Klass99:
My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef)

Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.

Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.

Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.

Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men

It's 180 degree turn not 360

staymore:


No be small Bleep up o. You aeem to be a master at the game. However, after the incident each time I come home my 4yr daughter will tell me that mummy was praying that nobody can take me her husband from her.

I think she allocates more blame to the girl than me.
Mind you, I have repented.

Guy do all you can to make up with madam abeg. All these things they cause future issues

dayleke:


So the both of you never had the talk of traveling out together?
Sorry for the question but I'm not understanding ni o.
She told you "she" was traveling out and you were not in the " SHE "?

She always wanted to migrate, while i never really wanted to. She succeeded in convincing me to try it out. I agreed We both invested ourselves in the process money time and all....in the end it didnt work out. (This whole process started a year before we got married and ended few months after we got married.
Then she finally started another process on her own within the time of our arguments which I was unaware of due to our constant arguments. I finally knew when she was sure she was going alone. At that point I realized that I was no longer a part of her life.

pythondance2020:



Lol, so you think just providing and loving a woman is enough to keep her. Just to give you some insight, I sacrificed so many things to please this person which drained me in the process. At the end of I felt like a squeeze orange.
If you really want someone that would truly love you scrap that idea.
I have actually witnessed true love before without spending a dime but even true love sometimes has its unique problems because it can lead to obsession.

Those people do come around but for one reason or the other people no dey hold them tight

jeff1607:



imagine if your husband sees this , that's if you are truly married ,there are things better left unsaid

Guy, japa. There are men and there are MEN. Hubby knows the issue back and front, right from beginning to end

UyaiIncomparabl:


I follow the Bible's rule to marriage. I don't know about you. So, leave me to my facts.

A man should love the woman more, and that is a FACT!

No worry

Na body go tell you.

Offpoint:

By clicking the "report" button and choosing the number of rules he/she violate.


You're welcome.

It would only hide that post from your profile. Others can still see it

Queenoffucks:
One night stand, baby.�

Fvck love
Fvck Relationships
Fvck you reading this
And if you support APC, fvck you too
If Buhari is your president, fvck you too.




Queenoffucks

Username checks out

Coder2Client:


@bold This happened how long after the whole brouhaha?

Less than a year. I actually met hubby 2months after I broke up with him.
Forget matter my brother, most women are good wife materials but end up in the wrong hands.
Some guys go frustrate woman sotey the wide material wey dey her body go fade finish

fourboys:
I soon as I told her that I was not ready to settle down even if she is pregnant.

Instant love killer.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
They don't want platonic love. Not even for a minute. They all want to go wild with sex and do explore each other sexually so fast that the fire goes out faster that it started.
That's why you see two people claiming to be dating each other for 3yrs but yet are complete strangers.

Thought I am the only one who is tired of this. People don’t want to be friends anymore. They now call it “friendzoning”, something that should be considered shameful. That is why I have no interest meeting new males. Let me go do my friendship with my fellow vagina people.

Hathor5:
Reading the answers on this thread can make anyone totally lose trust in relationships/marriage.

Challenge is, too many frauds out there

Klass99:


What choice do any of us have in such a situation, except to move on? You wan kill the betrayers before?

Nengi is married now with kids of her own, but she told me years later that, that was her first and last heartbreak ever. She was the one breaking hearts afterwards.

As for Adams Oshiomole's lookalike and her cookies, I won't completely rule out jazz like others said. I wasn't exaggerating when I said she looks like Adams, she has his stature (short and masculine) with a slightly better looking face than Adams though.

What would make a man in his right thinking mind to give up a Nengi for Adams, if not jazz?

character.

Hathor5:
Reading the answers on this thread can make anyone totally lose trust in relationships/marriage.

I'm telling you!!!!! And it's really sad.

alphaNomega:


It would only hide that post from your profile. Others can still see it

Are you a programmer?
It hides it cause that's the call front-end action executed, what fellow next on the backend is to send a report back to the moderator in charge of that section... With the person comment/username. The moderator goes through the comments and decide to ban or not to ban the person.


You're welcome

Klass99:


I am not Nengi and character never hides itself, it always shows. I've been described as difficult and hard to please. So, if I say someone has a good character from assessments made, based on continuous interaction with them, you best believe me.

