soleexx:



Its a Motivation!
You will get there too.

Amen ooo.

soleexx:



Dash ham 50box @all@all

The dude will rest

haha. I notice guys not dey even bother to ask for money, na mostly the babes. The moment you drop "hi, how are you". The next thing na complain and billings. The money isn't the issue at all, but their attitudes.

Sweetness4:
This topic reminds me of my secondary classmate that travelled out. We were good friends. 3years later he was added to our class whatsApp group chat. I commented and said hey it's been a while ooo. He asked of my name, I told him. He said he can't remember me. I was really embarrassed. Just 3years ooo. I started describing how we always gist and how we were encouraging ourselves during waec. (Shalayeing things) Lmao he said "i don't know who you are ooo". I was shocked.
Omo that was the last time we spoke.
I will travel out one day too. e be things ooo��

That guy deserve a bottle of whatever brand he takes from me. He's a real man

Una dey try sha. All my guys wey dey abroad na when they chat me up I dey reply them. Even my uncle sef wey be diplomat na only WhatsApp status we dey view. Funny enough na them wey dey abroad dey complain say I no dey get their time.... I go just apologize and lock up

YoungDaNaval:
That guy deserve a bottle of whatever brand he takes from me. He's a real man

Real man how Because he snubs people he is a real man?? What a real man would have done is reply politely and end it there. My other friends both male and female that have travelled out, we still talk till date and we are very cool.

SoccerUSA:

My story different sha, though it must be because I am not abroad.
Before he travelled we buy ourselves gift on our birthdays can be as little as you can afford. Fast forward to days or months he arrived the US comes his birthday so I created an amazon account gave him and told him to pick anything of his choice. I paid for them.
You won't believe the guy went back to order things. He claimed it was a mistake I couldn't get a refund till date he later blocked me on all social mediums when I texted him.
Not everybody wants their money I just want to have a genuine relationship with them.

Well, your so-called friend is a fraudulently dishonest individual. That in my book isn't a friend.

DICKstractor:
I have friends abroad

2 in china
1 in Dubai


We talk very well as far as there is topic to talk about. It just about personality. One thing I'm sure is that I can never ask any of them for money except they give me with their own free will

Those two countries no be abroad jare. Those are 2nd grade okrika abroad .

slimanyd:


Those two countries no be abroad jare. Those are 2nd grade okrika abroad .

Ok

SoccerUSA:

You won't believe the guy went back to order things. He claimed it was a mistake

Post of the year!
LooooooooooooooL

Sweetness4:
This topic reminds me of my secondary classmate that travelled out. We were good friends. 3years later he was added to our class whatsApp group chat. I commented and said hey it's been a while ooo. He asked of my name, I told him. He said he can't remember me. I was really embarrassed. Just 3years ooo. I started describing how we always gist and how we were encouraging ourselves during waec. (Shalayeing things) Lmao he said "i don't know who you are ooo". I was shocked.
Omo that was the last time we spoke.
I will travel out one day too. e be things ooo��

my own seat mate(female) in jss3 and ss1 said she doesn't remember me like 5 years later wey we connect for Facebook. She dey 9ja. So its not by abroad. Babe wey teachers dey call us husband and wife. Another one lived next street we went to same secondary school, our parents know each other and the kids. Another friend of ours had a wedding so the bro asked me to help drive the bridesmaids to the venue with my mums car as it was bigger. We were gisting in the car with others about old times in school. Babe said she no sabi me. I was weak

SoccerUSA:
As seen in the topic, I have two friend's that travelled to the U.S, One travelled 2014 and the other one 2017, though before they left we had a good vibes we were both close if not best friends before they left.
The one of 2014 stopped texting me at 2018 or so even when I wished him birthday wishes and same with the other. I knew this because I only texted them on Facebook and you will know when they read and not reply
I don't hold any grudges against them though
Did you guys think it's normal? Like if I leave Nigeria, Would I also ignore my friends text even if they do not request anything from me?

Please can someone just explain to me so I won't see my friends (maybe former friends) as bad ones.

Anyone who is genuinely your friend will make an effort to stay in touch. There used to be a time I used to work 10 hours a day 5 days a week and sometimes still go in to work on Saturdays in the United States. Despite my hectic schedule, I still made time for family and friends and stayed in touch so what are we saying?

That friend of yours is not a real friend. He is the kind of friend that is only available when things are not going too well for him. When things change for the better for him, he changes gear and starts to ignore those that were there for him when things were difficult for him. Is that a friend?

People who are proud will soon be humbled because pride comes before a fall. With the way things are going right now in the United States, many Americans both white and black who can afford it are even looking to migrate to other sane countries around the world. It is only Nigerians and those nationals who already come from highly dysfunctional countries where there are high levels of insecurity and rising levels of poverty that will see the United States as some heaven on earth despite their GMO laden, cancer-causing foods and lack of universal healthcare like we have in Western Europe.

White citizens from Germany, Netherlands, Scandinavian countries, Australia, New Zealand and Canada see the United States as a third world country with a Gucci belt. I have heard citizens of these advanced nations call United States a "third world country with the Gucci belt" several times before.

Ignore that "friend" of yours because he was never truly a friend to begin with. SHIKENA!

