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Melodriod:
Okay, maybe I'll ask her out first and see the outcome before any further decisions...

Thank you.

Dont just ask her out first, chook her at least 2ice, to confirm you are really dating.

Fellows like this will hardly give money to their family members.

My closest male friend was on the verge of buying his girlfriend a brand new iPhone on her birthday.
He told me and I advised him against it.
A week after the birthday, she broke up with him cause she apparently used him as her rebound guy.

Moral lesson? Your babe for ditch you neat not to talk or person wey e be like say una get feelings for each other.

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

As long as you're ready to keep up with the gifts...

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

It is good to be caring bro. But ask yourself : What REASONABLE AND TANGIBLE THING AS SHE VOLUNTARILY OFFERED YOU EVER YOU HAVE MET HER?
ANY VALUE ASIDE THE "chatting*?

Get her a phone, my wife I haven't even seen her for the first time and I knew her through my sister, he spoke and chat with her brother's phone and when it became inconvenience using someone phone all the time because am in abroad and she's in Nigeria, despite I don't know how she looks I bought her phone of 40k , that gestures sealed and cemented the relationship till date

Don't buy her any phone if u do so her attitude will change afterwards and she will use it to be chatting other people than you.. I've been there

Doesn't she have a job or parents?

Don't!!!!
Ask her out first before anything
But, if u think u have much and u jus wanna help den u re welcome to d world of giving

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

For the fact that you are thinking of getting a phone for her, it's love that is pushing you

Get it for her if you can afford it and get sometime that is less expensive so that if by tomorrow the relationship doesn't work out, then you didn't lose much but am sure it will work out

Just bear in mind that you will not control the use of phone with her neither will you insist on having the password

It will be childish and you end up provoking yourself

Just dash her and remove eyes

lefulefu:
guy if u feel like u want to get her a phone then buy her one
but dont go and buy her a phone and be using that to blackmail her into dating you or thinking that since u have purchased for her a phone then she must date you
if u no get money to buy her a phone then rest
anyway guys who use material things to entice girls are mostly ugly dudes or dudes suffering from low self esteem
dont use it as way to force her into sleeping with you
Divay22 how far

I dey o
How are you na?

Pegi23:
Sure. Get her a phone

You are my kind of guy. So caring ND cute.

Pls no stage is too early buy her the phone

And if she says no?

Your money, your life, your decision to make and your reward to enjoy or consequences to suffer

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

Let me ask you; assuming she is just a friend, with no strings attached, would you get her a phone? If yes, then you can get her one. May I also advise that you buy her the phone after asking her out, reason being that getting her the phone before might make it look as if you are bribing your way into her heart. She on the other hand, may agree to your proposal out of pity and maybe fear of you collecting the phone if her response is negative.


I wish you the best bro.

robinso01:
If you should give her phone now, she might start to see you as source of whatever she needs, that's how she will start to ask for so many things.

This is another angle, op. Are you willing to tow this path? But it has an upside though, if she begins to place all her generational problems on you, that would make you know the kind of person that she is.

Slimzjoe:
Baba, ask her out first. One on one and if she deserve phone, get it for her.

Leave this NL people. They just like to talk tough but they don't know how it really is for you

Its good to find someone whose thought on this issue aligns with mine. Same advice I gave him. If he asks her out after buying the phone, babe would feel obligated to say yes either out of fear or out of pity.

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Ecter:
Hi good morning i must say this is a Very pleasant and well arranged write up. However, based on your relationship with the newly found crush i would say buy her if it's in your ability too. first of all because it is the right thing to do, you don't have to show hospitality all because you wanna have something in return. Secondly, buying her a phone would definitely make you feel good about yourself and you being a certified gentleman. Thirdly, she will not turn you into an ATM machine please that's not always the case i wonder why people find it so difficult to spend on a girl all because of a vivid mindset. Figuratively, let's be honest, if you don't spend on someone you wanna call yours, who else is worth it. You trying to win her over agreed, getting her a gift definitely counts. But mind you when you do that or if you eventually do that, don't expect anything in return remove your mind From it please, don't give her the impression of you like the rest guys, he got me a new phone so he can Bleep me please don't do that. If you get her the phone stay calm and totally take your mind and actions on what she might give you in return, trust me my friend, you'll be surprised. (You'll be shocked to realise that your crush just has the perfect connection you need or she might simply be the sweetest wife you'll ever have)

Understand normal circumstances na so e suppose to be....but Nigerians girls wey get entitlement mentality.... egungun na express you dey go so

make we tell am ?

U better dnt do that Mr man ,na so i see one gal i ask her out her answer is no that we can nt b dating but she want me 2be her A.T.M anytime she need money i will b d 1st person she will call ,i nw ask her what of her bf she shuld ask him or if she can nt me get to her promise land once .Op take the money use it 2buy food for the need in ur street or motherless home because she may call u mumu when she is with her friends or boyfriends that is gals

Bleep her before buying her a phone. My advice

Juliearth:
Let me ask you; assuming she is just a friend, with no strings attached, would you get her a phone? If yes, then you can get her one. May I also advise that you buy her the phone after asking her out, reason being that getting her the phone before might make it look as if you are bribing your way into her heart. She on the other hand, may agree to your proposal out of pity and maybe fear of you collecting the phone if her response is negative.


I wish you the best bro.

u make my teeth come outside with this ur comment

Unconquerable:
Fellows like this will hardly give money to their family members.

abi oo i dont have always b the reply or they hav not pay mi

Melodriod:
Okay, maybe I'll ask her out first and see the outcome before any further decisions...

Thank you.

. You need to work on yourself, if you want to buy her a smartphone, don't attache anything to it. You can still give with a pure heart, if you want to buy her a smartphone because you want her to be your girlfriend: PLS DON'T BUY OK, a lady gave me a job without asking anything from me, ppl can still do good but from you said so far, you have already attached something (relationship) to it so I advise that you should keep your money so that you won't regret it tomorrow, thank you.

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

#Your_Mumu_Never_Do#
Egungun has entered express, he don happen, i don tell ham

breezeng:
Bleep her before buying her a phone. My advice

u are a bad guy

mcdokwe:
Take her to a phone repair shop to get it fixed.

There's nothing wrong with giving her a new phone, but it shouldn't be such that her response should be tied to the phone.

Can you move on and forget the phone if she rejects your proposal if and when you gather the balls to tell her? Or you are the type that would either embarrass her into returning the phone or coming to say 'she rejected me even after I bought her a phone?'

Let your sense direct you sha

Exactly!!! the best opinion I have seen on this thread.

Use ur brain before it end in premium tears.

Men, always taking of wasting money on women. They one I bought for mine, she never use am chat me. Upgrade and buy her private jet...

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

If you buy her phone , do not ask her out.
if you want to ask her out, do not buy her phone.
Most relationships/ marriage build on material things are more to end in tears.

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