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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jun 16, 2020
peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

Start to finish, there isn't a single full stop in this post. Only about two commas, I think.

Una dey try.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Greensquard(m): 1:36pm On Jun 16, 2020
Bro make money like me and watch the girls telling u how very handsome u r.. grin grin,i just laughed when one girl i just met and she came to.my place started telling me how fresh and handsome i am,lol even showing her pussy that she is wet but om her period otherwise she would have rapped me,she sha showed my di.ckson love sha..i just laughed it off,she been asking me if im home she wants to come over..i just de job am dey calculate make at least 5days do first make i know she don finish the period then i can screw her p.vssy to mars...screwing that As.ss 2moro..lol money works wonders

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jun 16, 2020
NewDelhi:
Girls like this I don't waste time in deleting their number. ....Even if I see am for street or anywhere I go just bone like say I don't even know her.... No time for bullshìt. I see it as an act of disrespect, if you couldn't make it any longer you could have just picked my call and tell me. Deciding not to pick my call or switching off your phone doesn't make sense at all. ....
imagine this one undecided
Nigerian Men are something else
*Spits*
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Prinnce1: 4:57pm On Jun 16, 2020
Preshieben:
imagine this one undecided
Nigerian Men are something else
*Spits*
presh not like that it makes us look like a fool... A reasonable babe will either notify you through text or call that she is won't be able to make it. If babe do this to me I always have away of settling it

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NewDelhi(m): 5:14pm On Jun 16, 2020
Preshieben:
imagine this one undecided
Nigerian Men are something else
*Spits*
Get a life.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 5:30pm On Jun 16, 2020
NewDelhi:

Get a life.
I'm living one undecided
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jun 16, 2020
Prinnce1:
presh not like that it makes us look like a fool... A reasonable babe will either notify you through text or call that she is won't be able to make it. If babe do this to me I always have away of settling it
you too? undecided
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NewDelhi(m): 5:55pm On Jun 16, 2020
Preshieben:
I'm living one undecided
With the ashawo work you dey do undecided

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Pasako(m): 8:26pm On Jun 16, 2020
MizCharlotte:
That's why guys should forget about these girls and focus more on money . When you have money and they know, na dem go dey disturb you say they wan visit you, sleep at your place etc. If you say you r not around or they can't come, them go even dey vex for you say so you are denying /avoiding them abi. I used to pursue one girl like that. She gave me all sorts of attitude and barely picks my calls. The moment she saw me driving out one day (it wasn't even my car grin) , she gazed without saying anything. That night I got a strange call, it was her. She was like ehn so I forgot about her since all this days abi I couldn't even call her bla bla bla. After our lengthy discussion, she called again asking if she could come to my house the next day . Lol for my mind I was like nawa for women o. Money answereth all things.
you be man or woman??
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jun 16, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later
Lol... sabi babe. Where u go hide since cheesy
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Prinnce1: 10:47pm On Jun 16, 2020
Preshieben:
you too? undecided
yes oooo the same way I will call someone to inform him/her that I can't make it ...is the same way I expect he/she to call too. No one is too big to do that

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jun 17, 2020
NewDelhi:

With the ashawo work you dey do undecided
wrong impression undecided
It's only shallow_minded men that tag all girls Ashawo.
You must be one undecided
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jun 17, 2020
Prinnce1:
yes oooo the same way I will call someone to inform him/her that I can't make it ...is the same way I expect he/she to call too. No one is too big to do that
If u say so
Alright.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Millenniumlady(f): 7:45am On Jul 31, 2020
dairykidd:

Lol... sabi babe. Where u go hide since cheesy
Hi I've missed you kiss

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 8:24am On Jul 31, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Hi I've missed you kiss
Yeah.. its a fine Friday morning. Hope ur keeping it real as always cheesy
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Millenniumlady(f): 11:15am On Jul 31, 2020
[quote author=dairykidd post=92291699]
Yeah.. its a fine Friday morning. Hope ur keeping it real as always cheesy [/quote sure i am. are you the one on the pics you look cute smiley wink
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 11:24am On Jul 31, 2020
[quote author=Millenniumlady post=92296644][/quote]
Lool that's not me tho.. I'm a very private person but we could take it from off here. I really want to know u cheesy
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Millenniumlady(f): 9:04pm On Jul 31, 2020
dairykidd:

