lefulefu:
of course i know many white women cook for their husbands .even the ones who have jobs also take their time cooking for their men.there was this guy i subscribed to on youtube.the guy is a fitness entreprenuer and his wife is also into fitness as well and a nutritionist by profession.It is his wife who prepares his meals and anytime she is in the kitchen preparing his meals he always airs it to his fans on the type of food he eats and calories intake and blah blah.The kitchen is well stocked with home implements dat make cooking chorus easier.Its the wife that handles everything when it comes to cooking and they are both americans.even chimamanda adichie who says she is a hardcore feminist might even be preparing meals on code for her husband.u would even be shocked dat she would even be the traditional type of igbo lady who would kneel down to present food to her husband but outside she would be blowing hot .Any lady who listens to what these influencers say on social is just doing herself .lady ikeji said its bad for a lady to have sex outside marriage but she carry belle outside marriage abi?

What's all this rant about food,you must be a glutton. Go marry a female cheff and every one rest.

Cromagnon:
when the enemy is at the gates, will you also teach the Woden to fight and die if necessary?
You guys think you can engineer nature. You funny

You say nature? All right, you are entitled to your opinion

eni4real:

What else do you want??
We have finalized this matter!!
Let's move on to the next on the Agenda!!
Where is my fruit juice??

Go and get it yourself. I'm not your slave

Sixfeetbelle:


Go and get it yourself. I'm not your slave

She will stay with you while I am away!!
You are not my slave, You are my darling wife

Kennedyiheme02:
as long as women want to get married they should be ready to abide by every thing laws of nature has put in place for marriage union.. they are things civilization or jet age can't eradicate... how strong of a marriage do you imagine when a woman is the bread winner?... my maternal aunt was the bread winner of her family.. her husband wasn't doing much.. far back as it 2008.. any time she visits she tells everyone how useless the man is... fast forward till today they aren't together anyman.... a union where there is an inbalance in duty roles of men and women , i mean a suituation where the woman feeds the family and the husband stays at home cannot work... its a disaster... you can't fight nature...... also its simple if you wonna be a modern wife, you shouldn't be marrying.. stay single be the 21st century civilized woman ...no wonder women cry about looking for good men... yet you wonder where they all went..
Who is gonna marry a woman who is useless...? Cant cook, cant clean, cant do nothing, but wants to make money and be the bread winner? Definitely not me or any other men.. i rather have a maid than a uselss 21st century woman..

Your aunt had a character flaw. It had little to do with the fact that she was earning more. Besides, some men maltreat their wives because they are the ones working and the wives are dependent on them and they go about saying how their wives are useless.

My husband's friend's wife doesn't really know how to cook and she is not a food person. Someone comes to their house to cook their soups and stews monthly or every 2 weeks.

They have been married for over 5yrs with 2 children. They both work but he has the bulk of the money. He says that he knew his wife was that way before they got married and he loves her like that. And it works for them.

My husband on the other hand is the kind that his concern is that I should not be stressed. Whatever is too stressful, pay someone to do it. Plus he does some chores too.

Not all men have the mentality that the wife is his personal maid. It's about upbringing and how men are taught to view women. Many parents have failed in that area.

That is why we have men that don't even understand the concept of a wife, getting married. Men who believe a wife is a cleaner and a cook. Men who have no business getting married becoming problems to their wives. They feel they have done her a favour by marrying her and therefore she is doomed.

wany:

What's all this rant about food,you must be a glutton. Go marry a female cheff and every one rest.

no mind me i like good food and one thing i can cook and prepare my own tasty nutritious meals .i dont need to marry to eat good balanced meals and besides how many of una new generation naija babes sabi cook real food .I am not talking of indomie oo cos dat one no be real food.

ume1000:
These things could be done if the woman provide part of the finance

So it's about the money.

So if the man is out of work and she is the one fending for the family, he can take over all the chores right? He'll sweep the house, do the dishes, bath the kids and take them to school, go to the market and come back to cook. Then he'll serve her food when she gets back since she's the one with the money. Right?

ImaIma1:


Your aunt had a character flaw. It had little to do with the fact that she was earning more. Besides, some men maltreat their wives because they are the ones working and the wives are dependent on them and they go about saying how their wives are useless.