What I liked about Nengi was that, with all her beauty she wasn't arrogant or self conceited. She was in her prime with loads of boys/men chasing her but she maintained a level head, pleasant and decent persona.

Guy las las just say, you no get anything to talk and don't try to spin this around as ''only the people in a relationship knows who has good character'' People outside of a relationship can tell good character too.

Don't be so sure, he that wears the shoe know where it pinches.

I have been in a relationship where she seems all good and nice outward but different inside. Comes late to any private appointment with me but will never late to other people's appointment the list goes on

Offpoint:

Are you a programmer?
It hides it cause that's the call front-end action, what fellow next on the backend is to send a report back to the moderator in charge of that section... With the person comment/username. The moderator goes through the comments and decide to ban or not to ban the person.


You're welcome

Oh, I thought it should be instantaneous.

Slimsly100:


Less than a year. I actually met hubby 2months after I broke up with him.
Forget matter my brother, most women are good wife materials but end up in the wrong hands.
Some guys go frustrate woman sotey the wide material wey dey her body go fade finish

Both genders are guilty of this madam.

pocohantas:


Instant love killer.



Thought I am the only one who is tired of this. People don’t want to be friends anymore. They now call it “friendzoning”, something that should be considered shameful. That is why I have no interest meeting new males. Let me go do my friendship with my fellow vagina people.

It's very annoying. Me sef I'm tired of meeting or getting to know new makes. They all want sex. I don't take any guy serious these days.

alphaNomega:
Oh, I thought it should be instantaneous.

The mod needs to go through it to ascertain if the said comment deserves banning or not.

It'll wrong to be instantaneously, imagine I decide to click report on your comment for no reason and instantly you're ban?

membranus:


Dat one na old Hollywood films.

In the new Hollywood romance films, they break up midway between the flicks, giving their partners, like my good friend up there said, "hot premium tears".

Hahahaha

Palema007:
Lol... Love never dies. As long as you understand that in love sometimes you let go, you don't always get the one you love. Sometimes you love people enough to let them go find happiness in another. I repeat love don't die!

Awwn...

phazotron:


Both genders are guilty of this madam.

Yes I know and I'm not generalizing.
That's why I cited "most women" and "some guys"

folake4u:


I'm telling you!!!!! And it's really sad.

What can we do but accept it?

SPOLO:
When she start missing my calls without trying to flash nor call me back..

Last one as i notice i just stopped communicating too na so e end...

Dx days she still say Hi sha ....

Never be too dumb to respond, she's looking for revenge. As in, she wanted to be the first to dump U but U outsmart her.

phazotron:


Challenge is, too many frauds out there

I don't think it is about fraud.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I follow the Bible's rule to marriage. I don't know about you. So, leave me to my facts.

A man should love the woman more, and that is a FACT!

Where in the bible did it say a man should love his wife more?

Uhmmmm Reading through this thread I have come to a conclusion that most Nigerians don't even know what love is. So a problem comes, instead of finding a way to solve it and making amends... You move on to the next available person and the circle continues that way

If you have anyone really geniue in your life, please hold onto them very tight o. Our generation have lots of fakes.

Slimsly100:


Less than a year. I actually met hubby 2months after I broke up with him.
Forget matter my brother, most women are good wife materials but end up in the wrong hands.
Some guys go frustrate woman sotey the wide material wey dey her body go fade finish

Wife material is not for women or ladies to say, cos a lady with bad material will equally call herself wife material or a lady who pretend to be one when she is not.

You did well for moving on after you saw the hand writing on the wall of your then Bf that he was just sampling.

Hathor5:


What can we do but accept it?

Hmm, it is well. All these scares one from entering a relationship or marriage cos everyone is "wilding" these days.

phazotron:


Guy do all you can to make up with madam abeg. All these things they cause future issues

I have done that. Thanks

MISSCONGENIALITY:
It's very annoying. Me sef I'm tired of meeting or getting to know new males. They all want sex. I don't take any guy serious these days.

I stopped bothering a long time ago. Even when they say “let’s just be friends”, I tell them not to worry. I have this friend and many guys still find it strange that we didn’t knack. Ironically, he is one person that I can move the world for. We started as friends and we remained that. You mustn’t muddle up everything with one fcked up love. Know people for christ sake!

Pearly255:


I can imagine

Sad stuff