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People like u are so loose .. u gonna jump from 1 penis to the next anyways ... because u sure qould meet someone better than the new guy

It's all an illusion....hahaha
You will meet one with better qualities than this one you plan to move to...hmmm

Nice story, very fake, but nice

mtchew
jumping from one erect stick to the other

linked:
Don't be a door without a lock. It is clear that you are not committed to your present relationship. Now that's a big problem. It speaks more to your character than anything else. The problem is not whether you like the new guy more than your guy, but that you don't understand that commitment is essential in a healthy relationship.

Maybe you are not matured enough to know that in life you will always meet someone more interesting, more handsome, more wealthy, more nice than whoever you chose to date or marry. Las las I suspect you will end up a wretch if you do not discipline yourself with self control.

You should date or marry a person not because you have not found someone better than them. Rather it should be because you CHOSE to be with them. Even when you find someone better (which will definitely happen), it wouldn't matter to you.

Choice.., This is where most fail

humilitypays:
Ladies are their own problem.


relationship is not marriage. Until a guy pays your full dowry, you don't owe him any explanation to walk away or fvck another sweeter dick.



Why must u seek for permission from others to date a guy u find attractive for your taste.



We guys are hypocrites, we make too much noise, we want ladies to be what we can never be.


Can that your boyfriend swear that he hasn't fvcked other chicks since u guys started dating And if he says yes he has not, then he is broke, ugly, not classy



You better your eyes and explore, guys do same. Don't listen to guys opinion on this cos we are hypocrites, we want ladies not to double date while dating us but we fourtiple abi fiftiple date and heavens haven't fell.




Don't break up with your boyfriend, just flow along with both of them and stop brandishing one yeye boy that have not paid your bride price in the name of girlfriend boyfriend that most times don't lead to anywhere good at the end!!



You mustn't tell every guy you meet that you have a boyfriend, you ladies are demarketing yourselves by doing that. You are single until you are legally married!!!

What will make a man to make up his mind to marry a lady? Please kindly answer with all honesty.


If you are dating a girl and you find out she is double dating with some random guys aside you, will you boldly want to.marry such a lady?

If you go on marrying a girl that double dated when you were courting her, do you believe such a girl will be loyal to you in marriage? Can you boldly marry a lady that is cheating on you with other guys even though you are aware?

If you can answer those questions with capital YES then those are the kind of girls you will keep on attracting because you believe a girl who is in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage should keep on cheating because to you she is Still very single.

But you forget that it is from dating that you will know whether to marry someone or not. And if she is the cheating type, you will still go ahead to marry such. Don't be surprised when a woman hang another man's child on your neck without you being aware.

Don't ever give excuse for promiscuous ladies. You can't compare guys that cheat to ladies because it is men that will wife them. Every lady should learn how to control their sexual fantasies and emotions when in a serious relationships with the exceptions of those that just want to fvck around and in the end become too damaged for men to marry as wives.

Marry a hoe and watch how she will fvck around in your absence and born you another man child.

bitch will always seek for oppinions.

[quote author=AristocraticMe post=92317469]This is deep...
First and foremost - You stated your current boyfriend does not just want to have sex with you he truly loves for real and like you said you love him too...
Relationships is not about love alone or feelings , there is something they call commitment and self discipline.
You will always meet someone better than your boyfriend, more handsome, more richer and so on... Even if you are married you will always meet someone better than your husband. But commitment and self discipline will keep you in it.

First question I [b][/b]want to ask you do you know what you want in man ? Do you ? If you know, then that's good. So who got more points ? Your boyfriend or the new guy ? That is a question for you to answer personally.

Second question - Do you know the intention of this new guy ? Like you said your boyfriend is not really about having sex with you, he truly loves you.
Intention is key in anything we do... so many wolves in sheep clothing.

Lastly. As a guy , I cant date a girl who told me she has a girlfriend but later told me she has dumped her boyfriend for me.... That's is a Red Flag to me and I wont trust her because she can do that to me too....and I will see her as a loose girl.

Side note - Leaving your boyfriend for a guy who knows you have a boyfriend which you left for him is TOO DESPERATE..... that's another red flag.

Nonsense

[b][/b][color=#990000][/color]ENTANGLEMENT

linked:
Don't be a door without a lock. It is clear that you are not committed to your present relationship. Now that's a big problem. It speaks more to your character than anything else. The problem is not whether you like the new guy more than your guy, but that you don't understand that commitment is essential for a healthy relationship.

Maybe you are not matured enough to know that in life you will always meet someone more interesting, more handsome, more wealthy, more nice than whoever you chose to date or marry. Las las I suspect you will end up a wretch if you do not discipline yourself with self control.

You should date or marry a person not because you have not found someone better than them. Rather it should be because you CHOSE to be with them. Even when you find someone better (which will definitely happen), it wouldn't matter to you.

Nailed it

just accept the fact that you're a certified OLOSHO

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

Your conscience does not agree with it but it feels like the right thing to do. How? You are already contradicting yourself.

My advice is that you leave your boyfriend for the new guy. He is attractive and has many qualities that your bf doesn't have.

When you guys start dating and you meet another guy with better qualities, you can also leave him and date the new one...and continue the cycle.

Maybe one day you will find what you are looking for.

