.

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hammer3:


This kind one, may not like any boy to come near her.

I dont get it because i wont be in my daughter business like dat.

As a matter of fact, i did like to meet her boyfriends. If she and her mother care to show me.

Everything get en own role. Pikin way no get papa de useless most tyms. All de cultist for my area de hardly get papa. Mama de spoil pikin naturally especially male child

This will only end up hardening her!

goody234:
you idiots here talking about spare the road spoil the child ...i have friend whose father was a strict discipilinarian beating my friend all the time when were growing up ...ask me what their relationship is like 50yrs later non existent ...the father has no relationship with my friend ....talk to your children and discipline them never too much

Don't mind them. It still these same people here supporting domestic violence you'd see hypocritically voicing displeasure over the savage brutalizing of children we see on various domestic violence threads. Nigeria is a really toxic society rotten down to its core.

vickydevoka:

Everything get en own role. Pikin way no get papa de useless most tyms. All de cultist for my area de hardly get papa. Mama de spoil pikin naturally especially male child

I think the role were reversed with my parents.

Mama they like to beat, but Dad hated it.

Maybe that is why we went to boarding school, sef, who knows.

Beating teaches the child nothing.

hammer3:


I think the role were reversed with my parents.

Mama they like to beat, but Dad hated it.

Maybe that is why we went to boarding school, sef, who knows.

Beating teaches the child nothing.

My papa look self de correct mistakes. Buh my papa beat me tire bcus I so much love fun. I de play ball de play game de play snooker de play tennis. Any day my papa see me na beating be dat. Pikin no de respect mama lyk papa. Papa de authoritative

LordYahweh:

There's no proof that flogging a child can deter them from becoming bad kids. There's also different ways of playing your role that doesn't involve flogging, but I digress who am I to tell one how to raise his kid.

If you had read the post, you will know that the dad gave SEVERAL WARNINGS before the caning came up. Well, you are free to train your child the way you like. It is your cup of tea. Bye.

Ernezee:
this is the way most of us were brought up and we turned out to be good people for ourselves and our family so its not about the fact that she’s 18 its about not making mistakes you should be making in ur 20s and 30s in ur teen age so you won’t ruin your life. As you get older the discipline reduce and it’ll get to a point your parents won’t even caution you anymore.

Nigerians are the most beaten yet one of the worst behaved and most corrupt people.

hammer3:


I think the role were reversed with my parents.

Mama they like to beat, but Dad hated it.

Maybe that is why we went to boarding school, sef, who knows.

Beating teaches the child nothing.

There are always better ways to install discipline than physical battering. A truly wise and enlightened person wouldn't do such.

Not only will excessive beating make the child lose respect and be unemotional towards their parents, it could also make them lose confidence and even cause some psychological trauma.

sugah:

Lol.
I’m sure you were ‘canned’ as a child and as such displaying such good characters of a ‘well behaved’ Nigerian.

Upon all the beatings Nigerians still behave worse than the whites they love to insult.

Not even a good WhatsApp group it is hook up and naked group

Mchenryfreeman:


U go come online dey claim saint rubbish because you get privilege to use phone

If you don't have a better response or something reasonable to say it is better you shut up. All these kids on NL that respond to issues with insult or derogatory remarks. Your response shows that you even lack the home training or flogging that you are supporting. You need that more than the child.

Those of you applauding abuse are the ones that will hit a fellow human being in the slightest provocation, teachers beating students to death, Madam putting pepper in housemaid vagina, scalding her skin with hot iron, husband beating wife to a pulp... All in the name of "discipline".
Fvvck discipline! Many of you are rotten to the bone marrow ontop all the discipline your parents gave you. Vile, abusive humans.

luminouz:


Very wrong. I dont agree.

A child has no true experience of his/her own,thats why they need to be taught/trained. Her dad is training her. Our African model is just different from the American model.

Thinking we are aggressive because we were raised with capital punishment is also wrong. Else, those fvcked up shootings we read about in the US by kids and teenagers wouldn't happen at all.

So all the cultism, herdsmen killings, abuse by soldiers and police, assaulting of shop owners by politicians are what?

Keep deceiving yourself there, if Nigeria had the same gun culture as the US we would all be killing each other over every petty disagreement.

luminouz:


Lmaoooo..

Give birth and train your OWN child that way.

Leave the dad alone please!!

I bet my children should be older than you...and they are well trained.

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