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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:37pm On Aug 02, 2020
positivevibez:
When you pour you will come back to your right senses grin grin grin grin grin grin
I have poured and I still love her like mad..
I guess my senses are in order bro.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:38pm On Aug 02, 2020
peterangelo:
I love ur Lying style
I just don't understand some people.. Someone will have a real problem and you'll keep thinking it's clout chasing.. My friend,better relax.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:39pm On Aug 02, 2020
Fourwinds:






She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.



Read that portion of your statement... What is admission doing there?... You are to cover yourself in shame
"Especially if and when she gets admission",doesn't that suggest she hasn't gotten admission?
Where did I say she has graduated?
Sure you ain't high?
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 5:42pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:
The deed has been done..
And I'm sure I won't regret it.
As long as she stays loyal,I'll most def marry her..
Aside from the blood on my bed and bloody condom I just flushed,all seems to be well.
She's in a little pain but I'd buy her some pain medication.
Dont mind the cheap condom i used.
Thanks for the moral.
OmoAlakija
Holyfield1
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Wow !! Naso, just make sure you treat her special and give call her more often. You'll notice how drawn she will be to you . Always treat her right .. I advised u to go for it because , after I disvirgined mine 7 months ago. Till today we are stronger than ever and I don't go a say without talking to her twice or more.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:42pm On Aug 02, 2020
Mrlucky81:

Op which one you dey gan?
"she's done with her University or especially if and when she gets admission"

Note*
A man who plants a mango tree will wait for it fruits to ripe but guys like me will be busy plucking the fruits even if they are not yet ripe
"when I'm settled and she's done with university"..
It is one sentence..
When I'm settled and when she's done with university...
must I put the when there too?
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:44pm On Aug 02, 2020
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OmoAlakija:
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Wow !! Naso, just make sure you treat her special and give call her more often. You'll notice how drawn she will be to you . Always treat her right .. I advised u to go for it because , after I disvirgined mine 7 months ago. Till today we are stronger than ever and I don't go a say without talking to her twice or more.
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OmoAlakija:
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Wow !! Naso, just make sure you treat her special and give call her more often. You'll notice how drawn she will be to you . Always treat her right .. I advised u to go for it because , after I disvirgined mine 7 months ago. Till today we are stronger than ever and I don't go a say without talking to her twice or more.
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OmoAlakija:
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Wow !! Naso, just make sure you treat her special and give call her more often. You'll notice how drawn she will be to you . Always treat her right .. I advised u to go for it because , after I disvirgined mine 7 months ago. Till today we are stronger than ever and I don't go a say without talking to her twice or more.
I jokingly asked her when she was leaving..
"What will you do if tomorrow I change and start snubbing you?"..
Babe has told me 3 different ways she'll kill me and she was very serious cos her playful mood changed instantly...
I love her and im very loyal,so I guess I'm safe..grin
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 5:47pm On Aug 02, 2020
Palema007:
According to your story, you told her your fear (changing after getting admission and losing her virginity to someone else) you told her this and she agreed to having sex with you, if that's isn't blackmail from your part it is sacrificing her virginity as a sign of assurance on her part. Well a lady when a guy to take her virginity voluntary, she ask for it directly or indirectly. She doesn't GIVE IN. That's what your girl did, she gave in to your pressure.

Now as for you, I think your problem is you think you own this girl, you see her as your property and her virginity your collateral. You are so selfish. To you once you have a taste of her cherry, you won't lose, which means whatever happens next, you don't care. You may think you love her, but you r words and actions speaks otherwise. You don't have the right to be do determined to be her first, It's her body! Be selfless enough to allow her give it to you willingly with you having to cajole or manipulate her. Do you even understand what the Love you claim mean?
Well we just had sex and yeah,I'm still crazy about her and I probably will be for years to come.
As long as she stays faithful and loyal,she'll be my wife..
I just put the ball in her court.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 5:48pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:
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I jokingly asked her when she was leaving..
"What will you do if tomorrow I change and start snubbing you?"..
Babe has told me 3 different ways she'll kill me and she was very serious cos her playful mood changed instantly...
I love her and im very loyal,so I guess I'm safe..grin

Lmao , that's what they don't wanna hear o, .. No even try am ... We have similar experiences though. You're safe na , so far she loves u the same or even more , but remember u now have a very important role to play in keeping her loyal and the relationship running smooth .
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:

Well we just had sex and yeah,I'm still crazy about her and I probably will be for years to come.
As long as she stays faithful and loyal,she'll be my wife..
I just put the ball in her court.
Congratulations! undecided
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Decimus: 6:10pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:
The deed has been done..
And I'm sure I won't regret it.
As long as she stays loyal,I'll most def marry her..
Aside from the blood on my bed and bloody condom I just flushed,all seems to be well.
She's in a little pain but I'd buy her some pain medication.
Dont mind the cheap condom i used.
Thanks for the moral.
OmoAlakija
Holyfield1

You have made a bad decision. When the time comes, you'll be the one to feel hurt the more and lose out, trust me.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 6:22pm On Aug 02, 2020
Decimus:


You have made a bad decision. When the time comes, you'll be the one to feel hurt the more and lose out, trust me.

