alramon:
I think it is really based on what life shows u after ur education, if u are waiting for job here job there, infact at 28 u will still be home. (That's why we tell undergraduate not to play away their Time in school...if nah book u wan read, die there and get d best....also learn other skills that can at least help after graduation....)

but as a guy, tho may not have money that much, but u can go out and hustle I mean hustle hard and get one small apartment (even if it one room forget about wife or children for now) and start ur own life....


remember the longer u stay at home, the lesser the value u have in that house, from ur parents and ur siblings


my humble submission


but being at home till 30 or above just like op said above, that I don't support ooo....


30 keeeeee?

I know a man and his younger sister who still live with parents
And they both have respective good jobs
Will you say that their value has reduced?
There are young men making hundreds of thousands monthly
Still in their parents house
Has their value reduced


Your value reduces when you add no value to yourself and the house at thag age
Not because of the fact that you are still in the house

Lemme tell u something today's children are mostly overgrown baby!sissified asshole modafuckerz,who can't even support or, feed themselves, for a day! Damn!one of the useless undergraduate uniguy on lockdown stole our led TV all in a bid to support his ganja smoking habit!useless lots!

wish we could all learn.

There is something called "leaving your comfort zone".

Pls young men, never have this mindset the OP is advocating for and on this matter, don't listen to comments from ladies! they always talk based on emotions

Boys must know from a young age, that at a certain age they are required to leave home and be independent
This mindset helps boys become responsible.

for those who r religious, didn't the Bible say, "for this reason, a man shall leave his father & mother and be united to his wife"

Bigyusluv:
I'm here to tackle the post "At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House?". Forgive my English cause I'm a drop out. Lolx


Read through almost all the comments on that thread and all I can say is most NL members are just chasing clout... Bloody liars.


Some said they left their parents house age 17,20 and 22! Oh continue! You left your parent house to where.? Your own rented apartment? Or to squart with a friend or cousin? Or to live under the bridge?. Tell us! What is a 17yrs old doing to survive? You be footballer or you be musician? And to the ladies commenting a man should leave at least before clocking 25yrs.. Your senior bro who is 25yrs or above is still living with your parent and yet you're advising innocent soul on this faceless forum to leave their parent.
Why do we all chose to lie to hurt people reading comments to learn and grab a few hint?


How many guys within 22-30yrs old doing legit can boost of 100k in their account? How many are gainful employed? How many of them are you patronising their businesses?


Kings life is no competition, live and let's live, don't let no one pressure you into depression, been that road and back... Yes there is nothing wrong being with your parents till 30yrs or more, there's more to this life than just faking reality!


There are men who are building their own house from their parent home! As long as your parent house provides you a room, abeg save money!


LIFE NO BE COMPETITION!!!

The problem is most guys are listening to the ladies that still live with parents telling them to move out of their father's house .It is not easy to move out of your house and be healthy .You will be shocked to see expenses you never bargained for .
In addition, even that babe encouraging you to leave your father's house will leave you saying you are not caring since you no longer give her the money you used to give to her when you were in your father's house .
So if you want to live your parent's house, make sure you have something tangible to do and stay away from babes that will want to milk you .If not ,you will not grow

sexylassie2:
When will the kid become adult when he or she is still eating from mummy's pot.

When will the kid learn to save, to manage and plan for his or her life.

Life is not competition but life wants us to become adult.

Nobody pursue me from my house in Lagos. I just pack my bag run. I am in owerri marketing online for my niggas in Lagos running my web design business in owerri. At least I have met new people who have moved my life forward. I never blow but on God.

I don't know whether it's pride I can't just stay with my people it's too comfortable for me

Bakin3:
Don't rush the process.





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Well said
Dont rush the process

Okuda:

lol at 27 my mama no let woman come see me for house oooo

@ 20, I brought my gf to the house my parents no talk

ruffDiamond:
Lemme tell u something today's children are mostly overgrown baby!sissified asshole modafuckerz,who can't even support or, feed themselves, for a day! Damn!one of the useless undergraduate uniguy on lockdown stole our led TV all in a bid to support his ganja smoking habit!useless lots!

