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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by AfroKnight: 10:32pm On Aug 20, 2020
This is too mad to be true.

cheesy

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Auladimeji(m): 10:42pm On Aug 20, 2020
grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy


Bleep them all

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Prof0fficial: 11:10pm On Aug 20, 2020
so if they happen to agree ehn... just because of ordinary sex you just dash out 50k? bros you're still the looser.
you might even lose your life join ☺️

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Adasun(m): 11:29pm On Aug 20, 2020
UDUJ:
grin grin grin grin grin Mad people full this forum sha cheesy

ExBanker if this is true and you succeed in smashing both of them I will award you The Man of the Year position grin

I swear your name will be engraved in the hall of fame.

Lwkmd cheesy
lols,keep joking.it may hapn o.



Anything for the mola

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by NCarthur(m): 11:45pm On Aug 20, 2020
Abeg op I want to know their reply lemme observe something

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by mariahAngel(f): 12:10am On Aug 21, 2020
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ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be fvcking the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by LaReinaa(f): 12:22am On Aug 21, 2020
I was gonna type a long comment until you mentioned 3some with the sister...

You, your supposed girlfriend, her sister... y’all mad!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Fawklicant: 12:40am On Aug 21, 2020
It's unfortunate that you made them comit their life's savings to the new rent because of your 50k promise. It's even more unfortunate that you have no sense of self worth hence the demand you made.
One thing you need to realize is that hunger can make people do things they would not ordinarily do ab initio. That girl ordinarily would not stop low to the level of a scoundrel but the reality is that she did. She doesn't like you enough to date you, yes but if not for hunger games, she wouldn't even look at you twice.

What you are doing is taking advantage of her condition. Pray you don't find yourself in a position where your only available helper decides to use you.

Give them the 50k and move on with your life. That's the responsible thing to do.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 12:45am On Aug 21, 2020
UDUJ:
grin grin grin grin grin Mad people full this forum sha cheesy

ExBanker if this is true and you succeed in smashing both of them I will award you The Man of the Year position grin

I swear your name will be engraved in the hall of fame.

Lwkmd cheesy
undecided undecided

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 12:47am On Aug 21, 2020
Fawklicant:
It's unfortunate that you made them comit their life's savings to the new rent because of your 50k promise. It's even more unfortunate that you have no sense of self worth hence the demand you made.
One thing you need to realize is that hunger can make people do things they would not ordinarily do ab initio. That girl ordinarily would not stop low to the level of a scoundrel but the reality is that she did. She doesn't like you enough to date you, yes but if not for hunger games, she wouldn't even look at you twice.

What you are doing is taking advantage of her condition. Pray you don't find yourself in a position where your only available helper decides to use you.

Give them the 50k and move on with your life. That's the responsible thing to do.
Honestly, I fear for the kind of young men in this generation.
You want two sisters for 50 thousand, just because one is your gf. Did anyone put a gun to your head to give money?
Don't start what you can't finish.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Fawklicant: 1:00am On Aug 21, 2020
Chii59:

Honestly, I fear for the kind of young men in this generation.
You want two sisters for 50 thousand, just because one is your gf. Did anyone put a gun to your head to give money?
Don't start what you can't finish.

It's not a "men" thing, it goes both ways. It's a perverted generation with very little scrupples.
People need to learn to draw the line where adventure ends and wickedness begins. Anybody that lets their libido to control them is messed up.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Reucy(f): 6:10am On Aug 21, 2020
Just because of ordinary 75k someone has the effontery to demand such. What happen to choosing to help them since you understand their situation after which you can decide not to have anything to do with them.


In your mind now you're wise.
I just weep for our generation of guys.
Haba make una fear God small, abeg

You're just digging your own grave by own yourself if you choose to go with your decision. They can even gang up and do the unthinkable to you. Be wise!!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ahmad62(m): 6:49am On Aug 21, 2020
Mtsssew... Wasted my precious time on this... Which kin pikin are you?!!

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by OKOATA(m): 7:42am On Aug 21, 2020
How much be puzzy wey you won waste money on nonsense. The girl is using you as her meal ticket and she doesn’t love you. Get another lady.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Afromentalist: 8:05am On Aug 21, 2020
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DO YOU THINK IT'S A DIFFICULT THING TO DO? IF THEIR MUM WERE ALIVE AND NEAR SHE'D FALL IN LINE FOR AS MUCH AS A MEAL.
NOTHING NEW.
You have to see it From another perspective. This here is a former simp you just got born again. His condition shows that him eyes don clear. He understands it was all a game and they have been fleecing him. Now he is about to expose their game; with that condition. If they refuse he wins. If they accept, he still wins because it will show she was never about true love.