My husband's friend's wife doesn't really know how to cook and she is not a food person. Someone comes to their house to cook their soups and stews monthly or every 2 weeks.

They have been married for over 5yrs with 2 children. They both work but he has the bulk of the money. He says that he knew his wife was that way before they got married and he loves her like that. And it works for them.

My husband on the other hand is the kind that his concern is that I should not be stressed. Whatever is too stressful, pay someone to do it. Plus he does some chores too.

Not all men have the mentality that the wife is his personal maid. It's about upbringing and how men are taught to view women. Many parents have failed in that area.

That is why we have men that don't even understand the concept of a wife, getting married. Men who believe a wife is a cleaner and a cook. Men who have no business getting married becoming problems to their wives. They feel they have done her a favour by marrying her and therefore she is doomed.

lol character flaw?... no its not, thats how women are, even the most gentle ones turn out to be demons..

with all this you've said you would expect the amount of single ladies bothering us with "I'm single, oh i need a man" would reduce... lol no, my whatsapp status is full of single women posting "God when" .

Go to canada, you'll see alot of lonely women, career women on anti depressants....abroad even white women can't find a man... men aren't interested anymore in dealing with womens shit.... suicide rate will go up soon.

I've met alot if men, majority aren't interested in marriage anymore, myself included..

And yes men do women a favour by marrying them.. who saves women from menopause?...

The male gender is one of the unique living things on earth. The ability to reproduce even at old age is just magnificent.

The thing is every step modern day women take, they take 5 steps backward... the most treasurable thing a woman has is the fact that a man gives them a responsibility of a wife.. its should be an honour... in linda ikejis next life, if they ask her again, choose being a rich single woman or a wife of rich man... i can assure you, she'll choose the latter.

A rich woman with no husband or family of her own... thats a serious disgrace. In my village wherever married women are talking she'll just sit in shame... nobody respects a rich woman driving her gwagon,

but every respects a woman driving her rich husbands g-wagon..

lefulefu:
of course i know many white women cook for their husbands .even the ones who have jobs also take their time cooking for their men.there was this guy i subscribed to on youtube.the guy is a fitness entreprenuer and his wife is also into fitness as well and a nutritionist by profession.It is his wife who prepares his meals and anytime she is in the kitchen preparing his meals he always airs it to his fans on the type of food he eats and calories intake and blah blah.The kitchen is well stocked with home implements dat make cooking chorus easier.Its the wife that handles everything when it comes to cooking and they are both americans.even chimamanda adichie who says she is a hardcore feminist might even be preparing meals on code for her husband.u would even be shocked dat she would even be the traditional type of igbo lady who would kneel down to present food to her husband but outside she would be blowing hot .Any lady who listens to what these influencers say on social is just doing herself .lady ikeji said its bad for a lady to have sex outside marriage but she carry belle outside marriage abi?

thats why i really don't listen to women cause they just say alot of rubbish and do something else

Palema007:
What happens in situations in which the woman is the bread winner, she provides and contribute to the family's finances.? Should she be left alone to do her supposed natural roles too?

Why on God's earth would any woman choose a man whom she will provision for to be her husband.

Why would any self respecting man present himself to a woman he isn't ready to love and take care of?

So . less

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hashtagged:
Thats what women are meant to be, so if women arent slaves, men shouldnt be breadwinners, you put it like women doing house work is slavery, the men doing the breadwinning what is that called?

In a home

A womans job: cooking, caring for kids, child bearing, maintaning the home

A mans job: breadwinning, making money and provision for the family.

Isnt it balanced, OP you are just a simp, ass licking women wont get you anywhere, so you want men to make money and care for the home as women sit down and watch you(their slave) do everything up to washing their undies. Nonsense

Read well, most women are equally breadwinners these days. In fact if a women isn’t contributing financially, men of these days won’t take it at all. If she can shoulders financial burdens, you should also be ready to do some little chores with her. Or you want her dead before her time?
Women are dying if heart attack more these days due to excessive stress.

AdedoyinO:


This is what you have reduced marriage to?

Your wife must be a house help or maid you only honored with legal sex.

If so your mom was a house help and sex slave, cause your mom did all this without lifting a finger

iparipa:

Your comments portray you as a callous person.

Shove your opinion down your ass

Torie8:

And the so called internet redpill guy will go behind and still be doing house chores.
Who are you deceiving?