Wow this is serious
Hope yi apprehended and dealt with the bagger very well

Atiku:
The question should be... at what age does living in your parents house become unacceptable.

Whenever you can afford to live on your own.

Till then accept it.

And if you are still in your parents house, you must know that it is not ok to be there. You are required to leave there and become independent

Men are wired by nature/God to know this.
We are 'husslers', we go out to 'hunt'. We were designed that way

This new kind of mindset kills... not just the person who has it, but also the male children he raises

bukatyne:


Hahahahahahaha @ borrow sense. Water is fine and it is a 'she' not 'he'.

Okay ,at least there are shes with sense ,more grease to ur elbow

prekumohtim:


This your post should be appropriated by Africans but not Europeans. A European parent would arrest or sue you if you continue to live in their house at that age

Lol which European parents Italians are famed to live in with their parents almost for life,don’t take my word for it google is your friend

Bigyusluv:
I'm here to tackle the post "At What Age Should An Adult Leave Their Parents’ House?". Forgive my English cause I'm a drop out. Lolx


Read through almost all the comments on that thread and all I can say is most NL members are just chasing clout... Bloody liars.


Some said they left their parents house age 17,20 and 22! Oh continue! You left your parent house to where.? Your own rented apartment? Or to squart with a friend or cousin? Or to live under the bridge?. Tell us! What is a 17yrs old doing to survive? You be footballer or you be musician? And to the ladies commenting a man should leave at least before clocking 25yrs.. Your senior bro who is 25yrs or above is still living with your parent and yet you're advising innocent soul on this faceless forum to leave their parent.
Why do we all chose to lie to hurt people reading comments to learn and grab a few hint?


How many guys within 22-30yrs old doing legit can boost of 100k in their account? How many are gainful employed? How many of them are you patronising their businesses?


Kings life is no competition, live and let's live, don't let no one pressure you into depression, been that road and back... Yes there is nothing wrong being with your parents till 30yrs or more, there's more to this life than just faking reality!


There are men who are building their own house from their parent home! As long as your parent house provides you a room, abeg save money!


LIFE NO BE COMPETITION!!!

Abundance blessing fall on you my brother.

Let them keep deceiving themselves.

RemiAbdulSamad:
am having the same problem like you had back then bro. am about leaving home to hustle somewhere. no love, no support, no care, no motivation. I tire sef. My major worry is how am going to survive now. I just finished bsc waiting for service before this corona kicks in

Samad, you’ll be ok. Wanna play chess?

abbey621:


Here's your quote:



Your post was about hustling and moving out of comfort zone but it is different than what most people on the thread mentioned were saying. Most of them still depended on others for their survival. Staying at the university or at a friend's house is not the same as hustling. A true hustler knows there is no going back, no mummy or daddy to cry back to.

those liking your upside down talk are doing you no good kid


I don't need you to understand my post since you're staying under your parents roof. so those staying or relying on their parents for survival, if those parents die today, what would be of them tomorrow? won't they survive?


that should be the reason for all guys to hustle because If those parents receive the nature calls, what would be of them?


you need a good intellect to decode my post, I'm a victim of this mom & dad things and leaving faraway from the house rewrite my success story till date. I'm giving reasonable hustlers advise and you're forcing me to reason like the Op that have the same mental class with you

neyobills:


Lol which European parents Italians are famed to live in with their parents almost for life,don’t take my word for it google is your friend

Have seen a lot of videos where they got their children arrested and some had to chase them out through court

chatinent:

I started teaching at 15 after my secondary school. I was also into freelancing. I'll advise you remain home if you receive love and the care you need -- I left because I lacked those.