Lool that's not me tho.. I'm a very private person but we could take it from off here. I really want to know u cheesy
So can i see your pics before we start
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Soren4(m): 11:06pm On Jul 31, 2020
CKLP:
Nigerian girls are so used to this thrash. After I call about 3 times and you don't pick, I just forget about it and find other things to do. If she's someone that has done it before , I delete her phone number instantly just like one that disappointed me last month. Funniest thing was that that was the third time she was doing such .. like all the three different times she promised to come over, she didn't. The third time I deleted her number with annoyance. The most annoying part is that some of them won't even pick their calls and won't bother to call back.
.

They will not call bk o... I had a chat with one girl she said most girls prefer having data on their phones rather than having airtime to call..
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 1:36am On Aug 01, 2020
Millenniumlady:
So can i see your pics before we start
This girl u no serious. My pic on Nairaland shocked
Kole werk oo if its off here no problem
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Millenniumlady(f): 5:31am On Aug 01, 2020
dairykidd:

This girl u no serious. My pic on Nairaland shocked
Kole werk oo if its off here no problem
ok pm
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 9:36am On Aug 01, 2020
Millenniumlady:
ok pm
Sent
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Djex614: 11:21am On Aug 01, 2020
dairykidd:

Sent
This love that is about to start, It will not work... (Blows powder) lol
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 01, 2020
Djex614:

This love that is about to start, It will not work... (Blows powder) lol

tongue
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by GeneralKoko(m): 12:30am On Aug 02, 2020
egopersonified:
You invite a girl who is not your girlfriend to your house, you prepare for sex and she doesn't show up and you all are telling us your stories of having the same experience and deleting her number and what not. But if she makes the date and you sleep with her, you come on nairaland to call all girls 'except my mother and sisters' oloshos.

I discovered that you'll always be disappointed trying to have a girl that is not your GF over . Na this lockdown time I really knew the importance of GF wey dae live close .


I've been in distance relationships infact I was in two before the lockdown . It was all fun and jokes until I couldn't see them when konji came they were too far this drovee nuts

I just had to evaluate my life and cut off stress .

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by drealcivilceno(m): 1:00am On Aug 02, 2020
Akinbahm:


The funny of it all, if the babe reach our side without being grinded like dry pepper nah the same girl go call person "Mumu guy wey no sabi"

I once invited a babe for my villa based on platonic visitation after her arrival I still stick to my decision I even took her to my room for gist without any form of penetration nor smooching.

Before she left that same day I took her to chicken republic to catch some cruise and we departed from there.
I later I invited her again to my greatest surprise she told me wetin she wan come do and end the convo with I be omo ase.

I discussed the issue with both male and female they end up saying she wan con Bleep but I bleeped up.

Till date the girl still dey run away for me i swear....

Wetin una u pple want self?

You might have meant well humans cannot be to careful sha.

Ok, I'm not an authority on this issue but She sensed that you using indirect format (she don find out the painful way). You were supposed to let her fall into the trap by herself. Be willing to loose a babe and you will get them, comfortably.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by GeneralKoko(m): 1:20am On Aug 02, 2020
Ladycewhy:
Honestly when the Nigerian guy says "come to my house" na to fvck o ,and this thread just proves it. See that one taking concuction so he can shift someone's womb like say he know road to her papa house. The very reason i usually ask a guy that tells me to come to his house 'if they are minting money at his house" lol .

However i do not approve the way ladies have been going about it, is it fear or shyness that will not make you pick your call and tell him you are not coming? Or even tell him straight up the first time he brings it up that you wont come. Ladies we need to do better, maybe thats why most guys feel i am blunt and they can't handle it. Me refusing to come to your house is not breaking any law so i will tell you straight up and if you start giving me attitude ,i delete you.Na my pussy and i will decide when to bring it to your house,not on your terms,if you want your terms ,go carry ashawo (for socially awkward men ).

Who said ashawo is for socially akward men??
Some people are just too busy to be chasing y'all upandan . Some hav life goals and chasing y'all will distract them. So they rather pay to have that pussy y'all are feeling big for cheesy grin

Furthermore, there are different levels of prostitution from the sugar daddy to ashawo beer parlor na the same hustle . I don't really blame them Sha

Same way you can't do that is same way they wouldn't if they had another source of income or a choice . I noticed most of those prostitutes are ashamed of their jobs . Although they've helped to reduce sexual assaults in the society .

