No it is not difficult and it is not easy at the same time to get a life time partner , you can use dating app but there are a lot of weirdo online who just want to have sex.
It depends on your personality, social skills , good looks, friendliness, approachable and availability
To get a Nigerian man to marry you is to be willing to be attractive to Nigerian men
1, Nothing wrong with shakara but is your shakara or attitude too much that you drive men away or are you friendly to talk ?
2, Do you have time to date or are you too busy with work, school etc ?
3, Are you isolated like you are a hermit who stay indoors after work or school or you are a social butterfly or you are in the middle?
4, Do you hang out with Nigerians overseas or you hangout with whites, Black American, Canadians and Mexicans mostly?
5, Do you cook well or you are the type that order and orders ? Nigerian men like women that can cook very well and I do not mean to be ignorant
6, How do you dress? Do your dress like a Deeper life woman , or you dress like Cardi B or you dress modestly? People will judge how you dress.

Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though

It depends on many factors though. For US, you should be able to see Nigerians easier than in Canada.
I have many things to say, but I don't have the strength to type much now.

Some Nigerian women abroad are ugly in addition stuck up...i just dey laugh like gringory

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

marry me,,

Make una create Canada love section na..me gat marry ooo but I de find hustling girl like me..

Parisian:
Brace up for frustrated redpillers who don't even have passports complaining talm bout, "Nigerian women are arrogant bla bla bla"...

Like seriously, even mod pushed this rubbish to front-page to promote bashing of Nigerian women from frustrated guys.

They masturbate on any topic that bashes Nigerian women but will lick a white old granny ass for green card,these men can't tolerate shit from Africa American women,they will lick their ass to get a green card while bashing Nigerian women.

Most of these guys are not sincere,some are suffering to keep their status while be deceiving gullible supposed "fans" and "asslickers" on nairaland at the same time bashing Nigerian women. Even fresh immigrants will start shouting "a white lady picked me up,payed my bills,etc

Believe these people at your risk!

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

@ OP please don't listen to some of this people telling you marriage is not important, as matter of fact it is very important to me. The love, the affection, the shoulder to lean on, the time to laugh and enjoy the serenity of nature,the happy children, the family fun just too many to count. I want to enjoy all of that because I cherish it.

So by all means, look for love and don't settle for less.

Petyprincess:

Like seriously, even mod pushed this rubbish to front-page to promote bashing of Nigerian women from frustrated guys.

They masturbate on any topic that bashes Nigerian women but will lick a white old granny ass for green card,these men can't tolerate shit from Africa American women,they will lick their ass to get a green card while bashing Nigerian women.

Most of these guys are not sincere,some are suffering to keep their status while be deceiving gullible supposed "fans" and "asslickers" on nairaland at the same time bashing Nigerian women. Even fresh immigrants will start shouting "a white lady picked me up,payed my bills,etc

Believe these people at your risk!

tru sha but u get bad mouth...u are forgiven go Nd sin no more

Kekereekun123:
abroad even those with kids during old age their kids hardly come to visit them. Old people in my area take care of them selves. When you cannot take care of yourself anymore you go to old people's home. Kids here most times when they reach 18 they are gone. So marrying or not marrying wont change anything in the west. Everyone faces his or her own lives abroad. It is selfish to raise kids so they will take care of you.

If you have interacted with old people who have absolutely no one in their lives, you will understand it is not as easy as you make it. Some of those old people in care homes have family members who visit them either often or occasionally. That is very important for their mental health. Some of them have their children who have Lasting Power of Attorney in their matters. By the way, I have seen people who resign their jobs to take care of their spouses and parents full time. A man resigned his job and has been caring for his wife full time for 38 years.