Make una dey lie small small abeg

Vyzz:







Wow


At 14 u were already teaching

Hahaha. BUSTED”.

Savage

I am going to live in my papas house
Eat his food,
Enjoy free electricity & even watch his cable tv.

I ain't going nowhere till am married, even at that, am moving into one of his empty apartments till I finish building my own.

If you like move out at 10, as for me, I just finished chopping half a chicken from the kitchen a few hours ago..pretty sure breakfast will be brought to my room b4 I go shop tomorrow

RemiAbdulSamad:
am having the same problem like you had back then bro. am about leaving home to hustle somewhere. no love, no support, no care, no motivation. I tire sef. My major worry is how am going to survive now. I just finished bsc waiting for service before this corona kicks in

Trust me, everything will be fine soon, I was once in your shoes, my brother e no easy

Ategberoson:



those liking your upside down talk are doing you no good kid


I don't need you to understand my post since you're staying under your parents roof. so those staying or relying on their parents for survival, if those parents die today, what would be of them tomorrow? won't they survive?


that should be the reason for all guys to hustle because If those parents receive the nature calls, what would be of them?


you need a good intellect to decode my post, I'm a victim of this mom & dad things and leaving faraway from the house rewrite my success story till date. I'm giving reasonable hustlers advise and you're forcing me to reason like the Op that have the same mental class with you

So much rubbish in one post, I find your comments very comical . If only you calmed yourself, you would realize that I support hustling fully, only part that I fault you is thinking just moving away from parent/s' house is enough to be called an hustler.

I'm not even going to entertain the other nonsense you wrote because when I was hustling in the streets of Mushin all the way to Ago-Iwoye from 2002-2007, you were probably still wearing pants on the street playing with cans. Nigga listen, farabale make you no injure yourself, English can be confusing sometimes so I understand if you feel threatened, go back and read my posts but this time read slowly!

THE PRESIDENT OF GHANA LIVED IN HIS FATHER’S HOUSE TILL HE BECAME PRESIDENT IN 2016. HE’LL STILL MOVE TO THE SAME PLACE AFTER HE FINISHES HIS TERM. HE LOVES THAT HOUSE.

Doyouhavehoil:
Do everything at your own pace based on your personal situation, no go form hard guy in the name of independence when no one is chasing you, if you v got a good parent that understands and got access to resources that will give you a solid foundation to kick-start your life, ma Nigga grab it.

Don’t follow the crowd, u see oyinbo pikin we naija say they leave their papa house at 18 na scam o.. This ones while still working stay at their parent house to save rent, and most parents are happy to have them, dey usually move to their own paid apartment from there cos they save up overtime.. Now thats a working society, talkless of naija where e dey hot..

Won ni kawa mo woro o

most pple leave their parent house because of relationship/hangout freedom mostly.staying in Ur parent house good in our harsh economic society.one u save money to establish ursef.

I want to categorically tell you that is not by Age but your responsibility at home to offer something atleast to show sign you can live on your own..
But the number one matter is this if you dont have a better income that can sustain you out there and you managing menial job...how will you survive out there...its not by living your parents because you are 25 or 28 ...its your capacity to survive out there....The truth remains depends on your family..some family even you are 25 and have something doing like handwork Baba you must remain with them oh..only when you have a decent job that pays always before you will b allowed to stay..
Also get in mind some homes have outside compound and rooms even when you are 30 or 35 you will be allowed to stay only when you want to get married and decide to go rent your own apartment.
My opinion is nobody should rush you or decieve you if you have rest of mind at home, the main thing is what you can offer not only eat and mama thankyou..
When its right time and you have steady income by 25 you can leave..i know pple who are 35yrs still under same roof with there parents..checkout ladies too that has not gotten suitors, you want them to kill thereself......comfortZone is not really good for some1 that is 30 or above staying with his parents, but when no means to survive whats the essence, since he can assist financially at home its fine..but if he gets something tangible he is supposed to live.
This Life no balance.