What you see from these new guy might fade away one day...it's not all about what you are feeling now..cos for sure u wud still meet another person also with Same quality much more than these new guy again in future..so why not let your current boy friend know what u want.. remember luv is not about the perfect but also ability to love the imperfect part of your partner..no being is complete just like u...

life is all about creativity & invention. d is notting like a ready made man in d market. ladies should find ways 2 bring out d best in their man & not 2 b changing 1 man after d other

Grass is not always greener at the other side.
Egungun be careful

The matter tire me...if this story na true then she really a sorry being...she doesn't know what awaits her in the other guy...guy wey sabi say u dey leave ur boyfriend cos of am?...she even say she cant help not talking to him forever(imagine nonsense talk)...so confused women like this still dey?...

FluxEmpire:
I'd put things clear as apt as it is... If you say you love the second guy, then you never loved the first... You can't love two people at the same time; it's impossible.

If you wanna go for the second guy, then do so and stop using the first as leverage or collateral to keep whenever the new guy is unavailable.

Furthermore, you'd be doing more good than harm in leaving your first boyfriend because as it is, you clearly don't love him because love goes beyond what you just see physically. It's accepting one's shit and excesses and loving them for who they are.

Give your first boyfriend the respect he deserves by leaving him and stop loving him out of pity. You're only making him a lovelorn. If you actually knew that the new guy had all you needed in a man, courtesy states that you remain single till you get to meet such guy even if it takes 100 years but outta being lonely, you opted to date your first and now the man of your dreams appeared, the first seems to fade in your eyes...

YOU CLEARLY DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

Give the first boyfriend the honor he deserves and let a woman who is worthy of him be with him. You can't eat your cake and have it. Next time, carry a TO-DO-LIST about your expectations with you henceforth because it seems if another guy should sweep you outta your feet better than the second, you might as well put the second in the corners.

I might have been rude but pardon my unfriendliness; the TRUTH hurts.

ImaIma1:
Your conscience does not agree with it but it feels like the right thing to do. How? You are already contradicting yourself.

My advice is that you leave your boyfriend for the new guy. He is attractive and has many qualities that your bf doesn't have.

When you guys start dating and you meet another guy with better qualities, you can also leave him and date the new one...and continue the cycle.

Maybe one day you will find what you are looking for.

I love this

donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

Guy I wish I fit see you buy you chilled beer of your choice and pepper soup join sef..
You stated 100% facts..
He that has ear let him hear..

Dear, go for not the Greek bearing gifts but the one who is physically, financially and spiritually ready to settle down with you. One who doesn't trivialize dating. One who shares your beliefs. Don't seek temporary happiness, seek forever bliss.

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

If you really loved the first guy, you won't fall for the second. Take a stance in your life for once. You can't keep moving from relationships every 3 months. There is always a great guy out there just like there is always good car in the market.. But stick to one. Olosho

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Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

I don't have any advice for you oh, but I have one question for you!
What will you do if another guy comes after this second guy and has more better qualoties than this second one?
Or don't. You think this new guy will just use this method of yours on you and leave you in few months time cos he will surely nurse that feelings you gonna leave him if another man comes to.... Think deeply and get out of your lustful desires

You get time answer that person sha...but all thesame guy...nice response...

Mcslize:
What will make a man to make up his mind to marry a lady? Please kindly answer with all honesty.


If you are dating a girl and you find out she is double dating with some random guys aside you, will you boldly want to.marry such a lady?

If you go on marrying a girl that double dated when your were courting her, do you believe such a girl will be loyal to you in marriage? Can you boldly marry a lady that is cheating on you with other guys even though you are aware?

If you can answer those questions with capital YES then those are the kind of girls you will keep on attracting because you believe a girl who is in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage should keep on cheating because to you she is Still very single.

But you forget that it is from dating that you will know whether to marry someone or not. And if she is the cheating type, you will still go ahead to marry such. Don't be surprised when a woman hang another man's child on your neck without you being aware.

Don't ever give excuse for promiscuous ladies. You can't compare guys that cheat to ladies because it is men that will wife them. Every lady should learn how to control their sexual fantasies and emotions when in a serious relationships with the exceptions of those that just want to fvck around and in the end become too damaged for men to marry as wives.

Marry a hoe and watch how she will fvck around in your absence and born you another man child.

fasmukol:
Honestly, you have said nothing but the truth and that video nailed it. Because, I have passed through that same situation with a girl I have spent over 2 years with (with wedding already being planned). But the only thing that God assisted me with is that immediately she started her stupid behavior I am lucky to pull myself out.

That's it bro. Never ever tolerate a cheating girlfriend whom you plan to marry. Once you know she is cheating, dump her. Don't look back. People like that will bring men from outside to be fvcked in their matrimonial bed when the man is away.

The earlier men know this, the better. A hoe will remain a hoe no matter how much you try to be a better man to her.

That is why go for a girl you know will be loyal in marriage. And that you will get to see whether she is the loyal type or not during courtship.

No one should give any excuse for promiscuous ladies parading as girlfriends.

God forbid bad thing that I will tolerate a cheating girlfriend let alone a cheating wife. The moment I find out a girl is double dating, I dump her immediately. I don't want to father another man's child.

The lady is confused... I won't say more because I might be the new guy.

donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

No cap

90% Girls out there are more like a hoe . I'm happy for those that have married befr this century .

[quote author=Ebere044 post=92317894][/quote]if someone say something you feel different about, no need to throw insult. Just pass by.

TimeTraveler369:
Should we tell her?

make we leave am for another day

the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know

You no needs to suffer us, just tell us that this new guy performs better that your bf, that is why you thinks of missing the sweet romp you experienced with him. And the guy wants to play with you all alone for some time that is why he hack your brain so that you discard the 1st bf for him. Later he will discard you when he got tired of your as well.

Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

You will meet another new guy and create a topic on Nairaland for public approval.