How is this about redpills, dont be stupid, feminists think every guy has their time argue useless arguements with them

sexymonkey:
I don't think majority of us will understand the point you're trying to push.


This gospel is highly not accepted.

he shld tell his village chief that their gals need washin machine etc

continue talkin trashes there..

Royliv:


Read well, most women are equally breadwinners these days. In fact if a women isn’t contributing financially, men of these days won’t take it at all. If she can shoulders financial burdens, you should also be ready to do some little chores with her. Or you want her dead before her time?
Women are dying if heart attack more these days due to excessive stress.

which stress, men die more due to problems from housewives. Which finicial burdens do wives shoulder, and you put it like men dont do any chores, who do chores like clearing and other hard stuff?

LadySarah:
It is only a heartless man that'd watch his wife slave in the name of being a wife material.
The women are even the most to be blamed. When your bf or fiance gives you his spare keys and your lil mind advises you to make sure all his chores are done once you visit. Then marriage time, you come here to disturb us. You have to finish what you strtrd.

When our mothers allow the boys to play or do nothing while the girl child is slaving in the home. A grown ass man won't change in his home cos he has been spoilt from cradle.

The narrative starts with us. If you start early with them, they'll learn.

I have only males and they are doing their age appropriate chores. Their father is 100 percent hands on too when around

. No help whatsoever and we rock.

I don't know where you got this idea that boys do nothing around the home.

Men and boys do the chores that are often backbreaking, labour intensive and dangerous while still being expected to do other things around the house. We just don't go about complaining online like women do.

Do girls cut grass, lift heavy objects, fix electrical appliances, take care of the pets or get tasked to kill whatever dangerous animal has wandered into the house?

Some girls won't lift a finger work because they don't want to harm their acrylic nails.

hashtagged:


How is this about redpills, dont be stupid, feminists think every guy has their time argue useless arguements with them

But you are doing that already

You've made so much sense. Truth is, the times have changed to make things easier for those who will embrace the change. A man who truly loves his wife will definitely look to make life easier for her by providing equipment that reduces her burden. However, I beg to differ with the "MUST A WOMAN KNOW HOW TO COOK?"
YES, a woman MUST know how to cook. How will a woman take proper care of her family without proper meals?

God pls provide my daughter's with the type pf husband you gave me. The upgraded version of his type. Amen.

Because their is little hope for the boys here on nl. I pity who they marry.

My husband won't let me be stressed over anything appliances and maids are key!

This writer should study the bible
Proverb 31 vs 10 to 31
Kalas

hashtagged:
Thats what women are meant to be, so if women arent slaves, men shouldnt be breadwinners, you put it like women doing house work is slavery, the men doing the breadwinning what is that called?

In a home

A womans job: cooking, caring for kids, child bearing, maintaning the home

A mans job: breadwinning, making money and provision for the family.

Isnt it balanced, OP you are just a simp, ass licking women wont get you anywhere, so you want men to make money and care for the home as women sit down and watch you(their slave) do everything up to washing their undies. Nonsense

[color=#000099][/color] But you will also want the woman to get a job and support the family financially

Torie8:

But you are doing that already

Take your senseless arguement and shuv ot up your butt hole

MajesticD:
You've made so much sense. Truth is, the times have changed to make things easier for those who will embrace the change. A man who truly loves his wife will definitely look to make life easier for her by providing equipment that reduces her burden. However, I beg to differ with the "MUST A WOMAN KNOW HOW TO COOK?"
YES, a woman MUST know how to cook. How will a woman take proper care of her family without proper meals?

MUST A MAN HAVE SEVEN FIGURE INCOME BEFORE MARRIAGE?
YES! how will a man provide for his family without money?

DivineTurnAroun:




[color=#000099][/color] But you will also want the woman to get a job and support the family financially

Yes to work, but how many women support the family finicially if they are working

Toks2008:
The idea of a wife material by many men is not different from the idea of having a slave in the house... Men want a woman who will be able to wake up as early as possible when others are still asleep, do the house chores and tend to the needs of the kids, the husband and after serving her household, she will go out to make ends meet and latter come back home to make sure her kids and husband are well taken care of and this includes cooking, washing their clothes and lots more... Men want a Nanny, A cook, A laundry lady, house cleaner, An errand lady, Sex provider and many more in one lady who is considered a weaker sex and as if this is not stressful enough, most men would rather boast about the ability of their lady in washing hard fabrics with bare hands, they will talk about how they so much love a lady because she can pound yam the natural way and will be proud to talk about how good their lady is in using archaic methods to prepare their meals... And the worst twist is that even if the lady is pregnant, they will still watch her do these tasks.