Most of y'all mother fckers are just haters, good decision , bad decisions , we all make them as human . But why must most African have this negative mentality towards things. Have u never had sex in ur life ? And are u married ? You've also screwed someone's sister and daughter, no one said nothing
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Decimus: 6:31pm On Aug 02, 2020
OmoAlakija:


Most of y'all mother fckers are just haters, good decision , bad decisions , we all make them as human . But why must most African have this negative mentality towards things. Have u never had sex in ur life ? And are u married ? You've also screwed someone's sister and daughter, no one said nothing

Lol, I'm not even talking from the moral point of view. Calm your tit woman.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 6:34pm On Aug 02, 2020
Decimus:


Lol, I'm not even talking from the moral point of view. Calm your tit woman.

Don't try to justify your negative comment son, You can't use brain for your mentors! How the fck does nariarland allow some clowns to own a profile on here anyway.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Aug 02, 2020
For someone who just had his long desire satisfied only to log in on Nairaland to announce it, just moments later, lol it wasn't definitely electrifying. That speaks volumes!

Anyway my heart goes to the young lady who has just lost her pride to the most immature man ever to exist in the history of life.... I sincerely pray she doesn't regret her decision in the future.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Decimus: 6:56pm On Aug 02, 2020
OmoAlakija:


Don't try to justify your negative comment son, You can't use brain for your mentors! How the fck does nariarland allow some clowns to own a profile on here anyway.
Stop embarrassing yourself. My post was directed at the op, I'll tell him what i need to tell him when he comes online.
Some things are better left alone, and taking risks cos of vagina is highly unnecessary. One of the greatest strength a Man can posses is the ability to let things/people go, especially if the timing is not right.
He sounded weak and terrified and thinks the only way to make the girl stick around is by deflowering her.
Lol, mentor? You mean you are an online expert in pushing people on to take uncalculated risk on vaginas.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 7:15pm On Aug 02, 2020
Decimus:

Stop embarrassing yourself. My post was directed at the op, I'll tell him what i need to tell him when he comes online.
Some things are better left alone, and taking risks cos of vagina is highly unnecessary. One of the greatest strength a Man can posses is the ability to let things/people go, especially if the timing is not right.
He sounded weak and terrified and thinks the only way to make the girl stick around is by deflowering her.
Lol, mentor? You mean you are an online expert in pushing people on to take uncalculated risk on vaginas.

I knew you'd take time to think well and come back with something you assume its reasonable to say .. Most people are cowards and I so much hate that behaviour, it pisses me the fck off ... Why is everyone saying shit like they've never had sex before , like everyone isn't fking someone? Like you've never had sex with a girl who has been disvirgined.. And you're here advising a fellow man against his choice , YOU are mad !! Freaking coward
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Decimus: 7:41pm On Aug 02, 2020
OmoAlakija:


I knew you'd take time to think well and come back with something you assume its reasonable to say .. Most people are cowards and I so much hate that behaviour, it pisses me the fck off ... Why is everyone saying shit like they've never had sex before , like everyone isn't fking someone? Like you've never had sex with a girl who has been disvirgined.. And you're here advising a fellow man against his choice , YOU are mad !! Freaking coward

Lol, so deciding to have have sex or not determines if someone is brave. You are some genius woman.

Try to understand, I'm sure at least you have your SSCE.

He likes her, she's attractive, many people want her. But he's totally scared and thinks the only way he's not going to lose out in the end is if he deflower her now. What does that solve?
If that's all he's got, then the girl will surely walk and replace the old man with a jambite or one fresher sooner.
If you think bravery is acting recklessly with your dicck, then woman, you have a long way to go.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Mrlucky81(m): 7:49pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:
"when I'm settled and she's done with university".. It is one sentence.. When I'm settled and when she's done with university... must I put the when there too?
You must... to make your story convincing
If you are wrong my brother accept it
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by RealEzee(m): 8:04pm On Aug 02, 2020
grin should I tell him?



