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Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Exodora: 12:48am On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent:I wonder what you mean when you said teaching . At 18 teaching , what was your salary like and come you were able to pay rent and other expenses with such payment. Cause I know some private schools don't even NCE holders well not to talk of an O' level holder. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by sunmarouk(m): 1:01am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson: smile, huzzle like which lion. just say, you found favour(it worked out for you). what difference does it make if you go far. when e hook you, you will still call home for assistance. most friends don't really care, so, one can be a pest squatting with them. besides, everyone destiny is different, they same route you pass and succeeded, another person can pass through and get burnt. for example, I have traveled very far to stay with a relation that we were both huzzling, could you believe the relation was using me to request money from my dad. because the huzzle was real, no money, food at all 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by minasota(f): 1:01am On Jul 30, 2020 |
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Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by MATURELION: 1:14am On Jul 30, 2020 |
This one is just pained if you like don't go and hustle cos people who hustle aren't comfortable in thier parents house some working class people here can relate 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by InvertedHammer: 1:14am On Jul 30, 2020 |
/ Live with your parents until it becomes uncomfortable. That's the key. I don't get our people sometimes. A man with two sons has three houses in his compound. People said the first son should build his own house in his name. He did. The father died years later and he had relatives move into two of the parent's houses in the village because the second son relocated to Switzerland. Who is enjoying his father's sweat? The same relatives that cajoled him to build his own house. Isn't that wasteful? Anyone that tells you to move out of your parent's comfortable house before you are ready, tell them to force you move na. / 2 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by sunmarouk(m): 1:24am On Jul 30, 2020 |
MATURELION: see you. rich kids don't huzzle, they simply live big & probably get married and properties before you. with all the huzzling, your car won't be as beautiful as a person with comfortable parents own, coupled with an old wrinkled face to show for all the huzzling I have been in the street for a long time & still trying to survive, while my cousin/childhood friend is getting married this week. our both parents are very comfortable, but mine chased me out of the house after my degree at age 23 to go huzzle, while my 2nd stayed in his fathers house till he finished his masters. he was assisted to get a small job, father gave him a house and a car & about to get married now, while my own father is still using me for experiment at age 30. i might not be lucky as others, but definately dont deserve this sufferness called huzzling0. I just tire for this life, I can't even think of marriage sef. I am a teacher right now, so you can imagine how the last 5month has not been easy, with no salary. but I can say, family and friends have been supporting me, I even call home for foodstuff 5 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Nobody: 1:42am On Jul 30, 2020 |
seanwilliam: Continue. Mary a wife and raise a family in your father’s house. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by sunmarouk(m): 1:43am On Jul 30, 2020 |
sunmarouk: I can't even travel for his wedding cos of transport. am so ashamed. Everyone at the ceremony will be looking out for me 2 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by MATURELION: 2:06am On Jul 30, 2020 |
sunmarouk:dude I did not have time to read all you wrote but I don't want the flashy cars and big houses stuff like that I just want to comfortable and happy and also by the way I did not completely move out of my parents home even though I have 2mil + sitting in my bank acc I just rented a small selfcon so I can have peace of mind when I want it .... And also who told you rich kids don't move of thier parents house.. go get a life and I won't be replying any of your mentions |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Mouhstorph5(m): 2:10am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Munzy14: Nice submission! 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 2:59am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Most of you in support of Op are just looking for a way to give yourself excuse. Even if you are calling popsi and momsi for money from time to time, move out. Hustle for yourself. You will learn more from not being in your comfort zone. I know you are scared that things may not turn out well, still move out. Get a place of your own. You will learn financial and life experience that you wouldn't get receiving 200 naira everyday from papa. 5 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 3:01am On Jul 30, 2020 |
DexterousOne:Did you find out if they are happy staying with their parents? What if they are wussies who can't tell their parents what they want in their life? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 3:07am On Jul 30, 2020 |