Kekereekun123:
Nigerian are getting married to each other and some other races. And yes there are a lot a single ladies and guys too. Over here dating apps or match making are your best bet. I have related with foreigners and Nigerian on dating apps and singles group. The younger Nigerian ladies seems to all have the same thing in common they want a financially stable guy ( typical Goldding trait from 9ja). if you tell foreign gals you just landed and still settling they wont stop talking to you, one came all the way to take me out with her car just to chill tho as a friend. If you tell a Nigerian lady that they would like stop talking to you and cant waste her fuel to come see you. Also the culture here is different unlike in Africa where different men will chase and toast you daily. majority of men here wont do that so woman has to make the move ( our 9ja sisters will say over my dead body). Some will marry, those married ones too some will divorce, some too will be single for a long time. In the West marriage and relationship is not a must. A man can lose his house, pay mortgage, child support and spousal support. many have turned gay or avoided marriage completely. it does not favour men. Everything marriage brings can be gotten while being unmarried. so why marry in the west men are last in the pyramid and have no say during divorce and custody.

Hierarchy of importance in the west

kids
Seniors/oldies
women
pets
wood/stone/plant
man

Please add wildlife to the list

I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. Go to America and see how Nigerian Men are slaughtering their hardworking wives esp Nurses. Pls if you want to live long as a woman you better run away from black men oh. There's this special type of jealousy they carry. God forbid

If ure looking for a Nigerian partner Probably.

Davidonkonsults:
If I leave this country, why would I get married? And to a Nigerian woman at that? God forbid. An entitled breed with the mentality of leeches. When you date even other African women, you will understand how pathetic a bulk of Nigerian women are. Countries like Kenya, Lesotho, you will see humans beings there. Not these hypocritical parasitic prostitutes.

Happy boys day

Tatashi:
I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. God forbid

Most of these Caucasians and aborigines have a different ideology towards marriage. Most are not ready to commit.

Tatashi:
I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. Go to America and see how Nigerian Men are slaughtering their hardworking wives esp Nurses. Pls if you want to live long as a woman you better run away from black men oh. There's this special type of jealousy they carry. God forbid

Think of the beautiful half-caste children you'll even birth. If it's to say hi to them, I'll do it with Erica's type of smile. It is worth the effort.

Kekereekun123:
Nigerian are getting married to each other and some other races. And yes there are a lot a single ladies and guys too. Over here dating apps or match making are your best bet. I have related with foreigners and Nigerian on dating apps and singles group. The younger Nigerian ladies seems to all have the same thing in common they want a financially stable guy ( typical Goldding trait from 9ja). if you tell foreign gals you just landed and still settling they wont stop talking to you, one came all the way to take me out with her car just to chill tho as a friend. If you tell a Nigerian lady that they would like stop talking to you and cant waste her fuel to come see you. Also the culture here is different unlike in Africa where different men will chase and toast you daily. majority of men here wont do that so woman has to make the move ( our 9ja sisters will say over my dead body). Some will marry, those married ones too some will divorce, some too will be single for a long time. In the West marriage and relationship is not a must. A man can lose his house, pay mortgage, child support and spousal support. many have turned gay or avoided marriage completely. it does not favour men. Everything marriage brings can be gotten while being unmarried. so why marry in the west men are last in the pyramid and have no say during divorce and custody.

Hierarchy of importance in the west

kids
Seniors/oldies
women
pets
wood/stone/plant
man

Bros, are you for real? This order of priority is unfair na

Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

Talking from my little knowledge of things.
Finding a Nigerian partner is easy and still not easy at the same time..........i will explain.

You said most Nigerian women are old without a husband.... one of the major reason is the STANDARD they created. Most of them only want to date someone who is a college graduate, who has his papers already and lastly they only want to date Nigerians...... (There are other wonderful people from other part of the world) but they overlook those ones.... Now getting someone with this standard is not easy..... because you as a lady must also be in that same standard. You see where the it is not easy part comes in........ so most of them get old without a partner..........

For the guys it is a little bit different............. very different............

But in summary i believe in something, Pray to God for life partner, he is the best match maker............ but we as people have a role to play.... by looking at the standard we are creating is it feasible and is it just a fairy tale standard...... because we have a role to play for the manifestation of any prayer we pray to God.

Mbdovey:
I didn't say kids. At old age, your partner will still be with you. Having a gist mate, a companion, a friend who loves you in old age is beautiful. Let's stop hyping lonely life as if it's preferable.

What the heck will I need a gistmate for??

