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| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by TheControversy: 10:41pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
What happens when you meet someone better than the 2nd guy, are you gonna leave him again? See in this life there is always someone better than the next person, real love is choosing to stay with someone no matter who you come across. That's called commitment and something you must learn if you want to have a happy marriage. The decision is yours. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by SoliBayNG: 10:42pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Favour2323:You don't like your bf... You like the new guy. What is the dicey situation again? Move ahead, free the bf and live with the consequences, good or bad. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by abbey621(m): 10:42pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Unfortunately most Nigerian girls are senseless! Date a guy for 6 months, 3 of those six months you started building an emotional connection with another guy, is this not madness? Any guy that comes after you while you have a boyfriend AND YOU ACCEPT will surely never trust you completely. There will always be that voice in the back of his head shouting, HOEEEEEEEE! |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
kolade560:His current boyfriend must have come in contact with better girls too!! This one is just trying to be smart... She will learn the hard way tho!! It is obvious that his current boyfriend didn't allow her to take responsibilities!! If she had invested well in the relationship, she won't be acting like an unstable teenager!! |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by professore(m): 10:45pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
linked:well said |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ylaa(f): 10:46pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Clap for yourself After you will leave him for a higher quality boy. Qualitarian! I pity u. Better stay focus. Demon wey u know better pass ......... Eh en Meanwhile recharge and get paid is the only legit online business that never fails. If I lie ask banks or better borrow their humility and join us. VTU is the new oil well. To start, u need your android phone n as lil as 5k. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by SaFree(m): 10:46pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
The new guy just dey play with your emotions.. E dey blackmail you because he know exactly how to get the kpekus.. Just go and get dumped after being bleeped |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by fasmukol: 10:46pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Mcslize:Honestly, you have said nothing but the truth and that video nailed it. Because, I have passed through that same situation with a girl I have spent over 2 years with (with wedding already being planned). But the only thing that God assisted me with is that immediately she started her stupid behavior I am lucky to pull myself out. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Stanweezy(m): 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Mr Slawormir what do you have to say to this lady |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Angelfrost(m): 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
The same way you 'loved' your current 'unattractive' boyfriend, is the same way you will end up 'loving' the next, and next guy with better qualities than the current one... You think one guy or lady has it all??! Nah... Any one that makes such a claim either has very low standards, or just enjoys self deceit!!! There's a reason marriage is largely termed 'settling down'!!! Keyword being 'Settle'!!! The person is not the best or finest, but you sometimes make a decision to basically stop wandering or searching for that unattainable star! Bottom line... Aunty Op, you are not yet ready to settle down. So, feel free to dump the current for the futuristic, pending when the next better prospect comes along... And, make no mistakes, there will be endless better prospects, till you finally gain the maturity to settle down!!! This is basically the world of most guys!!!... Speaking of which, the guy you are falling over now, is also likely to shift focus to a better chick later.... And, the cycle of emotional games continues. ![]() |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Olarewaju89: 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Favour2323:You need happiness. Pls go for happiness oo. Wait oo... have you pray concerning two of them? If no, then you have to talk to God about it. Thanks |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by WriterX(m): 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
There were some foreigners who came across a village of black men. The wanted to trade but had no idea what to exchange for but they had gold and lots of it. So they took their gold to the black man and at the end of the day, they traded nothing. Because the black man had no value for gold, so the next day they took some fruits, mirrors, iron rods, toys and all and this time they were able to trade. For the black man, those toys were worth more the value of Gold to them. The fact is you have no more value for what you have or have lost value for it hence your need for something else. Am afraid you are not in love my dear. Love is so many things but nothing of what you feel right now. Good luck to your new relationship. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by AristocraticMe: 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Favour2323:This is deep... First and foremost - You stated your current boyfriend does not just want to have sex with you he truly loves for real and like you said you love him too... Relationships is not about love alone or feelings , there is something they call commitment and self discipline. You will always meet someone better than your boyfriend, more handsome, more richer and so on... Even if you are married you will always meet someone better than your husband. But commitment and self discipline will keep you in it. First question I want to ask you do you know what you want in man ? Do you ? If you know, then that's good. So who got more points ? Your boyfriend or the new guy ? That is a question for you to answer personally. Second question - Do you know the intention of this new guy ? Like you said your boyfriend is not really about having sex with you, he truly loves you. Intention is key in anything we do... so many wolves in sheep clothing. Lastly. As a guy , I cant date a girl who told me she has a girlfriend but later told me she has dumped her boyfriend for me.... That's is a Red Flag to me and I wont trust her because she can do that to me too....and I will see her as a loose girl. Side note - Leaving your boyfriend for a guy who knows you have a boyfriend which you left for him is TOO DESPERATE..... that's another red flag. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by foolbuster: 10:49pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
