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Ifeoluwav:
There are some really bad advice here. Too much bad advice from the "experts"

Men are eager to learn how to use, trash and dump Nigerian women and to assert superiority over her that she has no business with sleeping around while they do. Bad habits they won't try with women outside Nigeria.

ubunja:
older women are easy because they know they've expired.

And I don't know what 24 yr old is emotionally unstable. Women mature very early emotionally.

ibkonekt:
like i said to someone here it is easy for women to sleep around, while it is very hard for men to sleep around(regular girls not street whores)...this is fact...a woman that sleeps around is a stud...a woman that sleeps around is a LovePeddler.
a woman that sees a high value man sleeping around and decides to emulate that is a fool because she doesn't know her value...for example wizkid is successful and has bedded multiple girls and celebrities but even mothers would give their virgin daughters to him, even virgins would give themselves to him...WHY, because he is high value in the society...that is all that matters to women. the only time a woman cares about a man sleeping around is if he is low value or her equal.
as for women no matter your fame,fortune, intellect, beauty....no high value man will take a Wh0re....no way...it is almost universal. this is reality
once a man becomes high value aka rich, famous, tall, houses, cars and all those vanity stuffs that women get wet for then if he sleeps around women will not care and still desire him all the more....this is no excuse this is the truth of the world that we live in.
look at it this way a woman can be dead broke and still get a man to marry her....while a man must be financially capable to support her and hers. this is the equality that you are searching for.
i say again women are to hold themself because that is their core value they present to a man...other attributes have been promoted by society as far more important e.g number of degree, diploma, certificate, accent and all other unneccessary attributes...while these things are good in a woman...they are not core...purity is the single most important factor for a woman anywhere in this earth and while resources is for men....hence why successful men can sleep around and women cannot.....but the balance is this women can lounge all day and expect a man to work for her and bring goodies home while she does nothing...this is the balance
women should hold themselves if they want to demand the best of the best men in the market...and men should make money if they want to demand the best of the best.....all other categories aka low value men and female wh0res should settle for eachother

Ifeoluwav:
Keep talking about high value and men's nature. I am not saying women should be whores. At the end of the day everyone is free to live their life whichever Way they choose to. Men can keep looking for their virgins hun after they are done. Their are women who do not like their men to have slept with many women and they don't care about their money.

ibkonekt:
drop the bible quote and verse that infers this.....i am waiting..

ibkonekt:
that is true...however they are few and far in between. so majority of women fall into my description as it is a survival tactics for them. life is a good teacher though

SweetCunt97:
Like you blind to the fact that the biblical text we have is incomplete. Many things removed to fit the narrative the church want.

Ifeoluwav:
Be proud of yourselves then.

ibkonekt:
oh boy..you really would shoot yourself in the foot...the books are called The apocrypha and pseudepigrapha of the old testament (complete), i have even ordered them from amazon because i love to challenge the narrative....however i have never heard of the jesus loving magdalene...so drop me the verse that says this where ever you saw this and i will confirm.....my amazon order should arrive in a few weeks. so i ask you again, drop the verse where ever you saw this quote....conspiracy or not i will research it....if you cant you are just talking for talking sake

ubunja:
ban after ban by the mods made everything boring. Now my writings will be published through other platforms.

But how are you bro?

Kenplay:
wait!!!! so you mean the mods do ban you for the enlightenment? shit!!! I think there is a society network to keep men dump, daft and suppressed. I just feel its not ordinary, this thing is a global network.

ubunja:
that's why I rarely come here lately. I just write but don't post. But I do keep people updated on my moves.
What we call enlightenment other people see as a threat.

Saicrumam:
I am a regular visitor to your Miseducation website. You are yet to refresh and write new columns

emmanuelewumi:
What do you guys have to say about guys who kneel down publicly to propose to their girlfriends?

Guys who did it, how did it go?

ubunja:
I always laugh when they get rejected. How can you propose a woman? When she's the one benefiting from the marriage.it makes no sense. Women must do the proposing.