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by GeneralKoko(m): 1:23am On Aug 02, 2020
mechanics:
Because she knows the evil intention of the person calling her, so she won't come, not all ladies are wayward.

She can simply say
" I can't come " straight up than promising the some of Adam and giving him high hopes then not showing up . It's becoming a norm for them girls .
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by mechanics(m): 11:00am On Aug 02, 2020
GeneralKoko:


She can simply say
" I can't come " straight up than promising the some of Adam and giving him high hopes then not showing up . It's becoming a norm for them girls .
hahahah, okay o.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Ladycewhy(f): 9:42pm On Aug 03, 2020
GeneralKoko:


Who said ashawo is for socially akward men??
Some people are just too busy to be chasing y'all upandan . Some hav life goals and chasing y'all will distract them. So they rather pay to have that pussy y'all are feeling big for cheesy grin

Furthermore, there are different levels of prostitution from the sugar daddy to ashawo beer parlor na the same hustle . I don't really blame them Sha

Same way you can't do that is same way they wouldn't if they had another source of income or a choice . I noticed most of those prostitutes are ashamed of their jobs . Although they've helped to reduce sexual assaults in the society .
more like some people are too weak for relationships ,like they always say , cheating is easy why not try being faithful . undecided.


Another saying goes this, "marriage is hard work".


And also for the goals chasing, I am yet to see the old money affluent ones with real wealth talk that way grin grin grin, go figure.


The truth is it's just easy to Chuck penis ,pour and come out. There is something fundamentally wrong with a man who just Chuck penis pour and go,ask a therapist grin


And I will like to point out that the bolded is absolutely false as this generation has the highest rate of perverted men who even impregnate their own daughters . Rape has never been this so much in the increase,even old grandmothers are not spared.
Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by GeneralKoko(m): 10:25pm On Aug 03, 2020
Ladycewhy:
more like some people are too weak for relationships ,like they always say , cheating is easy why not try being faithful . undecided.


Another saying goes this, "marriage is hard work".


And also for the goals chasing, I am yet to see the old money affluent ones with real wealth talk that way grin grin grin, go figure.


The truth is it's just easy to Chuck penis ,pour and come out. There is something fundamentally wrong with a man who just Chuck penis pour and go,ask a therapist grin


And I will like to point out that the bolded is absolutely false as this generation has the highest rate of perverted men who even impregnate their own daughters . Rape has never been this so much in the increase,even old grandmothers are not spared.


Have you visited a brothel ?? A day more than 1m is payed by different classes of people to get layd . What does that say?? Most people who are busy or sex starved come there to ease themselves and satisfy their sexual cravings .

Big men don't waste time chasing a girl . You know most of them have lil girls they love around with . Just like Ned woko you know that the only reason Regina married him is because he had cash and she didn't hesitate .

The chase is good but long chasing is a waste of valuable time .

That's how I chased one idiot for a year , thank God say I run . Happiness where ever you are TFY!!!!!

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Ladycewhy(f): 5:47am On Aug 04, 2020
GeneralKoko:



Have you visited a brothel ?? A day more than 1m is payed by different classes of people to get layd . What does that say?? Most people who are busy or sex starved come there to ease themselves and satisfy their sexual cravings .

Big men don't waste time chasing a girl . You know most of them have lil girls they love around with . Just like Ned woko you know that the only reason Regina married him is because he had cash and she didn't hesitate .

The chase is good but long chasing is a waste of valuable time .

That's how I chased one idiot for a year , thank God say I run . Happiness where ever you are TFY!!!!!

With the money exchanging hands in these so called brothels, rape is at a all time high undecided, so do we now say ,this generation of men are the most depraved? undecided

Na the bad examples you go ever find ,how about Otedola and his wife? undecided. And don't forget ned probably has a wife who he was with before he blow.


Now I see where your problem sterms from ,that's why I said before that there is something fundamentally wrong somewhere ,the bolded is a proof that you have an underlying issue. Again,it's not normal to just pick some random girl ,hump and pour ,like how do people do that? undecided.

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