This Niggas has learnt. The hard way perhaps; but he has learnt.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Afromentalist: 8:10am On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
It is not. Your condition is sound and wise. I would further advise that if they accept, you have your way and dump their sorry asses.

People are enjoying when they manipulate you, but are quick to whine when the tables are turned. No mercy for the wicked

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Beverlyjean(f): 8:11am On Aug 21, 2020
its too harsh...its better u leave them both...let pvssy not destroy ur life bro

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:26am On Aug 21, 2020
UDUJ:
grin grin grin grin grin Mad people full this forum sha cheesy

ExBanker if this is true and you succeed in smashing both of them I will award you The Man of the Year position grin

I swear your name will be engraved in the hall of fame.

Lwkmd cheesy

DO YOU THINK IT'S A DIFFICULT THING TO DO? IF THEIR MUM WERE ALIVE AND NEAR SHE'D FALL IN LINE FOR AS MUCH AS A MEAL.
NOTHING NEW.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:30am On Aug 21, 2020
Afromentalist:

You have to see it From another perspective. This here is a former simp you just got born again. His condition shows that him eyes don clear. He understands it was all a game and they have been fleecing him. Now he is about to expose their game; with that condition. If they refuse he wins. If they accept, he still wins because it will show she was never about true love.

This Niggas has learnt. The hard way perhaps; but he has learnt.

FOR ME THIS IS A SHIT TEST AND IF IT'S ABOUT LOVE, THOSE TWO ARE STREET HUSTLERS INCAPABLE OF LOVING ANYTHING OTHER THAN HIS MONEY. IF HE THINKS OTHERWISE HE MUST BE UNDER A SPELL.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Reucy(f): 8:35am On Aug 21, 2020
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ORDINARY, YET JUST LIKE THOSE TWO GIRLS, YOU DON'T HAVE IT.

Lolzz. And you think is every lady that lives off on the income of a man.

Your headache sha, not mine

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:39am On Aug 21, 2020
Reucy:


Lolzz. And you think is every lady that lives off on the income of a man.

Your headache sha, not mine



IF YOU ACTUALLY "WORK" TO "EARN" MONEY YOU'LL NOT CALL A SINGLE NAIRA "ORDINARY". THOSE THAT USE THE WORD ARE MOSTLY THOSE THAT GET FREE THINGS. SO IF 75K IS ORDINARY TO YOU, CAN YOU SEND IT TO ME?

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by femi4: 8:50am On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be fvcking the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
you want to commit an abomination

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 9:00am On Aug 21, 2020
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ORDINARY, YET JUST LIKE THOSE TWO GIRLS, YOU DON'T HAVE IT.
Lol.. Correct hit cheesy

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Judybash93(m): 9:13am On Aug 21, 2020
grin grin Mary Jane is doing her work well

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 11:17am On Aug 21, 2020
If the story is real, pls give me small out of that money pls.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by jamalkareem(m): 1:15pm On Aug 21, 2020
Fire them scatter joor
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Newboss(m): 2:18pm On Aug 21, 2020
Now, this is a real man. This is what I'm talking about.

Correct guy.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Toseenlove: 2:27pm On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be fvcking the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

Where Is Ojuelegba Thunder to fire Simp Op when you need It the most lol.......You are paying money for pvssy while you are still struggling In life......

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Toseenlove: 2:53pm On Aug 21, 2020
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IF YOU ACTUALLY "WORK" TO "EARN" MONEY YOU'LL NOT CALL A SINGLE NAIRA "ORDINARY". THOSE THAT USE THE WORD ARE MOSTLY THOSE THAT GET FREE THINGS. SO IF 75K IS ORDINARY TO YOU, CAN YOU SEND IT TO ME?

Lol I tell you, bunch of lazy entitled Idiots....... grin grin grin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Clinghton: 3:08pm On Aug 21, 2020
If those ladies hold meeting for you, your life would be in danger.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by jericco1(m): 3:31pm On Aug 21, 2020
Bros carry that money dash your mother undecided

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by TROLL11: 10:10pm On Aug 21, 2020
i am giving ut 10k to 4 random girls.
you must have sucked at least 100 different preeks in your life time.
you must have had sex atleast 5 times this week.
you must have a very loosed pussy
you must have a very saggy over used boobs.
if you fall into any of that category indicate. i will pick 4 girls at random.
if u dont tick all 4 criteria, i can still consider you for a consolidation prize of 3k if you have at least 2 of the aforementioned qualities

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