armadeo:But you can never know until you move out. Don't tell me when you earn big money. I have friends who work in Telecommunications but can't explain where their money enter. They live in their parents house. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 3:11am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Fortune109:I started teaching around the same age. Just because you weren't smart when you finished your o level does not mean we are the same |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 3:12am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ogaonos:Unfortunately 90 percent do not save dime. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Goldenrod1: 3:13am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Someone's said 30 ahh you say wetin? ..you must hustle gather money before that time o I have a friend back then in secondary school in my home town. Even till now all of them are still living together ( I mean grandpa, grandma, father, mother with 4children + 2 adopted (family) |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 3:18am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Exodora:I remember teaching around the age of 15 and 16. I was, paid 10k per month. I combined it with home lessons which brought in around 25k at the end of the month. I rented a 1 room apartment and the rent was 24k per year. We hustle for this life |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ArticleBeast: 3:21am On Jul 30, 2020 |
sunmarouk:But you are pushing and surviving |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by IMASTEX: 3:23am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Atiku:That should be more appropriate, using two of my cousins as a case study. * John moved out base on popular demand without any suitable means. He spent few months & returned. It was even friends & family assist that prolonged the returned a little. And of course, keeping him afloat will mean directly encouraging certain lifestyle which is always the hiden truth of move out early advocates. * Peter is still in his parent's house. Yet built his house "3 flats" & put it on lease, has a car and worked with FG. Note: Happiness, comfort & certain choices are very personal. No one should create any standard on that. And families don't operate same, many have the means but don't see the need. Funny enough, most that see the need don't always have the means. So it is clear wisdom, instead let the temporary discomfort be the push for financial freedom because the whole story ends on the alter of finance. A lot of youths who are a product of a disorganized country would certainly be reading & this thread might increase their already depressed situation, not knowing most comments are social media life. John & Peter not real name though. I pray we all have the ability & see more opportunities to create enough wealth to sustain the choice of life we wish for. bukatyne:My point exactly 1 Like |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Nobody: 3:27am On Jul 30, 2020 |
IMASTEX: And peter is raising a family in his parents house Hail am for me o. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by IMASTEX: 3:30am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Atiku:His wife based in America and he is yet to join. Moreover, most that are the subject matter aren't based on marriage. But just move out based on what is popular without any meaningful income. Thus end up, doing crimes "not all" in the name of hustle. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Budoski: 3:41am On Jul 30, 2020 |
The best time the holybook said a man should leave is father's house is when he gets married to his wife,so it's advisable same for ladies.....if u leave ur father's house when u never grow to maturity Financially, emotionally, spiritually and otherwise,been able to identify a spiritually good house is a concern this days...wrong house hmmn full everywhere ooo,ill. gotten wealth is common in this part of the world,house wey Dem don bury juju put and u na know,mean while na there u wan go start life as a young Man..... Let's just pause here be wise |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by IMASTEX: 3:51am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Munzy14:Those are just the factual summary. Many have rushed into doing what others did unprepared. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Fxwarrior: 4:35am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Atiku:gbh My friend stop this damage control. Op flesh and blood has not revealed this to you. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by RemiAbdulSamad(m): 4:40am On Jul 30, 2020 |
richyfunky:Tru talk bro. It's far from being easy |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ModestGal(f): 4:48am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Vyzz:No be this Nigeria, I never see parents wey pursue children at age 22. Both in the North and West, how many people have gotten a job at 22years? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by ModestGal(f): 4:49am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Ategberoson:I 100% disagree |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Fxwarrior: 4:53am On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent: Oga what could you possibly be teaching at age 14 to make you independent? Let's learn to keep things real. There's nobody to impress here. 2 Likes |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by aremuforlife(m): 4:59am On Jul 30, 2020 |
[/quote][quote author=prekumohtim post=92250026]We are Africans and not Europeans |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Jakama90(m): 6:27am On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent:Started hustling at 14 and left home at 18.. I know the kind of family you came from. |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by Jakama90(m): 6:29am On Jul 30, 2020 |
chatinent:Started teaching at 15? What were you teaching the innocent kids? |
Re: Why you Shouldn't Leave Your Parents House When You're Not Capable by seanwilliam(m): 6:34am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Atiku:lol . U funny bro, if only you know what most guys living their parents have achieved before marriage ehn .... 4 Likes 1 Share |
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