Don't Sha come back and tell us, she left u for one guy who tore that cat up oooo, when she was giving u signs to be her first, over respect go make u lose am Las Las grin
Just saying tho
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 8:15pm On Aug 02, 2020
Decimus:


Lol, so deciding to have have sex or not determines if someone is brave. You are some genius woman.

Try to understand, I'm sure at least you have your SSCE.

He likes her, she's attractive, many people want her. But he's totally scared and thinks the only way he's not going to lose out in the end is if he deflower her now. What does that solve?
If that's all he's got, then the girl will surely walk and replace the old man with a jambite or one fresher sooner.
If you think bravery is acting recklessly with your dicck, then woman, you have a long way to go.

You Wasted energy into explaining nonsense I didn't even bother reading ,son pick a struggle..! Now go play with your mama's friends kids . Child's play isn't tolerated for long here .
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Prince4rm92(m): 8:18pm On Aug 02, 2020
RealEzee:
grin should I tell him?



Don't Sha come back and tell us, she left u for one guy who tore that cat up oooo, when she was giving u signs to be her first, over respect go make u lose am Las Las grin
Just saying tho

lol u sure say your eyes dey see
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by okoroemeka(m): 8:22pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.
make hay while the sun still shines,she is ready and her mind is made up,even if you don't do that,I bet you by next month someone else will,her virginity is the the biggest gift in her mind she is giving you,don't scorned it,take it,it is yours and it will better bond the two of you together.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by RealEzee(m): 8:37pm On Aug 02, 2020
Prince4rm92:

lol u sure say your eyes dey see
grin but I no lie na
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by CsRockefeller(m): 8:45pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:
The deed has been done..
And I'm sure I won't regret it.
As long as she stays loyal,I'll most def marry her..
Aside from the blood on my bed and bloody condom I just flushed,all seems to be well.
She's in a little pain but I'd buy her some pain medication.
Dont mind the cheap condom i used.
Thanks for the moral.
OmoAlakija
Holyfield1

Congratulations son. You did great, I'm very proud of you.

You are the greatest man alive. More virgins to you.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:54pm On Aug 02, 2020
RealEzee:
grin should I tell him?



Don't Sha come back and tell us, she left u for one guy who tore that cat up oooo, when she was giving u signs to be her first, over respect go make u lose am Las Las grin
Just saying tho
grin
RealEzee:
grin should I tell him?



Don't Sha come back and tell us, she left u for one guy who tore that cat up oooo, when she was giving u signs to be her first, over respect go make u lose am Las Las grin
Just saying tho
I understand..
I've won the first battle(being her first)..
Now I'm bracing up for the next.
I'm a realist,I know it won't be easy,but I love and cherish her.
She's worth every heartache.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:54pm On Aug 02, 2020
CsRockefeller:

Congratulations son. You did great, I'm very proud of you.
You are the greatest man alive. More virgins to you.
Why do I feel you're being sarcastic..grin
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:55pm On Aug 02, 2020
okoroemeka:
make hay while the sun still shines,she is ready and her mind is made up,even if you don't do that,I bet you by next month someone else will,her virginity is the the biggest gift in her mind she is giving you,don't scorned it,take it,it is yours and it will better bond the two of you together.
I hope this is the case bro..
Cos I cherish this girl.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:58pm On Aug 02, 2020
OmoAlakija:


You Wasted energy into explaining nonsense I didn't even bother reading ,son pick a struggle..! Now go play with your mama's friends kids . Child's play isn't tolerated for long here .
Bro don't waste your time with these holier than thou people..
The deed has been done.
Now I'll play my part by giving her no reason to go hoeing and also piecing together our future.In exchange she'd play her part of staying loyal and faithful.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by FamousMonk: 8:58pm On Aug 02, 2020
Mrlucky81:

You must... to make your story convincing
If you are wrong my brother accept it
ok lucky

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Re: Should I Deflower Her? by Decimus: 9:52pm On Aug 02, 2020
OmoAlakija:


You Wasted energy into explaining nonsense I didn't even bother reading ,son pick a struggle..! Now go play with your mama's friends kids . Child's play isn't tolerated for long here .
Lol, no wonder. You'll surely get the help you need.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by OmoAlakija: 10:25pm On Aug 02, 2020
Decimus:

Lol, no wonder. You'll surely get the help you need.

Okay.
Re: Should I Deflower Her? by RealEzee(m): 11:31pm On Aug 02, 2020
FamousMonk:
grin I understand.. I've won the first battle(being her first).. Now I'm bracing up for the next. I'm a realist,I know it won't be easy,but I love and cherish her. She's worth every heartache.
may the force be with u grin

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