dukeprince50:Its been a while a comment from nairaland made me laugh this hard ![]() |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by adanny01(m): 10:49pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Favour2323:Hey watch out, the new guy is pulling a sharp string on you. Don't leave a branch for a leaf. This is why double dating helps. I just can't trust the new guy. You are in an infatuated state and can't think logically. I assure you that anything you decide now, you will regret. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Charmingrascal(m): 10:50pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Favour2323:He stopped calling after u told him u have a boyfriend? Let me tell u the truth, that's a trick to get u. I do same too, when I try to get close to a lady especially the one I just want to bleep with and she tells me she has a boyfriend. I will relax like I am no longer interested but the fact is, it's just a game. I do mine because I fear karma I don't bleep people's girl as long she tells me she has her boyfriend. I know u have made up ur mind to follow the new guy but I can assure you that it will end in premium tears, mark today's date. U can still follow ur mind if u so wish. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Cleo7: 10:51pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
It will end in premium tears |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Angelfrost(m): 10:51pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
SoliBayNG:What consequences??! Are they bethroted or married?!... Even engagements not working out can and should be broken, how much more a relationship. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:51pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Hmmm something here sounds familiar He's just a friend Imagine if all our parents got divorced one year into their marriage since its just a divorce, will u be alive ![]() I wonder y u can just have a normal male friendship Dating, sex, money, joblessness, and being a Nigerian ![]() Well if u not planning on getting married with any of them its ur choice... Its just a relationship what's d worst that can happen ehn ![]() A relationship is meant to b where two ppl work to trust each other no matter what happens... D guy did d right thing by not talking to you anymore.. Imagine marrying a married woman ![]() Well all this is rubbish we all gonna die anyways... |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by mechanics(m): 10:51pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Kylekent59:Hahahha, that's true, she's confused. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by drezzyx(m): 10:52pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
See how I am looking at you. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Charmingrascal(m): 10:52pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Favour2323:He stopped calling after u told him u have a boyfriend? Let me tell u the truth, that's a trick to get u. I do same too, when I try to get close to a lady especially the one I just want to bleep with and she tells me she has a boyfriend, I will relax like I am no longer interested but the fact is, it's just a game, a bait to gain empathy, like you are feeling now. That's the aim and intention I know u have made up ur mind to follow the new guy but I can assure you that it will end in premium tears, mark today's date. U can still follow ur mind if u so wish. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by donprinyo(m): 10:54pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Dis Chick ain't loyal |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by just2endowed: 10:56pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
donstan18:Lol |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Joshkouture: 10:57pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Scam nah guy be this don't be deceived. Just another attention seeker |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Karlifate: 10:57pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
guru90:
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| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Leonard17: 10:57pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
donstan18:I Stan with you bro. One hundred percent |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by KaptainAfrika: 10:57pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Please leave your current boyfriend before you break his heart, and he comes to mistrust women. Cheers. And don't look back O. As you leave, leave with your chest. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Favour2323: |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Young lady no partner is ever enough if you leave space for new people to walk in. That's why once you are committed to someone, immediately you tell musa to shut the gate or better still sack the mudafucka. Because if you leave your gate open? You'll definitely will be meeting more suitable and suitable people better than your partner. Tbh with you, you're a flirt who's not yet done with the street. So I'll advise go back to street okay. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Joshkouture: 10:59pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
merieam16:So funny how Nairalanders never saw this. The moniker was created today ![]() |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by regnum(m): 10:59pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
In life there will always be someone finer, more intelligent, richer and more interesting than your partner, that's where commitment comes into play. |
| Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Phyde: 11:00pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Confused sets of people. She will end up dating both of them. |
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