If you're female I'll advise you sort out marriage before travelling abroad

Men have options. Women? Not so much. And sometimes they try so hard and end up sleeping with a guy in the hope he'll propose, they break up, he tells other naija guys, she tries another one, cycle continues etc

Nooil:


Happy boys day

The shoe definitely fits. This is one of them. Lace it up grandma.

AristocraticMe:
Talking from my little knowledge of things.
Finding a Nigerian partner is easy and still not easy at the same time..........i will explain.

You said most Nigerian women are old without a husband.... one of the major reason is the STANDARD they created. Most of them only want to date some who is a college graduate, who has his papers already and lastly they only want to date Nigerians...... (There are other wonderful people from other part of the world) but they overlook those ones.... Now getting someone with this standard is not easy..... because you as a lady must also be in that same standard. You see where the it is not easy part comes in........ so most of them get old without a partner..........

For the guys it is a little bit different............. very different............

But in summary i believe in something, Pray to God for life partner, he is the best match maker............ but we as people have a role to play.... by looking at the standard we are creating is it feasible and is it just a fairy tale standard...... because we have a role to for the manifestation of any prayer we pray to God.

It's not easy for men of other nationalities to bear and tolerate Nigerian women. They need us more than we need them.

It's difficult because of the restrictions we place on ourselves. When you live outside Nigeria, try to mix with people that share your core values, not your skin color or country of origin. So many times we get stuck on wanting to marry a Nigerian or someone from our tribe that we find ourselves mingling with the type of people we wouldn't even talk to if we were still living in Nigeria. The core values are the most important, forget about stereotypes. If you're someone that believes in God, values education, professional accomplishments and family ties, then hang out with people that fit that, regardless of where they are from. From that same circle you will meet romantic partners that share the same values and date them until you find the one. If you're only attracted to black men, there are black men of all nationalities that you can meet. If you 100% cannot marry a non-Nigerian then you should get married in Nigeria before relocating. Going abroad and limiting yourself to find a husband from such a limited pool will only lead to making poor choices. The same principle stands with friendships, I stopped looking for Nigerians to be friends with and allowed myself to be friends with people in my social class that are like me and things have never been better.

Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

Do you know any real group? Fb or WA etc

Oracleforce:


Marrying an African ladies abroad is like signing your death.warrant....i prefer white ladies...
Najja guys, run for Naija ladies abroad except if you have spent more time with yourself in Naija and the lady has proved her faithfulness over and over again....some guys are crying abroad now because they marry to an African ladies.

You have said it all

79733139:


They prefer good women who come in all races. If they meet a good woman (of another race), they would grab her instead of putting a lot of effort to track down a good Nigerian woman (my cousin is an example).

Nigerian women are programmed to have too much drama so become unappealing for Nigerian men abroad. You date a Nigerian woman of a certain age and from day 1 the talk is of marraige. Not long after she is married she turns into a monster because majority of Nigerian women are more interested in getting married and having children than they are in the man they marry.

Plus too many Nigerian men have been (or seen friends) burnt by the system which vastly favour women in cases of divorce or seperation.

In addition there foreign women will happily date you for you without pressure of marriage and finally, Nigerian men know Nigerian women are plentiful and lonely so it’s a buyers market as most Nigerian women want to marry Nigerian men.

Davidonkonsults:

The shoe definitely fits. This is one of them. Lace it up grandma.

Happy boys day

Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

If you find love with Oyinbo or Ghanian man, don't waste time, marry him. But I will advise you against Carribean men or women.

Nooil:


Happy boys day

Happy grandma's day.

Mbdovey: So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?
Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?
What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?
What part has large number of Nigerians?
Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.


Pls can you help us and tell Buhari to reverse the pump price to its noramal price. Once you do that your quesion is answered..Oti hear...thanku

Davidonkonsults:

Happy grandma's day.

Happy boys day

There are many Nigerian ladies looking for Husband in the UK too. Overseas you spend most of your time in the office and you can't afford to spend your rest days looking for a partner. I personally know many who are ready to marry but no husband and I have suggested they should spend their vacation in Nigeria and others Countries in search of Husbands.