Seriously man
I still dont know how it became a norm in our society today .
That shit SUCKS...
But as usual, some guys are still fantasizing about doing it
Crazy world

SweetCunt97:
Search for the epistle of Mary or so. Google is ya friend.

ibkonekt:
So in essence you don't know if what you say is true...you just talk nonsense without researching it...now you quote an entire epistle for me to search through...madam shift abeg.

ibkonekt:
So in essence you don't know if what you say is true...you just talk nonsense without researching it...now you quote an entire epistle for me to search through...madam shift abeg.

emmanuelewumi:
No problem if you value them for their veejay, great bodies and their ability to massage your ego.

But about 10% of men, think differently

Factfinder1:
ADVIVE TO MALES TRYING TO SETTLE DOWN .
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You hustled through sacrifice and pain to get where you are.
Now that you made it, how do you buy news cars, new homes, new clothes but somehow forget to get yourself a young fertile blonde.

Even if you don't value yourself, Please, Please, Respect your sacrifices.

One of life’s biggest tragedy is watching a young gent marry a f/male in her late 20s/early 30s etc .. Committing the rest of his life to a f/male who dick rode her prime years. All because he thinks "she's the one" not knowing her real motives

Know this bros, f/males who wouldn't even look at you in your 20s will look at you hard in their late 20s/early 30s, it's called “provider time”.

The “provider time “ comes as a f/male realization of the “the wall effect” .. damn!

Her motive is simply to find a male who will save her financially, since she's off no value on the sexual market anymore

Remember .. a f/males retirement plan is a “man”

She really doesn't love you bro , you're just the safe option.

She only likes your provision (ability to take care of her financially) & your scarcity mindset

(obviously when you're marrying a f/male in that age range you're an option-less betamale).

And that's the opportunism in a f/males dating strategy. Her prime years are for alphas .. she calls it (ho-phase)

While her washed up years are for cucks and betas .. ( She gets to eat her cake & still have it) ... Bros, if a f/male isn't married past 26 27.. stay the fxck away!

If you can’t have her at her prime years .. why then should she have you at yours ?

Factfinder1:
ADVIVE TO MALES TRYING TO SETTLE DOWN .
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•••
••••

You hustled through sacrifice and pain to get where you are.
Now that you made it, how do you buy news cars, new homes, new clothes but somehow forget to get yourself a young fertile blonde.

Even if you don't value yourself, Please, Please, Respect your sacrifices.

One of life’s biggest tragedy is watching a young gent marry a f/male in her late 20s/early 30s etc .. Committing the rest of his life to a f/male who dick rode her prime years. All because he thinks "she's the one" not knowing her real motives

Know this bros, f/males who wouldn't even look at you in your 20s will look at you hard in their late 20s/early 30s, it's called “provider time”.

The “provider time “ comes as a f/male realization of the “the wall effect” .. damn!

Her motive is simply to find a male who will save her financially, since she's off no value on the sexual market anymore

Remember .. a f/males retirement plan is a “man”

She really doesn't love you bro , you're just the safe option.

She only likes your provision (ability to take care of her financially) & your scarcity mindset

(obviously when you're marrying a f/male in that age range you're an option-less betamale).

And that's the opportunism in a f/males dating strategy. Her prime years are for alphas .. she calls it (ho-phase)

While her washed up years are for cucks and betas .. ( She gets to eat her cake & still have it) ... Bros, if a f/male isn't married past 26 27.. stay the fxck away!

If you can’t have her at her prime years .. why then should she have you at yours ?

LagBae:
Ladies don suffer for this nairaland romance section. It is well.

ekaF:
All these is cos men no longer trust women's intentions. Men used to honor women but we have taken it for granted. Men are fighting back. It's not just nairaland/Nigeria it's worldwide.

Women of today are making life miserable for women of tomorrow. I'm scared for my granddaughters

LagBae:
There are also men that have taken women for granted, but I don't see men bashed to this extent on nairaland, not that I want to anyway.

ekaF:
Really? You've never heard of the men-are-scum movement or the broke shaming or the this-man -is-stingy syndrome or the after-all-we-did-for him complaints. Check every relationship advice page you'll see how many of us bash men.

Come on

angelfallz:
Please where did you learn the statement that is in that quote?
That statement is shocking!
Enhance wealth creation?.... my God!!!

angelfallz:
i just hope that nobody is sleeping with his wife.

Omar09:
Refreshing. I've been discovering myself lately, and in the course of it, I learned a skill.

Regex:
@skepticus I lost the login details to Omar09. I'm still Omar09.