SoccerUSA:

My story different sha, though it must be because I am not abroad.
Before he travelled we buy ourselves gift on our birthdays can be as little as you can afford. Fast forward to days or months he arrived the US comes his birthday so I created an amazon account gave him and told him to pick anything of his choice. I paid for them.
You won't believe the guy went back to order things. He claimed it was a mistake I couldn't get a refund till date he later blocked me on all social mediums when I texted him.
Not everybody wants their money I just want to have a genuine relationship with them.

You have a good heart . May the right people locate you

Many atimes, the time difference is a big issue. Many will chat you on their way home forgetting that it is during the day and they think you are proud for not picking up calls at such times. Here, you are measured by your efficiency and you cannot be attending to phone during office hours.

Also, some people do multiple jobs that barely leave them with time for socializing and before they know it, they have drifted from friends and family.

Another thing is everything here is do it yourself so imagine someone who works and have kids. The challenges are real unlike in Nigeria where people have help from different sides and reduces the stress. I belong to a group and most of the men were complaining when they first moved because now they had to learn to babysit the kids. Something they would never do. Gradually, their weekends have been taken away from their individuality to family life etc.

While these seem valid, it takes conscious efforts on both ends to remain friends.

One thing I have noticed from responses on here though is that the entitlement mentality is very real.

dasparrow:


Anyone who is genuinely your friend will make an effort to stay in touch. There used to be a time I used to work 10 hours a day 5 days a week and sometimes still go in to work on Saturdays in the United States. Despite my hectic schedule, I still made time for family and friends and stayed in touch so what are we saying?

That friend of yours is not a real friend. He is the kind of friend that is only available when things are not going too well for him. When things change for the better for him, he changes gear and starts to ignore those that were there for him when things were difficult for him. Is that a friend?

People who are proud will soon be humbled because pride comes before a fall. With the way things are going right now in the United States, many Americans both white and black who can afford it are even looking to migrate to other sane countries around the world. It is only Nigerians and those nationals who already come from highly dysfunctional countries where there are high levels of insecurity and rising levels of poverty that will see the United States as some heaven on earth despite their GMO laden, cancer-causing foods and lack of universal healthcare like we have in Western Europe.

White citizens from Germany, Netherlands, Scandinavian countries, Australia, New Zealand and Canada see the United States as a third world country with a Gucci belt. I have heard citizens of these advanced nations call United States a "third world country with the Gucci belt" several times before.

Ignore that "friend" of yours because he was never truly a friend to begin with. SHIKENA!

lol!...I have never heard that though

Or is it because the US is Immigrant friendly to people from most Third World Countries?

I guess Trump was right when he was lamenting that the US has been overused by Immigrants from most Shithole Countries especially from Africa...and that it's about time the US makes their Immigration System to be more Merit Base than low class of family chain migration.

As for the Healthcare system not being universal in the US that might be changing soon hopeful if the Democrats get power in majority to make that happen.

Those Europeans Countries you listed you claim have Universal Healthcare...is it free? Or aren't they paying for all those free social services with very high taxes.

But on a more Serious Note unless all those people who came up with that foolish name against the US ARE ALL HIGH CLASS IGNORANT AND JEALOUS FOOLS.

All those Countries you listed up there are all Obsolutely Nothing Without the US.

They Should all go read about the Post 2nd World War Treaties and what each of those Countries Especially Germany had to sign before they became what they are today.

Kekereekun123:
my own seat mate(female) in jss3 and ss1 said she doesn't remember me like 5 years later wey we connect for Facebook. She dey 9ja. So its not by abroad. Babe wey teachers dey call us husband and wife. Another one lived next street we went to same secondary school, our parents know each other and the kids. Another friend of ours had a wedding so the bro asked me to help drive the bridesmaids to the venue with my mums car as it was bigger. We were gisting in the car with others about old times in school. Babe said she no sabi me. I was weak

Na waa for those people oooo. I was really hurt. The world doesn't revolve around them jare.. We move.. I don't want those kind of people in my life.

Studying and hustling abroad no be beans, the little quality time you have for yourself is limited, should you wanna chat with friends then it must be something worthwhile. Before you say jack, some people will be hyping and describing how you enjoying not knowing you already stressed out. Sometimes when you receive a msg from some certain people, you already know na billing straight up.

One thing wey sure be say u go need my connect and time one day and I’ll always return the favor and tell it to your face. My best friend in university that his younger brother in SA ghosted me one time will never use his name to ask for help cox I’ll tell him baba I no fit help your brother make him go meet people him dey help.
Naso I dey ghost those in Canada or USA or anywhere. U no dey useless I delete you. You dey feel proud like you don make money pass we wey dey hustle for here, I cut you off. No time for BS especially from those that feel those staying in naija no get anything to burst their brains with.

BECOS LEVELS DON CHANGE

Maybe u too dey beg

They are still trying to adjust into the system of life over there.

I guess that they are very busy...

They ain't your true friends

You were never friends...


Only those who understand will understand

Is a state of mind, I moved alot guys from Madrid Spain to Vienna Austria 2001 because then Spain was very difficult to make it, non of them remember me till today even when I had a serious problem 2004, abeg leave people alone and do your thing..

They snub u so that u will not ask them for help ..

You get the point now ??

Make I reach there first but till then, let me reserve my comment

Its called life