So I ask: is there anything different between a wife material and a slave? Will heaven fall if the man assists his wife in the home front?

Does common sense not tell the man that he needs to make life easier for his wife by getting a washing machine, a vacuum cleaner, and several other home/cooking appliances that will make life easier for her. Must a lady even know how to cook before you tag her wife material? What if she just can't cook or is the ability to cook part of success in life?

Please don't get it twisted, I'm not here to advise ladies to be redundant in their homes. Every married lady must be a home keeper, ensuring that her kids and husband are her priority...but nevertheless, in my opinion, a wife material means a gentle, submissive wife who will love you for who you are, tolerate your weaknesses, a Wife Material is a woman who is about her business, can hold her own in a conversation, is generous and can handle money well. A woman who will put your needs first and values her marriage so much that she won't defile it by being unfaithful... And just as the book of proverbs 31 says,...'' a virtuous woman is one who leads her home with integrity, discipline, and more and all the virtues she is practicing are aimed at making the life of her husband better, teaching her children, and serving God'' this is never the same as having a slave in the house in the name of wife material.

My prayer for every man reading this is that God provides for you so that you will make life easier for your woman so that you can look beyond that slave-like quality that many men use to qualify a wife material.


I hope this makes sense.

What is the difference between criticism and your submission?

Sometimes I think Nigerians don't think twice.
What is crude about a woman cooking meals for her family?
Most homes the cities use stove and gas and blenders, what is your argument again?

You said a wife should be submissive to her husband ? That is double standard contradiction from you.

In real countries, your mediocrity wouldn't pass an essay test how much more making it through to website.

You are just a beer parlour rabble rouser

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Am not being silly if only the man is breadwinning the woman should do the chores and care for kids.
If they both breadwin EQUALLY then they can split the chores.
But seriously how many women have you seen providing(finicially) for the family, please answer sincerely and not cause you want to support ladies, i have seen women with jobs and stores, yet the man still provides solely, And even if the wife was to provide in place of the man for even a short time like a month, that man would be emasculated and treated like a second rate human.

I didn't want to comment, but ask those who live in delta state, Warri precisely. A lot of women are the sole breadwinners and still do all the chores. There are married women there that single-handedly do everything in the home, from rent, to food, to school fees, clothing and even go on to own houses.
Some work as laborers on building construction sites and still go home to put meals on the tables.
Some women go through a lot but keep mom. Some men still beat, abuse and cheat on them despite all they do.

lisa286:


I didn't want to comment, but ask those who live in delta state, Warri precisely. A lot of women are the sole breadwinners and still do all the chores. There are married women there that single-handedly do everything in the home, from rent, to food, to school fees, clothing and even go on to own houses.
Some work as laborers on building construction sites and still go home to put meals on the tables.
Some women go through a lot but keep mom. Some men still beat, abuse and cheat on them despite all they do.

Those families that women work and put food on the tables, they dont have a man in them am i right?

Sixfeetbelle:


Team traditional don't expect wifey to be earning shit. Hope you have the means to be carrying all the financial responsibilities in the house?

I have been paying people, expecially ladies (salary) since I was 21 and I am still alive.

I would give wifey preferential employment... She would work from 9 till 2 (cos her major Job description would be home manager), she would work half day and Still collect normal salary which is 100% hers.

As the Home manager, she would still receive family monthly budget... Make profit too from the excess. Life is sweet.

See, as an entrepreneur, I don't need a career lady minded wife, they are everywhere, easy to employ and engage, what i need is someone to manage my home not Business... For business, I would employ (preferably a Moderna), for my home home I would marry (Most preferably, a Trad)..

Either way, I keep paying and still geting value for my money through the professional and the martial, services i get from different end which inadvertently when couple together brings in more money... With extra profit after expenditure.

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Those families that women work and put food on the tables, they dont have a man in them am i right?

Unfortunately they do.