Atiku:
The question should be... at what age does living in your parents house become unacceptable.

if you are making money, and paying certain Bill's with them, then they would never be anything like "unacceptable "

chatinent:

I started teaching at 15 after my secondary school. I was also into freelancing. I'll advise you remain home if you receive love and the care you need -- I left because I lacked those.

ogbeni next time, always write in full. Your first post is confusing and ambiguous... if I know read this one now , I no go know you are saying something meaningful.. no be everybody sabi guess..

Married and living with his dad?

Munzy14:

The First son an engineer married to a medical doctor, still live with his dad.

Truth be told,I left home at the age of 19-year-old immediately I finished my secondary school. I was born in a remote village in Oyo state and my parent parted ways just when I was 2-year-old owned to the fact that my dad was a christian while my mum was a Muslim.i was brought up by my granny .My dad is a drunkard who doesn't care about children so immediately I finished my secondary school I left the village unceremoniously for Lagos .On getting to Lagos,I started riding okada and was sleeping inside a shop with my fellow okada boys thou we paid the show owner every week as we all know that there's no free thing in Lagos but due to the passion I have for academic and owing to the fact there is no a single graduate in my family, I decided to further my education so fastforward to 2016 I obtained jamb form and I was admitted to a state polytechnic in ibadan .I struggled to finish my OND.did my one year industrial training in a insurance company in Lagos and now I am 24- year-old in 100level(Unilag) so presently , I am with my mum in sokoto and I am putting my eyes on graphics design and programming but now my step-dad has started complaining of me staying with them as he is always fighting my mum over my matter.
So this life get as he be jareh.
Note: I went through a lot just keep the story short

abbey621:


So much rubbish in one post, I find your comments very comical . If only you calmed yourself, you would realize that I support hustling fully, only part that I fault you is thinking just moving away from parent/s' house is enough to be called an hustler.

I'm not even going to entertain the other nonsense you wrote because when I was hustling in the streets of Mushin all the way to Ago-Iwoye from 2002-2007, you were probably still wearing pants on the street playing with cans. Nigga listen, farabale make you no injure yourself, English can be confusing sometimes so I understand if you feel threatened, go back and read my posts but this time read slowly!

I will take you and your family not just on English writing but its rudiments, logic and application. your parents failed to imbibe minding your business in your upbringing hence this your show of stupidity

if I don't intrude in your opinion, you've no reason to stand against mine


I'm not buying the Op submission in regards to something and you want my post to pictured with his own submission? this show the level of your dumbness. if you like stay under bridge at mushin for 300yrs that's your problem


you claimed to be a street guy but you forget street person have no time to be finding fault in one personal opinion


you think na everyone wey dey street dey streetwise, you can spend 100yrs in street and still get lower brain than ajebuter as you've now


I don't know why someone can't just learn to corporate with their mental guideline when their mental provider had failed them.


you want to use me learn words but I will so disappoint you in regards, I'm not that civil

We should be constructive when making contributions.. not all fingers are equal... my younger brother left home immediately after school.. I waited two good years after Nysc to rent my own apartment... we actually left same time.. What have learnt is God will only help those who planned ahead of time.

Ategberoson:


I will take you and your family not just on English writing but its rudiments, logic and application. your parents failed to imbibe minding your business in your upbringing hence this your show of stupidity

if I don't intrude in your opinion, you've no reason to stand against mine


I'm not buying the Op submission in regards to something and you want my post to pictured with his own submission? this show the level of your dumbness. if you like stay under bridge at mushin for 300yrs that's your problem


you claimed to be a street guy but you forget street person have no time to be finding fault in one personal opinion


you think na everyone wey dey street dey streetwise, you can spend 100yrs in street and still get lower brain than ajebuter as you've now


I don't know why someone can't just learn to corporate with their mental guideline when their mental provider had failed them.


you want to use me learn words but I will so disappoint you in regards, I'm not that civil

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