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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:15am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: Dictator garment? So its dictatorship to ask for respect and good food in your own house from a woman you paid her dowry? Are you...are you, are you...nörmal? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:18am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Now that picture is just so fuqin sad!!! Yet, these peeps call it gender equality...these US men are really suffering |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:20am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Martinez39s: GBAM!!! |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 8:29am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:You supposed no pay dowry.... Most men won't mind preparing meals or doing it together with their fiancees but once they are Married entering Kitchen becomes an abomination for them. Then you wonder what the deceit for. Lol I mimic you ooo |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by mrblessed(m): 8:37am On Jul 21, 2020 |
It is precisely because women approach marriage with a lot of emotional investments that overwhelm that of men. That is why it is the woman that weds the man. So, in societies such as ours that place high value on marriage and the proper age for a woman to get married, many of them tend to conceal their characters, only to unleash it after being married. To escape societal stigmatisation, they provide a facade and fictitious personality that is only unravel in marriage. That is why a lot of men get surprised when their "religious" wife whom they met in the church becomes a monster poised to devour them. There is another factor responsible for women's change of behaviour in marriage. A lot of women see their youthful periods as a season of unlimited experiment, presenting themselves to enjoy all that life has to offer in an unrestrained manner. When they get married, apart from attitudinal change, they become less unenthusiastic about life generally, and hardly takes care of their body the way they do when unmarried. So, marriage comes as a retirement package and which person still gets active even in retirement? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by pansophist(m): 8:49am On Jul 21, 2020 |
When a woman knows you're strong enough to bring everything down and walk away from the marriage, then she would sit up. Also, women will always show you who they are, but most men lack the emotional intelligence to pick up on those bad behaviours or ignore them because they don't wanna start again, or perhaps, have a scarcity mentality. Marriage is a life insurance policy for many of our women, hence, they are on their best behaviour to secure the bag. Many are even more interested in the wedding itself, not marriage. It's about the title, ceremony, and feeling better than other female friends. The energy modern women operate on is just downright low. Women are not hard to understand. To understand women, simply remove reasoning and accountability from their behaviours, then you get a manual on how to relate well with them. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Martinez39s(m): 8:49am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:It doesn't pay to be a simp. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by angelfallz(m): 8:52am On Jul 21, 2020 |
davien: Men are the majority in the ruling class(politics; executive, judiciary, legislative) The majority of men, are betas. therefore, it stands to reason that these beta men would enact laws, executive orders etc that are feminine-centric or in other words, favour women. for example in the western world, women are favoured over men when it comes to paying alimony, child support, divorce, rape claims etc. yesterday or 2 days ago i read a news report that stated that the CBN, has reserved 60% of the funds for entrepreneurs, for women entrepreneurs. the majority of entrepreneurs in Nigeria are men, but somehow they get 40% these are a few examples of how red pill men would also so suffer. the red pill does not insulate red pill men from the laws of the land which were created, enacted and enforced by beta men. it is for this reason and other reasons, that it is imperative to educate as much men as possible on the red pill. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2: 8:55am On Jul 21, 2020 |
pansophist:u sure? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by nkwuocha1: 9:10am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Short sighted men usually fall for such men. I have always hated goody two shoes ladies;I don't like ladies who are overly quiet and seemingly reserved or who appears to be perfect.Not me! I have always dated ladies other guys warn me to stay away from, as overtime I realized my instincts are better than blind warnings. There's a difference between crazy girl and a loose one,I always go for the first as it's easier to know their secret as most are damn too straight forward. I don't like being taken unaware at all. I like straightforward, carefree, crazy,smart and industriousness women.I don't like all those holier than thou ones claiming reserved. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:38am On Jul 21, 2020 |
nkwuocha1: You see those ones that are often times grandiose, always talking a big game and making several promises that can't keep? I avoid them like the plaque. I hate it when a woman talks alot, it's their way of making up for what they lack in substance with a loud mouth. So when the chips are down, they are the first to bail on you. Rather than channel the essence in their feminity to make the relationship work, they rather turn the whole atmosphere as toxic as possible. That way she gets to feel good about herself - seeing you all miserable and a shadow of your former self. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 10:06am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2: 10:06am On Jul 21, 2020 |
@ luminouz | what's your take? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 10:09am On Jul 21, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2: Lol...I'm not married bro/sis... When I do, I'll actively contribute but for now,lemme just watch y'all |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 21, 2020 |
pansophist:Speak for yourself bro! I wonder how you cope with a fiancee who doesn't reason or isn't accountable. That must be a lot of stress. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Dangrace01: 10:17am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Gentle0wavez: I remember when I was really mad at a lady and she was like don't you know I am a woman, my anger increased the more and I was pointing at her manipulation that it can't work, guess what she said she said I can't stay with a woman. Lollllllll women are crazy I swear 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2: 10:21am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:lol |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:22am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:Last last all gender dey drop standard after marriage, people feel relaxed and see no need to impress or appeal their partners, unfortunately that is the cause of most problems couples face in marriage. Biko whatever you no fit do for me in marriage no do am when we dey on the way. Lemme know you for who you are, very simple sturv |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Dangrace01: 10:25am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: I don't believe this why would a man pretend during dating and change during marriage. I just need one reason why? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 10:34am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: I dont pretend so what I won't do now,I won't still do when married. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:37am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Dangrace01:Your judgement already I'm not interested in convincing you otherwise. I could decide to pretend and act like what you all have been discussing isn't possible too. Why would a woman pretend during dating and change during Marriage? I just need one reason. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:38am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:Me too We all don't pretend. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 10:41am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: No sarcasm you yellow cat!!! I'm for real, I dont pretend. Real and raw,thats me. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:43am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:Lol.... Yellow cat? I believe you Brother. I really do. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 10:44am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: Lol...assumed you're fair ni Just checked your siggy, Ariza? Dafuq happened to your nornal moniker? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Dangrace01: 10:46am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: This is exactly the response of a woman. I can give you ten reasons but to sum it up marriage benefits women more than men. Everything a woman can offer me I can get myself, even the sex other women are selling it cheaply now. |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:47am On Jul 21, 2020 |
luminouz:Lol I'm not oooo. I'm dark very dark. I changed clothes ni |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by luminouz(m): 10:48am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Palema007: Lol...very dark is good too...Black Cat!! Ohk...I'm kinda used to Ariza sha...You planning to stick with this one for a while? |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by ibkonekt(m): 10:53am On Jul 21, 2020 |
its called the bait and switch..Women are snakes by nature, the old days knew how to manage women well but now that they have too many laws that prevent women from misbehaving aka(switch in marriage), the man is handicapped...its a lose/lose situation for a man...just get a baby mama and never have to see her face again...these b1tches are mental. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Dangrace01:If you had typed this like centuries ago I would have reasoned with you... Men provided all for women back then. But these days when women work and some are breadwinners I wonder how relevant that narrative is. Marriage benefits women more? Lol or Society forces Marriage on Women more . So aside sharing bills, pumping out kids , changing to men's surname,what does typical Nigerian MARRIAGE offers a Woman? You people should change this your who benefits more mentality and rants because seriously you will push women to start asking questions and believe me, You men will lose a lot.... Don't push it. Because sometimes I wonder what a Typical Nigerian Man has to offer A Modern Woman. . Please don't start with food and security |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2: 10:59am On Jul 21, 2020 |
ibkonekt:lol, pls kindly calm your nerves and temper down !!! it hasn't come to that! |
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by wwwtortoise(m): 10:59am On Jul 21, 2020 |
ubunja: Is this 'RED PILL' a coded name or what? If yes, what does it mean? |
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